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Barbara A. Phalen

1934 - 2025

BORN

1934

DIED

2025

FUNERAL HOME

Pacer Funeral Home, Inc.

2275 George Urban Blvd.

Depew, New York

UPCOMING SERVICE

Service

Nov. 29, 2025

10:00 a.m.

St. Martha Parish

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Barbara Phalen Obituary

Phalen, Barbara A. (nee Pfeil)

Nov 8, 1934 - Oct 12, 2025

Beloved wife of 67 years to late Clifford; dear aunt of Larry (Monica) Kensy, Mark (Sharon) Kensy, and Greg (Terry) Kensy; predeceased by brother Paul (late Prudence) (Danice) Pfeil, and sister Joan (Edward) Kensy; also survived by nieces, nephews, great-nieces, and great-nephews. Mass of Christian Burial at St. Martha Parish, 10 French Rd. Depew, Saturday, Nov. 29, at 10AM. No prior visitation. Barbara was the matriarch of the family. She was involved in many activities and committees at St. Barnabas. She enjoyed arts, crafts and the many sports activities of the family. Flowers gratefully declined. Please share online condolences at www.PACERFUNERALHOME.com
Published by Buffalo News from Oct. 16 to Oct. 17, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Barbara Phalen

Nov

29

Service

10:00 a.m.

St. Martha Parish

10 French Road, Depew, NY 14043

Funeral services provided by:

Pacer Funeral Home, Inc.

2275 George Urban Blvd., Depew, NY 14043

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DM

October 17, 2025

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Carmine Pardi

October 17, 2025

Sorry to hear of Barbara's passing. She and Clifford were great clients of mine as I was their financial advisor for many years. As we also became friends It was always a pleasure meeting with her and Clifford and getting a handful of candy she always had on hand. God Bless and RIP Barbara.

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