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James Trayers Obituary

75, of Milton, formerly of Dorchester, South Boston and Hyde Park passed away peacefully on February 3, 2021 after a courageous battle with cancer.

Jimmy was the former owner and director of Scally and Trayers Funeral Home in Dorchester for 40 years. For 6 decades Jimmy devoted his life to the funeral business and took exceptional care to thousands of families in their time of need. Jimmy often would say it wasn't a job, but it was his life, his passion.

Jimmy was born in South Boston and spent his formative years in Hyde Park where the Trayers Family continued to grow. After graduating from Catholic Memorial High School ('63) Jimmy went onto the New England Institute for Mortuary Services where he graduated with distinction in 1967.

Alongside his uncle, John Connolly and his father, Leo Trayers, Jimmy directed funerals out of J. J. Connolly and Son Funeral Home on Washington Street in the city's South End until 1978 when he purchased Scally Funeral Home on Pleasant Street in Dorchester. Jimmy had more friends in the "business" than anyone and was loved by all the men and women that had the privilege of working with him and for him. His guys were like family to him and he considered himself a very lucky man to work with some of the best around.

Jimmy was a past member of the Board of the Massachusetts Funeral Directors Association; member of The Neighborhood Club of Quincy; past member of the Milton-Hoosic Club, Puritan Canoe Club of South Boston, Falmouth Men's Club and The Ancient and Honorable Artillery Company, where he achieved the rank of Sergeant.

Jimmy had a love of airplanes and could be spotted pretty much any day of the week on a bench at Castle Island watching "My Planes" come and go into Logan.

Jimmy was the adored son of the late Leo and Betty Trayers, most beloved brother of Mary Jane Campbell of Milton, Paul Trayers of Burke VA, Ellen T. Wendell of Brewster, Elizabeth T. Manning of Osterville and Edmund Trayers of Hyannis. Jimmy's nieces and nephews were most important to him and he loved each so very much; Molly Campbell O'Neil, J. Colin Campbell, Ryan Campbell, Christopher Trayers, Emily Trayers Elmore, Patrick Wendell, Rory Manning Drury, C.J. Manning, Charlotte Manning Byrne and Emmett Manning. Jimmy's grandnieces and grandnephews brought him true joy; Conor and Charlotte O'Neil, Dylan, Luke and Kelly Drury, Naomi and Tyson Trayers, Bodhi and Dylan Elmore, the late Daniel Campbell, and Bridgette, Rory and James Byrne.

Visiting hours, Mass of Christian Burial and interment in Milton Cemetery are private.

The Mass will be live streamed Saturday February 6 at 11:00am and can be viewed through this link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84537104244?pwd=eXlYTU9wRkpVbHc3MGZNYTJpbk9ZZz09

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the James Leo Trayers, Jr. Memorial Fund at St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105 or online at: https://fundraising.stjude.org/site/TR/GiftFunds/GiftFunds?px=6916963&pg=personal&fr_id=39300

To send the Trayers family a sympathy message, please visit www.dolanfuneral.com



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Published by Boston Herald on Feb. 5, 2021.

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JODI SERLING

January 30, 2025

My friend always.... You are missed- The best story teller ever- intriguing and captivating always. You were my dear friend. I hope you are in a better place. Love you more than tongue can tell.... JODI SERLING

Jodi Suzanne Serling

January 30, 2024

Jim - you are always on my mind. Forever missed and loved . The shining star, you will always be. Love Jodi Serling

Jodi Suzanne Serling

January 30, 2023

Jim, you will always hold a special place in my heart. I miss you very much and I love you always. Jodi Serling

Jodi Suzanne Serling

January 30, 2022

Memories of you flash through my mind . I remember- sometimes a smile and sometimes a tear . I often wonder why you were taken too soon. You were the kindest friend anyone could ask for. I miss and love you dear friend forever. RIP

MARY P. CONNOLLY

February 7, 2021

Ellen and Family--sincere condolences to you all on the passing of a very dear person. My husband Dan always spoke so highly of him. Prayerful that they will renew their acquaintances in heaven.

Jodi Serling

February 6, 2021

Jim - I will miss you you so very much. There is a saying that Death ends a life, but not a relationship. You passed on my mother’s birthday and for this , I know she is an angel waiting for you. You were the kindest , most giving selfless wonderful person, I have ever known. Your stories captivated my attention and truly this was one of many gifts you had. RIP my friend. Love Jodi

Barbara Fitzgerald

February 5, 2021

To the Trayers Family, There is a special gift in life that some of us receive; It's not a fancy car or house or brilliant jewel to wear, No, that very special thing is a person, near and dear. Someone we call brother the greatest gift of all. Bill and Barbara Fitzgerald are very sorry for your loss of Jimmy.

Gerard & Ruth Adomunes

February 5, 2021

Our deepest sympathy on Jim's passing. He was a wonderful man and will be missed by all.
Gerard & Ruth Adomunes

Joan Morgan

February 5, 2021

Dear Ellen,
I was so sorry to hear you have lost such a wonderful brother. I am thinking of you and your family.
Joan Morgan
Fontbonne 1969

Anne Malone

February 5, 2021

Dear Ellen and family,

Thinking of you and sending deepest sympathies.

Anne

Joan and Bill Vrettas

February 5, 2021

We will never forget the kindnesses you showed our father while he was in the nursing home. Thank you for being a gentleman and a good friend

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