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MATES - Robert "Bob" E. May 19, 1935 to November 3, 2011 Bob died surrounded by loving family after a short illness. Born in Buffalo, where he lived for 60 years, he graduated from Williamsville C.H.S., the University of Rochester and Cornell. After 35 years, he retired as Professor of Mechanical and Aerospace Engineering at the University at Buffalo. He loved teaching and received the SUNY Chancellors Award for Excellence in Teaching in 1991. His research interests included coronary blood flow. He became a Research Professor of Medicine in 1986 and 3 years later was made Director of the Center for Biomedical Engineering, SUNY at Buffalo. Bob was an active member of the American Society of Mechanical Engineers and served in leadership roles for 25 years. He was elected a Fellow of ASME in 1984 and received the group's Dedicated Service Award 3 years later. Honorary Society memberships included Sigma Xi, Phi Beta Kappa, Tau Beta Pi, Phi Kappa Phi and Pi Tau Sigma. Volunteer activities focused on vocational and technical education in the Buffalo Public Schools, where he received several awards. He enjoyed the performing arts, bridge, tennis, sailing, water skiing, home building and remodeling, politics and travel. Yearly international trips took him and his wife, Gail, whom he married in 1960, to every continent except Antarctica. After both retired they traveled across America, enjoying National Parks and significant sites in nearly every state. They settled in San Diego in 2005, then moved to Coronado this year. Bob will be sadly missed by his wife, Gail (Paxson), children Robert E. Jr., Elisabeth A., and Steven P. and grandchildren, Canyon J. and Maxx H. Van LobenSels. A memorial service will be held on Thursday, Nov. 17 at 1:30 pm in the Chapel at Forest Lawn Cemetery, Delaware Ave. at Delavan. A reception will follow. Flowers are gratefully declined. Memorial gifts may be made to Heifer International, 1 World Ave., Little Rock, AR 72202 or the Foundation for Prader Willi Research, 5455 Wilshire Blvd., Los Angeles, CA 90036.
Published by Buffalo News on Nov. 9, 2011.

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Nhan "Bob" Dinh

February 19, 2013

You will be forever missed, Great Uncle...

Someday I will sail the seas with your memory as the promise was never fulfilled.

Thomas Burns

January 28, 2013

Dr Mates was a gentleman. He was one of my teachers when I was at Buffalo. Inteligent, kind and thoughtful. He helped me go on the medical school. I will always remember his as a great man and a role modle for me. It is with great sarrow that I hear of his death. He will be in my prayers.

Fran Wilson

February 4, 2012

Gail,

I was trying to clear up my longstanding to do file, where I had an informative letter from you and Bob (January, 2000). Not far behind. I was hope to try and contact you. I started looking up Bob name on the Internet and lo and behold I found his Obit. I am so sorry to hear that he has passed on.

My deepest sympathy to you and yours.

Fran Wilson
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Gregorina Cooper

November 20, 2011

Dear Gail,
I was saddened to learn of your husband's death in our Buffalo paper here recently. I recall your scouting days with great fondness and would really appreciate hearing from you if at all possible. My deepest sympathy, E. Gregorina Cooper-Batavia, NY

Bob with department colleagues, summer 1992

Andres Soom

November 15, 2011

November 15, 2011

Dear Gail,
I am so sorry to hear the news of Bob's death. He was a wonderful man with a unique perspective on life and that unforgettable wry sense of humor.
It's been years since I've seen you, but I'll never forget life on Forest Avenue and those crazy investment club meetings. We certainly had some great times being young and nuts!
Then, as most of us stayed in WNY, you two went off on your odyssey, full of adventure, curiosity, and high spirits-a great pair of explorers.
Please accept my sincere sympathy and know that I am thinking of you and your family.
Sally (Abell) Marks

Donald/Carole Kasprzyk

November 13, 2011

Betsy,

Don and I are saddened by the passing of your Dad. The years pass too fast and we are all in your shoes much too quickley. He was a very nice and interesting man and we are sure you have many wonderful memories to fall back on in the coming months and years.

Paul Samul

November 11, 2011

So sorry for your loss. My mom passed this year and I can tell you it does get better with time. Prayers to you and your family.

Holly Langley (Hosick)

November 11, 2011

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My fondest memories of Six Mile Lake was the year I was a nanny to your three children. I will forever have the picture in my mind of your Christmas card that year, when you posed with Bob's dislocated shoulder and Gail's black eye. Your family always celebrated life's little moments!

Debbie Skinner

November 11, 2011

I am so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. He and my dad were great friends and shared many projects together on Six Mile Lake building our respective cottages. They shared intellectual conversations, fun and friendship. My fondest memories are learning to ride the board while Bob Drove the boat.

November 11, 2011

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. I have had the good fortune of being one of Betsy´s childhood friends, and growing up with her and her family. Their´s was a welcoming household, with an atmosphere of warmth, motivation and learning. There are so many fond memories: As a child I still remember Robert explaining how computors work. As an adult I remember the warm welcome and fun, when introducing my husband and son to Robert and Gail. Thank you. Kristin and Geir (Iceland)

Kristin Sigurdardottir

November 11, 2011

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. I have had the good fortune of being one of Betsy´s childhood friends, and growing up with her and her family. One was always welcome in the house, where there was an atmosphere of warmth, motivation and learning. There are so many fond memories. As a child I still remember Robert explaining how computors work. As an adult I remember the warm welcome and fun, when introducing my husband and son to Robert and Gail. Thank you. Kristin and Geir ( Iceland )

Mary Hosick

November 10, 2011

I have such beautiful memories of your Dad and your whole family up at Six Mile Lake. He was always so kind and took time to chat with us when we came to visit. My deepest condolences to your whole family. God Bless!

Mary Hosick

Steven Mates

November 9, 2011

Rest in Peace, Dad. Love, Steve

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