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Jason Large Obituary
passed away unexpectedly, in Wilmington, N.C., on Nov. 14, 2009 leaving his loving wife, Jill Tremlett Large, and his first son, Russell Tremlett Large, who was born on Nov. 4, 2009. Jason was born in Canton, Ohio on June 29, 1972 to Linda Dacar and Larry Large. He graduated from McKinley High School in 1990.
Jason was the middle of three children with an older brother, Brad Large, and a younger sister, Lauren Horning. Jason is survived by the above mentioned individuals and additionally by countless others including uncles, aunts, cousins, half brothers, nieces, nephews, step folks, and hundreds and hundreds of friends and acquaintances who loved and knew him in his short but meaningful life. Jason was a happy baby and loved to be able to run free wherever he was with as few clothes on his body as possible. Jason was intense about anything that he set his mind to. Jason loved reading, quirky and off beat movies, surfing, most Ohio sports teams, Elvis, and owning and operating 1st Choice Carpet and Upholstery Cleaning. Most of all, he loved his wife and baby. Jason was a veteran of the US Army and an active member of Alcoholics Anonymous with five years sobriety on November 9, 2009. Jason extended himself to everyone he knew and attempted to spread his heartfelt knowledge about alcoholism and drug addiction to others needing his guidance and support. Jason owned and operated his own carpet cleaning business and took great pride in providing 'better than excellent' service to all the customers who knew and loved him. Jill and Jason met four years ago in Wilmington, N.C. and shared a love of surfing, laughter, and books. Jason knew from the start that he wanted a long term relationship with Jill and made no bones about it. As we all knew and hoped, they married on November 11, 2006 and have spent four happy and love filled years together, culminating in the long awaited birth of their first child, Russell, on Nov. 4, 2009, at 5:09 a.m. Jason's love for Jill surpassed the traditional, the normal, and the expected. He loved Jill with his whole being and was the happiest he had ever been in his life. Jason achieved so much as a self made business man, sobriety, the love of his life, and a new born baby that he had waited for in extreme and elated anticipation. Jason had not wanted anything more than to have a family with children of his own. He had dreamed of having a house full of children and was the best Uncle to his many admiring young family members. So many of the children in the family could not bear to be far from 'Uncle JJ'. To have his life cut short so suddenly is the greatest tragedy that any family can ever imagine experiencing. His last day on this earth was spent where he wanted to be the most, at home with Jill and Russell. Jason, your joyous spirit, cheerful smile and infectious laugh are forever in our hearts and minds. Russell will know his father though the hundreds that loved you and we can be reminded of you in Russell's sweet face forever.
Family will receive friends beginning at 12 p.m. on Friday, Nov. 20, 2009 at The Fellowship Hall located at the Wrightsville Beach United Methodist Church. A Memorial Service will follow at 2 p.m. In lieu of flowers, the family would greatly appreciate memorials may be made to Jason's son, Russell Tremlett Large, and mailed to PO Box 4385 Wilmington, N.C. 28406.
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for Jason Large
Reinhard Novski
November 22, 2022
I was very shocked and devastated to hear that my best friend's father passed away with him at a young age. but so far, he's growing well and learning new things which i am very grateful for.
Russell Large
August 29, 2021
I don´t remember much about my dad, but i have some photos of him. I miss him so much.
Beverly Schiffer
November 12, 2020
Still missing you my Friend after 9 long years. My prayer is that your wonderful Momma and precious Sister are with you. Beverly
Tara Daily
December 8, 2009
Jill,
I am so very sorry for the loss of your husband, Jason. Tara Servidio sent me his obituary. It was beautiful. He sounds amazing. I live in North Carolina as well (only 3 hours from where you are), so please let me know if I can do anything to help you and your son Russell. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Tara Daily
December 6, 2009
Dear Jill,
Those of us in your mom's dance class are so deeply saddened to hear of such a great loss coming at a time of such vulnerability, exhaustion, joy, and celebration of God's gift.
It seems Jason had travelled through so much and had come so far. I pray that God will help you to do the same, one day at a time, and that time will heal you wounds. You and your beautiful baby Russell are in the hearts and prayers of so many in Connecticut.
Love,
Lynne and Chris Burns
New Canaan, Ct.
LISA MAY MELFI
December 6, 2009
Jill, I am at a loss for words what to say. I wish you strength for you and Russell.
December 5, 2009
JJ, thank you for making my girl laugh. The years she spent with you were the happiest of her life. Little Russell is already showing signs of his daddy's fun and funny ways. We all miss you.
love, ma-Marilee
Joan Boutwell
December 1, 2009
Dear Jill,
My sister Patti just sent me Jason's obituary. What a wonderful testimony to his life. We never know how long we will be given to walk this earth so we need to live life to the fullest and it sounds like Jason did just that. The picture of you two is worth a million words...it shows, love, fun, enjoyment and so much more. The path of grief you have to walk at such a young age is going to be tough but it sounds like you have a network of loving, helpful friends and family to walk it with you.
God sees your tears and knows your needs.
God bless and keep you.
Joan Wilber Boutwell
Vonnie Schang
December 1, 2009
Hello Jill, I only met you probably one time long ago when you were a child. Your Mom and Aunt Lynette are my cousins, which also make you and your beautiful new baby part of my family. My heart bleeds for your loss, but I hope that you get some comfort in knowing that your husband walks not only with our Lord, but with your loving grandparents as well. I loved my Aunt Sue and Uncle Don and will never forget the wonderful memories created with them and your Mom and Aunt at Del Rio. I looked up to your Mom for many reasons as I'm sure you do as well. There are an amazing amount of memories that you and your family will carry close to your hearts forever. If you are ever in the Buffalo, NY area, please give me a call and I will be blessed to share some time with you. May God continue to bless you with his grace. Yvonne (Vonnie Schang) Evilsizor
Patti Harrell
December 1, 2009
Dear Jill,
I am your mother's first cousin and, although you and I have never met, I have come to know you and your family through your mother while researching the family history.
I was indeed saddened and shocked to hear such seemingly impossible news of Jason's passing. Jill, please know that my heart goes out to you in your loss. I pray that you will find strength in God's presence, and peace and comfort in His blessed gift of your precious son. I can tell you that there is nothing quite so special as the love between a mother and her son and I know your relationship with Rusty will be exceptionally special. God be with you and bless you both. I will keep you in my prayers.
Love,
Cousin Patti
Kiki Neale
November 26, 2009
Jillie and Russell,
I love you both. See you soon.
Kiki
November 23, 2009
Jill..We don't know each other but I'm an old childhood friend of Linda's from North Canton. When I heard of this tragedy the tears started flowing and I couldn't stop. I just ache for all of you. All of you will help each other get thru this and the love for this little fella will be beyond belief. I try to think that God has a special place for Jason and he needed him to help with his work. Although I didn't know him I know how much he was loved. Surround yourself with people that love you and you will get thru this. Our Sympathies..Ray and Diana Finch, Trinity NC
Brenda Brints
November 22, 2009
Jill, Linda, Brad and Lauren- on behalf of the entire Jenkins family, we are truely sorry for your loss. I have many fond memories of Jason and know that he will be missed greatly. May God comfort you and bring you through this tragic event with the love and support of your family and friends. Blessings of protection and provision to Jill and Russel as you walk out the rest of your lives and continue to take one day at a time. My heart goes out to you.
Brenda (Jenkins) Brints from Canton Ohio.
Amy Lucas
November 21, 2009
Jill, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Jason. I haven't seen him for years, but I have a lot of fond memories of him at Leesville Lake when we were kids. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your son, Russell.
Amy Roderick Lucas (Cousin)
betty fortuin
November 21, 2009
Jill, I never met Jason, but he sounded amazing. How wonderful to have had such joy in your life and now to have Russ. It sounds like the two of you will never want for memories of Jason or family love and support,how extraordinary. My thoughts and prayers are with you during these difficult times.
November 21, 2009
Dear Jill and Baby Russell, My heartfelt sympathy to you both at this time. I will never forget Jason's beautiful smile. Much Love, Toni Stanton(Wilmington)
Becky Boswell
November 20, 2009
Jill, having lost my husband last year, my heart goes out to you. From one who has been where you are grab onto your program and hang on with all your might, the love and support you will find there and from our amazing God will bring you through, I promise.
Call me if you need to talk or yell or cry with someone. 910-234-1900.
Becky Boswell
Whiteville Serenity AFG
Lauren & Dallas
November 20, 2009
Dear Jill and baby Russell,
Our heartful sympathies and prayers for you and your family at this sorrowful time. May these few thoughts help comfort you now and in the days ahead.
Doris Jones
November 19, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
November 19, 2009
Dear Jill,
My sincere condolences ~ May the loving support of your family and friends give you and Russell abundant comfort.
Carol S.
Friend of Marilee
Stamford, CT
Mary Ann Dungan
November 19, 2009
Dear Jill,Baby Russel,Linda,Brad and Lauren.I am so saddened for your loss and mine.Jason was a special young man who I met when he was a patient on Memorial 5 south at Aultman hospital.He became our pet patient.I'll never forget his spirit and his smile. I will keep you in my prayers and Jason forever in my heart.
Ybarra Family
November 19, 2009
Our greatest sympathies for Lauren and her family. We'll be thinking of you and praying for healing.
November 19, 2009
Dear Russell, Jill and Marilee, We all have fond memories of Jason. It was our pleasure to attend the engagement party and to await the arrival of Russell. Our hearts are full of compassion for all of you. Please know that we all feel very sad about the death of Jason, but realize that Russell will be a beautiful reminder of his dad and a magnificient hope for the future. The Staff at Weed
Mike Powell
November 19, 2009
Jason was a great guy. Years ago we spent countless hours and days together laughing and having a good time. I can still hear his funny laugh in my head like it was yesterday. He always had a positive outlook on whatever was going on. He used to talk about looking forward to some day having a wife and kids. I'm glad he got it, just way too short. To all of his family, I'm so sorry for your loss. I know you all feel a terrible void with Jason gone. Just remember his wonderful smiling face and great laugh and know that his spirit will always be there with you.
Respectfully, Mike Powell (Roanoke, VA)
Lisa Blackburn
November 19, 2009
No words can ever express the deep sadness we all feel at the sudden loss of Jason. He was truly ONE in a MILLION. He touched the lives of so many people, ours included. Our love is sent to Jill and Baby Russell.
He will never be forgotten.
Lisa, Jon & Valli (Carpet Smart)
Nancy Soward
November 19, 2009
Dear Jill and Russell: What joy in a new baby to be followed by such devastating news. We are thinking of you and and all your family at this sad time. Love, Nancy & Johannes
Joy Long
November 19, 2009
We were so shocked to read about Jason's death. He had been cleaning our rugs for a long time, and I really got to know him. He was so excited about the baby coming, and you could tell how happy his life was. He would light up the room when he came in, and he always was so helpful. I will truly miss his sweet smile and his zest for life.
Please know that Jason touched many lives thru his work. We all got to love him. He was a good man!
Our thoughts and prayers go with you.
Joy & Jim Long
Linda & John Lytvinenko
November 19, 2009
Jill, Russell and all of the family,
Such a tremendous loss - sending you all the love, caring, and sympathy we have. Sad that we did not get to know Jason, but do know that he must have been a truly special person. God bless you all.
The O'Grady Family
November 18, 2009
Dear Lauren and family,
Thinking of you and yours during this incredibly tragic time. Hoping you find some tiny bit of comfort and strength to get you through the coming days.
Allison Buckley
November 18, 2009
I knew Jason in college, and he was always a fun, kind, and happy person. He will truly be missed. Know that he is with you all in spirit, and a guardian angel to his wife Jill and son Russell. There is a plan for all of us...just as there was for Jason. I know that words cannot even begin to make you feel better, but please know that I, and my family, are praying for your strength, endurace, and faith through this all.
Kate Huder-Caputo
November 18, 2009
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You and your beautiful son are in our thoughts in prayers. I never had the pleasure of meeting your husband but from the pictures on I saw two on fb, it looks like he made you very happy. We will be praying for you on Friday.
Sean Skutnik
November 18, 2009
R.I.P Jason! God Bless your family and friends during this time.
November 18, 2009
Jill,
my heart reaches out to you. please know you are surrounded by love from so many.
Kristine K.
sat. mornings
431-6034
Marlise and Chris Conrad
November 18, 2009
Jill - we are numb by the news of Jason's much too soon passing. I spoke with Jason a few weeks ago at my house, as he worked, about you two expecting a Halloween baby. I hope Russell will make you smile each day. With J's personality, I expect he would want that, you two to laugh and smile together. Our thoughts and prayers are with all the Large family during this difficult time.
Chris & Karen Floyd
November 18, 2009
Dear Jill, You haven't met us yet but we feel as though we already know you and your precious baby. We met Jason through our son Brent. Even though we only knew him through his business we considered him our friend. Our special nickname for Jason was the "overachiever". No one ever did as great of a job as Jason. We now know he deserved his nickname not only for his work but as a husband, father,son,uncle and friend. He will be missed. God bless you.
Kathy Holub
November 18, 2009
Lauren and Linda
Words can not express the sorrow I feel for you two and your families. Know that if you ever need a shoulder to cry on or someone to just listen I am here for you. Your son and brother sounded like such a loving and fun person what a loss for all. I am so glad you have that precious little Russell to see grow up and be like his Daddy.. Remember I am always here for you!!!! Kathy Holub
Colleen Butler
November 18, 2009
Words can not express the extreme sadness and sympathy that I am feeling for all of you. Jason was an amazing person. Being around him for a few short seconds would instantly change your mood for the better and put a smile on your face! He had a wonderful way of making everyone feel special. I am a better person for having known him. My prayer for you all is that over time you find comfort in the memories you keep in your heart.
November 18, 2009
Dear Jill, As a member at Wrightsville UMC, and a woman who lost her husband and father of two girls, I share with you that you will be surrounded by love from your church family, and they will be a big part of the village to help you raise your precious Russell. Stay the course, as much as you can. Reach out for help without hesitation. Know that I am here for you at any time. In deepest sympathy and Christian love, Maggie Landreth 910.233.6138
BETTY SONNTAGTAYLOR
November 18, 2009
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
November 18, 2009
Jill, In the short time we had the honor of knowing Jason, it was clear he was a very good man. Finding a fellow Buckeye and Tribe fan in Wilmington gave Jason and I plenty to talk about while he was working on our home. Julie and I are deeply sadenned, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Alan and Julie Frakes
Beth Davis
November 18, 2009
Jill,
My heart is breaking for you and your family. Jason was a truly kind and gentle person. My 3 year old son Ben loved it when Jason came to clean. Jason would always take the time to play with him and and make him feel special. I am sure he would have been a wonderful father. Whenever he spoke of you or your baby, anyone could tell how much he loved you both. If there is anything at all I can do for you or Russell, please do not hesitate to contact me. (383-3262)
Donna Wiberg
November 18, 2009
Jill, Russell and Marilee,
Your family is in our prayers. We are saddened to hear of your tragic loss.
Donna and Bo Wiberg
Students of Marilee
Jeremy&Wendy Steele
November 18, 2009
Jill and Russell, we are so saddened for the loss of Jason. It still is so hard to believe but for some reason God has bigger plans. He will be greatly missed by us all, but the memories of him will remain in our hearts forever. Even though he is not here physically, he will always be with you two wherever you go. God rest Jason's soul and you all are in in our prayers...
Martha Storrin
November 18, 2009
Dear Jill, I am a friend of your Mom's and am so sorry to learn of Jason's passing. I know that he left you with many wonderful memories, memories that even death can't erase. I truly believe that Russell is the true gift that God wanted Jason to leave you with. You Mom sent me the pictures, he is just beautiful...You are in our Thoughts and Prayers and Love....Love and Hugs, Tom and Martha Storrin
Beverly Menendez
November 18, 2009
My heart breaks for the loss of such a wonderful man. Jason always made me laugh and always had a kind word. The last time I saw him, his first words were, "Did you hear we are having a boy?" So excited. I have many memories, including the day after he graduated!!! My sincere prayers and love to all who knew and loved him.
November 18, 2009
JILL, JASON WILL BE MISSED SO MUCH HE ALWAYS HAD A BIG SMILE ON HIS FACE. YOUR FAMILY WILL BE IN OUR PRAYERS. IF WE CAN DO ANY THING FOR YOUR FAMILY PLEASE CALL JT AND BRENDA 341-003 JTS AUTOMOTIVE REPAIRE
Cari Kiefer-McDermott
November 18, 2009
Jason~ Peace to your soul forever brother! I will miss you more than you know. I can't wait to get to Wilmington and be with your family, I promise to always tell Jill & Russell stories about you for the rest of my life!
Ed Andress
November 18, 2009
Dear Jill, Ed and I (Dependable Carpet Cleaning) are shocked and saddened by this news. Jason was a special young man and he never tried to hide the fact that he was over the moon expecting the birth of your son. We enjoyed every conversation we ever had with Jason. We will miss him. Our prayers are with the family. Our phone number is in Jason's cell phone. Please call if we can help in any way. Sincerely, Ed and Coni Andress
Amy Bracken
November 18, 2009
Jason you were one of the good guys. I still remember the first time I met you, you popped out from behind my locker in 7th grade and we were friends ever since.
Jill though we never met you must be one hell of a girl and thank you for making Jason's life so happy the last 4or so years. I wish I could somehow take away your pain and saddness.
There really are no words that can express how myself and prety much the graduating class of 1990 and so many more are feeling right now. He was friends with everyone. Jason will be missed and our days will be a little darker without him.
Please take care of that precious baby and when you run out of stories to tell him, find all of us and we will fill baby Russell in on what a great guy his dad was! All my prayers to you, Amy Nolte
Melissa Smith
November 18, 2009
To say my heart is profoundly saddened by his sudden passing is truly an understatement, but I am thankful to have known JJ and to have witnessed him and my dear friend Jill share such a once-in-a-lifetime love. We should all be so lucky.
Love and healing thoughts to the many fortunate enough to be touched by Jason’s life.
Angela Hodges
November 18, 2009
Words alone in no way express the depth of heartfelt sympathy for you Jill, sweet Russell & your family. God bless you & be with you always. Love, Angela
pamela jenkins
November 18, 2009
Lauren, There are no words than can express our heartfelt sympathy. You and your family are in our prayers; we are here for you. Love Henry and Pam
Jennifer Alexander
November 18, 2009
We are so sorry for your loss.
Gary, Jennifer, Mila and Talia Alexander
Kill Devil Hills, NC
kim gerace
November 18, 2009
Jason-God Bless you and your beautiful family. You will be missed! Your whole family is such a great, loving, family! Rest In Peace. I only knew you for such a short time, but you made an ever lasting effect. Congrats to you and Jill on your new arrival, Russell! What a blessing! We will all remember you...forever. KIM GERACE and Jason Durgala, Jr. ....
November 18, 2009
Dear Jill
My heart is with you. I am available any time.
love,
Terri Mann
470-2745
Rebekah (JJB mama)
November 18, 2009
Lauren, Lifting you and your family in prayer tonight and will continue to do so. Your brother sounds like a wonderful, amazing blessing to this world.
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