George, Tayrin, Elias and Ethan Torres
September 30, 2009
Its now September 30th and I still cannot believe Asa is gone. I have his picture next to me at work to remind me of the life he lived and how he showed the world how to love. To love unconditionally. To smile thru every all obstacles and thank God for what you had yesterday, have today and will have tomorrow. We love you Asa, you will truely be missed!
Mary Lou
September 20, 2009
Asa was blessed by two very special parents and extended family otherwise he could not be the angel he is.
God knew that Asa's life would be short by most peoples standards so he surrounded him by his angels. The funeral for Asa was beautiful and breathtaking, thank you for showing the world how to celebrate life!
God Bless you both and thank you for Asa.
Annette Smiraglia
September 19, 2009
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Lisa Wiest
September 19, 2009
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Asa was blessed to have such a loving family, even if for a short time.
Marta Perez
September 19, 2009
My husband called me that day to say he was stuck in traffic and we wondered what was happening. We prayed together that it was not an accident. He finally got home, but then we watched the news. How sad that the world had to lose such a bright light, but Asa does live on in several other children and his light is still in the world. I grieve for the parents who can no longer look at that beautiful face and feel him in their arms. But at the same time, a thank you to them for teaching the community so many lessons about love, and generosity. God bless you!
Nancy Brock
September 15, 2009
The light in this beautiful boy shines through even in a newspaper photo. May it live forever in the hearts of his loving family.
marie deveso
September 15, 2009
I too was stuck in traffic not knowing at the time that a sweet, wonderful life would be lost as I prayed aloud that day. I want to express my deepest condolences to the family. God Bless you all.
Estrellita Perez
September 11, 2009
Asa was blessed in many ways, including having the best parents and family foundation that one could hope for. Rahwa and Milk, I love you, you are both wonderful friends and a blessing to us all.
Shanntina Moore
September 10, 2009
It breaks my heart every time I think about what the world lost when Asa left this earth. Then I remember the love that he exuded every time I saw him. I am blessed to have known him, thankful for the lessons learned from his death and grateful to have witnessed the strength and love of his parents. THANK YOU!!!!!!!
Jimmy Hartman
September 10, 2009
I will always miss you ...Asa...He was a gift from God...and now he is in peace with our Lord...Asa, I want to say thank you for being in my family's life..You will never be forgotten! Jimmy, Bersum and Lukes
Kunjane'
September 10, 2009
Although the sun may never shine the same for the two of you, the memories that you hold and the love we have for Asa will hopefully give you a little more strength each day. Rahwa and Amilcar, I love you so much, please be encouraged and know that Asa is smiling down on the two of you at all times....until you are reunited in Heaven.....
Tzurah Hill
September 9, 2009
My love and prayers of God's peace are with the both of you, Milk. What an incredible tribute to Asa's life. I pray for your comfort and continued blessing during this time for your family. I love you all from my whole heart.
Sedrick Tydus
September 9, 2009
I send my love and support and prayers to the family. The love displayed in his passing is remarkable and profound.
Sedrick Tydus
Dartmouth '74
Anonymous
September 8, 2009
Deat Hill Family,
I do not know you, but feel compelled to express my condolences. I just read that wou wed at Asa's funeral...what an incredible tribute to him and his life. I always hear that the death of a child can tear a couple apart, but this is not so. Asa has brought his mom and dad closer together and you can bet he is smiling in heaven.
Gerry W
September 8, 2009
Asa's story is bittersweet. His love and that of his family spread across all of Western New York. You prayed for a miracle. Instead of getting one, you gave one. Blessings and condolences to you. Thank you for sharing Asa with us.
Bernice Minter
September 8, 2009
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Asa. Be comforted to know that many care and are saddened by your loss. God Bless
Carrie Raponi
September 8, 2009
Dear Hill family, we did not personally know Asa, but I feel like I do now. God Bless you and Asa...may you have peace knowing he is always with you.
September 8, 2009
To the family and friends of Asa, I am so very sorry for your loss; I was in one of the many vehicles stuck in traffic behind the accident on thursday not knowing that such a wonderful loving child would be lost to this world. I was praying for him when I found out about the accident when I got home.
Susan & Chloe
September 8, 2009
There is nothing sadder than a loss of a child, but to know he lives on in others must bring some comfort. Our prayers to you and your family.
The Smith Family
Belinda Gerald
September 8, 2009
To My Beloved Family. There are no words to express my feeling. However, I want you to know that the entire Family's "PRAYERS" are with you and we love you very much.
My God Watch Over You Always,
THE FAMILY
Bronx, NY
Kelli and Pepper
September 8, 2009
Thank you for sharing Asa with us, and for sharing the love and community spirit so present at the celebration of his life on Monday. He lives on in so many... both in memory, and with the greatest gift you could give- life to others. Love and comfort to you.
Andina Barone
September 8, 2009
Asa was a special child, so very bright, talented and wise beyond his years. Rahwa and Amilcar, I will always remember how patient and loving you were with Asa and to eachother. It was evident how much each of you cherished your son and every moment that you spent with him. It was a gift to be in the company of your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Shawnita Y.
September 8, 2009
Hill family,
I am sorry to hear of Asa's passing. Asa was one of the children in my group in the afterschool program when he was a student at the Elmwood Village Charter School. Asa was always willing to help, and was so very creative. Arts and crafts was one of his favorite activities, and he loved showing us his dance moves. Asa will truly be missed. May God continue to bless you family during this time, and always.
maria vazquez
September 7, 2009
thre is new angel in heavens,and he is happy w ith hes wings dont weep for him for he is working for our lord.remember him with joy in your hearts thats what he want from you and me.maria vazquez.
September 7, 2009
Kefiwe Iam so sorry for your loss.You are in our prayers. Theresa Sigler Charter School for applied Tech.
Sharon Layman
September 7, 2009
So very sorry to hear of your loss, my prayers are with you. May the Lord bless you with peace knowing that your little Asa is safe in His arms. Thank you too for realizing in your grief how many children could be helped with your decision to donate Asa's organs. You truly are the love that this world needs.
Dan Grasso
September 7, 2009
Millie,
I heard the sad news of the accident through my parents. Please accept my deepest sympathy. You are in our thoughts.
Maria Kraft
September 7, 2009
The passing of your son Asa has filled my heart not only with grief but with hope. The wonderful gifts he posessed in his short life will now live on in others. Amilcar, you are a man filled with grace, and the love your family shares shines brightly. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
September 7, 2009
To the beautiful Hill family,
You are in our prayers.
Francisco, Judah and PeaceSelah

Welcome, Asa
Denise McMichael-Houston
September 7, 2009
To the Hill & Woods Families,
It is with deepest Sympathy that I write this note. Asa has joined our universe as one of the brightest stars in the sky. Family, always look up. My prayers are with you.
Denise McMichael-Houston
Buffalo, New York
Carla Jones
September 7, 2009
To the Hill Family:
Very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. God Bless You and Your Family.
The Jones Family
Jennifer Ward
September 7, 2009
Thank you Asa for being a bright light in a sometimes dark world. Thank you, thank you, thank you, for giving more love in your 7 years then some of us may give in 70 or more. Thank you Asa's family for sharing your son with the world, for sharing his life force so that others might live. Thank you for sharing the celebration of his life with an entire community. I was blessed to have a birdseye view in the balcony of the church today and my eyes could scarcely belive the beauty that I looked down upon. Asa brought people together from all faiths and walks of life and it was a beautiful sight to behold. His family awes me beyond words by their humility and gratitude, by their love and their divine purpose in life - to live life by the golden rule, the simple rule of treating others as you would wish to be treated; to love others as you would want to be loved. My wish is that Asa's life and death may serve as a lesson to us all ... savor every moment and love your neighbor as you would wish yourself to be loved. If we could do that ... oh what a wonderful world this would be. I caught a rare glimpse of the profound power of love and hope today and I pray it's a glimpse I can live over and over in my minds eye and my own life each and every day. God bless.
September 7, 2009
Praying for you and your family.
Much Love,
Benita Goodman
MARCIA DIEBOLD
September 7, 2009
To Asa Hill's family,
I am so sorry and saddened by the terrible loss of your little guy. I had prayed you would have gotten a miracle . What a wonderful gift to give of his organs and now a part of him will go on. God be with your family . Marcia Diebold
Charlene Fadel
September 7, 2009
What a day! Today I was blessed enough to experience atrue celebration of life! Like no other I have seen before! There was more spirit and faith in one room than I coul imagine! The church was moving, Yes it was to celebrate Asa's life but it w...as more than that! A celebration of his organs saving 12 others and a union of his loving parents in holy matrimony! WOW! Thank you for sharing this loving wexperience with your community!
Jennifer Gold
September 7, 2009
There is nothing I can say or do that will ease the pain of losing that sweet and beautiful child. Please know that my thoughts are with you.
Jennifer Schoonard
September 7, 2009
Your son, in his death, has touched my life and reminded me to live in the moment. I'm so very sorry for your loss. And I thank you, Asa's dad, for sharing your profound wisdom and allowing us - strangers - a glimpse into the loving world of your 7-year-old son. And finally, thank you for your humility and grace. I wish you and your wife and your family peace and comfort.
Eric and Ann Crittenden
September 7, 2009
You have our deepest condolences. If there is anything we can do for you--we are here for you....
September 7, 2009
Our heartfelt condolences to the
family for loss of your beloved Asa.
May your precious memories sustain you
in the coming days.
...Eternal be his memory.
Ingrassia Family
September 7, 2009
The Coming of the Lord
Brothers, we do not want you to be ignorant about those who fall asleep, or to grieve like the rest of men, who have no hope. We believe that Jesus died and rose again and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him. According to the Lord's own word, we tell you that we who are still alive, who are left till the coming of the Lord, will certainly not precede those who have fallen asleep. For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever. Therefore encourage each other with these words.
1 Thessalonians 4:13~18
Denise (Susie) Thomas Rogers
September 7, 2009
My prayers go out to your family during the lost of this dear young child. God is the only one who can help you thru this difficult time.
Tom Bauerle
September 7, 2009
Deepest sympathies to a remarkable family. The love you showered on Asa is reflected back on all of us in that magnificent smile; and will live on in the lives he will help. Many thoughts and prayers to you.
paula z
September 7, 2009
May you find some comfort....
Sandra Williams Bush
September 7, 2009
How blessed you are to have had Asa in your lives. I know his smile, his spirit, and his love will be with you always. You have my deepest sympathy.
Daniel Menza
September 7, 2009
Millie and Family,
When I had heard of this accident I hoped for a miracle as I have seen one in my family, when I heard the tragic news I was saddened to hear. You are in our thoughts and prayers. I can not express my deepest condolences for your loss. I can not fathom the idea of losing a child, your decision to donate his organs to save other children is testament to your son and your family. Asa will live on in so many ways. May God bless you and your family in the time of grief.
SIGNUM FIDEI..
Dan (Coach) Menza.... SJCI 91'
Tracey hargrave
September 7, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
David Butler
September 7, 2009
These days I have been a somewhat distant observer of families of Lorna Hill. I have watched children grow from afar, and new families form. I am just sorry it takes such a tragedy for me to express my deepest heartfelt respect and my deepest sorrow at this loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
September 7, 2009
The Hill Family;
I followed this story like so many other Western New Yorkers this week. Little Asa had a smile that he took with him, but it will surely light up the sky with an un presedented brightness that will shine on all those he left behind. The image of Mr. Hill on the front page of the paper showed such raw emotion for a parent and his child. Blessings are sent your way as you share your son's organs with so many. You truly are an amazing family.
Marianne Savino
September 7, 2009
Dear members of the Hill family and all of the relatives,
I am so sad to learn of your terrible loss and to know that this darling, much-loved son was taken so soon from you. Amilcar, many years ago, you played with my son Paul while your mom and I were both visiting our good mutual friend Jimmie Gilliam. It was the only time I ever saw you in person, but the memory stayed with me and it was a wonderful day. Asa looked so much like you did back then. My heart goes out to you. What a blessing it is that the other families whose children were so ill have been given a chance to live because you knew how important it is to give the gift of his life to them. Peace to all of you, strength for tomorrow, and comfort in the months and years ahead.
September 7, 2009
To the Hill Family
I do not know you or your family but wanted to send my thoughts and prayers your way. As a parent myself, I was deeply saddened by your loss. May God be with you.
Ekaete
September 6, 2009
God Bless you family,
I remember Asa as a little boy, always around his mom and dad. I remember thinking and telling Rahwa, what a beautiful little boy Asa was. He always caught my eye.
My faith tells me that even though Asa's body is no longer living on this side of eternity - His spirit and soul are alive and well, on the other side the better side. This means little practically, as I can't even begin to imagine how much you will miss him here; but spiritually, it means everything.
In those dark moments, please be encouraged that Asa's light lives on. So very sorry for your loss. I pray for peace for you and your family.
Michelle
September 6, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
God Bless You, Now Forever an Angel
Rev. Jeff Carter
September 6, 2009
To the Hill Family,
Having lost a daughter less than a year ago, I recognize that there is no pain - no heartache like loosing a child. Not even faith in God makes it better. Faith however does help you to keep on going.
Please know that I am praing for you.
September 6, 2009
To all of Asa's family and friends, It was a blessing to be with such a loving group of people. I could feel the love you all had for Asa and each other during this difficult time. You are all an amazing group of people.Thank you for thinking of others through donation. Asa's legacy lives on. I will be in touch. Darlene (Family Support, UNYTS)
Jeffery Hunter
September 6, 2009
Amilcar, Lorna, Mike, Dorothy, Amilcar and families-
I am deeply saddened to learn of your loss. I can only offer my condolences and hope that your memories of Asa will bring you some measure of comfort in relieving your grief. My prayers are with you.
September 6, 2009
My heart goes out to your family in your time of sorrow. As a relative of a transplant recipient, I think its wonderful that you chose to allow Asa to be an organ donor. Not only will he still be alive in your hearts and minds but also in the lives of others. Although I don't know you, I feel like I've known Ms HIll for years, having seen several of her productions. God Bless you and your family.
September 6, 2009
Asa was a beautiful child from a beautiful family. We are grieving with you.
James Jacobs
September 6, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
September 6, 2009
I am so deeply sorry to hear of your great loss. My prayers are with you during this time.
Blessings
Melonya Johnson
Charlene Fadel
September 6, 2009
What could I possibly say to ease the pain u feel in your hearts but one thing i know is its all love and you definately had and will always have that. God Bless you Milky and your family
Karen Patterson
September 6, 2009
Our prayers are with your family during this difficult time. I believe Asa's love will be with your family always. God blessed you with this beautiful angel and you in return have blessed a child who was in need of a medical miracle. God bless your family. Love and prayers the Patterson family . Orchard Park , NY
Paula Schenk
September 6, 2009
Our hearts go out to your whole family. Asa's love and light beams out to touch us, even from his picture. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Paula & Ed Schenk ( Buffalo, NY)
Shirley Godinho
September 6, 2009
Our condolences to Asa's family and many friends. I knew Asa through my daughter, Garland, and will remember him as a friendly and lovable child, always happy and kind to everyone.
With deepest sympathy,
Shirley and Doug Godinho
September 6, 2009
To the Hill family, On behalf of my family to yours may god give you all the comfort you need during this time of sorrow. Love The Smith Family From 239 Laurel.
Mary and Don Montero
September 6, 2009
to the family of Asa Hill, Your son was and still continues to be a blessing to all of those whose lives he has touched. May you find comfort and peace in knowing he lives on in others. He is among the many angels that have been taken at a young age so he is not alone. May time heal the pain and strengthen the love in your hearts. You are in our daily prayers.
Marge Duncan
September 6, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss, I have been praying for your son since the accident. I pray for comfort from God for your family at this time.
September 6, 2009
You and your family are in my prayers. God has called one of his little angels home. May God Bless You and Your Family,
The Wakins Family
September 6, 2009
We were priviledged to know him. His short but full life touched many people and his generous gift in passing will touch countless lives for years to come. He will always be with you and us. All of our love and support now and forever, Bruce and Christina Moore (New York, NY)
Jennifer Fecio McDougall
September 6, 2009
You are all in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless you.
The McDougall Family
Christina Parks
September 6, 2009
I am praying that God's grace comforts you as you celebrate Asa's life. Know that your "God Never Lets you Down" family mourns with you and we share in your loss. Now to celebrate the love, and the life of one so precious and dear - sincerest condolences and all my love to the Hill family.
Dan M
September 6, 2009
Asa was one of the happiest, brightest and most talented kids I've ever had the pleasure of knowing. We will never forget you. -your piano teacher
September 6, 2009
This tragedy has touched me deeply. The picture of Mr. Hill in the news the other day has haunted me. I can't pretend to understand the unbelievable pain you are going through, but please know that complete strangers pray for you and your family every day. How blessed you are to have had such a sweet little boy in your life. Please keep in mind how many other precious lives your sweet son has touched with your unselfish act of organ donation, and may that help in your healing process. Your beautiful son lives on. God bless all of you.
Karen Russo
September 6, 2009
May God bless you and yours in this time of great sorrow, and give you all the strength you need.
My heart, love, prayers and deepest sympathy goes out to you for your loss.
Cindy Messina
September 6, 2009
Our hearts are so very saddened at this time for you..your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Asa is safe in heaven looking down upon us all..The Messina Family
Jeanette Koncikowski
September 6, 2009
Amilcar, Rahwa, Lorna, and family:
May the love you shared with Asa surround you and comfort you in this time of grief. We are so very sorry for your loss.
Erika French
September 6, 2009
My heart goes out to the parents of this little boy. I too know the tradegy and pain of losing a son suddenly. God Bless you in the decission of donating his organs, I know how difficult this is to go through. May you find peace and know that your son in his short life has touched many. God Bless you and help you through this.
September 6, 2009
I heard the story about ASA on tv. I was praying that he'd get well. Today and tomorrow my thoughta are with you, the family he left behind. He went on to a better place. He takes with him that bright smile of his. Stay strong for him. May God Bless.
Rose Alexander
September 6, 2009
Dear Amilcar, My heart is breaking for you and your family. Please know that I am thinking of you. Rose (Montessori and Highland Avenue)
joan lorenzo
September 6, 2009
my prayers go out to you .family of asa may the lord shine strength to you the lord needed another angel and he took the best from a very fine family i dont know u but my tears flow for your family and my heart hurt god is good and he will take care of your baby
D. Pagano
September 6, 2009
May your lovng memories of Asa bring you comfort& peace in the days ahead. Sorry for your loss.
S. Sherrill
September 6, 2009
May our Lord bless this family and receive this child.
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