November 28, 2020, wife of the late Max Schmeidler; loving mother of David (Lynn) Schmeidler and Carol (Paul Baginski) Schmeidler; sister of the late Robert Bernstein; sister-in-law of Rocky Bernstein; grandmother of Chris (Judy Boldt) Biro and Brian (Ryann) Biro; also survived by two great-grandchildren. Services will be private. A Zoom Shiva will be held Tuesday at 6:30 PM. Please contact Congregation Shir Shalom for details. Donations in Deborah's memory may be made to Congregation Shir Shalom or Beechwood Continuing Care. Arrangements by MESNEKOFF FUNERAL HOME. Share condolences at

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So sorry to hear of your loss, sending you our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
Diane Bakerink
December 3, 2020
Carol, you have my deepest sympathies on the passing of your mother, wishing you peace and comfort as you grieve her passing, may her memory be a blessing.
Karen Peissinger
December 1, 2020
We were so sorry to hear the sad news about Debbie. Here in Scotland we think of her as "Granma Debbie" and she is talked about often. That won't change and we will never forget how she made us feel like family. Such a special person. Love to Carol, Paul, Dave, Lyn and all the family xxxx
David and Christine Stevenson
December 1, 2020
Brian and family, my sincere sympathy on the passing of your grandmother. May she rest in oeace
Laura Prete
December 1, 2020
Dear Carol, I am saddened to hear about your Mom. I met her years ago, when her and my Mom played Maj together. She was always a sweetheart. May her memory be for a blessing
Joyce Berg
November 30, 2020
Dear Carol, I am so very sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. My sincere condolences to you and your family.
Lynne Berg
November 30, 2020
Michael Bernstein
November 30, 2020
I´m very sorry Dave. Peace to you and family. Sincerely, coach K Garcea
Coach Garcea
November 30, 2020
You are all in my thoughts today. So sorry for your loss. Debbie was such a sweet person and will be greatly missed.
Chase Bernstein
November 30, 2020
I wii miss our phone visits every Sunday morning but you will always be in my heart and in my memories!!!
Rocky Bernstein
November 30, 2020
Carol, so deeply sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. Hold the good memories close. Caring thoughts for you and your family.
Toni White
November 30, 2020
Aunt Debby was always a wonderful aunt and godmother to me and I'll miss her greatly. Our thoughts and love go to Dave, Lynn, Carol, Paul and the rest of the family in Buffalo.
Mike Bernstein
November 30, 2020
Thinking of you all today. No matter how old we are it’s not easy to lose your mom. Much love, Helen
Helen Bernstein
November 30, 2020
So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you.
Bill & Sylvia Ludwig
November 30, 2020
Lynn I am so sorry for the loss of your Mother in law.. You and you family will be in my thoughts ans prayers. Kris
Kris Holtham
November 30, 2020
Dave and Lynne So very, very sorry for your loss. Deepest condolences to your whole family,
Cindy Young
November 30, 2020