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for Matthew Pawlowski
Shawn O'Hargan
July 5, 2008
A GRANDMOTHER'S THOUGHTS
A month has passed since the tragic day we lost our dear Matthew, our daily lives go on but the tears still come unexpectedly and we still look for his smiling face.
My heart goes out to my strong, beautiful, wonderful daughter who has been amazing throughout this entire tragic loss. You truly are an inspiration and your family and I will always be here for you.
I want to share these words which were part of the eulogy for our dear Matthew.
A loving smiling Matthew, always ready to smile and coo,
Caressed by his Mother's hand, warmed by her touch,
Deeply loved by his parents from the moment of conception
He already looked up to his big brother, watching him, taking notes,waiting for his chance...
He found comfort laying on his Daddy's chest, in his Mommy's arms and playing on the floor with his big brother Mikey
No nukie for him his own thumb was just perfect.
Matthew did not want for anything, He was deeply loved, adored and brought much joy to all around him.
Matthew loved to coo and talk and smile.
Each time you talked to him you were rewarded with an impish grin and the opportunity to look into his twinkling beautiful blue eyes.
A heart so pure, so innocent sent to us to enjoy for such a short time.
The question WHY WHY WHY? rises from our throats and chokes out through our tears.
No answer will ever be enough, no answer will fully explain a logical reason why.
Words and gestures of comfort extended by family and friends are extremely appreciated but in the end what can you really say?
This is only the first step in a long journey of healing. Colleen and Gary are going to need our love, support and prayers for a long time to come.
As you return to your normal routines of work, school and summer activities please keep our beautiful, darling, sweetheart Matthew and his family in your hearts and prayers.
Thank you.
My little Matty, you will remain safe in my heart forever.
I'm finally here 1/31/08 10;12AM 8 Lbs 2oz
July 4, 2008
I get to play with mikey every morning when he wakes up!!
July 4, 2008
I love rolling around with my hippo from great grandma
July 4, 2008
Me and my big brother
July 4, 2008
Andrea Dombek
June 27, 2008
Dearesr Gary and Colleen,
I am so very sorry for your loss--may the God od all comfort hold you in His loving arms, and may you feel the daily presence of Jesus in your lives. My prayer for you is that God sends his angels to give you wahtever you need ay any given minute.
Blessed are those who morn for they shall be comforted.
Matthew 5:4
But as for the day and hour, no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, but my Father only.
Matthew 24:36
These are the words given to you bh God, so, fitting, from the book of Matthew.
You are in my prayers, Love, Andrea
Betsy Harrigan
June 21, 2008
Dear Colleen and Gary Michael,
I am so sorry for your loss. May God help you get past your grief at losing Matty. Matty's memories will always be with you.
Look at me!!
June 17, 2008
our little boy
June 17, 2008
Maddy & Don Schmied
June 17, 2008
Dear Gary and Colleen,
You gave up an Angel to the garden of Heaven. There Matty will grow to watch over you.
He will caress you with soft breezes. He will touch you with butterfly kisses. He will smile from the twinkling stars in the sky.
You're facing with courage, life's stormiest weather. Nothing on earth or in heaven can part a love that grows in your heart.
Love will go on through eternity.
Jim, Linnea, Jimmy & Ashley George
June 16, 2008
Dear Gary and Colleen,
No words can ever ease the pain that you are experiencing now and time will only make it more bearable. Things always happen for a reason even though we may never understand why. Know that you are in our prayers to help you through your difficult time.
Maureen Mergenhagen
June 13, 2008
Gary Michael my darling son, I have no words of wisdom for you, no magic potion. What you are going through, no parent should ever have to deal with.
You have become a model parent and I am so proud of you. I knew you would be, the way you cared for your niece and little sister when they were born. You have a big heart.
Colleen, you have given me two beautiful Grandsons. They both look so much like you. You are a wounderful mom. You work so hard to keep your family together and Happy.
I don't know what to say to ease your pain. There are no words when your heart just can't be consoled. Cry your tears of Love for Matty, he is yours, you carried him and gave him life and forever he'll be in your heart.
love,
Mom
Kelly Anne Mergenhagen
June 12, 2008
Dear Gary Michael and Colleen,
I am so sorry for your loss. I bet we feel the same way. It's hard I know, just try and take it day by day. I'm here for you, even tho I'm twelve. I love you. I wish you were home here with me, I miss you. your little sister,
carol aldrich
June 10, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Diane & Ralph Mercuri
June 10, 2008
Shawn, Brian & Family,
We can't even imagine the pain you are all feeling. Please accept our heartfelt sympathies for the loss of your little angel, Matthew. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all in this difficult time. Colleen and Gary God knows what great parents you are by Matthew's beautiful smile.
Liz Sikorski
June 8, 2008
Gary & Colleen,
My heartfelt condolences are sent for your unthinkable loss. Your baby boy was beautiful and blessed to be so loved by all. I will keep you in my prayers to help aid you in the healing process. May God ease your suffering a little each day. I hope you find comfort knowing that so many people care.
Your Mom's cousin,
Liz Sikorski (West Seneca, NY)
Jason Pawlowski
June 8, 2008
Gary,
I am truly sorry for your loss.
My condolences are with you.
Jason
Melissa Eastman
June 8, 2008
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Dave & Maureen Brautlacht
June 7, 2008
Shawn,Brian & Family
We are so sorry to hear of your loss.
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time .
Laurie and Rich Measer
June 7, 2008
Colleen and Gary,
Our heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your little angel, I can't imagine the heartache and pain you are going through at this difficult time. Just know that there is a reason for everything and god will take care of him now he will be in good hands and will be smiling down on you from above. He was a beautiful little boy and I'm sure he brought much joy to your lives in such a short time. Our love and prayers are with you at this time, if you ever need anything let us know.
Christine Langenfeld
June 7, 2008
Shawn, Brian, Collen & Family,
Obviously God has bigger plans for Matthew, your beautiful baby boy, yet still the healing is to come. He has forever touched your lives and that time will be forever cherished.
The Langenfeld Family
Mallory Coogan
June 7, 2008
Colleen and Gary,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My families thoughts and prayers go out to you guys. You need anything at all you let me know.
anthony addotta
June 6, 2008
I work with Shawn at the Red Cross. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.
Gulam and Razia Najar
June 6, 2008
Colleen and Gary,
Please accept our heartfelt condolences at this tragic loss.Rmember those who leave this world young are loved by God
Nancy Wittman
June 6, 2008
Dear Gary & Colleen, Here is a poem I thought might help to ease your pain....
Fly,Fly little wing....
Fly beyond imaging...
The softest cloud,
The whitest dove...
Upon the wind of heavens love... Past the planets & the Stars...
Leave this lonely world of ours...
Escape the sorrow & the pain...
And Fly again.
Fly, Fly precious one...
Your endless journey has just begun.
Take your gentle happiness...
Far too beautiful for this world...
Cross over to the other shore...
Where there is peace forevermore.
But hold this memory bittersweet...
Until we meet.
Fly, Fly do not fear...
Don't waste a breath or shed a tear..
Your heart is pure, your soul is free...
Be on your way, don't wait for me.
Above the universe you will climb...
The moon will rise, the sun will set...
But i won't forget !
Fly, fly little wing....
Fly where only "Angels" sing...
Fly away, the time is right...
Go now and find the light.
May God be with you now & always.
Our Deepest Sympathy & prayers
Phil & Nancy Wittman
{ Melissa's Parents}
kim randazzo
June 6, 2008
dear gary and colleen, god bless you and your family during this difficult time of grief, we are all here for you and will help you with anything you need , you are both wonderful parents have familyand freinds that will be here for you, whatever you need and whenever you need us .
gary pawlowski
June 6, 2008
Gary &colleen
our deepest sadness in our hearts go out to both of you,god will be with us all&we will get threw this sad time
love dad &lori
Kathy and Al Chiddy
June 6, 2008
Dear Colleen and Family,
We are very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Shawnlee Sloat
June 6, 2008
Gary and Colleen,
To lose a child is heartbreaking thats true,
My nephew, your son, I barely knew.
Unfortunately, I know what your going through.
There's noone to blame,
No finger to point,
There's nothing you could do.
You feel angry and sad,
Confused and mad,
Just remember the time you had.
His smiles, his coo, will always be with you.
Your Angels in heaven, yet still in your heart.
Whenever you think of him you'll not be apart!
Maureen Pfeifer
June 6, 2008
Colleen & Gary,
Our deepest sympathy. While we are sure there are few words that can lessen the pain you feel, know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. May your love for each other help you through this most difficult time.
The Pfeifer Family
Chris & Theresa Middlebrooks
June 6, 2008
Please accept our deepest sympathies, Our prayers are with you.
Noreen
June 6, 2008
Shawn, Brian, Gary, Lori, Our deepest sympathy to your entire family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Noreen and Colleen -Flint Village Apartments/UB.
Sally Stapley
June 6, 2008
Dear Shawn and Family, All of our love and prayers are with you during this very sad time. From West Henrietta ARC Volunteer Services and Human Resources
Melissa Eastman
June 6, 2008
Gary & Colleen,
My heart goes out to you both in this tragic time. I am so sooo sorry for your loss!!!! There are no words I can say that will touch your pain. Just know you are in my thoghts and prayers. Wish I could be there for you.
Chet Pulaski
June 6, 2008
Shawn,Brian,Colleen,&family
We are so sorry to hear of your loss my heart and prayers are with you and the family.
Chet,Rhonda & the girls
Chet Pulaski
June 6, 2008
Shawn,Brian,Colleen,&family
We are so sorry to hear of your loss my heart and prayers are with you and the family.
Chet,Rhonda & the girls
Barb & Wally
June 6, 2008
Shawn & Brian,
My heart goes out to you and I pray,
That God makes your stronger everyday.
Matthew will always be with you in your hearts.
Even though you are now apart.
May the Lord above ease your every sorrow.
So you may smile again--tomorrow.
The Schmied Family
June 6, 2008
We're sorry to hear for your loss. We wish you the best condolences.
Monika (Pawlowski) Motyka
June 6, 2008
Our thoughts & prayers are with you. I believe your little Matthew is now with Aunt Donna's little Lisa, Guardian Angels to watch over us forever.
Your Lovng Cousin Monika
Kathy Goff
June 6, 2008
Shawn, Brian & Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss my heart and prayers are with you at this time.
Buffalo Apheresis Staff
June 6, 2008
Shawn,we are so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you all.
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