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Lori A. Bernhardt
Lori A. (Ihlenfeldt) Bernhardt. Family and friends will be received on Wednesday (TONIGHT) 6 to 8 pm in the Rossi Funeral Home with services to follow at 8 pm, Msgr. Jay Clarke officiating. Entombment will be in Allouez Catholic Cemetery & Chapel Mausoleum in Green Bay, WI. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Lori's name can be made to Hospice of Stark County, 3611 Whipple Ave. N.W., Canton, Ohio 44718.
(ROSSI, 330-492-5830)

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Published by The Repository or The Independent on Jun. 18, 2008.

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Maria Quinlan

September 12, 2017

Dear Lori, apparently it's been about 10 years since you passed. You were a sweet friend of mine in high school. We shared laughs and you shared Monkees tapes with me - I think I still have them. I had a dream about you last night, out of the blue. I was at an indoor music concert that had just ended, and I walked around the back of the auditorium to look for you. I saw your platinum blond hair (the cute bob you had in high school) and I went over and said omg hello! You broke out in a gigantic grin and said Hey how did you know I was here? I said, Well, I knew Sue and Mish were coming, so I figured you would be too! You beamed, looking so happy and healthy. Then we proceeded to go out to dinner together. Fade out.

When I woke up from my dream and reality dawned, my breath caught in my throat. We lost touch after college, I'm sorry to say, but I remember you so fondly, love and miss you. Xoxo

"Sometime in the morning
You'll just reach out and she will be there,
Close as the summer air."
-- The Monkees

barbara Ihlenfeldt

July 10, 2010

It is the middle of summer and very warm. I think of you and how much you loved swimming and to be near the water. Many people continue to think about you.
Love you darling
MOM

July 2, 2010

I cherish all of the great memories
I have of you,and hold them close to my heart every day.
Love you, baby
Mom

Aunt Sandra

June 16, 2010

To my sweet niece
We all miss you very much. Your Mom and I had lunch yesterday in your honor
Miss you

Frances Bernhardt

June 15, 2010

Lori,in my heart and soul,I shall not forget this day.But comfort in knowing you have peace,love & freedom from pain Love you,Fran Bernhardt

Barbara Ihlenfeldt

June 6, 2010

To my baby
June 15th will be the 2nd anniversary of my Loris' end of life on this earth and a new beginning.
Many fond memories are with me every minute of the day.'Miss you and love you!!!

May 30, 2010

Holiday time
Memories of picnics,parades and remembering those who served out country.
Missing your presence, sweet daughter, at our cook out today with family. Jeff and Brayton are spending a weekend with me and Pauls' family. Soooo happy to have them.
Love you, think of you everyday.
Mom

May 19, 2010

May Aunt Lori and Grandpa Lens' spirit be with David as he graduates from Notre Dame Academy Sunday, May 23rd.
Miss you both very much.
All my love
Mom

Barbara Ihlenfeldt

May 8, 2010

Memories of Mothers' Day
Always a beautiful, loving card and a pretty plant at the door for Mom, and a phone call.
Miss you baby!!
Love
Mom

April 30, 2010

To my Frappacino Queen
Another memory that came to mind. Only Jeff and I know about your craze for the Starbucks special.
Love you soooo much
Mom

Barbara Ihlenfeldt

April 17, 2010

You will always be known as my little girl.
Family time in Florida---many good memories to hold on to.
Love you
MOM

Frances Bernhardt

April 12, 2010

Lori baby.Forever in my heart,always in my prayers.Miss you ever so much. Fran Baby

April 11, 2010

Lori you and your family are in our prayers often. We know how much they miss you and your Dad. We enjoyed seeing the pictures that are shared in this guest book. Love Rae Ann & Steve Gosser

Lori and Paul

Barbara Ihlenfeldt

April 10, 2010

To my Lori
Today is your brother Pauls' birthday and he will miss your phone call giving him a hard time. I made him his favorite dessert.
Love and miss you
Mom

Lori and Paul Grand Canyon

April 10, 2010

Sandra Bryant

April 4, 2010

Happy Easter to Lori and Lee

Lori and Mom

Barbara Ihlenfeldt

April 3, 2010

The Lord has risen!!! Happy Easter to my Lori and her daddy.
I picture Sniffles, Sammy, Lily and Buster gathered around you.
A glorious and holy time of the year.
Love and hugs
Mom

Barbara Ihlenfeldt

March 29, 2010

My darling daughter
I ask for your light to guide me through this Holy Week. A very precious and emotional time for me.
Love you
Mom

My baby

Barbara Ihlenfeldt

March 27, 2010

This was your favorite photo. Love you
Mom

Linda Haas

March 22, 2010

Thinking of you with warm memories sweet Lori.

Barbara Ihlenfeldt

March 21, 2010

To my baby
Memories----watched professional ice skating today and thought of how much you loved to skate.
Love you
Mom

March 9, 2010

Good Morning Baby
WE are shrouded in fog in Green Bay this morning. This week I am attending Mass and an hour of reflection following. The priest giving this is wonderful and makes us smile. I pray every day I can come to terms with your loss( I don't think I ever will fully). Miss hanging out with you on the phone every day. Knowing you are not in pain gives me a sense of relief.
Until we meet again---I love you.
Mom

Linda Haas

March 3, 2010

Hello sweet friend.
I have been thinking so strongly of you lately. I wish I had you here with me to give me some advise. I sometimes wonder if you are sitting back watching me and sending little vibes to steer me in the right direction. Life sure is difficult. Each time I come to this page....I see your pictures and it brings back that memory that I have of you sitting there at the Holiday Inn in Charlotte holding our little Chloe tight in your arms. I really miss you dear friend but I know you are in a much better place than I am here.
Until I see you again.....I'm sending you lots of love.
Your bunny friend, Linda Lou

March 1, 2010

It is the first day of March, hopefully with spring around the corner it will be sprouting new life.


I have to keep reminding myself that you are in the arms of the Lord, free of all of your pain and at peace. It helps ease the pain in your moms' heart. You are loved and missed!!!
I will never forget some of the fun things we pulled when you lived with us for 1 and one-half years. So fun to hang on to, Jeff may come up in May miss him and the boys.
Love and kisses your lonesome mom

February 14, 2010

HAPPY VLENTINES DAY TO MY DAUGHTER LORI AND HUSBAND LEN. yOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART!!
lOVE AND MISS YOU.
MOM/BARB

February 2, 2010

February 1, 2010

To my Baby
It is February!!! It will be soon be two years since you, Jeff, Dad and I took our wonderful, unforgettable, memory filled trip to Hawaai. What fortitude you showed, despite the severe pain. WE did almost everything you wanted to do except swim with the dolphins.
A vacation I will never forget.
I have to hang on to all of those fun times to keep going.
I picture you surrounded by your bunnies.
God bless
Love and miss you
Mom

January 17, 2010

My dearest Lori
I have strong thoughts of you today.
Would give anything to hold you and hug you!
Love and hugs
Mom

January 1, 2010

Lori Baby
Today is the beginning of a new year--2010, I keep mulling over the happy memories we had in your 38 years of life with us. You and your dad are hopefully having a joyous time in heaven. I think of you everyday and you always are close to my heart.
Love you, miss you
Mom

This is my most favorite picture of "our little angel", Miss Chlo Chlo

Linda Haas

December 28, 2009

Hello Sweet Friend !!!
I hope you are having a joyous time there in heaven with your sweet dad. I have been thinking of you so much. Our sweet Chloe is so happy here with me. Each time I look at her...I think of you. With her....she brought a true friendship between you and I. As you said before..."that little thing doesn't have any idea how many lives she touched." It was God's will for you and I to meet through HER. God works in many wonderful ways. Until we meet again dear friend...you are always in my heart.
Linda Lou

December 25, 2009

Merry Christmas to my dear niece Lori and her dad, my sweet brother-in-law. I bet you both are together with the rest of the family celebrating Jesus birthday.
Happy Holidays. Love and miss you.
Sandra

December 24, 2009

Merry Christmas to my daughter Lori and husband Len
Christmas Eve is here---Jesus soon will be born. What a beautiful holy day. Memories of your joy Lori, with the lights, music, snow. Dads' blue lights we sent with him must be glowing, I see the stars are blue.
Think of you every day and always will. Please pray for us souls on earth. Heard from your VOCI friend Jennifer. Love you
Mom

December 11, 2009

My beautiful daughter
Winter is upon us, with much snow. Like dad would say "this looks like a scene from a picture postcard."
Memories of the season with you singing your heart out with your choirs.
I hold a small picture of you next to my heart every night when I say my prayers.
All my love
Mom

November 23, 2009

To my dear Lori
Thanksgiving will soon be here. I am grateful to have been able to spend 38 years with my only daughter. Will always hold our many memories in those short years close to my heart. It will alwys be a mystery why a child leaves this earth before the parent. My life will never be the same, but I pray everyday for strength and that your spirit is with me.
Love you, Baby
Mom

November 18, 2009

It is one year ago today your daddy joined you in paradise. Miss you both, but the memories are always in my heart. Love you both
Mom

November 11, 2009

Love you, miss you, pray for you
Your Mom

Byron Fay

October 25, 2009

Hi Lori,
I have been thinking of you a lot lately. You see, I have been channeling your strength for several months while I have been dealing with my own health problems. At first, I retreated to my internal cave and did not let anyone in. I remember your upbeat attitude - you never seemed to give in! Through it all, you remained radiant with life, happy to be with others, and strong in the face of adversity. Those memories helped me surface and want to live as I have. I have been diagnosed with a rare cancerous mutation and will have to endure many surgeries throughout my remaining time. Luckily, not by coincidence, I met you. You have impacted me in ways that I am still in awe of. Like you, I have used music to sooth the pains. I had surgery Wednesday and had images in my head of you and your iPod in a hospital bed. I am certain that you are with me now, strengthening me during my recovery. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

- Byron

October 24, 2009

To my baby
I am sad today, miss you so much!!!
Please pray for me.
Love you
Mom

October 18, 2009

Hi Lori. I was thinking about you while I sit here listening to your CDs (again) :) You'd be totally excited to know that a friend of mine that is a DJ needs a song to play on the air tomorrow from 1986, and since I have all these amazing mix CDs of yours, he is going to pick a song from one of them to play tomorrow. Way to Go. I love you and miss you.

-Collin

October 14, 2009

Thinking of you on this cold rainy day. Of, course you are in my thoughts and prayers every day. Love you and miss you all the rest of my days. I have happy pictures of my Lori around the house to remember the good times.
Big hug
Mom

October 2, 2009

Hi Lori. I miss you so much, I spent yesterday listening to your Duran Duran CD's and thinking of you. I went to church last night and lit a candle for you. Love always, Collin

October 2, 2009

DEAR LORI,
HERE I AM. A DAY LATE AND A DOLLAR SHORT. A VERY HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY. I BET YOU AND YOUR DAD HAD A WONDERFUL DAY. I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU.
AUNT SANDRA

October 1, 2009

Happy birthday aunt lori! I know you're partying the day away and celebrating with grandpa! love you and think of you often!

love love always
nikki

October 1, 2009

HAPPY BIRTHDAY AUNT LORI! oh I know you are partying the day away! Love you and think of you often.

love love always
Nikki

October 1, 2009

Happy Birthday,Lori.I remember our First celebration with you ,Jeff was out of town so we brought a wee cake so you could blow out a few candles.Your gift was what you said you wanted,A tea kettle.Yoy did like your tea & we sang ,very off key ,Happy Birthday to Lori.Miss you & love you still Fran& Harold

October 1, 2009

Happy Birthday to my dear Lori Annie
It was 40 years at 10:11 A.M. that we were blessed with the birth of our beautiful baby girl. Dad, brother Paul and I were filled with joy. We waited so long
The death of a child will always be a mystery, I know God has you in His keeping--I have you in my heart. Have a great celebration (as I know you will) with your daddy and heavenly family.
The memories hold me together. Miss you
Love you
Mom

October 1, 2009

Happy Birthday to my dear Lori Annie. It was 40 years ago today at 10:11 a.m. we were blessed with our baby girl. The excitement and joy you brought to Dad brother Paul and I will never be forgotten. The mystery of death esp a child will never be understood. I know God has you in His keeping--I have you in my heart. Have a great celebration with your dad and heavenly family. Love you
Mom

September 2, 2009

Dearest Lori
Fall is in the air, school has begun. I often think back of the times you rode your bike to school and would stop at garage sales on your way home. My memories of you will always be with me. Miss you sooooo much.
Love you
Mom

Linda Lou Haas

August 27, 2009

Dear Lori...
I have thought about you so much. I just had a dear friend of mine pass and I'm still in shock. His name is Timmy Ledford. I wish there was some way you could "meet" him there in heaven and show him around. I know that sounds silly but...he meant so much to me. I can still hear his voice in my head.
I see that your mom has been leaving you so very precious messages here. I think that this "site" is wonderful. Its a way to let us feel we are communicating with our loved ones. I hope that they continue to keep your page here because I miss you and come here often to read your guest book.
The little bunny you brought me "Chloe" is such a THRILL to me. She is so funny!! I just adore her more than words can say. I'd give my life for her. The love that I have for her is so intense. Each time I look at her...I think of YOU. She is truly one special little bunny. I think she knows it too.
Take care sweet friend.
I love you
Linda Lou

August 19, 2009

Moms' birthday today and I know you and dad are with me. Have received many cards and visits from friends.
Love and hugs from your mom

August 17, 2009

To my daughter Lori
Mom is doing well and I know you and dad are with me. Miss you sooooo much it hurts. Jeanne has been my angel here on earth watching over me during my recuperation.
Love my baby
Mom

August 2, 2009

My dear Lori
Miss you more than ever. Last week Monday I had a spinal fusion and never felt so relaxed and calm before undergoing major surgery as I did that morning. Jeanne was with me and couldn't believe it. I felt your presence and also your dads' on each side of me during the entire time.
Thank you
Love you
Mom

July 15, 2009

It's your mom again. So many times I want to give my baby a call and talk about what is happening in my life. This way I feel I have some connection.
Give daddy a hug from me.
Love you so much

July 9, 2009

Hi Lori Baby,Well,here goes again-I've tried 3x's& each time I goofed.You know how great Fran is on the computer. I can't call Lori to set me straight.I miss you ever so much,we all do.But I am grateful that you are at peace,& with your Dad And no more pain & suffering Love you so much. Fran Baby(Mom in law)

July 6, 2009

Lori,
I think about you all the time and I miss you so much.I can't believe it's been over a year already. We have these bunnies living in our yeard, like 3 of them, they just randomly appeared one day, and I know it's you:) I miss you and I love you.

Collin

July 5, 2009

July 5,2009 Lori,we miss you so much, but the good times will always be with us. I can't believe that it has been a whole year since God took you home.Please put in a good word to the Big Guy forall of us! We can't wait to see you again! We loveyou and miss you and think about you every day. Please give your dad a big hug from all of us. God gave both of you such big hearts and compassion for other people. I thank God every day that Jeff brought you into our lives even though it was for too short a time. But then,like we found out, that's not up to us! We love you, Larry and Dinah

July 1, 2009

Oh, the memories of July 4th and watching the extravagant display of fireworks over Green Bay with the family.
Lori baby, I think of you every day, miss everything about you, even your quirkiness. I love you sooooo much.
Your Mom

June 24, 2009

Hi baby. I talk to you every night and want you to know that I am doing good and am trying to do what you wanted me to do. I am moving on and have found a wonderful woman, Gayle. I do miss you and will always love you. But you could answer a few of my prayers, that is unless you and Chubba are too busy yakking it up!
Love,
Jeff

June 22, 2009

I asked and prayed to the Lord all week for a sign from Lori, at least a :HI MOM: Later in the week I experienced a dream of her in which she was with family laughing and talking , having a good time.
Thank you Lord.
God Bless Lori
Love you Mom

June 14, 2009

It is a year ago that my beloved daughter Loris' life ended on this earth. I miss her and love her more each day. Life isn't the same without her beautiful smile and her spirited ways.
Save me a spot next to you baby!
Today is her daddys'birthday and I am sure he is with her playing his trombone and she is singing Happy Birthday.
Love you
Mom

May 9, 2009

It is Mothers' Day weekend and indeed will miss my darling daughter Lori. I could always expect "I Love You" message, a beautiful card and the usual flowers or plant and of course a phone call. There will be a mass for my Lori at 8:30 tomorrow morning and Paul, Jeanne and the kids will be there with me to bring the gifts to the table. Miss you baby!!!! Lots of Love Mom

Barbara Ihlenfeldt

April 10, 2009

Good Morning Lori
Today is Good Friday, the passion of our Lord, truly an emotional time for me. It is also your brothers' 47th birthday, hoping you and dad are here in spirit for his special day.
Dad has come to me a couple of times at night, calling my name and giving me one of his loud, clearing of his throat. I am patiently waiting for your sign.
I love you soooo much and think of you constantly. Miss your laughter and the silly things we use to talk about.
Mom

Linda Lou Haas

March 18, 2009

Dear Lori...
I got all the pictures that I could find of you and had them all printed out so that I could make me a little "Lori book". I have been thinking so much about you lately. Its almost as if you are around me or you know whats going on in my life. I had a real scare the other week with my cancer screening and I almost felt as if you were there with me. Holding my hand through it all. You were such a brave girl. Every once in a while I can see your smile and hear your laugh. You are soooo missed. Miss Chloe sends her love. Each time I look at her, I think of you.
Linda Lou

Barbara Ihlenfeldt

March 17, 2009

Happy St. Patricks Day, Lori
I remember all of the years of corn beef and cabbage. Your dad loved it. I miss and love you so much. Take good care of daddy.
Love and hugs
Mom
Barbara Ihlenfeldt

Barbara Ihlenfeldt

February 27, 2009

Dear Lori
We had thunder, lightning and a snowstorm last night. With the flashes of light there was a pink aura. Was that your doings?
Love you
Mom Ihlenfeldt

Barbara Ihlenfeldt

February 26, 2009

My dear Lori
I think of you every day with a tear or two. Miss you and your daddy more than ever. I know you both are at peace and watching over us.
Love and hugs
MOM Ihlenfeldt

Barbara Ihlenfeldt

February 14, 2009

Dearest Lori
Happy Valentines Day. I love you sooooo much and miss you as well. It is just not the same without you and never will. You are my angel looking after your mom.
Love and Peace
Barbara (MOM) Ihlenfeldt

Diana Mihalik

January 29, 2009

Dear Lori, We miss you more now than when you first passed. Every bunny I see , I think of you ( I call them all Lori). Whenever the clouds part in the sky or the sky is pink, I know you are watching us along with my grandma and aunts. Jeff is doing great,I am so proud of him. It was a tough two and a half years for both of you, but now your with the Lord and your pain is gone. Jeff is trying to go on with his life and doing a great job of it! We love you both, Larry and Dinah

Barbara Ihlenfeldt

January 27, 2009

A new year has begun and I have been going over the Hawaii trip we took just about a year ago with our daughter Lori ,her husband Jeff, Len , my husband , and myself. It was truly a God send to all of us. Since then we have lost Lori and her daddy Len and my heart continues to grieve for them both. These are long winter days. I ask my two angels to watch over us.
Love and hugs
Barbara Ihlenfeldt

Barbara Ihlenfeldt

December 30, 2008

A new year is beginning and you will never be out of my thoughts and the many memories we shared in your short life, Lori. Thinking of you and your daddy as you share your eternal life together.
Love you!!!
Mom (Barb) Ihlenfeldt

Linda Haas

November 28, 2008

Hello Everyone. I'm Linda Haas and I love coming to this guest book and reading the sweet comments and messages that everyone has left for my dear friend. Lori was the sweetest girl and I had the opportunity to meet her as she was on her way to a wedding in Florida one weekend. She brought a sweet bunny rabbit with her to give to me. I named her Chloe and she is the light of my life. Each time I hold that bunny, I think of Lori. I noticed that there are not many pics of her up here. Only one that Jeff put. I'd like to see some more pics of her if anyone could contribute them to the guest book here. It would be great. And thank you Jeff, for keeping this guest book up. Its a very sweet memorial to her.
Linda Haas

Barbara Ihlenfeldt

November 27, 2008

Happy Thanksgiving! Lori and her daddy are spending their first Thanksgivinging in heaven. Miss you both very much.
Love Mom and Barbara Ihlenfeldt

Barbara Ihlenfeldt

November 5, 2008

Hi Jeff
Thanks so much for coming to Green Bay to attend the memorial mass for Lori. It meant so much to her family and I am sure your dear Lori.
Love The Ihlenfeldts

Baebara and Len Ihlenfeldt

October 1, 2008

Happy Birthday to our dear daughter Lori, born on October 1,1969. Put on your birthday wings today baby, we are having cake and ice cream with family and friends.
Jeff, we will have you in our thoughts and prayers.
God Bless
Loveand hugs
Mom and Dad Ihlenfeldt

Mom and dad Ihlenfeldt

September 13, 2008

Dear Jeff
Lori will be thrilled you are attending the benfit concert Tuesday evening, along with her many friends and your family. What a commemoration of her life that will be.Her dad and I would have loved to have been present, but due to his illness that limits our travel. I know she will be doing the happy dance. Thank you so much for thinking of her.

Barbara Ihlenfeldt

August 19, 2008

Moms' birthday today, I know you are with me in spirit, Lori. Last year on this day Lori was with us in Green Bay and we had a great time. She showered me with gifts and made my day very special. Love you!
Peace
Mom Ihlenfeldt

Denice Healy

July 21, 2008

Dear Jeff:
Want you to know that there are many thoughts and prayers coming your way from Green Bay. Lori will be sadly missed by many and we hope that all the good memories will give you comfort. She is now under God's protective wings. Another angel to watch over us!
Hugs and prayers,
Jeff and Denice Healy

Mom iHLENFELDT

July 19, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Barbara Ihlenfeldt

July 16, 2008

Lori, I miss the daily phone calls, hearing your voice and how your day is going. I think of all the fun times we had watching t.v. when you were a young girl and your dad was working the sunday evening shift at the t.v. station, and of course many more memories. Love you. Mom

The Love of my life. Jeff

July 5, 2008

Rolf and Kathy Simonson

June 29, 2008

Dear Jeff,
Rolf and I were so saddened to hear of Lori's passing. Your words asking us to pray for her in her final hours were inspiring. What a bright shinning star she was. We all will miss her spirit on this earth.

Len and Barb Ihlenfeldt

June 29, 2008

We want to thank all of the beautiful friends of Lori for their compassion and love . It brought Len and I, her parents, great comfort during the most difficult times. We miss her so very much.
Len and Barb Ihlenfeldt (Green Bay, Wi)

Starla Graber

June 28, 2008

Dear Jeff and family
Lori has been such a wonderful friend to my sister Susan. I've been so grateful that Susan has had such a friend- we all need a "Lori" in our lives. Susan has shared "Lori stories" with us over the years so that we have loved Lori-even if we never met personally. She was a beautiful person. You have our thoughts and prayers now and in the coming days. Peace!

Tom and Jody Saltsman

June 23, 2008

Jeff, our deepest sympathies. Lori was such an inspiration to our Maggie. We mourn her loss. We are so glad to have known her, if only for a short time.

Byron Fay II

June 22, 2008

For Dana and myself, our hearts go out to you. Through all of my struggels with the serious car accident and then pancreatic cancer cells removed, I looked everyday to Lori for moral support. Her attitude was completly upbeat, energetic, and inviting --making her all the more loveable. Jeff, I know this is hard for you, but remember than Lori wants nothing but the best for you. If at anytime you need a shoulder to cry on or just an escape from it all, you are always more then welcome to call my at 330-384-0555. We would love your company and help you throught the transition in your life right now. We love you, Lori, your family, and want to do anything that I can do for you. I had a stroke two weeks ago and have to grounded from driving, so walk on over and visit! We would love that. She was warm, unbelievably upbeat, and truly one of a kind that touched my soul everytime that I looked to her for inspiration. Let us know if there is ANYTHING, so matter how small, that we can do. I do not have enought life experience to know exactly what to say other than she is in a better place for sure watching down on you and supporting you all of your life. Dana and I care tremendously about your health, and I have been to counseling and am able to help with my toolbox of skills. She will be missed, but not forgotten. With love: Byron and Dana Fay

Ginny Mason

June 20, 2008

To Jeff and all Lori's family: The IBC community mourns with you at this difficult time. While most of us only knew Lori via email contact, we were impressed with her spirit, courage and hope. She reached out to many providing comfort and encouragement. I pray that comfort for you now and in the days ahead.
Ginny Mason RN, BSN
Executive Director & IBC Survivor
Inflammatory Breast Cancer Research Foundation

Carolyn Hess

June 20, 2008

Jeff:
I have been in Portland, Oregon returning late last night and just learned of Lori's passing. Lori and I connected through Leadership Stark County and we shared many laughs together. She was an amazing gal and inspired me in so many ways. My heart is saddened by your loss. Please convey my sympathy to her parents. I met her Mom sometime ago and I know her heart is heavy.
Love and sympathy. Carolyn Hess

Andrea (Bryant) Burge

June 19, 2008

My deepest (and sincerest) sympathies go out to my Aunt Barb and Uncle Lee for they have lost one of their most valuable treasures ever. Paul has lost a gem of a sister. May they all hold on to their precious memories. Always remember her beautiful smile, her hysterical wit and her undeniable zest for life!! I will never forget my cousin for she truly is the epitome of strength, positivity and COURAGE! May we all learn from her...she NEVER gave up. Get the party started girl, and keep it going...we will all see you again someday!! Love always!!

Dick Webb

June 19, 2008

Jeff
What a struggle that you Lori and your family had to live with for the past too years. Cancer, the word itself is hard to say out loud it is so devastating. No words can ever say the things we think when someone we love is stricken with this terrible godforsaken disease. I can only hope as each day goes by for you and your family there will be some light at the end of this long road you had to travel. I know with my daughter Beth Ann I just didn't know why she was picked as your Lori was. We can only hope we will have those answers and it will be clear to us Why!
Jeff my heart go out to you and your family.
dick

Connie Varian

June 18, 2008

Jeff and family
I am so heartbroken for your loss of such a special person as Lori. She will always be a beautiful, brave and loving person to all the people and "bunnies" that were fortunate to have had her in their lives. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Tiffanie allen

June 18, 2008

I knew Lori through Susan Graber & loved to see what a great friend she was to her & her son, she always brought a smile to both of them. She will be missed everyday. I feel very lucky to have known such a inspiring woman. When the skies are pink at night i know in my heart she is part of that beautiful sky. Rest in Peace Lori.

Heather Suffecool

June 18, 2008

I am so very sorry to hear about Lori. I had the pleasure of singing with her and will never forget her. I never met anyone before her who loved bunnies as much as me! She helped me so much when I had to go for my cancer checkups, and I am so grateful for that. She was such an amazing and strong person. I will miss her terribly.

Tony Ford

June 18, 2008

Dear Jeff, we are so sorry, the thoughts and prayers of all your colleagues at alfa CTP are with you.
We never got to know Lori personally but as we had the honor of walking in her name, her inner strength and fighting spirit reached across the miles and she became an inspiration to us all.

William Hope

June 18, 2008

Jeff
I never met your wonderful wife Lori, but I could tell through conversations with you that she was a good person. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

Tony Rainieri

June 18, 2008

We are sorry for your loss.You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Tony and Debbie Rainieri

Mish Gregory

June 18, 2008

Where to start...Such good memories of high school and long summers...80's music blaring, laughs and fun. Lori will be missed and I know she holds a special place in the hearts of all of those she has touched with her love and laughter. Be at peace, friend.

Kent Sowards

June 18, 2008

My prayers are with you and your family.

Robert Bradford

June 18, 2008

We are truly sorry to hear of your loss.....
Dixie and I will be thinking of you.

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