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William Parker "Parker" Hayes Jr.

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William Parker 'Parker' Hayes Jr. January 22, 1973 - August 2, 2009 William Parker "Parker" Hayes, Jr., age 36, of Washington, DC, died unexpectedly at his home on Aug. 2, 2009. Parker was Project Director of the Smithsonian Institution Traveling Exhibition Service and had resided in the Washington area for eleven years. He was born in Williamsburg, Va. on Jan. 22, 1973 and spent his childhood in Belleville, where he lived for more than 20 years. Parker is survived by his wife, Jennifer M. Schommer, originally of Belgium, Wis. They were married on Sept. 13, 2008. He is also survived by his father and mother, William P. Hayes, Sr., and Connie (Harpster) Hayes, both of State College and Belleville; a sister, Margaret Hayes Aspinwall (husband Sam), of St. Petersburg, Fla.; a brother, Gregory T. Hayes (wife Meghan), of State College; and grandmother, Margaret M. Harpster of Lewistown. He was preceded in death by grandparents Glenn W. Harpster of Lewistown and A. Reed and Esther Pomeroy Hayes of Belleville. Parker was a 1991 graduate of Indian Valley High School in Lewistown. He earned his undergraduate degree in History and American Studies from Dickinson College, Carlisle in 1995. He received his master's degree in museum studies from the Cooperstown Graduate Program, Cooperstown, N.Y. in 1997. Prior to joining the Smithsonian, he was employed by the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum, and before that, the Airmen Memorial Museum in Suitland, MD, and the Baseball Hall of Fame in Cooperstown. At the Smithsonian, he was the Project Director for two ground-breaking exhibitions. Sports: Breaking Records, Breaking Barriers was the Smithsonian's largest traveling sports exhibition ever. Roberto Clemente: Beyond Baseball was a bilingual exhibition on a Latin American baseball player and humanitarian that traveled extensively to both museums and schools. His master's thesis on an itinerant 19th century folk artist entitled, Drawn Home: Fritz Vogt's Rural New York, became the foundation for unprecedented exhibitions at the New York State Historical Association in Cooperstown NY and the Museum of American Folk Art in New York City. His work was published in the fall 2000 issue of Folk Art, the Magazine of the Museum of American Folk Art. While at the Airmen Memorial Museum, his investigation into the heroic death of Airman William H. Pitsenbarger, a pararescueman in Vietnam, was instrumental to Pitsanbarger becoming the posthumous recipient of the Congressional Medal of Honor. Parker was a member of the American Association of Museums and the Program Committee of the Mid-Atlantic Association of Museums. He was a lifelong member of Camp Hunter in Milroy. He was a member of the Alpha Chi Rho Fraternity. Parker was a sports enthusiast and an avid Phillies and Penn State fan. He enjoyed hiking, golf, tennis, hunting, softball, and volleyball. He was active as a player and a coach in DC's Metro Sports Leagues and the historic Glover Park Softball League. A private memorial service will be held in Parker's honor for family and close friends at 11:00 a.m. Saturday, Aug. 8, 2009 at the Heide Farm, Belleville, with Rev. Samuel G. Strohm officiating. Burial will be private and at the convenience of the family at Church Hill Cemetery, Reedsville. The family will receive friends from 3:30 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. on Saturday, Aug. 8 at the home of Bill and Connie Hayes, 454 Scenery Drive, State College. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in the name of William Parker Hayes Jr. to: the National Parks Foundation, 1201 Eye Street, NW, Suite 550B, Washington, DC 20005, or at www.nationalparks.org. A second memorial service is being planned for a later date in Washington, DC. Arrangements are under the care of the Baggus Funeral Home, Belleville, PA 17004.

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Published by Centre Daily Times on Aug. 6, 2009.

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Mary Holahan

August 12, 2009

I recently worked with Parker on a Smithsonian exhibition at the Delaware Art Museum. He was such an able and very congenial colleague. I'll always remember him with affection and respect.

Deana Ammerman-Taylor

August 8, 2009

Parker will always hold a special place in my heart! I recently was lucky enough to talk with him on facebook and as usual he made me laugh. My thoughts and prayers are with you. please let me know if there is anything I can do. Deana (Ammmerman) Taylor

Stephen Shannon

August 7, 2009

Parker was my "Big Brother" in Alpha Chi Rho, and a great friend. I'm sure everyone who knew him is as deeply saddened by his loss. All of my deepest condolences to his family and friends.

Scott Carlson

August 7, 2009

Please accept our deepest sympathy from the Brothers of Alpha Chi Rho Fraternity and the members of the National Council.

Susan Hawthorne

August 6, 2009

Greg and family, my goodness, I am so sorry! My thoughts and prayers are with you all. ~Susan Hawthorne

Judy Caldwell

August 6, 2009

Bill and Connie,
I express my deepest sympathy to you, Greg, and Maggie.
All I can say is that God does not send us more than we can handle in our lives. We must believe that this is true, and that someday we all will understand why things like this can possibly happen.

My prayers to you all.

Mark Wagner

August 6, 2009

Mr. & Mrs. Hayes & Famly,
I was very saddened to learn of Parker's death. My deepest sympathies go out to you in this time of sorrow.

Amos Goodall

August 6, 2009

Bill, Connie and family, Casey and I are so sorry to read of Parker's death. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

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