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John TOCKE Obituary

TOCKE - John E. Of Kenmore, July 29, 2013, beloved son of Gregory and Dawn Stefano Tocke; grandson of the late Joseph and Melva Tocke, Edward and Marion Stefano, and stepson of the late Annette Stefano; dear nephew of David, Joseph (Mary Alice), Gary (Susanne) Tocke, Carol (late Jesse) Daugherty, Dale (Cindy) Stefano, Marilyn Tonnies; grandnephew of Ruth and Robert Roberts; also survived by many cousins; best friend of Joseph Pacillo (fiance;e Kelly Brennan). Friends are invited to a Mass of Christian Burial at St. John the Baptist RC Church, 1085 Englewood Ave. at Belmont Ave., Kenmore, Saturday at 9:30 AM. Please assemble at church. Interment, Mt. Olivet Cemetery. Arrangements by D. LAWRENCE GINNANE FUNERAL HOME, www.ginnanefuneralhome.com

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Published by Buffalo News on Aug. 1, 2013.

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Theresa B.

August 10, 2013

Dawn: You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. As always I look to my positive thoughts for inspiration. I wish you light in your darkest hours. When life seems to be confusing or empty, and when your path seems to be hidden in the shadows of pain, doubt, despair, or unrest may you find the light inside of you that will help you to see things as they truly are, for every night comes to an end, every storm comes to an end, every storm runs its course, and light and peace always return to us. Your son was blessed to have you for a mother. Regards, Theresa Burruano

Dena Hewett

August 6, 2013

Dawn and Greg I am so sorry for your loss! I know John was your everything! I will keep you in my prayers and I know that John is now in a better place! Love you Dena

Cheryl, Mike, Jen , Mike , Kim Braunscheidel

August 4, 2013

Dawn & Greg can't tell you how shocked and sad I felt about your son so sorry to hear such a wonderful boy has been taken away from you out family sends our love I'm sorry we couldn't come in person to pay our respects but we were out of town love to you all

August 3, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you. Sue Holmes

Jim Meyer

August 3, 2013

I am very sorry for your loss.

Julie Davis

August 3, 2013

Dawn and Greg,
I remember John flying across the yards on a sled towed by Jetta. The look on his face was pure joy, he laughed because I thought that the sled was moving too fast. He was a fine young man and always kind to my girls. I am shocked and sad. So sorry for your loss. Your family is in our prayers.
Brad and Julie Davis

Marj Herman Fleet

August 2, 2013

Dawn and Greg, I'm feeling so sad over your loss. Have faith that God will give you strength and courage to face the days ahead.

Anne Marie Past

August 2, 2013

Dear Dawn & Greg,
Words can't express how sadden I am for your loss. It seems like only yesterday when we watched our boys wrestling at Ken West. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers for the days ahead. Please call me if you need to talk.

Marilyn Jackson

August 2, 2013

You don't have to see God's face to know he hears all the prayers for you and smiles upon you now with Love. The Lord your God is in your midst. Zephaniah 31:17 We so enjoyed Johns presence at RPI, he will be missed. Love, Sis & Chuck and family

Thomas Blendowski

August 2, 2013

Dear Lord! I am so sorry for your lost Greg. no words will help comfort you. But let me say he is in a better place. I know how much sorrow you are going though. if you need any help or a ear to listen I am here for you. your friend at work Tom Blendowski

August 2, 2013

Dear Dawn and Greg, We cannot express how very sad we are to hear of the passing of your beloved son, John. There are no words. We pray that God will hold you and help you through all the days ahead and that John rests in His heavenly peace. Our deepest sympathy. Sue and Jim Koller

Colleen & Bob Proehl

August 2, 2013

Dear Dawn and Greg....remember this.
Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted. (Matthew 5:4)
May it be a source of inner strength to know that there's a loving God watching over you, and that, throughout this time of need, He'll stay close by your side.
Our thoughts and prayers are with during this difficult time.
God Bless
Colleen & Bob Proehl

laura insalaco

August 2, 2013

Mike and I are so so very sorry for the loss of John. He was such a nice person and I know how much you loved him. I feel like I know everything about him just because of how much you talked about him and how proud you were of him and what he was doing in his life. I cant express enough how sad we are for you and your family. We are always thinking of you and iam praying for you every day.we are so sorry for the loss of john. We love you and please know there are so many people thinking and praying for you right now. Love always laura and mike

August 2, 2013

Dawn and Greg,
I cannot even imagine the depth of your sorrow. Please know a multitude of prayers are being offered up to give you strength now and in the days ahead.

Amanda

August 1, 2013

Heartfelt sympathies to your family.
John was one of the nicest people I know. We will miss him.

August 1, 2013

Dawn and Greg,
We are so saddened by this. John was a nice, respectful young man. We will miss him. Thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Dan, Julie, Ben, Quinn and Emma

Pat Atkinson-Kras

August 1, 2013

So sorry to hear about your loss....I will keep you in my prayers.

August 1, 2013

Dawn and Greg

So sorry to hear the sad news about John. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time.

Dennis, Catherine, Sean and Brian Sutton

August 1, 2013

DAWN AND GREG-
I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU..CHRISTINE LIGHT

August 1, 2013

Thoughts and prayers are with your family.
The Palistrant family

Brent Daugherty

August 1, 2013

Caren and I are so sorry for your loss. Having been there ourselves, we know the feeling of helplessness and despair that you are going through at this time. Know in your heart, that his pain is gone and that he is in a better place. Feel free to contact us if you feel the need to talk.

Sandy Umfreville-King

August 1, 2013

I am so very sorry for the loss of your son. I will continue to pray for your family. God bless.

Lindsey

August 1, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time. John was always so friendly at work

Dennis & Kathie Schooley

August 1, 2013

Dawn & Greg...we are so saddened to learn this news about your dear son John.
Please know we have you and your families in our hearts and prayers.

Christa Mike

August 1, 2013

Dawn and Greg,

Our hearts and thoughts are with you at this difficult time. Please know we are here in any way we can help our neighbors and may your higher power help you find the strength you need at this time.
With love,
Christa and Mike

Judy Wagner

August 1, 2013

So saddened to hear of the death of John. My prayers are with you and your family. Love from you distant cousin.

August 1, 2013

Dawn and Greg,
Our hearts are filled with sadness at the loss of John. We are praying for Gods comfort for you and your family.
Chuck and Patti Kuehlewind

Carol Campas

August 1, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with you. may God Bless and Keep you until you meet again.

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