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Amber TOTH Obituary

TOTH - Amber L. (nee Parwulski) March 19, 2016, wife of Robbie; mother of Olivia and Wyatt and survived by their father, Jason Coones; daughter of Dawn (John) Novack; sister of Heather (Matthew), Christopher, Garrett, Brittany and Nichole; granddaughter of Stanley and Sandra Zawadzki; survived by nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles and cousins. Visitation JAMES E. GRACE FUNERAL HOME, INC., 335 Ontario St., Friday 1-3 PM.
Published by Buffalo News on Mar. 22, 2016.

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Dan Berarducci

June 21, 2019

Remembering you and talking with friends from your childhood... you are missed.

Lori Misquadis

March 16, 2019

Love

Olivia and Amber <3

nikki morales

March 19, 2017

Always in our hearts!

nikki morales

March 19, 2017

nikki morales

March 19, 2017

Bobo, today it is one year since you left us. I cant shake this feeling of feeling you here. I prayed all last night for you and this morning. God let me know where you are today while i was in church and i just want to say i love you so much and i miss you dearly. My heart aches for you today, my big sissy. I was awoken early this morning with you in my thoughts, God was giving me a message. Today will be in honor of you, lots of people here on earth miss you and are still grieving for the loss of you. The world is a little less beautiful without you here. Today is very hard for me. It's almost like i'm re living that day all over again. I will forever have you in my heart, make sure you watch over mom, losing you was the worse thing she has ever had to go through and she hasn't been the same since then. I worry about her, we aren't close anymore. So please make sure she is safe. Love you always, but i am sure you already know that. xoxo, your baby sis Nikki

Nikki Morales

March 8, 2017

Bobo, in 11 days it will be one year since you left us. I miss you so much, and my heart feels like it's breaking all over again . I feel like just yesterday Britt called me to tell me that you were being rushed to the hospital. And then I remember just shortly after 10am I called dad and he gave me the most heartbreaking and devastating news . I remember feeling like my heart shattered and I remember screaming NO! And dropping to the floor on the kitchen. My world ended. You were the one I was closest with growing up and I pray for you everyday. I remember arriving at your wake and I was the first one there besides mom and dad . when dad was holding me and brought me into the room you were in, my heart dropped to my stomach and I knew what true pain and heartbreak felt like. Brittany gave the most beautiful speech and Olivia have you a million kisses on your forehead.. I was the last one to say my goodbyes at the end of the night before we had to go.. That was the hardest thing I've ever had to do. I couldn't stop kissing your forehead and telling you how much I love you. You were and still are the most amazing big sister I could have ever had . Me, Britt and Heather love you and miss you so much!! Mom misses and cries for you everyday and she takes very good care of you , if you didnt know bobo you are at home with mommy and she makes sure your safe now. Your in my thoughts and prayers and your face is forever in my mind , I see you all the time. You weren't there's when I got married physically but I know you were there in spirit and in my heart. Love you always , your baby sister Nikki .
P.s Your Niece and Nephews love you dearly even though they haven't got a chance to meet you . 28th love from Natanael Jr, D'Liley and Gabriel.

Olivia

August 12, 2016

Mommy, I haven't written on here for almost 5 months.. It's just because I couldn't find the right words to say. I love and I miss you so much and I wish you were here to help dad raise Wyatt. Not a day goes by where I don't think about you. I hope you have are having a great time in heaven. Please watch over Wyatt. Until we meet again.. Rest in peace momma I love you.

Nikki

April 13, 2016

Big Sis I love you so much ! Not one day goes by without thinking of you . In 6 days it will be a month since you left for heaven , and I still can't get my heart or mind to believe that you are gone . I know I haven't seen you in so long and I hate myself for it all the time . I never got to tell you how much I love you and how much you meant to me . I wish I could have hugged you one last time before you left. I miss you so much !!!!!! :'( why now ? I need you , our family needs you . I want you back just please come back :( I know words won't bring you back but I still try . Say hello to uncle Paul for me and give our handsome baby cousin a kiss for me. I love you and always will you will forever be in my heart ❤

Britt❤

April 11, 2016

BoBo, it's been 3 weeks and two days. I want you back... I need you back. Our lives are so different now that you're not here. It still doesn't feel real. I need my big sister.... I've always needed you. I'm so sorry I couldn't help you. I'm so sorry. I think about you everyday.... Some days are harder than others. Some days I have to focus on breathing just to make it through the day. I miss you.. I really miss you. I'm still hoping to wake up. Please just come back. I love you my beautiful big sister. My life with NEVER be the same. This will never get easier. I will never be able to be okay. I'll miss you every day of my existence. I'll love you everyday. I'll think of you every second of every day. I'll hold you in my heart always. My big sister, my guardian angel I love you❤

mrs. Amy Calabotta

March 25, 2016

I'm was sorry to hear you passed away. I hope the many great memories & the thought of your beautiful smile lives on forever . May You Rest in peace Amber

Lori Misquadis

March 25, 2016

You are going be missed love your way to make quick hot chocolate!

Angela Gould

March 25, 2016

Amber, Heaven has gained another angel. You were like a daughter to me when you lived on Chadduck. Ive been going through old pics,and will never forget that beautiful smile,or your suprise visits just to say hello. You will forever be in my heart and missed .

Dineen Lazore

March 24, 2016

Amber you will be missed dearly. We've had a lot of great memories! Hope you rest in peace. We'll see you again some day.

LYDIA STINEMAN

March 24, 2016

REST IN PEACE, AMBER.
YOU AND YOUR FAMILY WERE OUR NEIGHBORS ON HAMILTON ST. AND WE ARE GOOD TIMES THERE AND CRAZY MEMORIES.
REST IN PEACE AND NOW YOU DONT HAVE TO SUFFER ANYMORE.
I WILL MISS U

Candice Mohr-Balsano

March 24, 2016

Amber you were truelly an amazing woman. I'm glad I got to know you when we were younger I will always remember the happy and kind person you were. Always smiling. May you R.I.P. My condolences to out to your children and your family. ❤

Natalie Puccio

March 23, 2016

Amber,
I'm shocked to hear about your passing. You were truly one of a kind. My prayers go out to your loved ones during this difficult time. R.I.P

Alyssa Caracciolo

March 23, 2016

Rest In Peace Amber You were one of My Best Friends Cousins that would always stick up for us when girls picked on us and also introduced me to white rice with butter and italian dressing! Always good memories...

Brittany Harkins

March 23, 2016

BoBo, my heart aches so much. I miss you so much. I haven't been able to write anything because I haven't been able to find the words. I haven't been able to clear my thoughts. I've been waiting to wake up and see your smiling face again. To hear you laugh, hear your corny jokes, and to hear you tell me how proud you are of me. Ever since Olivia started calling me aunt BB, that's what you called me. I miss you more than words can ever explain. Life without you will never be the same but I know that you're with us always. My heart has never felt so broken, so shattered and I have never felt so numb. I don't even know what to do with myself lately. I don't know how to cope with this.... I don't even know how things will be okay anymore. My beautiful big sister I will miss you for the rest of my life, every day I live it will be to continue making you proud. Everything I do from this day forward will be for you. I promise you I will do everything in my power to make sure Olivia and Wyatt know how amazing you were and that they are always taken care of. I love you more than anything in this world and I will think of you every day. I'll hold you in my heart always. Soar with the angels beautiful. I love you so much. ❤

Jo Novack

March 23, 2016

Amber you will be truly missed. May your soul be a guiding light for those who are left behind.

Jason Coones

March 23, 2016

Dear amber..you were and are a huge part of my life and mother of our two beautiful babies. We shared over 10 years together.despite the bad times i always loved u with all my heart. That heart broke saturday march 19 when i found out you have left for heaven.im not sure how i will ever pick up all these broken peices..but i promise you i will take great care of our babies n we will always remember you for the caring funloving beautiful woman n mother u were..i will never completely heal from this you were there for me thru so much. But i know you will be watching us from above n keeping us safe..me olivia n wyatt love u sooooo much boo bear..xoxoxo.....i hope u are in a better place without pain n struggle amber u deserve to be happy. One day i will be by your side again. I love u..see u later..

nichole novack

March 23, 2016

I'm making another entry today , I can't stop thinking about you Amber , I miss you so much. I can't believe my big sister is gone . I know your at peace so it helps me a little bit but I just miss you so much ! Shine your beautiful light down on us . You will always be in my heart forever and eternity along with all the memories and laughter , until we meet again . I love you .

Kelly

March 22, 2016

R.I.P Amber.. Praying for you,your children,family and friends.Rest peacefully ❤

Dawn Rank

March 22, 2016

Amber you will be truly missed may you RIP

Nicole Lazore

March 22, 2016

My condolences to Amber's children and Family.. Amber you will never be forgotten, May you rest peacefully

Allyson

March 22, 2016

R.I.P Amber (Bo Bo) I'll never forget all the times we all had together. You will be missed by so many!

Amanda Wojciechowski

March 22, 2016

Amber you were one of my closest friends growing up on chadduck and the time you lived on grace. The sleep overs to make up and clothes always sharing everything you were like a sister I never had. You were always the entertainment where ever we went always laughing and never cared what anyone else thought and I always admired you for that. it saddens my heart knowing that your gone and you will be deeply missed and I will always remember the fun and crazy amber I grew up with. Rest in peace my friend your forever in my heart

Vincent & Bruni Coppola

March 22, 2016

R.I.P. - Amber...We will miss you very much. We are so heart broken over your passing.

Mom Clark

March 22, 2016

My thoughts and prayers are with you Heather and your whole family. Your Sister is now in heaven and know that God will take care of her and she is now at Peace. All the memories will stay in your heart forever. Stay strong for Olivia and Wyatt. I love you, Mom Clark

Amanda

March 22, 2016

RiP Amber ! You will be missed!

Tonya

March 22, 2016

R.I.P Amber your beautiful inside and out. Be that shining star to watch over your children. You will be missed! Love you.

Krystal and joey

March 22, 2016

We still can't believe your gone!! I just seen you a couple days prior and you came to my brothers with Robbie while he's trying to fix the thermostat and you snatched the paper from him to read it because he couldn't see lol. That was the last time we seen your face!! We didn't hang out much but the time we did have was filled with laughter n happiness we love you so very much rest in paradise until we meet again!!

Duane Keifman

March 22, 2016

R.I.P ---AMBER.....I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU ...YOUR MEMORIES WILL ALWAYS LIVE IN ME...AND WE HAD A LOT OF MEMORIES. ....

Bernadette Bain

March 22, 2016

My thoughts & prayers are with you all. RIP beautiful girl.

Joey Schrecengost

March 22, 2016

Heaven gained another Angel way too soon. R.I.P. Amber you will be missed.

Krystal and joey

March 22, 2016

It's just so crazy that your gone we will miss you dearly!! This happening opened our eyes greatly.we just seen you a couple days before that when you came to my brothers and Robbie was trying to fix the thermostat but he couldn't read it so you snatched the paper n started reading it to him lol that's the last time I seen your face!!! I personally didn't spend much time with you but the time I did there was always laughter and happiness no matter what we love you Amber n may you rest in paradise until we meet again

Carla Patrizi Bateman

March 22, 2016

You were in our lives and part of our family for so many years, it is so incredibly sad and unreal that you are no longer with us. I hope you will have peace and happiness in Heaven, free of pain and the struggles you endured. You blessed us with Olivia and Wyatt, and they will always remind us of you. I will remember all the good times, laughter, and fun from the past years. Soar with the angels, and know your children are safe and very loved. Rest in peace Amber...love, "Aunt" Carla

esta boyle

March 22, 2016

R.i.p beautiful...fly high baby girl!

Leah Cordero

March 22, 2016

No matter where time brought us i will always remember the good times and laughs. You were an amazing aunt and a good friend. I know how much you loved all the kids in your life. Watch over them...Olivia and Wyatt have a forever guardian angel...RIP Amber. You will be missed

Amber Parwulski-Toth

March 22, 2016

May you rest in peace in the arms of God. Vince and I will trully miss you and your hugs.

March 22, 2016

Everyone is raising their candles to the sky for you . We all love and miss you Amber !

Scott Walters

March 22, 2016

R.i.p amber

Brianna Vagic (Costello)

March 22, 2016

I'll always remember you as laughing! You had the best laugh and it was contagious! Many great memories with you. R.I.P Amber

Brittany Fisher

March 22, 2016

Rest In Paradise Beautiful

Caroline Humes

March 22, 2016

Rest in peace

Sandra Darley

March 22, 2016

Beautiful inside and out. .May you R.I.P. hunny.. always in our hearts, thoughts and prayers.. the good times will be forever cherished. your memory will live on forever.. Fly high baby girl xoxo

nichole novack

March 22, 2016

Amber , I love you and words cannot explain how I am feeling right now . I miss you so much . Mom misses you ! Were so empty without you here its like everything is missing now . I have always looked up to you growing up you're my big sister . I can't shake the feeling of if I had the chance to see you before this happened what could I have done to help . I'm sorry I haven't seen you in so long and I know you always wanted the best for all of us . Olivia loves and misses you and mom is making sure she stays strong for her . We all miss and love you . I hope your shining in heaven . I hope your making all the angels above smile but my favorite Angel of all is you ! I love you bobo I'm sending all my love to heaven for you . hold it right and never let it go . Rest In Paradise .

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