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Williams, Jerome Paul "Jerry"

With hearts full of love and gratitude for all that he was, his family remembers the life of our beloved Jerome Paul "Jerry" Williams. Jerry was born into a large Lebanese family on December 19, 1958 in Niagara Falls, New York, to the late Emilyne (née Sowma) and Joseph N. Williams, the third child in what would grow to become a band of five brothers. Jerry, a lifelong Catholic whose devotion to his faith was deeply personal, leaves behind a legacy of hard work, entrepreneurship, patriotism, love of family, and meaningful and lasting friendships. Never one to follow the crowd, Jerry charted his own path from his earliest days in business. Spanning the industries of waste management, demolition, contracting, transportation, manufacturing, and real estate, Jerry's fifty-plus year career in business reflected a dynamic and truly entrepreneurial spirit. An extensive, and even exhaustive, list of his specific accomplishments, interests, and investments could never measure the true impact Jerry's vision and leadership had on his community and everyone with whom he worked. Always seeing opportunity where others saw obstacles, Jerry infused every venture with creativity and a refusal to settle for the expected or ordinary. Convention was no match for Jerry, which inspired - and frustrated - those of whom had the privilege of witnessing him in action. Jerry was open-hearted, authentic, and generous with everyone he loved. His family and friends all knew that he was the one to whom you made "the call" whatever you needed, you knew he would be there, with no judgment, no expectation of anything in return, and likely with a silver lining. He gave without needing recognition, and he cared without condition. His loyalty ran deep, and his friendships some lifelong, others newly forged, with many stemming from business relationships were among his greatest treasures. To know Jerry was to know his pride in his three children, Bridget, Brian, and Brandon, who each had more than a father in him he was a partner, a best friend, and a north star. It was Jerry's greatest joy to work alongside his children, teaching them everything he knew, but above all else, that "the harder you work, the luckier you get." Jerry was also recently engaged to the late Natalie Costa Sansivero, who is survived by her children, Gianna and Louis. Jerry and Natalie's mutual excitement for and delight in their life together was apparent to all those who crossed their path. In addition to his loving children, Jerry is also survived by his daughter-in-law Ashleigh, his daughter's fiancé Andrew, his son Brian's significant other Mackenzie, two grandsons, Greyson Paul and Jaxson Michael, four brothers, Joseph (Laura), James (Kathleen), Jon, and Jeffrey (Marla); Auntie May Jowdy, Uncle Fran and Aunt Marie Williams, Aunt Martha Williams Bennett, and countless cousins, nieces, and nephews. Jerry was also eagerly anticipating the birth of his first granddaughter. To all who knew and loved Jerry, in his honor, "Keep It Rolling." A memorial mass for Jerry will be celebrated on Thursday, August 7th, 2025 at 11 a.m. at St. Michael Church, 651 Washington Street, Buffalo, NY. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Variety Club The Children's Charity www.varietybuffalo.org.
Published by Buffalo News on Aug. 3, 2025.

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Linda Simpson

September 15, 2025

My condolences and prayers to you and your family.

James Reid (Garvey)

August 14, 2025

I have memories of Jerome a plenty. Not sure they would be the type of brushes for painting a picture. He was a deal maker, it´s better to take your cut from a number of deal´s. Than to take all the risks involved in one big deal. I can remember him talking to Uncle Harry and Harry always asked what kind of deals you working on?

He was a good guy, he didn´t take everything so personally. He had learned to evaluate, know both sides, decide with your head, not your heart. If your heart is in the way, walk away.

He told me not everyone can do what I do.

The hardest thing to find is loyalty, told me I give it so I get it back.

Just thoughts and Memories.

Garv

Paul and Rosie Antinori

August 11, 2025

Paul and I send our prayers to your family. Rosie and Paul Antinori

Joe Altobello

August 8, 2025

R.I.P. Jerry and Natalie

Mr Mrs Santo Candella

August 8, 2025

Santo has shared many mutual birthday breakfasts with Jerry ever December 19th. Our sincere condolences

Art M

August 7, 2025

I worked for Jerry for the last 15 years. He was a Great boss and friend.
He always had to have his toast cut on an angle.
He will be missed...

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Mike Farrow

August 7, 2025

Jerry was a great brother, mentor & friend. From doing business together to just hanging out and catching up, Jerry was smart, funny and lived life to the fullest. He will truly be missed. Praying for peace and comfort for the family today and in the days ahead.

Cheryl Andrew´s Milicia

August 7, 2025

Jerry: you were a wonderful classmate & friend..& and a great person!!. I pray for your family! May you rest in enter peace with Natalie & your parents & family..

Jason lizardo

August 7, 2025

My condolences to the Williams family & loved ones.

Kim Williams

August 6, 2025

May God bless the family and your memories carry you through this difficult time.

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Don and Kim Williams

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Bill MacDougall

August 6, 2025

FiftyFive years of knowing and working with you Jerry and I cannot recall anyone time we didn´t enjoy each others company. We taught and learned from each other but more important to me, was the respect and joy you gave my dad "Mac" and oh how he enjoyed educating you on the mechanics of repairing heavy construction equipment. I´ll surely miss you Jerry.

Brian maouad

August 6, 2025

In 2010, I was introduced to Jerry by a mutual friend. He said, "Brian, I want to introduce you to another Lebanese entrepreneur just like you. I know you guys will get along,". Interestingly, we both lived in Key West and Buffalo, sharing not only Lebanese roots and an entrepreneurial spirit but also a love for boating and water. We became close friends and confidants. Jerry started to call me "Cous" for cousin. I remember in one of our get-togethers, I met Jerry and his dad, Joe, for dinner in the Keys. His dad shared stories about his mom, how she disliked his dad's constant annoyance, and the Lebanese musical instrument he played, which reminded me of how my dad used to annoy my mom. That night, Jerry insisted on paying for dinner, but I refused - it´s a Lebanese thing - though Jerry always wanted to pay, and we often played heads or tails to decide who would. I lost that day, Jerry paid, and for whatever reason, I always lost more than I won in our encounters. Jerry was always generous and funny, loving, and outside our business talks, he often talked proudly about his kids. I can share dozens of stories that I love about Jerry that reflect the uniqueness of his soul. I will definitely miss you, Cous.
Love, Brian Maouad.

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Jennifer Gregoire

August 6, 2025

The team at Battistoni is deeply saddened by the loss of Jerry. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.

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Brian and Stacey Maouad

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The Costa Family

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Steve and Margie Basca

August 6, 2025

Sending heartfelt condolences to Jerry´s friends and family. We have heard so many touching stories of Jerry´s generosity, kindness, and friendship from his "Keys family"-Stephanie and Matt Ginthner.
May God give all, strength and comfort, at this difficult time of sorrow. May Jerry´s ( and Natalie´s) memory be eternal!

MaryLou Babyak

August 6, 2025

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Jim Williams

August 6, 2025

Jerry was a unique person. No one needed to tell him to think outside the box; he had no boxes. He would look at problems and opportunities with a 360 degree perspective that was his alone. If he had an important problem, idea or opportunity he would think about it day and night until he worked out how he would approach it. Sometimes, but not always, talking out loud about it over days or weeks while this process was going on. Once he settled on an approach he was relentless beyond reason, determined to the point of distraction and tireless in pursuing what he decided upon. If you were on his side there was no better coach, leader, partner or friend. If you were not on his side he could be a handful. You always knew what Jerry was thinking because he always told you without hesitation, reservation or reluctance. While he was charming, personable, kind and generous he had little or no concern about what others thought of him. He went though his life just being himself, his unique self and that is what I admire most about him.

John R Witt

August 6, 2025

My heart goes out to all of Jerry´s family, friends and loved ones at this very sad time. I met Jerry through a mutual `best friend´ in boating. Always a kind person to anyone that entered his life. This photo was a few years ago back when seeing him and some of his friends at a concert at Artpark. RIP Jerry and Natalie...

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Gary and Linda Rotundo

August 5, 2025

We have known Jerry for over 30 years and he will always be remembered for his kindness generosity's and his wonderful personality .Natalie was is perfect match. They will be truly missed.Condolences to their families.

John Ferraro

August 5, 2025

What a heavy heart saying goodbye to my close friend or as we would say brother of 35+ years is very tough. I have many great memories of our friendship that I will always keep deep in my heart. I will miss our talks about business and how our conversation always ended with our children. Rest in peace. Love you, brother.

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Nina Smith

August 5, 2025

An honor and delight to have known Jerry . He will truly be missed .

Jenny Brokaw

August 5, 2025

I was so sorry to hear about Jerry´s passing. My heart goes out to your family during this incredibly difficult time. I always enjoyed seeing him when he stopped by our company - he had such a kind presence, and he´ll truly be missed. God Bless

Sandra Stahlman

August 5, 2025

My sincerest condolences to you Jeff, and to your family. Sending love and prayers.

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Peter Barrett

August 5, 2025

I am one of the many thousands of people whose lives were made better for having known Jerry. I served as a driver for Jerry and was proud to have his confidence for over 25 years. I have the deepest respect and admiration for Jerry as he has been nothing but kind and generous to me over the years. We made many trips together and Jerry shared much of his personal and professional wisdom. He was so proud of his family, his children and grandchildren and of course his soul mate, Natalie. My heart goes out in grief with all of the Williams family and my prayers are for healing from this difficult time

Gjergj M Hajati

August 5, 2025

Rest in Peace Jerry, "Paste Drite" You were one of a kind!!
May There Be Light Wherever You Are.
Gjergj M Hajati & Family

Scott George

August 5, 2025

Jerry was one of the best people I was lucky enough to know. We celebrated many mutual birthdays he shared with my father over the years. Key West won´t be the same without him for many. Our hearts are broken, but also full for being able to know this wonderful man. Generous and thoughtful.

Catherine Basca

August 4, 2025

I met Jerry just a few times. My son in law Matt and my daughter Stephanie knew him and Natalee. When I spoke with Jerry the conversation was delightful. He adored Matt and Stephanie. He was a father figure to both. He will be missed . I am thankful for having the privilege of meeting him. God bless the family for your loss

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Cindy Messina

August 4, 2025

I did not know this fine gentleman but know someone who did...my heart breaks for you all...may he and Natalie rest in forever sweet peace...may our Lord strengthen you all during this very tragic time.

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Cindy Becker

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Michael Panepinto

August 4, 2025

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Tom Jacob

August 4, 2025

Jerry was a good friend, good man and will be missed by soon many.

Anthony J. Cutaia

August 4, 2025

We have lost a very special, brilliant and caring person. His advice, friendship, and insight will be missed every day for all who knew him.

John L Hutchins

August 4, 2025

It was my honor to call Jerry my friend and neighbor. We will miss him and Natalie.

Denys and Jeff Hubbard

August 4, 2025

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We are so deeply sorry for your loss. Sincere condolences, Denys and Jeff

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Mary Beth Spacone

August 4, 2025

Williams family, offering my sincere condolences and prayers for the loss of your beloved, Jerry. May his soul rest peacefully as he is reunited with Natalie and he guides and protects you all from above.

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The Deveaux Crew

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Matt and Stephanie Ginthner

August 4, 2025

Jerry was like a father figure for my wife and I and cared for us like an extension of his own family. He was such a fun person to be around. His "Florida Keys fam" is going to miss him greatly and will "Keep it rolling" by carrying on living our lives using the inspiring wisdom and knowledge he passed down to us all.
Natalie will always be remembered for her incredible kindness and love she spread to everyone she came in contact with. She always was the light of his life and could always put a smile on his face.
They will each be dearly missed.

Nancy Zappola

August 4, 2025

My deepest sympathy to his family and friends. I looked forward to Jerry´s return in key west each winter. He is a kind and generous man and taken too soon. We will all miss him at Prime steakhouse and seeing him each winter.

Lisa Dorato

August 4, 2025

My deepest condolences, for the loss of Jerry, he was such an amazing person, selfless, funny, kindhearted, and so many other things. I had the pleasure of really getting to know Jerry 30 years ago when i worked at Mr. B´s for his close friend Richard Buccanera, he was always kind to share his wisdom in Business, which led me to opening my own that i owned and operated for over 20 years. You and Natalie will be so missed! May perpetual light shine upon you both in Jesus Name Amen

Mark Hess

August 4, 2025

An honorable man. Jerry will be missed greatly.

Irene M Felicetti

August 3, 2025

I´m so deeply sorry for your loss.
The loss of both parties involved in such a horrific tragedy.May you heal with Gods grace. Amen

Paul

August 3, 2025

Jerry was a very impressive business man. One of my favorite memories was the during the 2016 election night in Niagara falls watch party he and I were two of the five people who stayed to the end. My wife and I have enjoyed spending time with both Jerry and Nat over the past several years.

Tammy Jackson

August 3, 2025

Jerry was such a great kind, unselfish man.I met him back in the 90´s when he used to come into our salon and also hang at shark club watching bands.I used to clean his boat on my day off. when my grand daughter passed away he came to my daughter / son in laws home and personally delivered a check to help them out. He will be very missed ,my heartfelt condolences to all whom loved him

Dr. Riyaz Hassanali

August 3, 2025

Jerry was one of those rare individuals who gave of himself quietly but wholeheartedly. A true friend in every sense, he went above and beyond to help others-not for recognition, but simply because that´s who he was. His kindness and generosity often flew under the radar, known best by those fortunate enough to be on the receiving end.

We shared countless coffees at our favorite spots and dinners at JT´s whenever we found ourselves in the same city. Our conversations covered everything-from politics to investments to updates on our families. With Jerry, you never walked away without having learned something new or feeling inspired by his perspective.

He absolutely adored Natalie, and the three of us shared many good and memorable evenings together-filled with laughter, good food, and thoughtful conversation. Those memories will always stay close to my heart.

Jerry was more than just a friend-he was a trusted advisor, a sounding board, and someone whose presence made life better. I´ll miss him deeply, but I´ll always carry his wisdom, his warmth, and his quiet strength with me.

Rest in peace, my friend. You and Natalie will be missed more than words can say-but your spirit lives on in all of us who had the privilege of knowing you.

Sam Civiletto

August 3, 2025

Marianne and I extend our heartfelt sympathies and sincere condolence´s to the family and friends of Jerry . Jerry and his parents and siblings were our next door neighbors while living in Niagara Falls. You are assured of our continuing thoughts and prayers and we trust that all the cherished and treasured memories and times of joy will provide some measurement of comfort and peace in the difficult days ahead. Sam Civiletto

Danny Reynolds

August 3, 2025

Jerry was my friend from the very first time we met over 35 years ago, we´ve shared times together from out for breakfast to drinks and a concert to just sitting on my front porch and talking about life , when i wanted to leave my job of 20 years and start my own business I told him I´m scared Jerry he was genuine and gave his advice to step forward and do it he said he knew I´d do just fine and because of his reassurance I did it and I did great for 25 years, once in a while he would stop in my shop to see how I was doing,I can go on and on , in life we meet a lot of people and some will touch you deeply in the heart and that is what Jerry did to me , I can say with all honesty he was a special man and I´ll always hold him in my heart and memories for the rest of my life, rest in peace my friend

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Paul cambria

August 3, 2025

Wonderful person father friend gone way too soon he was a star in every category he will be missed by many. RIP old friend it was my honor to know you

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