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Joseph Marchese Obituary

MARCHESE-Joseph A. Of Tonawanda, N.Y., entered into rest February 8, 2007. Devoted father of Thomas J. Marchese; beloved son of Joseph P. and Patricia A. (nee Voak) Marchese; cherished brother of Darci L. (Wayne W.) Brasch; loving uncle of Rachel; also survived by aunts, uncles, cousins and many friends. No prior visitation. Relatives and friends may visit the LOMBARDO FUNERAL HOME (Northtowns Chapel), 885 Niagara Falls Blvd. near Eggert/Sheridan Dr. on Sunday from 3-5 PM where the funeral will be held on Monday morning at 9 o'clock and a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in St. Edmond's Church at 10 o'clock. Entombment Mt. Olivet Cemetery.

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Published by Buffalo News on Feb. 11, 2007.

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Jennifer Spencer

March 1, 2007

God looked around his Garden and found an empty place.
He then looked down upon his earth and saw your loving face.

He put his arms around you and lifted you to rest.
His Garden must be beautiful, he always takes the best.
He knew that you were suffering, he knew you were in pain.
And knew that you would never get well on earth again.
He saw your path was difficult, he closed your tired eyes,
He whispered to you "Peace be Thine" and gave you wings to fly.
When we saw you sleeping so calm and free of pain,
We would not wish you back to earth to suffer once again.
You've left us precious memories, your love will be our guide,
You live on through your children, you're always by our side.
It broke our hearts to lose you, but you did not go alone.
For part of us went with you on the day God called you home. This poem gave me comfort when Grama passed away I hope it can bring the same to you. sending my love Jennifer

Charles, Andrea, Alyssa, and Jacqueline Marchese

February 19, 2007

Dear Aunt Pat and Uncle Joe,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you on the loss of your beloved son. He touched many lives with his love and compassion especially those who were less fortunate.

Courtney Vieaux

February 18, 2007

Pat, Joe and Darci,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts.

pat and joe marchese

February 18, 2007

We as parents of Joe would like to thank everyone for the kind words you have all said about Joe. It helps our terrible grief to know all the wonderful things Joe has done and how many lives he has touched and probably never knew. Joe was a humble man with simple pleasures. He loved nature and the outdoors. His sense of humor was infectious and he lighted up our lives. He wouldn't allow anyone to speak unkindly of anyone. He was deeply religious, he was truly a man of God and lived the gospel.

He fought so hard to be well. The past three years have been horrible, he did everything he could to fight this horrible disease. Dispite his illness he volunteered at two soup kitchens, crisis services, roswell park cancer inst. lord of life, introducing an exercise program for the seniors, lorentian society, leading handicapped children on horses, attended numerous bible studies , mens prayer groups, daily mass and nightly visits to st. gregory the great. He tried so hard. The world has lost one of the best. OUr hearts are broken and only hope that he is at peace and is in a better place, suffering no more. Thank you again for your wonderful memories, please keep us in your prayers, love and God Bless Pat and Joe Marchese

Darci L Brasch, Marchese

February 18, 2007

A message from Joe's beloved sister Darci, read at his funeral mass.

The world has lost a loving,kind, patient, humble,remarkable man. Joe touched the lives of everyone he knew in such a special way in ways Joe will never know..

When Joe was a physical therapist working with special needs kids, he became their hero. One little boy called 911 and wanted Joe because he needed to talk to him. That's who Joe was...he was there for everyone; he never uttered an unkind word about anyone nor would he let anyone in his presence talk about anyone. He had so much love in his heart and gave it freely to others. Joe was a patient, loving Dad who cherished every moment spent with his beloved son, Thomas. Thomas looked up to is Dad with all his heart. He was his hero.

Mary Jane & Alan Vieaux

February 18, 2007

Dear Pat & Joe & Family

We are in disbelief at this sad news. You are in my thoughts each day and I pray God will grant you peace.

Jason Vieaux

February 17, 2007

Dear Joe and Pat,

My sincere condelensces for the loss of Joey. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jason Vieaux

February 17, 2007

I can only imagine the pain and grief you are experiencing with the loss of Joey. The memories of him will live on in the hearts and souls of those he touched through friendship, family, and love. Although his time was short, Joey did wonderful things with his life, including reuniting those who have lost so much time together.

Mary Johnson

February 16, 2007

Joe & Pat:
I am totally shocked to hear of Joey's death...
I will pray for you often in the next weeks and months.
He is in a better place but that doesn't make it any easier for you both. You will miss him terribly..
Give my love to your family.
Mary Johnson Billings Sarasota, fl

EDWIN SWEENEY

February 16, 2007

DEAR PATSY,JOE,& DARCY,YOUR FAMILY ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.MAY GOD GRANT YOU PEACE AND
THE WISDOM TO TRY AND UNDERSTAND SUCH A TRAGEDY
THE SWEENEY FAMILY DUBLIN,OHIO

J R

February 15, 2007

Joe was one of the most kindest souls that I have ever had the privilege to know. I know that he loved his son more than anything else in this world. God rest his soul in peace.

Kelly Lang

February 15, 2007

I am blessed to have known and loved Joe and to have his greatest gift with me, our son Thomas. I am asking that if you have stories or memories of Joe, please share them with Thomas, so that he may know all the joy and kindness his Father brought into this world. I can only share the joy he brought to my life, and I know there was so much more.
Please email your memories to [email protected]. Joe will live on in us forever.

Joan Gramza

February 14, 2007

I was saddened to learn of the death of your son and brother, Joey. You all are in my prayers.

James P. Kish

February 14, 2007

To the Marchese family, I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I have many memories of Joe when we were boy scouts together. My prayers are with you in this difficult time.

February 13, 2007

Joe, Pat and Darci,
May God in his wisdom show you the way to courage and peace.
Love and prayers, Joan Berchou & family

Ann Sheehan

February 12, 2007

To the Marchese family I am very sorry for your loss Joe was a very nice man and I know he is at peace now may the love of your family bring you peace at this time.

Ann Sheehan

From Lord Of Life

Jeff Wiegley

February 12, 2007

Mr. and Mrs. Marchese and Darci, Joe was one of the best friends I have known my entire life. I am deeply saddened to hear of his loss. He always provided entertainment, intelligence, assistance and sometimes a little needed mischief to those who knew him. I miss him and think fondly of him often and always will.

Jen DeLorenzo

February 12, 2007

I was deeply saddened to hear the news about Joe. I have been able to stay informed somewhat though my Mom. I, too, have many many fond memories of Joe. He was one of the funniest people I ever met. I pray for healing for all of you.
Jen Uschold DeLorenzo

Dolores Olear

February 12, 2007

Dear Pat and family,
I can only imagine how difficult a time this must be for you.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.

M M

February 12, 2007

My deepest sympathy top the Marchese. Joe was a very special person who shared his light with many through friendship and love. He will be greatly missed by all. He is in a better place and is no longer suffering. He will always be in our hearts, and the Lord will bring us peace.

Sarah Beery Diaz

February 11, 2007

Dear Marchese Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have such good memories of Joe - his warmth, his humor, his friendship. May you find some small comfort in knowing that so many of us are better people for having known Joe. His spirit is among us and in us. And so he will live on in us and be with us forever. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

George Tulloch

February 11, 2007

My deepest condolences to Joe's parents, sister and relatives. He was a close friend of mine throughout my childhood and adolescence. Through him, I experienced a sense of deep brotherhood, companionship and connection. Joe was a light in my life. My prayers go out to his spirit and to your family.

Mary Ann and David Jones

February 11, 2007

Dear Joe and Pat,
We were so sorry to hear of your Loss. May God bless you and keep you close.

Tammy croop

February 11, 2007

Our thoughts and sorrow are with you both. Joe was a great man and always in our thoughts. He will be missed.

Michael Bascobert

February 11, 2007

Joe was a loyal friend and a person of unique character, passion and quality. He applied his degree in Physical Therapy to help the handicapped and others with need. He loved the outdoors and spent much of his time in some of the most beautiful parts of the country. His sense of humor was simply unparalleled, and because of him, I am blessed with many fond memories. I am deeply saddened by this tragic loss, and my wishes and prayers go out to his loving parents, sister and son.

David Croop

February 11, 2007

To the Marchese Family - I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Joe was a good, loyal friend. I will always fondly remember the times we spent togehter growing up. I rarely think of Tonawanda without some thought of time spent having fun with Joe - from 2nd grade, to Camping with the Scouts, to Sweet Home, even sharing a ride back to college.

Jack & Betty Voak

February 11, 2007

Dear Pat, Joe & Darci,
You are in our thoughts & prayers. We have many happy memories of the good times wev'e shared. He will be in our hearts forever. He is now at peace safely in Heaven at last.
God's will be done. Love

Sandra & Michael DiMarco

February 11, 2007

Our prayers are with you...we are there in spirit.

Richard and Nancy Kibler

February 11, 2007

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Joey brings back a lot of happy memories of days gone by. Thank God for the memories. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sorrowfull time. God bless!

Marc & Joan Leber - Perrington

February 11, 2007

The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.

Helen Coran

February 11, 2007

Dear Marchese Family --
We are deeply saddened by the loss of your beloved Joey. Our thoughts & prayers are with you. May his memory be eternal...
The Coran Family --
Russ, Helen, Lynne & Lisa

Vinny and Nancy DiNatale

February 11, 2007

Dear Joe and Pat,There are no words to express our sorrow ,our sadness goes out to you and your entire family.

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