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Joan DeWees Obituary

Joan Ann DeWees, 83, of Westminster, died Saturday, November 1, 2025, at Carroll Hospital. Born October 14, 1942 in Baltimore, she was the daughter of the late George and Mary Rader. She was the beloved wife of the late Thomas D. DeWees. Joan drove a school bus for Carroll County Public Schools in the late 70's and early 80's. To this day, many people remember Joan from being a school bus driver in the Sykesville/Eldersburg area. Her route consisted of Liberty High, Sykesville Middle and Freedom Elementary. She also worked in the cafeteria at Fairhaven in Sykesville and the St. Paul's School in Towson. Joan had many friends but none dearer than Pat and Jess Chaney of Westminster and Steven and Linda Auerbach of Westminster. Joan loved her family, her friends, her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She loved to play cards, playing the slots, travelling with her best friend Pat, going to Wildwood, NJ on vacations with her brother Jim, Nancy, Kristen, Mike, Kim & Kathy. Joan loved Coca-Cola (Coke), Baugher's turkey and fries with gravy and Hoffman's milkshakes. Joan was fun loving, adventurous and full of life until she took her final breath. Joan and her best friend Pat movie hopped before it was a crime and would often see every new release in one day. Joan loved nothing more than her late husband Tom. They created a blended family in the early 70's and moved to Carroll County from Baltimore to build a better life for their family. Joan and Tom had a love that stood the test of time, including Tom's deployment to Vietnam in 1968 and the birth of their son while he was overseas. Joan and Tom lived a simple and quiet life in the south Carroll area. They loved travelling to Wildwood, NJ and the Finger Lakes in Upstate New York. They loved the Orioles, Colts and Ravens. They are both at peace with each other, likely playing pitch, poker or rummy. She is survived by children Kathy Thomas and her husband Lane Thomas of Fairfield, PA; Michael Mueller and his wife Beth Mueller of Woodbine, Maryland; Kimberly Reich and her husband Mike Reich of Littlestown, PA; David DeWees and his wife Shannon DeWees of Westminster, Maryland; Jim DeWees of Westminster, Maryland; Kevin DeWees and his wife Angel DeWees of Hanover, PA; sister in-law Nancy Rader of Baltimore; niece Debbie Jones and her Husband Walt Jones of Stewartstown, PA and Kristen Unglesbee and her husband Mike Unglesbee of Baltimore. Also survived by 17 grandchildren and 11 great-grandchildren. She was preceded by her beloved sister Pat Pueltz and beloved brothers George Rader and Jim Rader of Baltimore. A Funeral Mass will be held on Thursday, November 6, 2025, at 11 a.m. at St. John Catholic Church, 43 Monroe St., Westminster. All are welcome to attend. In lieu of flowers and in honor of Joan's beloved cat Millie-Grace, the family is asking for donations to be sent to Animal Rescue, Inc. of New Freedom, PA. Arrangements by Fletcher Funeral & Cremation Services in Westminster.

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Published by Carroll County Times on Nov. 4, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Joan DeWees

Nov

6

Funeral Mass

11:00 a.m.

St. John Catholic Church

43 Monroe St., Westminster, MD

Funeral services provided by:

Fletcher Funeral & Cremation Services, P.A. - Westminster

254 East Main Street, Westminster, MD 21157

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Annie

Yesterday

I met Miss Joan when I was working at Saint Joseph´s in Emmitsburg. I would visit Tom and Joan in his room with my little dog Maggie. I always told them they were my very favorite life story. I never met two people so in love.

I´ve kept in touch with Miss Joan all these years later and was able to visit her in the hospital one evening when I got off of work. She was still her same sweet self and I got a big hug.

Miss Joan loved Jesus and I know she went straight up to be with Him and her beloved Tom. She will definitely be missed.

Chrissy Leyden

Yesterday

Aunt Joan will surely be missed greatly. Rest easy Aunt Joanie, give Uncle Tom the BIGGEST hug from all of us... I know he has missed you. To my cousins, I'm so sorry for your loss and I love you all.
With Love,
Chrissy & Patrick

Dean Johnson

Yesterday

I am extending my sincerest condolences to the DeWees family. I remember Joan driving the school bus and working in the cafeteria at Freedom Elementary School in
1979-1983. In fact, her son Jim was also one of my students.
Dean Johnson

Sally Whittington

Yesterday

So sorry for the loss of your mother. Our prayers are of you and your family.
With Deepest Sympathies~
Danny and Sally

Kendra and Donald Partlow

November 5, 2025

Aunt Joan will truly be missed. I loved my nickname she gave me"Panda". Rest in Heaven Aunt Joan. Until we meet again

Virginia Azadi

November 4, 2025

Rest in peace dear Joan . May God give comfort and peace to your family.
Love , Virginia Azadi and family

Kenneth L & Anita L Reich

November 4, 2025

Such sad news. Joan will be missed by all who knew her. Prayers for the family.

Brandi Zepp

November 4, 2025

Ms. Joan was the sweetest woman and raised the best "kids". She will be greatly missed. I am positive she´s up there with Tom living her/their best eternal life with Jesus! Happy that she´s now pain free and back with your daddy... sad that we all have to miss her. Love to you all.

Anonymous

November 4, 2025

I came into the family around 2021. I´ve grown up without any grandparents in my life. Even though I´m not related to the dewees family Joan treated like like one of her grandchildren. She would always have conversations with me ask if I´m ok and loved seeing me. There was a time I got busy and she asked about me and where I was since I didn´t see her for a little bit. I loved having Joan in my life. Someone I could look at as a grandmother figure. She cared about everyone loved anyone that would come into her life. I loved her as if she was my own grandmother. I hope can see how happy I was to have her in my life. I love you momom! Thank you for everything you have done for me.

Jackie Good

November 4, 2025

I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved mother, mother-in-law and grandmother. The DeWees family is large, boisterous, fun-loving and close ...and Joan was the ringleader. Sending compassionate thoughts and the hope that you will give yourselves and eachother grace in the days ahead.

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