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Tina Ceesay
November 13, 2025
Hey Lady. I miss you. You´re always in my thoughts.
Love you
Tina
Tina
November 12, 2024
Hey Lady. Thanksgiving is almost here and you are so very much loved, missed and not forgotten. I miss you more than ever.
You have some really beautiful grandchildren I know you are watching from above. All my love to you.
Brigid Killian
June 12, 2024
Paul and I have so any fun and happy memories of our camping trips with you ad Gary. I know your birthday is soon. I miss you Paula, I wish I could tell you how much your friendship meant to me.
Lisa LeShane
November 12, 2023
I can't believe it's been 10 years! I think about you quite often and wonder what could have been. I treasure our memories, knowing there were not enough of them. You are missed and loved!
Tina Ceesay
November 12, 2023
Hey Paula thanksgivings coming I know how much you love this time of year. I miss you so much I talk to you all the time I´m pretty sure people think I´m a little baddie, but I just wanted to tell you that I really miss you I wish you were here you kids are doing so wonderful. You´d be so proud of them and really so proud of Gary because he´s such a strong person. Love you girl.
Tina Ceesay
November 12, 2019
I miss you honey more than you can Imagine definitely you are the better of the two of us my conscience my god Mother and friend love you more than anything in the world and I miss you hell always be with me in my heart love and blessings to Gary Lee and Joshua and Justin
Lisa LeShane
November 12, 2019
I miss my friend every day. I think about her family and wish them all the best. I love you Paula. You are always in my heart and in my many memories of you.❤
Lynn Fitzgerald McGrath
August 28, 2019
While looking for Paula on Facebook to try to reconnect with her, I ran into something that said she passed. I was shocked and left with a feeling of disbelief and sadness. I havent seen Paula for 30 plus years but we did spend so much time together while we were growing up. We always had sleepovers and she was my best friend when we were young. My mother and Lou were friends and I have so many great memories. I hope her family is well and Im so sorry I didnt hear about this sooner as I could pay my respects
December 17, 2013
There will be an empty chair at the holiday table this year, but it will be filled with loving memories.
December 17, 2013
Love and Prayers
Ma Joey Lynn and Vanessa
December 17, 2013
Love and Prayers
Ma Joey Lynn and Vanessa
December 17, 2013
Love and Prayers
Ma,Joey,Lynn and Vanessa
December 17, 2013
To my Aunt Paula,
My Paula! My Paula!
With Much Love and Sorrow,
Nessie
December 17, 2013
To my beautiful sister Paula, who has a will of iron and a heart of gold, I miss you terribly already. I love you with all my heart and soul. God bless you until we meet again. Sisters forever.
Love Lynn
tina ceesay
December 15, 2013
As Christmas approaches, I know that this time with out Paula, your mom, your wife will be hard, we will be keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers over the holiday seasons. Love The Ceesays
Marcy Ceesay
December 13, 2013
With much love <3 I know youre watching over your family and loved ones :]
November 24, 2013
Gary and children, My sincere condolences for the loss of your wife & mother Paula. May God give you a peace that surpasses all understanding and comfort you in this time of great sadness. God bless you all.
Judy Kostyk
November 22, 2013
I am so thankful to you, Paula, for the many times you were there for my sister and her family.
Marcy Ceesay
November 21, 2013
Paula was such a great woman to all..It is so sad to hear of her loss..She will always be in spirit, and protect Joshua, Leanne, Justin, and Gary. I love you hun. Fly high <3
Lisa LeShane
November 21, 2013
Gary and family,
Paula will be missed by us and so many others. She touched so many lives and was a very special person. She will be in our hearts always. Love Lisa LeShane and Amanda Pied
Jolene Skinner
November 20, 2013
Dear Benham and DePasquale Families,
I went to both grammar and high school with Paula. She was a great friend and a very bright person. So sorry for your loss.
June DeCosta
November 19, 2013
So very, very sorry to hear this
Samantha Makowski
November 19, 2013
Dear Joshua and family,
I am very sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers are with you.
Alana Ceesay
November 19, 2013
Paula was like a second mother to me; she was one of the strongest women that you ever could have met. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Paula wil forever be in our hearts. -Alana Ceesay
tina ceesay
November 19, 2013
Gary and family, Our prayers and thoughts are with you all, Paula was one of the most thoughtful loving people we knew she will always be with us. God Bless Love the Ceesays
November 19, 2013
Dear Joshua and family, You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May the happy memories of your Mom be a source of comfort today and always. The Crowley and Donovan families
Thomas Sullivan
November 19, 2013
Dear Benham Family: On behalf of the faculty, staff & students of Bishop Timon-St. Jude High School, we offer our prayers and condolences to you. We pray that our Risen Lord will give you comfort and love at this difficult moment in your life. We will remember Mrs. Benham in our prayers and our upcoming school liturgies.
Thomas Sullivan, Principal
Bishop Timon-St. Jude H.S.
Chuck Cwiklinski
November 18, 2013
Glad to have known Paula. Thoughts and prayers are with her family.
Verl Preston
November 18, 2013
Paula was a joy to know and her strength was an inspiration - she will be missed.
November 18, 2013
Dear Benham family, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
Sincerely,
Shannon Blake
Rhonda Johnson
November 18, 2013
It was a pleasure to know Paula.
November 18, 2013
Toughts, prayers, and lots of love.
~Mr. D
Joan Marden
November 18, 2013
I have truly lost a "wonderful friend" and shall miss Paula dearly. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Ed, Joan and Chris
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