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Andrew MacFarland Obituary

Andrew Douglas MacFarland, 70, died peacefully at home in the arms of his wife on Saturday after a 4 year struggle with Parkinson's Disease. He was the first son of Douglas Andrew MacFarland and Beatrice (Shine) MacFarland. Along with his wife, Nancy Polseno, he is survived by his two beloved children, Gabe and Siena and his precious granddaughter Fiona, all of whom were with him throughout his last days. He is also survived by his mother, Beatrice MacFarland and his siblings Mary Jane Williams, Gail Turner, Kay Stringer, Charles MacFarland and many dedicated nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his father Douglas MacFarland and younger sister Dawn.

Born June 27th, 1948 in Brattleboro, he attended the one room schoolhouse in the town of Newfane, where he was raised, and graduated from BUHS in 1966. A graduate of Miami University of Ohio, he served in the Vermont National Guard, and earned a masters degree in health care administration from Westfield State College. After college he worked briefly at BUHS, the Brattleboro Retreat, Brattleboro Memorial Hospital and was a founding member and later a co-director of Green Mountain Health Center where he met and fell in love with his wife, Nancy. He settled into a long career at the Brattleboro Retreat working with adolescents and later creating off campus programs. He concluded his career as health care administrator at Otter Creek Associates. Andrew always loved children and was perhaps most proud of the residential Families in Recovery program he created where mothers in substance abuse recovery brought their young children with them for comprehensive treatment.

In his professional as well as his personal life, he was known for his unique ability to bring people with very different viewpoints together. Andrew was deeply committed to the town of Dummerston where he lived for over 40 years, raised his family and served in many capacities. He was a school board member, chairman and representative to the WSESU board. He was a selectman, served for several years as head selectman and a member of the planning commission. In the larger community he served on many non-profit boards and committees including the Winston Prouty Center, the Gathering Place, Brattleboro Area Hospice, and Windham and Windsor Housing Trust.

He was a patient and loving husband, an exceptional father and an effortlessly helpful parental figure for anybody who needed one. For a gentle man, he played a fierce game of tennis. Andrew was a voracious reader and we will remember him with a wide smile as he peppered conversations with wry, intelligent remarks. He took pride in his clear concise writing and would tell us, if he were still here, that this obituary is far too long!

A memorial service will be held on Saturday, January 5th at 1:00 pm at the old Stone Church at the corner of Main and Grove in Brattleboro. A reception will follow at Otter Creek Associates, Matrix Health Systems, 80 Linden Street, Brattleboro.

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Published by Brattleboro Reformer on Dec. 27, 2018.

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Greg Wild

January 21, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Susan Stillman

January 5, 2019

Sending deepest sympathy and love to you, Nancy, and Gabe, Siena, and your entire family. What a sad day it is. So many precious memories.

Orly Munzing

January 3, 2019

I will always remember Andrew with his infectious smile and endearing personality! I send you lots of love, hugs and STRENGHT! ORLY

Charlotte Randolph

January 2, 2019

Dear Nancy, You and all the family have my sympathy over the loss of Andrew. I'm keeping you in my prayers at this difficult time.

Margaret Wimberger

January 2, 2019

We are so sad that Andrew is no longer in the world. What a good life, but much too short. And there you are, left to miss him. Hope the memories keep you good company.

with love from Margaret and Marshall, Sophie and Lena

cindy coble

December 30, 2018

awww, no. Nancy, Gabe and Sienna, Fiona all of our love. you too, Andrew. i'm sorry life and love can be such unbearable heartbreakers. remember if you're able that many of us will help shoulder your pain. though not one of us can take it away. so much love in your family, may it continue to grow and grace us all.

cindy coble and kids

Mary Randolph

December 30, 2018

Nancy & the MacFarland family,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Mary

Annie Quest

December 29, 2018

Dear Nancy and family, Matt and I send our condolences and love to you all.

Ronald (Jack) Stark

December 28, 2018

My sincere condolences to the MacFarland Family. I have fond memories of Andy from our younger years, he was a terrific guy.

JONI LONG

December 27, 2018

My condolences to you and you family. We are here for you Chuckles.

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