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Robert M. Derr M.D.

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Robert Derr Obituary

Derr, Robert M. MD

May 2, 1965 - February 16, 2024

Beloved husband of Penny (McCluskey) Derr; loving father of Melissa (Dave) Anderson, Grace Derr and Gabby Derr; dearest grandfather of Casper, Brody, Emmett and Oliver Anderson; son of Carolyn Derr and Robert E. (Sue Kilbey) Derr; brother of Scott (Traci) Derr and Fred (Hillary Burr) Derr; also survived by in-laws and many nieces and nephews. Family will receive relatives and friends at the WENDEL & LOECHER INC. FUNERAL HOME 27 Aurora St. Lancaster, NY Saturday from 1-8 pm. The family wishes guests wear red in Bob's memory. In lieu of flowers donations may be made the transplanthouseofcleveland.org or the lungtransplantfoundation.org
Published by Buffalo News on Feb. 22, 2024.

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Mary Catharine Philbeck

December 19, 2024

I am so sorry, Bob was a great friend. I’ll be thinking about you, Mary Catharine

Denise and Steven Strunk

June 28, 2024

Dear Carolyn, Bob, Scott, Fred and family,

What a terrible loss for all of you. Can't imagine the pain you are feeling. May your special memories bring you some peace in the days ahead.
We remember when you first moved here. The boys were so young, you were living out on Riley Wills Rd. Definitely in the country. A bit scary at nite but they loved it, especially at Halloween.
We remember too, the big beautiful house you built. Perfect for your growing boys. Lots of parties and craziness. They all worked hard helping around the house.
They were great brothers, got along even with such different temperaments. Little Bobby was so smart. You just knew he would do great things. And he did. What an extraordinary legacy. Simply gone too soon.
The message from his "bonus child" was beautiful. Felt like we got to know the grown up Bobby and the amazing life he made.
Sadly, we lost touch over the years but you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Though there are no words for such a loss, please accept our sincere condolences.
Love ❤
Denise and Steven Strunk
Stacey and Stephanie
Lebanon, Ohio

Norma Brooks

February 28, 2024

So Sorry to hear of Dr Derr Passing worked with him at Chob ER he was such a Great and Caring Dr he will be Truly Missed Sincere Condolences to Penny and Family RIH

The Barnes Family

February 26, 2024

Our deepest condolences to you and your family. We are praying for you and Nick said he is praying for Gabby.

Jacqueline Bull

February 26, 2024

Dear Derr family, it is with great sadness that I heard of the loss of your father. I have fond memories of your father as a parent at WSS. Please send Gabby and Grace a special hug . Thinking of your family. Jacqueline Bull

Jim and Karen Biesinger

February 24, 2024

Our deeepest sympathies to you and your family. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Jim and Karen Biesinger

Robbie Martin

February 24, 2024

Penny, girls, and whole Derr family I love you all. My prayers go out to all of you. My world will never be the same. Bob will be missed beyond measure. Ty for all the amazing memories, laughs, and friendship. Rest in peace my forever friend. ❤

Christopher Burke

February 24, 2024

Bob was a great person. As a friend of his brother Fred, my fondest memories of Bob centered around the annual Derr brother’s pilgrimage to Ohio State. Too many laughs to count and many memorable moments.

When I think of Bob, what I remember most is not necessarily the conversations we had, but more so, how welcome he made me feel.

Heather Janik

February 23, 2024

Bob was a teaching attending I'll never forget. He was always so approachable and friendly. He managed to make me smile even during some of the most chaotic shifts at Children's Hospital when I was a resident many years ago. I rarely look through obituaries, but I was drawn to this today. I'm so sad to hear of his passing, and I hope that it brings you some comfort to know how lucky we all were to have him in our life. Thank you, Dr. Bob, for all of your lessons.

Char

February 23, 2024

To Penny and the girls
I´m so sorry for your loss
I loved working with Bob! He always made me feel good about my practice and was so helpful when I missed an appendicitis case early in my career. His light went out too soon

DMM

February 22, 2024

RIP

Jason Rouba

February 22, 2024

Bob was a great guy and fun to hang out with. I am a good friend with Bob’s brother Fred and will fondly remember Bob from Buckeye football weekends in Columbus. Thanks for welcoming in the crew from the northeast and showing us how it’s done. Inside joke but the ice bucket story stands out in memory

Jean Keller-Thau

February 22, 2024

I’m a close friend of Bob’s mom, Carolyn. I never had the privilege of meeting Bob, but I feel I know him through Carolyn. Her love for her son was beautiful as is her love for all her family. Through Carolyn it was clear that Bob was an extraordinary man. My heart and prayers are with his family.

Sr. Brenda Whelan

February 22, 2024

There are no words to express what a loss Bob is not only to the.medical community, not only to his family but to the world! Bob is a light that went out to soon and I will never ever forget his caring and his love!
Breathe easy Bob . . .be at peace!

Vicky Fera

February 21, 2024

I’m so sorry to hear of Dr. Derr’s passing. He was a wonderful teacher and mentor to me as a resident in Buffalo. I’ll never forget little Gabby admitted to the ICU with RSV, needing nasal prong oxygen, and insisting on sleeping folded forward. Dr. Derr was so kind and gentle with her. My heart goes out to his family. I hope you can breathe a little easier now Dr Derr.

Group of 10 Trees

Cheryl Derr

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Frani Kwiatkowski

February 21, 2024

Bob, you were my very first nephew who made me an Aunt. We are, and have always been, so proud of you and your accomplishments. There isn't a person in the world who would have met you and not seen what an incredible human being you were. You will live on in the hearts of many many people who's lives you have touched. One thing for me, I will miss you beating me at Words with friends. Of course you taught me many Q,Z,X, and J words. Miss you, love you til we meet again, all my love, Aunt Fran

Stuart Bradin

February 21, 2024

Great guy- even if he was a buckeye fan. caring and empathetic - gone way too soon heart out to penny and the girls

Kait Hull

February 20, 2024

Penny and family,
I’m so sorry to hear about Bobs passing- he was a great guy, an awesome doctor and an absolutely joy to work with. He will be dearly missed ❤

Susan Domres

February 20, 2024

To Penny and the girls, I am so sorry for your loss! Bob was such a caring doctor but he lived his family so much and that’s how he treated people. Kids and parents were in great hands when he was working. He will be missed!

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