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for John Zbock
Gavin
February 28, 2018
I miss you dad
November 18, 2013
Remember when_____ ?------ so many memories were made in the past, present and willi be made n the future!!!! So happy for all of those that included you dear brother ! You told us to stop crying once and that helped us to embrace happiness. And to move forward -----thanks Johnny, your sis...Cyndi xoxo
November 15, 2013
....Lump in my throat, tears in my eyes...I still miss you and others that have gone before ...someday we will have that great reunion in the skies and that helps to think about that!!!! Xoxo Johnny---sis.
Andrea Flanagan
November 15, 2013
John, you would be so proud I the hurdles that Colleen and the kids have overcome since your passing. All of the great achievements of the kids..Gavin has become quite the baller! And the girls... They get more beautiful by the day! Colleen has managed to find happiness again. I was worried about this because she was so dedicated to you... And her broken heart has began mending. Thank you or sending her someone who can make her smile almost as much as you did. Well, john! You've done a great job from up there watching, protecting, and sending the family what the need in their times of need! Take care!
November 17, 2012
Johnny, I was just thinking about you today))))
November 14, 2012
My prayers and thoughts to your family.
November 14, 2012
Think about u everyday. Xo colleen
February 29, 2012
Today is ur birthday Zbock .. Thinking & missing u!! Always! Xoxo
October 14, 2011
Miss you zbock
Darcy Q
September 22, 2011
Zbock ,
just needed to say that u are missed so greatly still. u r thought of more than u know. scott made a sketch picture of u & donnie has one. i got it framed for his bday & he keeps it on his dresser close to him. it's beautiful , it's still so hard to believe ur not here w us but when i see ur children & colleen i see u too. we miss u so so much & i'm glad i can write to u like this, somehow i feel like u hear me. and no matter how many days, weeks, years pass u will always b with us..always! it hurts bad still & i will cherish the great times we all spent together ! we will never forget. miss u & love u!
August 4, 2011
miss you
Cyndi Taylor
February 19, 2011
It's almost our birthdays Johnny...many birthday memories...will never forget the day you and Jason were born...such a happy big sister : )
love always~* Cyndi~*
February 18, 2011
thinking about you alot lately
November 7, 2010
Love always Johnny ~~ big sis Cyndi~
November 6, 2010
missing you dearly
Darcy Q
November 1, 2010
Hi Zbock-
Missing, loving, and thinking of you. A little over 2yrs now that you were takin from us and yet it feels like yesterday. You are just loved soooooo much by so so many... I know a piece of Donnie was taken away with you that day as well. He loves you Zbock(as we all do). And wish so badly that you were here with us. I was told once that we really should only feel sad,worry and miss our loved ones when we dont know where they are, when they are lost... and as hard as it is to try to let that bring us any comfort at all..we do know you are in a much better place Zbock. A beautiful, loving, and pain free place. The place where we will see all our loved ones again someday,and be together again.... With Love Always-
October 14, 2010
Missing You.
Colleen<3
October 13, 2010
i miss u loads. two years and I miss u more than ever. i feel u near but your so far away.. i love u.
Jolyn Flick
May 28, 2010
Say "HI" to my Dad for me John and give him a big hug.
colleen zbock
May 12, 2010
Mark this day Sat Aug 21st. 2nd Annual John Zbock Memorial Golf Outing. More details to follow.
carol DeCarlo
April 25, 2010
hello my little brother. missing you more than ever before. I had a great time with your whole fantastic family this week . Everything was wonderful. Everyone said how they wish you were there ....oh but you were... every minute. You are always there. alyssa had a video of you on her phone with gavin . ( the no cupcake video) She said she had it and I immediately wanted to see it . She showed it to me and I saw you there, right there, with gavin chasing him around and right there, for that split second ,I saw you . and immediately burst into tears ! its just that i have felt you and talked to you for it seems like forever but havent seen you like that except in my dreams for a long time. Its your kids that snap me out of my sadness because they are so much like you . I see so much of you and colleen in them the best of both of you . and that my little brother is how one part of you lives on . no one can ever take that away . love you carol
April 23, 2010
Thinking of you John...We miss you every single day...Your kids are an amazing reflection of who you are and are every bit who you would want them to be...We love you..Tommy & Lorraine
carol DeCarlo
March 2, 2010
My Brother If I could have one lifetime wish one dream come true I would pray to God with all my heart for yesterday and you. A thousand words cant bring you back I know because I've tried and neither will a million tears I know because I've cried You left behind broken hearts and happy memories too . But I never wanted memories I only wanted you. To find your resting place I go flowers are placed with care But nobody knows the heartache I feel as I turn and leave you there. I love and miss you so much johnny Your sister Carol Birthday wishes and thoughts of you everyday
Darcy Q
March 1, 2010
Hi Zbock. I am writing this after midnight so technically its March 1st , but today is you bday. Well the 28th. And I know damn well that you, Donnie, Pat and all your friends wouldve been out this weekend celebrating you, as youve done so many times before. We know how those nights go sometimes huh- lol. Anyway I still wanted to acklowedge your bday. Your presence is sooo strong here still. Donnie has a real hard time still talking about you. He got a tattoo for you, its very beautiful. He spent most of the day today with Pat, they needed to be with eachother today.My sister and Pat moved in down the street from us now and their baby girl is just amazing. I cant explain just how much you are missed, everyday. Every damn day Zbock. Days pass without you here, somehow, I dont know how things just go on..Donnie misses you sooo, as we all do. So goodnight for now Zbock. With love always...
December 24, 2009
Merry Christmas John , I miss u so much. Christmas shopping without u was so hard. Walking around the mall alone- watching others laugh, smile, hold hands.. that was hard to watch because I remember when we did that.I shopped this year without our list w the budget on it - just because I thought I had it down pat... I know I spent to much on something and could hear you say "Colleen! thats wasnt in the budget!" lol- I miss that. I miss alot. Each day that goes by i am still waiting for u to walk in the door .. I can't seem to grasp that is not going to happen anymore. Its so silent without u here - I miss u grabbing the kids and wrestling around w them. And when it came time to open the gifts..I would watch their eyes shine as they opened them - and then I would watch you smile and be proud because it was how you worked so hard all year and made Christmas happen... you always made things happen. I forever love u and will never forget what was my greatest gift - you and your love
October 29, 2009
Thank you for keeping this Guest book open... it was very kind and thoughtful. It truly has helped us share our wishes, thoughts and prayers. Our appreciation goes beyond words. Thank you - The Zbock Family
October 29, 2009
When I anonymously paid to have this guest book online for a year, I never realized what an impact it would have on me. I knew John as a friend of my son, and I also knew Marie as a friend of mine. It breaks my heart to know how sad his family is without his physical presence, but it makes me happy to know that this guest book has provided an outlet or a quiet place where people can feel like they are talking directly to John. Deep in my heart, I know he can hear how much we all miss him. I feel that he is now protecting his family and friends "from the other side." We all need some spiritual protection to help us through our day and Johns death, although devastating, gives us the strength to carry on in his memory. He still guides us through the difficult days and provides us comfort through the help of other people. When it comes time to renew the guest book, I will keep it on indefinitely. When I read heartfelt messages from the children, it breaks my heart for a moment, and then helps me realize that my day may not be so bad afterall. God Bless Colleen and her beautiful children who reflect his image. His spirit lives on within them. We will never forget John's genuine love and guidance.
October 28, 2009
Johnny---> (and all who love(d)him),
----> we are all in pain without you JP, but we will see, hug,& laugh with you/him again in Heaven...
We will have a great reunion in the skies---it will be forever and there will be no pain or sorrow. I hold onto that hope because I know that it is so...
I see you in each of the eyes of family each time we get together we share the same blood...
I will never forget the day Mom told me she was pregnant with twins and I was there to see your first photo/ ultrasound---Mom was thrilled beyond words that she would have you and Jason... I could hold you in one hand and Jason in the other you were so small...I bet you are laughing right now about a few other funny memories!
And I can imagine Mom is keeping you pretty busy saying, Look.look at all my grandbabies---I'm so proud of them!
Keep watching over the family & friends Johnny, and put in a good word for all of us---we shall meet again---and I'm looking forward to all those heavenly hugs!!
I know are aware of our love.
Love from your biggest sis,
Cyndi <
Alyssa Zbock
October 26, 2009
Dad,
I don't even know what to say. All i can say right now at this very moment, i am missing you. Everyday this is what i feel. i wake up in the morning wanting to see your freah baked pancakes waiting for me on the table, along with my apple juice and a piecce of toast. You are the only one who knows how i like my breakfast. Mom tries to make them as good as you but, don't get me wrong it is a close second but not the same.
I miss you, even though i know you are still with me i miss you.People say as the days, weeks, months, and years go by you will feel less hurt. When do i feel less hurt. When do i not cry myself to sleep? These things can only be cured by my daddy.
I love you and i ache because you are gone. i try to keep busy and npt think about it. But every second of everyday i do. i think about you. i wonder what i did to deserve having my dad token away from me so suddenly. I am at a loss of words for you my father. i will always remeber you by the way you were not the way you were in the coffen. i love and miss you is what i am trying to say.But everytime i try to say it, emotions spill out. I know many others are heartbroken as well but, i don't think anyone misses you as much as i do. Everytime i come across 11:11 people say make a wish.Some people wish for millions of dollars, wanna know what i wish for, i wish for my daddy to come back. i wish for one last hug, on last word. And the sad thing is, i never got to say good bye. i love you daddy.
darcy q
September 21, 2009
its almost a year now. a day i never forget- a day that changed me, a day i think about somedays- all day. zbock you were a rock for donnie, someone he could break himself against and you would still be solid, pulling him up. you were always someone who he loved to be with, you probably know more about him than i do, you most definately know more about donnie and i than he'll ever admit to, but i knew he had you for these reasons and many many more. i'm thankful for you. i'm also mad that you're not here for him anymore, i get so damn mad sometimes, i wanna yell at you. its hard so hard to see everyone in pain, but thats how much you are loved. you left everyone with if not 100 at least 1 special, specific, genuine moment that stays and lasts forever. coll if read this i know i haven't done enough for and or with you, i have no excuses except that its hard and it hurts so deep that i want to scream for you and your children and donnie too. life is different now, somehow the days go on and the earth continues to rotate without you here. zbock your family is beautiful, compassionate and caring as you are. i only know that donnie found you and there is only one you, no one can or will ever measure up. people do say the hurt heals with time, but i think time goes on and we learn, cope and compensate to be here without you, but the pain- that stays. coll, kara, lyss, and gavin you are all loved so deeply, but i know you all know that and if i could comfort you all and spare you from anymore pain i would. God bless you all and zbock we love you, i know you are in a good place, a place that we will embrace eachother again,until that day you are in our hearts, souls, smiles, tears and moments of joy in memories that you gave each of us and that will hold onto us forever. as always loving, thinking, and praying for all of us who lost a husband, daddy, brother, son, cousin, and a friend, a great friend in zbock (johnny).
Darcy Q.
Colleen
March 10, 2009
As you can see John - we always knew --no matter what obstacles were thrown at us- we were doing at least one thing right- and that was raising beautiful, strong, brilliant children. Our love forever grows in them and I hope I can just keep continuing to stay strong through them. The heaviness in my heart is most often lifted by their smiles. One more way I know your spirit is still here and alive is through the beautiful friendships made the past 33 years. You once again brought MANY MANY people back together to celebrate your life. I am so proud to be your wife and mother to your children. That is the only reason why I am able to hold my head high.
How could I sit here and complain
When my 3 children are the one's in pain
Teaching them their fathers way
Will be the path we have to stay.
Dedication, Friendship, togetherness
and keeping the moments of happiness.
We love and miss you John xoxo
your wife forever
Alyssa Zbock
March 9, 2009
daddy,
i know u r still with us but it feels so weird with out ur big hugs and ur warm heart...... i really miss u and cant beleive i came this far with out u. and the pain in my heart is soo painful and deep. yet i no u r still here. mom kara and gavin r fine.... Kara came home with a bf the other day! i am just pulling ur leg she didnt and gavin likes a girl in his class named jamie and for mom she is having fun re-paint the house haha and i have to tell u.... i have been spending some time with uncle scotty and i have to say.... u picked one heck of a friend..... he is amazing and sooo suppotive... as for aunt carol she is doing so well and she is soo strong...as u no she has had surgery and now i think she has had about 4 of the SAME surgey with staples or something... and oh before i forget kara got a retaner (at least i thik tht is how u spell it!) and sugar (our doggy) knows ur gone to she waits on the couch waiting for u too come home and i keep tring to tell her tht no matter what she does he isnt going to come and cuddle.... he is gone. and it doesnt feel right with out u here and u have been gone for soo long.
And mom is re-taking her bords soon. and i have faith in her. she is definatly going to pass it this time... and i have to say the benefit scotty , dan and so many others put together foru was amazing. ther were irish dancers, and over 1,000 baskets! It was great u would have been soo tremdiously proud! we love u and miss u daddy and bby the way i just got over a nasty synis infection it was horrible! and this week is like u have to fwd ur clock 1hr ahead... and i think we both no tht i cant even get up at my normal time! and u def should no because u r the one who had to wake me up every single morning and i can asure u it is still the same way! hahaa well i got to get going daddy but i love and miss u and hope god is taking good care of u
your (favorite) daughter Alyssa <3
Lisa Rosati
February 27, 2009
John,
I felt it necessary to write in this book to let you know, you have some amazing friends and the most amazing wife and children. Your Friends Dan and Scott (plus many others) have put together an amazing benefit in your honor. You would be so proud! They put this together from their heart and the love that everyone has for you is so grand it can't be put into words. Know that you are loved, Know that your wife and children are in GOD'S GREAT HANDS.... and you will forever remain in my heart and memory.
Cheryl Flick
February 24, 2009
Benefit in memory of John Zbock, Jr. on Saturday, Feb. 28th, 6pm at the Statler Towers, Downtown Buffalo. Tickets are $25 each, includes admission, food and drinks. Chinese auctions, silent raffles, etc. Call Dan 880-6694 or Cheryl 984-7642 for tickets, will be available at the door, but not many. Thanks for the interest, we hope to see you there to support John's family!
unknown unknown
February 23, 2009
I know a little bit about the benefit coming up for John on 2/28. Can you send some details out here so we can get the best turn out for his family. We love you! Thanks
katie Campbell
February 21, 2009
I MISS YOU JOHN !
carole decarlo
February 15, 2009
hey you... happy valentines day... I love you and miss you so much. Yesterday was tough. really tough i cried all day and couldnt stop , I went to see you and bring you the valentines day bear you once gave to me... thinking that going to see you might help me get control of the crying ... but it didnt. I only cried more. I missed not hearing your voice yesterday calling me , going over any gift ideas, hearing how your days are going, how work is, i just miss you and this whole thing is so unfair... i miss our 2 hr talks every week... sometimes every couple days... now instead of you telling me how everything is , im telling you everyday... you would like the house its really coming along nicely.. the other day i finished up by organizng the girls room, and changed around you and colleens room yea remember you would always say... naaaa not now carol we will change it next week well i did it and i think you helped me that day cause it looks great...colleen and the kids are doing good ... but you are very much forever missed everyday miss your hugs and your voice... little brother happy valentines day love you
kate
January 31, 2009
hey john,
i just wanted to say happy valintines day i know its early but happy v day to you, i miss you i was ovr at the house last night with the kids, and they seem to be doing good and colleen is going back to work on feb 2nd i think i am going to give her a dozen roses thats if i can aford it lol. but i see you in that house every time i go over there so u are never gone from us ur still here i know it. :) john i love you. love kate
kayli christ
January 30, 2009
dear alyssa and family
well i know i am very late on holidays but happy valentines day and to alyssa happy birthday but have a happy hoilday and see you at school
kayli christ
carol decarlo
January 11, 2009
i cant stop missing you. everyone said that it would get easier but its not ..every night i go to bed thinking of you ...every morning i wake up wanting to call you or come over and see you or just hang out together. i feel like a crazy person ...do you know how many times ive reached for the phone to call you . ?! i keep repeating to myself i want my brother back! i keep making deals with god like i will do anything , anything... just to hug him lord , just give him back ! ive many times said take me just give him back. i know your in a good place johnny you told me theres so much love. ..i just wish you were here , though. i keep thinking of the first day you came home from the hospital and all the days watching you grow up all your friends and sport events and think of all the laughs we had together,all the stuff we did with mom and my kids. i always think of mom everyday, many times 2 or 3 times a day now i think of you too... it helps a little to know your with mom. i miss you little brother and nothing will ever change that . so thats all i can do is continue to think of the good times and watch over your wife and children just like you and i promised ... luv u 4eva little brother
Scott Flick
January 10, 2009
JP
Hey buddie. I don't know why they don't just check me in. I get my "fill" of Johnny by writing entries into an online guest book for the whole world to see when the only one I want to read them is gone.
Your wife's birthday was a blast. We all missed you. Your children planned the whole damn thing. All of it! I'm so proud of them. What a blast.
It's just dawned on me that I have just begun the start of a new year for the first time w/o my buddie since like 1981. I wanted to be able to share w/ you the moments when our girls got their prom dresses or when our boys threw their first no-hitter. Now I cant. It's not fair.
What happens when I need to buy a new car? I have never bought a car without taking you to check it out first. Seriously.
I just wish that I returned more of your phone calls. There were so many of those mono-toned voice mails you left me that I never bothered with. Jolyn kept telling me to call you back and I kept saying, "I'll call him tomorrow". You were not a nag, I was just lazy. There's a mulligan I wish I'd have back for sure!
I still miss you my friend. A great deal. Save a seat up there for me JP. Hopefully it's awhile, but it'll be worth the wait. Take it easy buddie.
Happy New Year!
Kiana Pitman
January 4, 2009
dear Zbock Family,
Merry Christmas and happy New Year. I hope all of you got what you wanted this year. And Alyssa I'll have your gift waiting for you at school in the morning on Monday. Gavin, Kara, And Mrs. Zbock, sorry but Had to use my own Money for gifts this year and I don't have any leftover money at the moment. I'll try and do more around the house to earn a raise in my allowance to get you all something. Anyways, My deepest Sympathies and prayers go out to you and all of your family
P.S. When Is the Benefit?
colleen gavin john at owen's christining party 2008
January 4, 2009
Scott Flick
December 27, 2008
JP,
One day removed from Christmas and we are all just so down. This whole "everything happens for a reason" thing is boggling my mind. Seriously? How is there a better place for you than right here?
As expected, this week was difficult. Emotions were pretty high, but your wife and kids carried themselves well. Everyone seemed to chip in to help make their Christmas as good as it could be. That must make you feel good.
I don't know why you died Johnny. We need you here. You were a good son. A loving husband. Devoted father and dear friend. Why? I just don't get it.
I drew a picture of you and gave it to Colleen yesterday. She cried. We all did. I was depressed most of the time I was doing it. Whenever Garrett came into the room to see what I was doing, he climbed up and said, "Daddy, that's John Zbock" I always ask him if he remembers you and he always says yes w/ a smile. I ask where you are and he says in heaven. With who, I ask. He replies, "with Jesus".
I think it's fitting my friend that he knows that, this week in particular. I have to force myself to remember that you are w/ our Maker and he must be taking good care of you right now. I bet your sad too. It's selfish of me to assume that we're the only ones suffering. I am sorry.
So, on this day, I say God Bless You and Merry Christmas. We all love and miss you so very, very much.
See you soon.
katie campbell
December 24, 2008
dec 24th 2008,
x mas eve and i remember u used to come over to moms house with col and the kids i just cant get my head around the fact ur not going to be coming thru that door anymore its gonna be hard for me to ge thru that but colleen and the kids are doing ok john i miss you everyday and i just wanna thank you for being the greatest brother in law u are very special to all of us and everytime i eat might taco i think of you. i miss you buddy, love kate
myranda jordan
December 19, 2008
just like when my grandpa died i said to my family god needed someone good by his side but now i am going to say it to you god needed someone good by his side and he picked john. i didnt know him at all. but in my heart something tells me that he was a very good person and dad.so i am sorry for your loss. and allyssa i am sorry.
Scott Flick
December 14, 2008
JP,
3 months and this feels worse in a way. I've been told by hundreds of people, it gets better. When?
This will be short. I saw Gavin play basketball for the first time today. It was a blast. He played aggressive defense but didn't score. His teammates cared enough to look for him often and each shot he took, he was closer. Afterwords, he was all smiles. Just like you.
Alyssa spent the night and we had a blast. She's getting there. Slowly, but surely, she's getting there.
The "Border Patrol's" run came to an end last week. Kara was glued to the computer all day, calling every hour. Not this time I guess.
Last night, your work honored you w/ employee of the year. I was not there, but Col went, escorted by your twin. I hear it was real special.
As I leave, I want to say that your deeply missed. You were a special friend JP. See you soon.
Scott Flick
November 27, 2008
Johnny Patrick,
I can't sleep. Others say they have dreams of you. I don't. I wish I did. I miss you my friend. It's Thanksgiving today and it does not seem right that we all have to go on w/ our lives without you.
It sounds strange, but I don't worry for you at all. I'm sure the Good Lord has blessed you w/ all the Mighty Taco & coffee you can endure. It's all of us you left behind that saddens me. I hurt every day. Real, aching-heart pain. Hourly John.
Your family is so strong. You'd be proud of each of them, for such different reasons. They seem to feed off each other. What one might lack, another seems to make up for. It amazes me.
Today is supposed to be about giving thanks. How the hell am I supposed to do that when me best friend is gone? Don't get me wrong, I am blessed just as you were, but I still miss you. These wounds are so deep. I am grateful, because I got to be your friend for all these years. I will treasure them forever.
I imagine you see all that goes on around here still. You should know your son is becoming more of a man each day. Your girls are sweet, funny, sensitive kids who really get it. And Col, are you kidding? I knew she was a strong person, but this is rediculous. She'll be just fine my friend. You chose one hell of a woman .
Oh, by the way, it is a week premature, but I think the "Border Patrol" fantasy team of yours is slotted for a 6/7 spot in the playoffs and should have enough to pull this thing off. I'll do my best.
I miss you JP. Take care.
Tony & Sue Cross
November 26, 2008
Dear Colleen & Family,
Wishing you all a Happy Thanksgiving. You are in our thoughts and prayers each and every day.
******* *****
November 26, 2008
I have added photos to the guest book since it has stayed online - thank you to "anonymous" for keeping this online 'til 2009!!! I appreciate it . *******
Graduation Trocaire 2008
November 26, 2008
John coaching Gavin during football NCAAA Titans
November 26, 2008
John and Colleen at a wedding in August 2008
November 26, 2008
This was the day before - 10/13- we went pumpkin picking
November 26, 2008
John jr and John Sr August 2008
November 26, 2008
Sean Garrett
November 25, 2008
Rest in Peace John, you were a good man and it was a pleasure to know you. I shall ALWAYS remember you with respect & fondness.
"....But those who wait for the Lord shall find their strength renewed, they shall mount up on wings like eagles, they shall run and not grow weary, they shall walk and not grow faint." (Isaiah)
--- alis aquilae -- (on eagles wings)
Christine Schwartz Mach
November 20, 2008
Colleen and family,
I am very sorry to hear about John. It has been awhile since I saw you two. I think it was about 4 years ago at the St. Barnabas Lawn Fete. One fond memory I have of John was his old Cavalier that had the sticker on the back saying "Z's....24". I also remember how upset he was when he was "asked" by authorities to remove it.
He was a great guy and you are a great woman. You seem to have a wonderful support system. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers always. If you need anything, please ask.
Bless you and your beautiful children.
cyndi Taylor
November 16, 2008
I can't believe it's been a month already...think about you all and pray for you everyday.
carol decarlo
November 11, 2008
missing you my brother... every minute of the day... johnny there is so much love everywhere. I see you in all your children and that helps keep me strong.
lov u forever carol
Kiana Pitman
November 3, 2008
dear Mrs.Zbock, Alyssa, Kara, and Gavin-
No words, nor any expressions, matter of fact nothing can explain how you and the rest of the family feels. So many others say they know how you feel but most of them don't. They don't know how it feels to lose such a greatful, caring, loving, young man in their life as good as Mr. Zbock. I personally, barely knew Mr. Zbock but the little that I did, I knew he was a great man. I am EXTREMELY sorry for your loss and I will be there anytime, any day to talk if you need it. I can especially help Alyssa during the day considering were in the same class in school. She and I have known each other for two years, but have still been through a lot together. my prayers are with you. God bless you and your family.
And Mr. Zbock-
you have left a wonderful family
but you have left them in the right hands of great people who will take care of them in your honor.They will always have the memory of the tragic day, but it is that day and time that which makes them stronger. God bless your heart and soul, may the great lord be with you and your family. My prayers go out to you everyday and night.
Jerry Gibson
November 1, 2008
To John's family: I am sorry it took me so long to tell you how sorry I am. I worked with John for many years at Norampac. He was a great guy. Please accept my sincerest condolences. I just lost my nephew, Mark Gibson, in a motorcycle accident on September 21, 2008. Mark had a wife and children as well and it is just heartbreaking to think about them having to grow up without their dad. My heart goes out to John's wife and his kids.
Karolyn Lozinski-McDonald
November 1, 2008
Colleen and Family,
It's been many years since I saw you last while we were students at St. Barnabas. I was so sorry to hear of your loss and my thoughts and those of my family are with you during this trying time. Take comfort in the memories you have and know that you will meet your beloved again one day. I know you will be strong for your children. Best wishes.
Cynthia Carvalho
October 30, 2008
Colleen, kids and entire Zbock family,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Only God can carry you thru this tragic time. God Bless you all!
Cynthia and family
Maryvale Class of 1993
Laurie Zbock
October 29, 2008
John
Brother-in-law is not really an adequate description for you. You were certainly much more like a brother to me. I will forever remember how you lit up a room upon entering. You had a very special gift of accepting everyone that you knew as a having a kind heart and good intentions - no one was judged in your presence. It was easy to love you - you were so genuine. You will be missed so much by your twin brother, Ayden and I. You were such an important part of our lives. I promise that Ayden will grow up knowing about the wonderful uncle and godfather that he was so blessed to have for even a very short time. You will be in our hearts, minds and prayers forever and ever. We miss you and find a tiny bit of peace knowing that you are looking down on all of us.
Colleen
I promise to be there for you. Being wives of twins has been an interesting road for both of us - one that we would never change. I will help you through this. Always remember our family trips for pumpkins, to water parks, late night talks between the 4 of us, etc. There have been so many wonderful times. Always know that you are as much a part of our lives as John was and you can always count on us.
Kara, Alyssa and Gavin
Your daddy was so proud of you. He talked about your accomplishments to Uncle Jay and I on the phone each week. Keep making him proud. Uncle Jay, Ayden and I will always be here to remind you what a wonderful daddy you had.
Jay
You are so strong, and yet hurting so very much. I can't even imagine the level of your pain, as mine seems unbearable. Know that you don't have to be strong for me - Ayden and I are here to help you smile again. We love you so much. As a family we will always keep John close to our hearts and he will always be just a memory away for us.
Miranda DiGiacomo
October 29, 2008
Zbock Family,
I know that Jhon was a very lovig husband and father and I am sooooo sorry for your loss. i want you to know that I am always here for you. If you need anything just call, you know where to find me! you are always in my prayers!
Alyssa Zbock
October 29, 2008
i love my dearest daddy and i will always keep him in memories and in my heart i know this was a tragic accident but i know god needed another angel so he took my daddy well i don't blame him my daddy was a wonderful caring sensitive man he shall never leave us he he is probaly sitting next to me at this very moment but i know he is watching the WHOLE family and i know he had well has many friends and family members who cared about him and are still thinking of him in their thoughts sooooooo...... many people truely cared about him including me and my brother Gavin and sister Kara
we love you daddy
alyssa
October 28, 2008
"I never knew til you were gone
How many pages you were on
It never ends I keep turning
And line after line and you are there again
I don't know how to let you go
You are so deep down in my soul
I feel helpless so hopeless
Its a door that never closes
No I don't know how to do this"
-keith anderson ,
i still miss you
October 28, 2008
I didn't know the john or the family but when i heard the tragic accident on my way to work apart of me fell apart- i am terribly sorry for the loss , my condolences go out to you colleen and your children
The West Family
October 27, 2008
Colleen - You are in our prayers. We can't help thinking of that sweet girl at St. Barnabas and our hearts go out to you. May God bless you and your beautiful children.
Noreen Masterson
October 27, 2008
Colleen, Kara, Alyssa and Gavin,
thinking of you at this sad and difficult time, My prayers and thoughts are with you, your cousin Noreen
Scott Fennell
October 24, 2008
Dear Collen And Jason,i sit here speechless,thinking about school days and memories past,as a father and a husband my heart weeps for you .the world seems a little darker now but the light of your children colleen will shine so bright that he'll see them way up there! (Scott,Kory,Atreyu Fennell)
Dick and Mary Ellen Meinke
October 24, 2008
Colleen @ Family
John loved you so much, and he was just a natural family man. We will miss him very much. Always remenber we are here for you.
Uncle Dick and Anut Mary Ellen
Marybeth Sansano
October 23, 2008
Colleen and family, I never knew John but being a mother of three and a new member to the motorcycling family, my heart aches for you and what you and your family must be enduring. Please know Colleen that you and John and your children have been in my thoughts and prayers since that fateful day. I am very sorry to hear of your loss and only have my support and encouragement to offer at this difficult time.
Steve Taylor
October 23, 2008
Colleen, Kara,Alyssa,Gavin
We have been thinking of you guys alot. Today Johnny was to visit and we were going to the MN Wild vs the Buf Sabres hockey game. I am going and there will be a seat there for John. He is an awesome guy and is missed very much. We are praying for you and each time I see a picture of the kids I see him. Love you all......Uncle Steve
Kate Minyard
October 23, 2008
Colleen,
Please accept heartfelt prayers and support on the passing on of your husband. I don't have any magic wand for grief. We just have to go through it and there's no way to speed it up. Time will eventually turn the scales, and laughter will overcome the tears and the wonderful, marvelous memories you have of John will replace the questions of now. Until then we must just be good to ourselves and those close to us. Cut yourself some slack. Rest when you need to, snuggle with your kids and eat junk food while watching a mindless funny movie, take a long bath, let the laundry sit an extra day. Let your friends and family care for you, they need to do it for them to heal. Let them cook, clean, call, shop.
Death is as intimate a part of the life we share with a loved one as any other. And know that, even though it may not help now, when we want to see, talk, and touch them, that people do not really leave us, they simply cross over to the next chapter...and love never, ever dies.
It has been a gift to know and work with you. You are a beautiful person with a smile that brings sunshine to the unit and a compassionate and competent nurse. God Bless you and your family on this journey.
Dan Flick
October 22, 2008
Jonny (Ponch),
So many things remain unclear, one thing is for certain though. You have made an incredibly large impression on so many of us. Whether it was falling into a todler pool @ my birthday party or not leaving my side when I needed you the most, the memories are countless. Rest assured you have been a role model for most fathers, husbands, and friends. We are all better people because we knew you. As for Col, Kara, Alyssa and Gav, have pease knowing they will be well looked affer. It is my turn to return the favor of being so supportive, and I plan to do so. Your family is now, and will forever be an extension of my own. Thank you for all you have ever done for me, may god bless you.
kelly szczublewski
October 22, 2008
Colleen and family, I so sorry to hear about your lost. I'm thinking about you and my prayers are with you.
Lindsey Taylor
October 22, 2008
Colleen, Kara, Alyssa and Gavin-
My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you. I will miss him so very much and will forever remember him with the smile he always had on his face. I know he will always be with you, especially in the love you have for each other. He will live on in so many memories and in all of our hearts forever. Hugs and Kisses, I love you all so much.
Lindsey
Rebecca Meinke
October 22, 2008
Colleen, Kara, Alyssa and Gavin,
It's so hard to put in words how much John touched so many peoples lives. It's hard to write about all of the many wonderful family memories we have shared throughout the years. John will always be in our familys hearts and remember God and your strength will help you through the hard times. Please know that my family will always be here for you and the kids.
ashlee cervo
October 22, 2008
Dear alyssa,kara,and gavin
I am very sorry about your dad and I know how you and your family are feeling now and you and your family are always going to be in my mind.
Jim & SueAnn Socko
October 22, 2008
Colleen
We were so sorry to hear about your loss.We did'nt find out until the 22nd.If there is anything you need or someone to talk to just give us a call.God bless you and your children.We will keep you in our prayers.
Maggie Argentine
October 22, 2008
Dear Jason and Laurie and Family,
I was stunned and saddened to learn of your brother's death and wanted you to know you all are in my prayers. We remembered John especially at Sunday mass at Blessed Sacrament, our daughter's family parish over on Delaware. We'll continue our prayers for John's family in these difficult days ahead.
Carl and Peggy Miller
October 22, 2008
Colleen and Family, We are so sorry to hear about your loss, We just heard about it today, sorry we could not be there for you but you are in our thoughts and prayers
THERESA
October 22, 2008
Carol I am hugging you so tight right now.I want you to know i am here if you need me.It really sucks losing someone so close to you.Its not fair.Samantha will help the girls get through this.dont hesitate to call if you need anything.
The Burtons
October 22, 2008
ZBOCK FAMILY Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.If you ever need anything please call.I am so sorry about your loss.Samantha and I have an angel also.We are always here for you.Kara if you ever need sam just call you too alyssa.Colleen if you ever need anything just call me Carol has my number.
Kristi Freitas Sajdak and family
October 22, 2008
Colleen, Alyssa, Kara and Gavin,
We are soo sorry to hear about your loss. We were away in Florida when we heard of the aweful news. We wished we could have been there for you.
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you!
Just remember that John will live on in all your memories forever.
He will always be with you; watching over and guiding you.
Marni Taylor
October 22, 2008
Aunt Colleen and My cousins,
I was in such shock when I heard the news about my uncle Johnny I couldnt believe it, I wouldnt believe it. You guys are in my thoughts and prayers constantly. Just wanted to let you know I love and adore you all so much , some of my greatest memories are shared with you guys.
Kara and Alyssa- If you girls need anything you have my number, dont ever hesitate to call.
Julie Mutka Gulczewski
October 21, 2008
Colleen,
I just heard about John and I am so sorry for your loss. He was such a great guy and I know he made you so happy. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong.
Love,
Julie Gulczewski (Mutka)
Gary Chambers
October 21, 2008
the Zbock Family,
Jason I'm so very sorry about the loss of your brother. I so enjoyed the time spent on the football field with you two. Looking thru this guest book there are many familar names, Justin, Jim, Topper, Steve, Shawn , Scott, Dave, Coach B, We are Maryvale... John Zbock was a fine young man, and no doubt a great father and husband. Colleen may GOD heal and comfort you and your children. Cry out to HIM in your time of need and HIS love and grace will carry all of you through. Your families will be in our prayers.
Chambers Family
Faye Briggs
October 21, 2008
hi carol, i am so sorry for your loss. the girls told me and i saw it on the news. I wish that i was there to hug you. I do understand what you and your family are going through, you helped me through my loss of my father, I only wish that I could repay the favor. I will keep all of you in my prayers.
Sara Koziol
October 21, 2008
Zbock Family,
My prayers are with you and you are all in my thoughts every single day. You are such an amazing family.
October 21, 2008
Zbock Family
Although we never had the privilege to know John, we however know his wonderful sister-in-law Laurie Zbock. Seeing the pain and loss in her eyes makes us realize that your family has suffered a great loss. We have heard nothing but nice things about the entire family, and are truly sadden by the event.
Honestly we do not really know what to say except that our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Know that he is not truly gone, and he will forever live on through memories and the love of family. May he forever be in your hearts.
Thoughts and Prayers from the 518
nora sisk
October 21, 2008
Colleen, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time, like they have been for so many years. Nora
Nicole Aasen (Vertalino)
October 21, 2008
Colleen and family,
You've been in my thoughts and prayers since I heard the news about John. He'll always be in the hearts of the ones he loved.
My warmest sympathies to you and your family.
Michelle & Peter Hapeman
October 21, 2008
Dearest Colleen, Kara, Alyssa, and Gavin,
Our family sends many prayers of sympathy, love, and support as you endure this most tragic event. John was a commited, fantastic father, and adoring husband...Colleen, you and John have 3 beautiful, talented children-you possess the strength, grace, and love to continue raising them with John watching over you from above! Whenever you need a hand, or just someone to listen, Peter and I are here for you-just down the street, so please don't hesitate to reach out-our whole community supports you. Oh, and don't wait until softball season to ask for help-the girls are softball buddies, true, but I have known you since the Barnabas days-I am always a phonecall or drive by away, you and your children are ALWAYS welcome in our home, so don't be a stranger!! Love and continued prayers to all of you...
Michelle, Peter, Hannah, Sarah, Leah, Timothy, & William Hapeman
Sheila Fitzgibbons
October 21, 2008
heart felt sympathies for your loss coleen and children. We're thinking of you in Ireland. Love your cousin Sheila, John, Ashley and Shane
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