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Amber Bernier Obituary

BRATTLEBORO -- Centre Congregational Church on Main Street was filled to overflowing Sunday afternoon for funeral services for Amber Marie Bernier.

Officiating was Rev. Fred Edmonds, pastor of Centre Congregational Church, and the Rev. Dennis Roth, pastor of First Congregational Church in West Brattleboro. Music for the service was under the direction of Christopher Lewis, Centre Church's organist who offered preludes prior to the start of the service.

The choral introit was “Holy, Holy, Holy,” by Franz Schubert, sung by the Centre Church Choir. The opening hymn was “Unto the Hills We Lift Our Longing Eyes.”

Words of welcome and the invocational prayer was offered by Rev. Edmonds. Scripture passages read by Rev. Roth included Psalm 121, Psalm 23 and the Gospel of John 14: 1-3,15-19, 27.

Special music for the service featured soloist Brittany Pollard singing, “Beautiful” by Linda Perry.

The meditation was offered by Rev. Edmonds, who then gave a prayer of thanksgiving.

Words of remembrance and reflections were given by Rev. Roth, Ashley Crandall, Amber's best friend, and Maribeth Dedecko, one of Amber's teachers at the Career Center at Brattleboro Union High School. Rev. Roth concluded his eulogy with the singing of “Amber With the Light Brown Hair,” sung a cappella.

A musical selection, “Precious Lord, Take My Hand” was sung by the Centre Church Choir.

A special reading included a poem composed by Samantha Buchanan that was read by Libby Peterson.

The congregation joined in reciting the commendation which was followed by the benediction and choral response.

The closing hymn was “Amazing Grace,” which was followed by the organ postlude.

Committal services and burial followed in Meetinghouse Hill Cemetery where Rev. Roth gave the Prayers of Committal.

Serving as pallbearers were; Robert Raymond and Timothy Sontag, both uncles, Christopher Clews, a brother-in-law, Gary Rogers, Amber's godfather, Richard Doody, a second cousin, and John Merrigan, a close personal friend of Amber.

Honorary bearers included: Jesse Belanger, Luke Cote, Brian Frechette, Jess Blomgren, John Righi and Ben Clark.

Special photo collages displayed at the funeral home during the visitation and at the church were prepared by Libby Peterson, Sara Strassenberg, Haido Pappadopalus, Sasha McCallister, Emmie Twomblie, Ashley Crandall, and Dannielle Herring.

A reception followed the services held at Centre Church hosted by the members of both Centre Congregational Church and First Congregational Church Saturday evening. An estimated 700 family members, friends and neighbors paid their respects at the Atamaniuk Funeral Home.

Among the many attending the church services, delegations present included students and faculty from Brattleboro Union High School and Career Center, the members of the BUHS Class of 2004, Brattleboro Area Middle School, Academy School, Riverview Café, Baker's Hallmark, Clinical Support Options and Franklin Clinical Associates, both of Greenfield, Mass., Chelsea Royal Diner, Brattleboro Hoopsters and Brattleboro Community Members.

Bernier, 17, of Yorkshire Circle, a senior at Brattleboro Union High School, died Wednesday, March 3, 2004, at her home.

Arrangements were under the direction of the ATAMANIUK FUNERAL HOME.

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Published by Brattleboro Reformer on Mar. 10, 2004.

Memories and Condolences
for Amber Bernier

Not sure what to say?





Libby Peterson

April 1, 2005

Well, chicky, this book is going to end in a couple days, so just dropping another note that i love you like crazy, and miss everything about you and everything we did, had, but look forward to everything we'll have. i know you're here with me every day, i can feel you. love you amb and miss you more than you can imagine

angie Mcallister-Campbell

March 4, 2005

Amb-Well its been a hard yr,its gone by so fast,it hasn't gotten any easier.You didn't touch just hearts of kids in your school, you touch adults live too.Every time you walk into this house with sasha or you called and we talked made a difference just by giggle with you and we helped eachother threw some hard times,you and Sasha really help eachother threw alot.I really wish we would of helped you threw this.I always go and see you and talk to you,I went the day before the superbowl walk through all that snow just to talk to you,because you liked the Patriots and the last time they won,you where with us in fl,you where so cute to watch jumping all around and so excited they won.I knew just talking to you would make them win.Thanks.I know your dream was to go to beauty school and I promise you That Sasha will carry that on.But I know your probabley doing that in Heaven.Well Hon,I love you and life is not the same without you,I miss you so so much.But I will promise to always come and talk to you and visit no matter what until I see you again.Thanks for giving me the time I had with you I have never met any one so graceful and gorgeous as you.You could win over even the toughest hearts.Well rest in peace and God be with you.Take care of yourself and remember there is not one second of the day that doesnt go by that we don't think of you or love you more each day.Thanks amb for just being you!!!!I miss and love you more than you'll ever know.I love you and Miss you Amb (Buck Buck)always remember our little saying me you and sasha!!!!!!I love you angie Dear Deb,Dan & family! I am so so sorry for all of this, I wish so bad I could find away to ease the pain,but just remember how much she loved you and she is with you everyday.I very sorry again and if there is ever anything you need or want please call.We would be more then happy to help out.love angie

Brittany Pollard

March 4, 2005

Amber, to think that a year has passed is beyond belief. Losing you was something none of us expected. I take comfort in remembering the good times, sneaking out, eating tostitos and cheese dip in your room, going to spofford, making up dances in ashley's kitchen... so many things will remain in my heart and mind for the rest of my life. I won't allow them to fade, because having them keeps a part of you alive.



I love you. I'm always thinking of you.

Dan & Debbie Bernier-Sontag

March 3, 2005

It has been an emotional week and difficult day for our family. It still feels like Amber should be coming back any day now, so hard to accept that she is gone and that it has been a year. We think a lot about how she died, especially this day, knowing that this was not her intention, that it was a terrible accident. So many people loved her. She would have been fine if she had made it past that one moment in time.



And, too, each day we think about how she lived and how many lives she touched. We are grateful to all of you for the support and especially for your remembering our Amber. With Love,

Emmie Twombly

March 3, 2005

Amber,

I thought as time went by things would get easier, but they don't. You were an amazing person with a strong and sassy personality. We've had some amazing times together and I could never forget them. From baton, soccer, football games, sneaking out, NMH trips to Prom and many others. I wish you knew how many lives you truely touched and how we can never be the same without you. You were an amazing support system to go to if someone had a real problem. You had an amazing fashion sense... I could never forget your passion for pink or your cowboy hat. I just want you to know how much I miss you and how much you will always mean to me.



Dan, Debbie, Jade, Kayla and Adam-

I can not believe it has been a year. I want you all to know that my thoughts are prayers are with you. Amber was an incredible person and I miss her deeply. I send you all my love and condolences.

P.S. I plan on drinking an iced coffee and eating swedish fish in memory of Amber.

Memories never fade... Love, Keri

March 2, 2005

Amber 1992

gillian bergeron chartier

March 2, 2005

Debbie,Dan,Jade,Adam,and Kayla...Not a day has gone by this past year that we have not thought of Amber, and the loss of her, for ourselves, for everyone. She was such a bright, unique, and precious girl! Now a bright shining star that we say goodnight to every night. May god be with you. Love, Jill, Keri & Family

Haido Papadopoulos

March 2, 2005

It's been a year and I still love and miss you, it will never be the same without you...love Haith

katie short

February 13, 2005

amber, it has been a while now since you have been gone. i miss you every day and it doesn't get easier. i keep the memmories of all of our good times close. you were a great friend. i miss our late night talks, our shopping trips, and all the other things we would do. you were loved by so many. you will always be held close to my heart. i love you hunny...

jade clews

January 24, 2005

amb, as time goes on i miss my best friend more and more as well as my sister. Everything around me is changing but the pain still feels the same, i would do anything to have you back. The times i miss the most are when we just hung out doing nothing together. I love you Amber

Emily Tyler

November 29, 2004

Dan and Debbie,

I have seen you quite often the past couple of months, at first, my heart sank, but now I have the honor of helping coach your daughter, Kayla, at ice hockey... What an honor. Her sweet smile and little laugh remind me so much of her older sister. I just wanted you to know that you are always in my thoughts and prayers. Amber had a big impact on my life---a very pretty face and amazingly sweet heart that will NEVER be forgotten...

Emily Tyler

kristen thomas

November 8, 2004

dan, debbie, adam, kayla and jade- Its been 8 months since amber left us but the pain doesn't go away. In church yesterday our minister gave thanks to amber for being a saint in this world before she left us. I will always remember amber and everything she did for me throughout the years. Although senior year i wasn't as close to amber as i had been before i will never forget junior year memories with her in english. They are something that will stay with me forever. You will always be in my heart and prayers. love you all

Danielle Herring

August 1, 2004

Amber~ Sweetheart this has been the first time that I have been to a computer since your birthday...Happy Birthday hunny!! I love and miss you so much, a lot has happened, I wish you were here. Hunny I wanted to let you know that I love you and I know that you are happy now, I just wish that you were here to experience some of this. Well sweetie, I love and miss you and keep watching over us. You are now a beautiful angel and apparently someone up there wanted to be blessed with your beautiful smile, and thats why they took you. I love you!! Happy 18th Babe



Dan, Debbie, Jade, Adam, and Kayla~ I am always thinking of you and want to let you know that if you EVER need anything please dont hesitate to call. You will always be in my heart forever and always.

Dan & Debbie Bernier-Sontag

July 19, 2004

Heather, thank-you so much for your remembrance of Amber. She was the sort of person that was true to herself and others, stubborn at times, but not swayed so much by what others might think, not one to forget her friends, past or present.



Angie, thanks for your heartfelt sharing. I'm sure Amber is aware of your feelings. It is good for us to know how much Amber meant to you. We are touched by your caring. Please know, too, that Amber let us know how much she appreciated her relationship with you. Thanks.

angie campbell

July 12, 2004

Amb,Happy 18th B-day,I wish you where here,so I could give you a great big hug..Its been hard,But I know your at peace, and whatever you didn't finish here, you will in heaven, and whatever your plans are now,I know you will be the best of the best.I miss that gorgeous smile,and that cute little voice you had,that special laugh you had to go along with it.You are very special and very unique and no one will ever fill your shoes.All I ask of you amb is to meet me at the front door when its my time to come be with you, til then I will never stop thinking about you or coming to see you and talking to you.I know now everything will be fine and work out, because I have an angel (you) looking over me.Happy b-day amb can't wait to celebrate it with you when we meet again.I love you forever and ever.love angie

Heather

July 8, 2004

To the Bernier-Sontage Family...

I went to school with Amber throughout academy she was always so full of life and so vibrant always ready to help out a fellow classmate,Always smiling. I remember one of her birthday parties I attended we played duck duck goose and we had the times of our lives not worrying about anything.As the years progressed Amber and I seperated but even in High School she was never hesitent to smile or give me a wave and that shows how much of a angel she was.

To you Amber...You'll never be forgotten you will be in my heart and mind forever though you arent here with us right now you are always in our hearts and everyone here will believe and remember you as an angel on earth.

We love you Amber..

My prayers go to you Mr&Mrs.BerninerSontag and Adam and Kayla.

Amy Mulherin

May 20, 2004

Dear Dan,Deb,Adam,Kayla and other family members and friends. I am so sorry for your loss, I know that it is going to be very hard for all of you, but just remember that she will be in everyone's hearts and she will be looking down on everyone.

Adam: I just want you to know, if you ever need anything that I am here for you! I know that you are never going to forget her. I am glad that your not going to forget her! because i know that you love her very much! luv ya Adam!

Dan,Deb,Adam,Kayla,other family ,just remeber that you have my prayers.

Sam Ingersoll

March 28, 2004

We all miss u dearly and I really hope that the whole family will be ok

maddie jones

March 28, 2004

adam im sorry for your loss i can't imagine what you are going through and i just want to let you know that i am here for you. My heart goes out to you and your family

lov ya adam

maddie

Josephine Dimick

March 28, 2004

Debbie, Dan, Jade, Adam , kayla, Famliy, and Friends,



My thoughts and prayers go out to all that love Amber. This is an extremely difficult thing to go through for anyone that has been touched by Amber. It is hard to imagine that we are unable to see her beautiful smile anymore. The memories we all have of Amber are great ones. I think about the good times that we all had with Amber and the good times that we someday will have again. Those are the thoughts that make me smile rather then cry. Even though she is very much missed knowing that someday we will see her again helps me through the tough times. When I heard that Amber had left us all here on earth I felt a sharp pain go through my heart. I was alone in my drom room with no one to cry to. I thought about how lucky you all were that you had someone near you to help you get through the initial shock. I was able to catch a 6am flight on Sunday to just get back in time for her beautiful service, thankful to finally be around people that had similar feelings to my own. When everyone came together to celebrate the life of this wonderful young lady it truely made me appriciate our small and supportive comminity. I have been thinking about how life can be a roller coaster....It has its ups and it has its downs. We all need to be there for each other. I have realized that life is so uncertain so tell the ones you love that you do every chance you have. Tell them that you love them before the moment passes you by. Amber is only gone if we let her go...talk about her, don't let talking about her be a thing that brings tears....let it bring many smiles and great memories!!!!

Amber many thoughts, prayers and much love go out to you always! You are one special girl and we will never foreget you.

Haido Papadopoulos

March 25, 2004

Amber,

I want to thank you for all the times that you sat and listened to me, gave me advice or was just there to have fun with. When you died I tried to convince myself that you were not a big part in my life. This was because the pain was just to hard but then as time went on I realized that every where in this town you shine upon me. Your presence is everywhere and I am so happy that we were freinds. I cherish the moments I had with you they are the only thing I can hold onto and the only thing I have. Pretending that I don't have them isn't an option. In reality you were always there, it's hard to pick up the phone and know that I can't call and hear your chipper little voice. I know your happy now I feel a huge weight has been lifted off your shoulders and as I know you are watching down it gives me more strength to try everyday. You have given us so much....I will always love you don't you ever forget Medium French Vanilla Coffees with Extra Extra skim milk and Extra Extra sugar. Love always, haith

Danielle Herring

March 25, 2004

Amber~

I am not sure where to start...The first time I remember you, you sat on my couch with a stack of pictures, wishing that you could find me a boyfriend, you didn't care if it was going to get you in trouble with Josh. You went to the pageant with me, you you were convinced that I was going to win. I love you with every piece of my heart and I miss you so much. I miss racing to get to the other end of the class to get "our" seats. You telling me all of your stories. Valentines plans, the island. I wish that I could have taken all of your pain away. I know now that you are happy, where ever you are, and I want you to know that I love and miss you so much...I will never forget, you will ALWAYS be in my heart!!



Debbie, Dan, Jade, Adam, and Kayla-I am so sorry that this had to happen-I want you to know that I think of you always-If there is anything that I can do, please do not hesitate to get ahold of me. I know that you will have to deal with this all of your lives and I am so sorry. I love all of you-I'll do anything~

Libby Peterson

March 25, 2004

Amberooni,

I love and miss you babe. The boy's house isn't the same without you! Don't forget everything that happened there, in the Volvie, and rolling on your floor. I loved you then, now, and always...

Debbie, Dan, Jade, Adam, &Kayla,

I love you guys tons...You have been so strong and a huge help to all of us through this, as I hope we have been to you...

Rochelle Bailey

March 24, 2004

Amber,

You always had a smile that would brighten anyones day! You will always be in my heart. Swiss exchange memories will live on forever. Even though you didn't go with us, you were still there with us! Dan,Debbie,Jade,Adam and Kayla I want you to know that you are in my prayers. Prayers from everyone in Switzerland are also in this note. Stay strong and I love you.

Layne Leary

March 23, 2004

Amber your smile will always be with us and we will never stop wishing you were here. I will always have our memories from the Swiss exchange and I will never forget you and how beautiful you are.

Debbie, Dan, Jade, Adam and Kayla you will always be in my prayers, just remember Amber's smiling down from heaven and she will always be here with us.

Shelby Fernette

March 12, 2004

Amber touched my heart in a very very special way, I saw her take her very first breath I will never forget that special feeling, Deb and family please know I am here for you anytime anywhere Shelby,Ken and family

Tisha Radcliffe

March 12, 2004

Dear Debbie and Family -



I hope that you always find comfort in the amount of love surrounding you at this time and the fond memories you have of Amber. My heart goes out to you all.

Stephanie Balensiefer (Mayotte)

March 12, 2004

For Debbie and her family, Our prayers are with you all. Our hearts are filled with sorrow . Our minds are full of thoughts of you all. May the Lord bring peace and healing to you all.

Sasha McAllister

March 11, 2004

Amb, I miss you more than you know, the memories that we shared together will never be forgotten. You are and were the most amazing person, you had the most beautiful smile and your laugh was unforgettable. I am so happy that you came to FL with me, I had you all to myself for a week. No one in this world would ever have done for me what you did, I love you forever and Always-Sashy

Dan,Debbie,Jade,Adam and Kayla I love you guys please know that all my prayers and strengths are with you-Squash

Tessa Deyo

March 10, 2004

Amber,

I will always Love you, the memories we made together are truly unforgettable and will be in my heart forever, you were truly a beautiful angel on earth, not a day will go by when I dont think about your big beautiful smile, I love you always and forever

Tessa

Debbie,Dan,Jade,Adam,Kayla

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time your daughter and sister touched so many lives may her memories live with us all forever

Dan & Debbie Bernier-Sontag

March 10, 2004

Debbie, Adam, Kayla and I would like to express our thanks for the overwhelming show of love and support from the entire community in so many ways. While we always knew Amber was loved and adored by many, we had no way of knowing the extent to which she was loved and the number of lives she touched. In the shower of caring we have felt since losing Amber, many have offered their reflections and memories of her. We are grateful for these as the memories of our Amber are so very precious to us now. Truly, truly, we thank you.

The Staff of Atamaniuk Funeral Home

March 10, 2004

Offering our deepest condolences during this time.

Pam Deyo

March 9, 2004

I wasn't very close with Amber, but the times I did hang out with her were great and will never be forgotten. She was an absolutely amazing person.

To her family: you are in my thoughts and prayers always.

Mary, Meredith, and Anne Muscari

March 9, 2004

To Amber's Family, we are all very sorry for your loss, and our hopes and prayers are with you.



Amber- I remember you from my first day at Academy when I moved here. As we went our separate ways in High School, you always greeted my with a smile, and we remained friends...You were one of my first friends here, and one of the nicest people I've ever met. You will be forever missed and loved...we'll miss you. *~Mary

Jade Clews

March 9, 2004

Many thanks for all of the entries from friends and family. Amber was my little sister and my best friend. Although the pain we are dealing with feels unbearable it helps knowing that so many people love and support our family. To my Amber; shopping and dancing will never feel the same, you are on my mind every minute of everyday I love you Amb...

-Jade

[email protected]

Jenna Wood Former Schoolmate/Dancer

March 9, 2004

Amber,

I will be thinking of you each day, and the memories that we have from dance and baton. You will be missed so much by everyone. I know that you are looking down on us, with that big smile. To Amber's family, you are all in my thoughts and prayers as well, I hope that you can overcome this tradgedy.

RIP Amber-Your in my thoughts and prayers, always and forever.

Sandy Fitterer

March 9, 2004

We remember Amber from Ms. Perotti's 4th grade class at Academy School. We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts.



Sandy, Don, and Zachary Fitterer

Renee Miskell

March 9, 2004

Dear Debbie, Dan and Family,



I am extremely sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. My deepset condolences. Call me if you ever need to talk. I am always here for you Debbie.



Love always,



Renee

Emily Tyler

March 8, 2004

Amber, a ray of sunlight lighting up a classroom, a quiet laugh to break the silence, or a big smile to help in an awkward situation. You will never be forgotten. My sympathy goes out to the family, may you have everything you need to get through this hard time.

Alexandra Deyo

March 8, 2004

To the Bernier Family: I am very sorry for your loss. Amber was a wonderful person and will hold a very special place in our hearts.



Amber.....we love you and miss you. Keep smiling your the most beautiful angle in heaven.

Former Classmate

March 8, 2004

To The Bernier Family: I so very sorry for your loss of such a beautiful girl. I did not know Amber very well, but the loss of her has really touched me. I am very sorry, and I love you Amber. RIP

Old Friend

March 7, 2004

Amber, You are a beautiful girl. It kills me to think of how sad and alone you must have felt. I hope you have finally found peace with yourself. You are missed by so many. Say hi to Nick and Luke would you?

Rosemary Sheola

March 7, 2004

Dear Dan&Family,

I am so very sorry and have been keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. I hope this time of darkness soon passes and pray for strength and healing for all of you during this very difficult time....With Deepest Sympathy, Rosemary

Melissa Butts

March 7, 2004

TO Amber's family I was in fifth and sixth grade with amber we were friends and than I had to move to N.C I really miss her and she will always be in my heart and pray as well as your family We Love you amber

Amanda Spooner

March 6, 2004

i heard about Amber from my sister, i am sorry about your lose, i went to school with her in the 8th grade, she was a great person to be around, i will miss her

Ashley Smith

March 6, 2004

Adam: I'm very sorry for your loss. I'm so sorry that you have to go through this, but you are a strong hearted kid and i know you will over some this. I am always here for you if you need to talk to someone. God bless you and your family! luv ya Adam!!

Amy K

March 6, 2004

Although I did not know Amber very well (I had a class with her my junior year) I always thought that she was a nice girl who had a lot going for her. Almost every time I saw her, she had a smile on her face. The last time I remember seeing her was sometime before vacation, and she was talking about how her dad called her after he got to work to ask her if she needed something for her business class, and she just seemed to think that it was a little funny. That scene keeps playing in my head, and I wish that I or someone else could have known. I wish she would have talked to someone, instead of keeping it all inside. I know what its like to feel all alone and be in deep despair and not know what to do, but I am glad that something has always pulled me out of it.



Bless Amber and her many friends and family.

Bridget Hotaling

March 6, 2004

To Debbie and Dan, Jade, Adam, Kayla, Chris, Alex, and Tyler...

Words can't describe the sorrow I have for you. Amber had so much ahead of her, and was such a wonderful girl, we are all lucky to have had her in our lives. My condolences to you and your family, and I will be there for anyone of you that needs it.

a school mate.

March 6, 2004

To Ambers family I am very sorry for what happened god will be with you. Amber- I didn't know you that well but what I did know was that you were a very pretty girl you always smiled. I don't know what you were feeling but I wish it would have never happened to a girl like you.

I'm sorry

Bonnie Berger

March 6, 2004

I was shocked and saddened to hear of your terrible loss. I am so, so sorry. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

Dawn Everett Grobe

March 6, 2004

I am so sorry for the lost of such a special young girl.

Sue (Denno) Wirta

March 6, 2004

Debbie you and I went to school together. I am so very sorry about your loss. My prayers will be with you and your family. God bless.

Aimee Harrison

March 6, 2004

Amber- We love you soo much, You are in a better place, watching over us. Bom will never be the same!!



Amber was a great person, everyone was always looking forward to seeing her smile when she walked through the door. She always had a smile on her face. Amber-the good times we had when we were little will never be forgotten, Baton..what a blast. You will forever be in my heart!

angie & mark campbell

March 6, 2004

We are so sorry for your loss, Amber was a big part of our life, we thought the world of her, she was like a daughter to us, we took her to fl and what a wonderful time she had,she was precious and always smiling, amber was someone very special and very different and people just took to her and loved her, you just couldn't help it..My prays and thought go out to her family in this time of need, we will never forget her she will be apart of our lives forever..God bless.....We love you Amber and your life will go on living forever in our hearts. We will never forget you,Thanks for making our life richer and fuller just by being part of it, you will be deeply missed. angie & mark campbell

Brya Emery

March 5, 2004

I cannot imagine the pain you are feeling. I am sorry for your loss, Amber was a wonderful girl and a very special person. She will be immensely missed.



Amber - you will be forever in our thoughts and our prayers.....

Ebony Raymond

March 5, 2004

Amber.I love you and I will miss you very much.

Margaret Anderson

March 5, 2004

I am deeply sorry to hear of your loss, and my prayers are with your family.

Deborah Desrosiers

March 5, 2004

Dan,Deb & Family-I was deeply saddened to learn of your loss. My heartfelt sympathies go out to you and your family. May God guide you and give you strength to get through the painful days ahead. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

God Bless.

Craig&Vicki Washburn&Family Washburn

March 5, 2004

We are so sorry for your loss of Amber, although we didnt know her personaly ,were sure she was very special. May God, bless you all at this very sad time. Are prayers are with you all. Craig Washburn & Family

Angela Houle

March 5, 2004

Everyone at BAMS and BUHS are lost without Amber we love her and are planning something in her name. Everyone misses her, and we all love her. And we love all of the family, and we miss Adam and hope he comes back to school soon. I know this is hard. But we need to get through this. And with GOD's help we can do it together.

love always, Andy Houle, Diane Clarkson, and Angela Houle.

Donald & Theresa Earp

March 5, 2004

We will always remember her growing up with our son from preschool on up.

we know words will not ease the pain that your family feels, but please know that she will be missed.

Our thoughts are with you all in this time of sorrow.

Robyn Miller

March 5, 2004

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, Dan.

Ralph & Jody Haley

March 5, 2004

Dear Deb, So sorry to hear about your terrible loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Luisa Rivera-Isales

March 5, 2004

Dan & Family:

I have you and your family in my prayers. I am very sorry for your loss.

Stephen Simac

March 5, 2004

my sincerest condolences and prayers for you and your family

Barb Martell

March 5, 2004

Debbie,

Our deepest and most sincere sympathy are with you and your family at this time. Please know

that you are in our hearts and prayers and you are not alone in this very dark period of your life.

Also, please remember that we know

personally the deepest hurt that goes with this type of loss. If there is anything we can do, we will

even if it's just listening.

Love and peace and fond remembrances

Barb & Mike

kelly and todd andrews

March 5, 2004

we are very sorry about your daughter amber. we were sad to here about it from my daughter breanna. we didnt know amber but, we know kayla and hope god can help you heal during this sad time. god bless

Keri Bergeron

March 5, 2004

To my beautiful cousin, Amber. We love you. You will be missed so much. You will always be close in our hearts and in our memory. Like flowers in the garden, we will think of your loving grace year after year.

Brittany Pollard

March 5, 2004

Debbie, Dan, Jade, Adam, Kayla, and Family - May God bring you through this together. I am so sorry. Amber touched each and every one of us, and she will not be forgotten.



Bamber - You're watching over us all, and I'll keep you in my heart every day of my life. You are truly beautiful. The memories will never fade. We will never forget. I love you.

Sheryl & Briana White

March 5, 2004

Dan, Deb & Family - Please know that we extend out deepest sympathies to you. Our thoughts & prayers are with you during this most difficult time.

Wid Perry

March 5, 2004

It's been eight years since we lost our 18 year old Ryan (my nephew) - God's strength will allow you to endure the present to get to the future. May God's blessings and strength be with you during this time of unspeakable loss and pain. Wid Perry

Becky, Brian & Frechette

March 5, 2004

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.

Judi Godfrey

March 5, 2004

Dear Debbie&Family,

My deepest and most heartfelt sympathies go to you and yours.I am so sorry for your loss.God Bless and my love to you all.Judi&family

Susan Perry

March 5, 2004

I have felt numb and simply going through the motions since hearing of your daughters tragic death. I can only imagine the painful heartache your family must be feeling right now. Wid and I are keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.

Merrie Beth Frost

March 5, 2004

I am so sorry for your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

Kevin Weir

March 5, 2004

I am so sorry for your loss. We would all have you know that our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

Marjorie Sheldon

March 5, 2004

Deb, I can't tell you how sorry I am. No one should have to go through this, least of all you. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.



Mardie Sheldon

Mark & Heather Fisher

March 5, 2004

Our love, thoughts, and deepest sympathies are with you all.

Stephen & Monica Poole

March 5, 2004

Please know that we are thinking of your family and offer our sincere condolences. We pray that someday you may find peace.

Art Kantor

March 5, 2004

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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