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Gary Bolles
September 1, 2024
Miss him big time

Eddie & Irene
September 1, 2023
Happy Heavenly Anniversary my friend, seems like an eternity since i we had good belly laugh from you. Gone but never forgotten ! RIP Amy friend
Jimmy, Tisha McNamara
September 1, 2020
Mr. Joseph Nee.....thank God that Brian is keeping the tradition of his Dad......you and Sue have done well, buttercup, your kiddies are just wonderful..... Tisha and I have you on our minds pretty much always buddy, and we miss ya so much.....Semper Fi, Marine!
September 1, 2019
Still expect to see ya at Florian buddy.....Can't believe you're gone!!!
Karen Bany-Cassino
September 1, 2019
One of a kind. No one could replace him!!! Sweet, kind and giving and would help anyone he could without giving it a thought!!!
Karen Bany Cassino

God Bless
Jack Egan
August 11, 2019
Just heard of Do Do passing and I am deeply saddened. I worked with him as a bartender at the Quencher and he was trully the best boss I ever had. He also was a great friend alwAys kind and considerate . He nicknamed me Wackie Jackie and I will cherish the memories of how he made me laugh. Hopefully he is having a few cold ones with my dear friend Eddie Maguire. My prayers and thoughts are with the entire Nee family. He trully touched many. Gone but never forgotten. May he RIP. God Bleds
September 20, 2016
DoDo will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this trying time. Mike and Marie Hulak, Naples,FL
Cheryl Warren
September 14, 2016
to the Nee family. I believe this is the same Joe Nee that was in the Braintree drum and bugle corps. We have been wondering how your family has been doing. We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Joe. The Back Family, Weymouth
Johnny Nee
September 13, 2016
One of my fondest memories is during the height of Vietnam, Dodo and a bunch of Southie friends joined the Marines. Before he left, he gave me his high school letterman jacket. Even though it was huge, I wore it with pride, all through Jr High. RIP Cous.
September 12, 2016
Rest in peace my friend. Condolences to you and your family. You are a true hero. Semper Fi Dodo. Love Gene Vaillancourt.
September 12, 2016
thank you for helping out so many people without asking for anything in return, you are a true gentleman, you will will sadly missed jimmy santry
Julian Somers
September 12, 2016
Thanks Uncle Joe for always showing me and my family love and appreciation. We used to come swim at his your house in the sunmers in Falmouth Cape Cod. Those memories will stick with me for life!
September 12, 2016
DoDo, Thank you for being a part of my life. Susan, my thoughts and Prayers are with you and your Family.
God Bless, Johnny Steiner
Bert James
September 11, 2016
DoDo was indeed one in a million and salt of the earth. His spirit will live on in all of our heart and minds forever!
Bert and Teresa James
Coleman Connolly Jr
September 11, 2016
Rest in peace and prayers to your family.
September 11, 2016
Rest in piece Dodo Daniel and Audrey OConnor and family
September 11, 2016
DEAR SUSAN AND FAMILY, VINNIE & I (JUDY) ARE SO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS. DODO WAS ONE OF A KIND. THE MOST KIND, FRIENDLY AND SINCERE MAN. MAY HE REST IN PEACE. JUDY AND VIN DIMAGGIO
Deborah DiMaggio
September 11, 2016
Susan, "DoDo" was always kind, funny and supportive to so many of us. I will always remember him for that. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kindly,
Deb DiMaggio

Kevin & Barbie Coyne
September 11, 2016
Deepest condolences to all of the Née family and Dodo's beloved friends. His loss in this community will be difficult to measure. May he rest in peace and watch over his beloved South Boston.
September 10, 2016
Dear Susan,Kelly,Brian and Kristin: We were so sorry to hear about Dodo. We will remember all the fun times in Naples. He was a great guy, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Charlie and Noreen kelley
ALAN MCDONOUGH
September 10, 2016
Last week Dodo called me to say goodbye. It was the hardest phone call of my life. It seems like yesterday we enlisted in the Marine Corps together with eleven other Southie guys. Growing up with Dodo were the best of days. We sure crossed many of life's bridges together. Nobody made people laugh more than Dodo. Helping people was in Dodo's blood and he sure did a great job. He loved his family, his friends and Southie. Semper Fi Brother, Dizzy
Mike and Laurie Grigaluans
September 10, 2016
Sad to hear of the passing of Joe Nee. I met him at Fire HQ and my wife and the Ivanoskis knew him years before that. They often talk of him and share with me memories of days gone by. Joe had the same cancer I had. it was a tough battle and once again .. that disease wins. it was not because he didnt fight it.. he did.. We prayed for you Joe. Rest in Peace .. it was great knowing there was a guy that did so much for so many.. the tribute you are getting are well deserved. RIP and Semper Fi
Lorraine Morancy
September 10, 2016
To the Nee Family, I am so sorry to hear of Dodo's passing My prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
September 10, 2016
I am Sooooo Sorry about your Loss of USA. I had such a great time with you & DoDo on the Bermuda Cruise many years ago. DODo was such a Great GUY in so many ways. MY Prayers are with you All, LUV & Prayers, Ginny Hasson Pillard
Kevin Travis & Jason Kenneally
September 10, 2016
Family of Dodo, Thank you Dodo for all you have done for us The South Boston Special Kids and Young Adults.
jim kelley
September 10, 2016
suaan and family so sorry for dodo s passing as we all know truly one of the nicest funniest generous people who ever walked the streets of southie, dodo will be sadly missed we are all at a lost god bless jim/patsy kelley
September 10, 2016
On behalf of the Adams family, please accept my deepest sympathy. Dodo was a wonderful person. My Dad always thought highly of the Nee family.
Eleanor Adams
Daughter of the late Al and Dorothy Adams
September 9, 2016
Dear Susan and Children,
Dodo was my very first friend. We were little ones running around on H street. We went to Gatey together and remained friends for life. Even as a little guy he was always laughing and always helpful. If he saw my Mother carrying bundles from the store at H and 5th he always took them from her and carried them into our house. He came from a great family. Helen and Joe were great people and great neighbors. Thinking of the Nee family brings back a flood of wonderful memories. Dodo was also my brother Marine and he served his country honorably and well. I will be grateful forever that I was granted the gift of being able to say goodbye to my oldest friend and I will be ever grateful and thankful for knowing him. I know this is a great loss but he touched so many people in his life and you should take comfort that they are all offering their prayers for you now.
Semper Fi my Brother and Rest in Peace.
Tom Irwin
St. Louis, MO
Jane and Pat Finn
September 9, 2016
Our sincere Condolensence to Susan, Kelly, Kristen, Brian, and his brothers and sisters and grandchildren! Dodo will forever be in our hearts, always had a funny story to tell and always joking! He will be sorely missed by everyone. Rest In Peace my friend!
Pat and Jane Finn
Stacy Majorowski
September 9, 2016
So sorry for your loss
Debra Wallbridge
September 9, 2016
My sincere condolences to Susan and the whole Nee family. How lucky we are to have known Dodo. He brought laughter to every conversation and had the best sense of humor! I will cherish the memories I have of him, as I'm sure everyone will. He was one of a kind!

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Debra Wallbridge
September 9, 2016

Dodo + Debra at the Quencher
Debra Wallbridge
September 9, 2016

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Debra Wallbridge
September 9, 2016

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Debra Wallbridge
September 9, 2016

BGI at the Quencher
Debra Wallbridge
September 9, 2016
September 9, 2016
To The Nee Family,
Our deepest sympathy for the loss of Joe. A wonderful & helpful friend to all. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Don & Rosey Rosemond & Family.
Cassie Somers
September 9, 2016
Susan & Family,
I'm so sorry for your huge loss and I want you to know how I feel, along with so many others, about Uncle Joe. He was one of the BEST BOSTONIANS I've ever, ever known. What a guy; so kind, so generous, so wonderful to his grand kids (and to my kids), such a tremendous asset to the South Boston community and to people in recovery. His heart was huge, his smile infectious and he had such zest for life that I just shake my head when I think of the void he has left in your family....and in your town.
I will ALWAYS smile when I think of Uncle Joe and I know that you will do the same..in time.
Rest easy Uncle Joe
Paul McGonagle
September 9, 2016
South Boston has lost a great man. May He rest in eternal peace.
September 9, 2016
DEAR SUSAN AND FAMILY,
BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES WILL SOMEDAY FILL YOUR ACHING HEARTS. TO KNOW DODO WAS TO LOVE HIM .
WITH SINCERE SYMPATHY--BARBARA SANCES SPARKS
Debbie Hennegan
September 9, 2016
Susan & Family
Sorry for your loss
Cheryl Simpson
September 9, 2016
Dodo you were the best nobody will ever fill your shoes. You will be missed by all. It was a pleasure working for you at the Q for 25 years and I miss that. Especially when you all wanted us to dance on the Bar. LOL RIP I love you and your family great people.
September 9, 2016
We were so fourtuate to know DoDo for over a half of century , so compassionate & giving to so many others , nobody could tell a story like him . His memory will live on for centuries to come ! His middle name should of been changed long ago to (HELP) Our heartfelt condolences go out to Susan and family , there will never be another DoDo in all of our lifetimes ! Rest in peace my buddy you have plenty of great company on the other side of those Gates of Heaven Eddie , Irene & Girls ❤
John Sullivan
September 9, 2016
Condolences from the Don Bosco Community to his family and friends!
robert. c watson
September 9, 2016
Sorry for the loss
September 9, 2016
Dodo, you will be missed terribly. Thanks for teaching us all how to give more, laugh more and love more. Thanks for all the wonderful memories.
Nicole DiMaggio
September 9, 2016
My heartfelt condolences to the Nee family,you have lost one of the greatest guys that walked the streets of Southie, may he Rest in Peace
Rick and Donna Calnan Naples Florida
Judy Nee
September 8, 2016
I loved seeing his grandchildren run to him at pick up time at the Perry - and I know he loved it too! An end of an era...
Peter Foley
September 8, 2016
Dodo was a great guy may he r.i.p.
Kathy Nee
September 8, 2016
Wishing you peace!
rest easy Dodo.
With liove,
Kathy Nee
( Eddy's Daughter )

Shannon Driscoll
September 8, 2016
We r sorry for the loss of Dodo! He was a great man, a great friend, a great husband and father! He was well known for his handsome smile and his generosity towards his friends and family! He will be missed but not forgotten because he will always be in our hearts! We love u Dodo and u r always with us wherever we r!
Love Shannon Driscoll and Sarah Kelly!
September 8, 2016
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Jackie Cherry
September 8, 2016
dodo...You are a true son of SOUTHIE..you will be sadly. Missed.
Mary McDonough
September 8, 2016
Dear Susan and Family,
Thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers. I think of Dodo,
and smile. He was one of the good guys.
George and carol Patukonis
September 8, 2016
Joe , you will be missed by so many.But you will be remembered by so many more for the devotion to so many others.Time for you to rest in peace.
September 8, 2016
very sorry about dodo the nicest,generous guy and best asset southie ever had god bless susan and you family jim/patsy kelley
Paul Perry
September 8, 2016
God Bless and Keep.
Paul Perry
September 8, 2016
God Bless and Keep
Richard McDonald
September 8, 2016
Sorry to hear of Dodo's passing may he rest in peace.
September 8, 2016
Our lives will never be the same without a great friend. Dodo you were always their for everyone. Just so very sad. Lisa and Marty
Jerry Sparrow
September 8, 2016
Sorry to hear about DoDos passing. A good man and a great firefighter. His loss will be felt throughout Southie. We all will miss him. God Bless him and his family.
Karen Bany Cassino
September 8, 2016
So sorry for your loss. He was a pillar of the community and will be sorely missed by all. He helped my family in a time of need which I will be forever grateful.
Karen Bany Cassino and family
robert. crusher watson
September 8, 2016
Sorry for the loss
September 8, 2016
To DoDo Family, South Boston has lost one great guy,may he watch over us all. Pat Carter and Family.
Ted & Betty Toland
September 8, 2016
We are so sorry for your loss. Dodo was a once in a lifetime friend who did so much for his beloved South Boston. He was a great husband,father,papa. He will be missed greatly by so many of his friends. RIP my friend till we meet again..
September 8, 2016
This man has made life so much better for too many folks to
List here, or anywhere.....The McNamara family has certainly been
On that list more than once.....
Fair skies and calm seas, buddy......
Semper Fi!
Tisha and Jimmy McNamara
Kevin Conroy
September 8, 2016
Our neighborhood lost a great guy. Nancy and I offer our condolences on your loss.
God Bless all of you and May God Rest His Soul.
Jay Hurley
September 8, 2016
You will be missed my friend. You were always there for those in need. Your passion was infectious and so many people benefitted from your actions. Condolences to your family. May you rest in eternal peace.
Susan Lavey
September 8, 2016
We are saddened by the loss of DoDo. We have very fond memories of him and your Family from the past that we will treasure always. May God hold him in the palm of his hands and watch over you and your Family through this difficult time. Thoughts and Prayers to you all. Fondly
Susan and Jerry Lavey
cathy Cherry
September 8, 2016
Our hearts are broken. Dodo was such a vital part of our family. I will cherish all our childhood memories. Until we meet again.
Pat Carter and Family
September 8, 2016
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Corrinne Fichtner Kina
September 8, 2016
Offering heartfelt prayers and thoughts for you all during this time of grief and believing that the new brightly shining star in the night sky is Joe watching over you and smiling.
Gary Bolles
September 8, 2016
Susan and Family So very sorry for your loss,Donna And Gary Bolles
September 8, 2016
So sorry for your loss, may the happy memories he left you with help ease the pain of his passing. He was a good man who will be greatly missed.
Ellen and Ellen-Marie Starck & Lou Aikens
Alan Rouse
September 7, 2016
So sorry for your loss to the entire Nee family...thoughts and prayers to all...:(...
Jane Finn
September 7, 2016
Dear Susan, Brian, Kelly and Kristen,: Sending our sincere condolences regarding the loss of your beloved husband and father. He will be missed very much by all who knew him. We will miss him dearly, so many memories we will cherish always. We pray that God will help you get through this most difficult time! God Bless his whole family!
Sincerely,
Jane and Pat Finn
Barbara and Jim Bowe (Nee)
September 7, 2016
So sorry to hear of his passing. He will be sadly missed by all. RIP
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