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Bernard R. (Bernie) Tolmie, Jr.

South Burlington - Bernard R. (Bernie) Tolmie, Jr. after a full life of 75 years, passed away from cancer, surrounded by his loving family at his home in South Burlington on Wednesday, February 12. Inventor, leader, humanitarian, businessman, fisherman, teacher, husband, father, volunteer, traveler; just a few descriptors of a man who lived life to the fullest, striving to always give more than he received.

Bernie was born in Glen Cove, NY, grew up in Oyster Bay and, after graduating from high school, joined the Navy and served in Vietnam as an Underwater Demolition Team member. After his service he returned to attend the RCA Institutes and Dowling College, graduating with a Bachelor's of Science.

In 1979, Bernie moved to Vermont as an executive with Simmonds Precision in Vergennes. He then acted as president of Joslyn Defense Systems; thereafter founding his own business, Vermont Electromagnetics Corporation in 1989. An inventor, he developed the interconnect cables found today in most laptops and ultrasound equipment. In 2006, Bernie married his present wife, Elizabeth (Beth) Cheng Tolmie and they enjoyed years of traveling, adventure and sharing time between their homes in South Burlington and Grand Isle. Retirement years were spent giving service to the Grand Isle and Shelburne communities, where he served as an advanced Emergency Medical Technician. An avid athlete and outdoor enthusiast, Bernie loved to ski, bike, hike and spend time on the water. Essentially, anything to get outside and experience the grandness of nature.

Always a family man, Bernie will be sorely missed by his wife Beth, daughter Elizabeth Tolmie Walker and son David Tolmie (Laia); grandchildren Aedan and Jack Walker, and Unai Tolmie Albaladejo. His spirit lives on in the memories of all who feel the loss of a very special person; a guiding light that will burn forever.

Visiting hours will be held at Corbin & Palmer Funeral Home, 9 Pleasant Street, Essex Junction from 3:00 PM - 6:00 PM, on Friday, February 21. A Memorial Service is planned for 2:00 PM at the UVM Alumni House on Saturday, February 22.

Interment of ashes will follow this summer in Grand Isle. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Grand Isle Rescue, P.O. Box 79, Grand Isle, VT 05458.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Burlington Free Press from Feb. 15 to Feb. 16, 2020.

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Charlie and Dottie

February 9, 2025

Can't believe it's been five years now. What a great person! We miss him.

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Charlie and Dottie Windisch

February 21, 2020

We are shocked and saddened at the passing of Bernie. May the Lord God provide comfort to Beth and family in this difficult time, and the strength to navigate through life from this point on.

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Sheila Monks Campbell

February 18, 2020

I am so sorry to hear of this loss. I went to grade school and high school with Bernie.
I remember him as a kind guy . I can see his smile.
Rest In Peace Bernie. Prayers to you and your family.

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Toshifumi Miura

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George Coddington

February 17, 2020

I worked for Bernie for many years At Joslyn and had a lot of great memories. Bernie was a outstanding leader and a fine person. Ill miss him.

February 17, 2020

I will always remember Bernie as a warm, gentle and interesting person. Our discussions about everything and anything were always informative and I will miss seeing him. He was a customer who became a true friend to me. Tom Racine

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Kikuko Hayashi

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February 16, 2020

What an amazing man. I will miss seeing you at Jeep!

Bev Broomhall

February 16, 2020

Dear Liz and David,I am truly sorry for your loss. I recall the deep and abiding love your dad had for each of you. May that love sustain you now and in the days to come.

Julia Jacques

February 16, 2020

Bernie,
Thanks for all the EMS education. You were a great friend and mentor. Soar high and watch over us ! Shelburne Rescue will miss your friendliness and willingness to run duty with us. God Speed.
Love, Julia Jacques and Nick Mellish.

Jason Ziter

February 15, 2020

Bernie was an absolutely fantastic man. It was an honor know you, run rescue with you and beside you. Your passion for education was outstanding. I will truly miss you.

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