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Barbara Renner Obituary
'Bunny'
Barbara 'Bunny' Renner, 62, of Charlotte, died Saturday, April 28, 2007 at University Hospital while surrounded by her loving family and close friends. She was born June 27, 1944 in Fredericksburg, VA to the late Alma Tilson and Henry Murray.
Bunny is survived by her husband of 48 years, Joe Douglas 'JD' Renner; daughters, Viki Hollingsworth and husband, Scott, of Mooresville, and Wendy Youngblood and husband, Chris, of Charlotte; grandchildren, Amber Little and husband, Jon, of Raleigh, Brittany Hildebrand and husband, James, Jessica Hollingsworth, Scott Hollingsworth, Jr. and wife, Rhonda, all of Cornelius, Jason Hollingsworth and fiancee, Michelle Akbari, of Charlotte, and Brystol Hollingsworth of Mooresville; siblings, Janet Murray, Crystal Bowers, and Roy Lee Tilson of Chicago, and Gail Hynus of The Plains, Ohio; her special puppy dog, 'Baby'; and family in the Greeneville, TN area. She was preceded in death by her brother, Larry Murray of Chicago.
Bunny was the 'best Mee Maw in the whole wide world', and was loved and adored by family and friends too numerous to mention.
At her request, there will be no funeral, but a memorial service is to be held at a later date to celebrate her life. Bunny loved laughter and good times with friends and family and wished to be remembered only in joy.
Bunny was a retiree of IBM in Charlotte and spent her last several years reading her books, surfing the internet, playing Scrabble, spoiling her chihuahua "Baby", and smelling the roses.
The family wishes to thank all who sent cards and well wishes during her illness as it helped brighten her days. In lieu of flowers please direct any memorial donations to Hospice and Palliative Care Charlotte Region, 1420 East Seventh Street, Charlotte, NC 28204.
I am standing upon the seashore. A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength. I stand and watch her until at length she hangs like a speck of white cloud just where the sea and sky come to mingle with each other.
Then someone at my side says: 'There, she is gone!'
'Gone where?'
Gone from my sight. That is all.
Her diminished size is in me, not in her. And just at the moment when someone at my side says: 'There, she is gone!' there are other eyes watching her coming, and other voices ready to take up the glad shout:
'Here she comes!'
And that is dying.
Henry Scott Holland
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Memories and Condolences
for Barbara Renner
ANTHONY BOWERS
May 4, 2008
LOVE ALWAYS REMEMBERS, MAY TENDER MEMORIES SOFTEN YOUR GRIEF, MAY FOND RECOLLECTION BRING YOU RELIEF,AND MAY YOU FIND COMFORT AND PEACE IN THE THOUGHT OF THE JOY THAT KNOWING YOUR LOVED ONE BROUGHT. FOR TIME AND SPACE CAN NEVER DIVIDE OR KEEP YOUR LOVED ONE FROM YOUR SIDE, WHEN MEMORY PAINTS IN COLORS TRUE, THE HAPPY HOURS THAT BELONGED TO YOU. IT'S BEEN OVER A YEAR AND YOU ARE ALWAYS IN OUR'S MEMORY'S, MAY GOD BE WITH YOU ALWAYS AND WE WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU. TILL WE MEET SOME TIME SOON. LOVE TOM, PAT AND FAMILY
Lillian and Bill Dunn
July 3, 2007
Bunny was a very special addition to our family. She always had a way of making everyone around her laugh. She will be remember with a smile.
Randy, Diane & Tiffany Bowman
May 30, 2007
J.D. & Family
Our hearts fell when we heard about Bunny. She was so special. She touched everyone around her with her great personality. We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
With Love
Randy, Diane & Tiffany
Ida Sue Shelton
May 30, 2007
J.D. & Family
Bunny was very special to all of us. We will miss her.
Love you all
Loyce & Ida Sue Shelton
Dolly Sayler
May 30, 2007
J.D. & Family
The years were few, but the love was great. I am sorry beyoud words for the loss of your Bunny.
Love you
Dolly Sayler
Imogene Bowman
May 30, 2007
J.D. & Family
Bunny is a part of so many happy memories. We were saddened to hear of your loss. We love you all.
Earnest V. & Imogene Bowman
Donna Shelton
May 29, 2007
Dear J.D. and family,
We are so sorry for your loss - Bunny had a special way of lighting up a room when she smiled. We know you will miss her terribly as we all will. Please know that all of you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Loyce and Sue
Jerry, Donna and Heather
Eddie, Pat, Nikki and Derek
FRANCES&TOMMY&STEVEN MCGHEE
May 15, 2007
DEAR J.D. AND FAMILY, WE ARE SO SORRY FOR THE LOST OF BUNNY, SHE WAS A WONDERFUL PERSON AND SHE ALWAY'S HELPED HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS OUT. SHE WAS SO GOOD TO US AND HELPED WITH JACK & GENEVA IN THERE TIME OF NEED. WE WILL NEVER FORGET HER. MAY GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU. LOVE ALWAY'S FRANCES & TOMMY AND STEVEN
ANTHONY KIM BOWERS
May 15, 2007
DEAR J.D.& VICKY & WENDY AND FAMILY, WE WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT BUNNY WAS A WONDERFUL WOMAN AND HER SMILE LILT THE ROOM UP AND WAS THE MOST OUT GOING PERSON AND CAREING FOR OTHERS. SHE HELPED OTHERS IN TIME OF NEED'S AND GAVE HER HEART TO HER FAMILY AND IN-LAWS. SHE WILL BE MISSED HERE BUT WILL LIVE IN OUR HEART'S FOREVER AND WE WILL MEET HER IN HEAVEN SOON AND REJOICE TOGETHER. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL AND WE LOVE YOU ALL. THANK YOU BUNNY FOR ALL YOU DID FOR US. YOUR LOVING FAMILY TOMMY&PAT AND FAMILY
Linda Welch
May 11, 2007
"She who I lean on"
Sometimes you just can't go it alone, the challenge is too much to bear.
So you turn to the rare and precious friend, someone who has never let you down~
She listens, consoles and supports ,she knows you well enough to say what needs to be said, yet she is smart enough to know what to say and when.
She is always there for you "arms extended", heart open ready to support you! till you can stand on your own again, that is my Bunny "my best -est friend"
And I give thanks to God that I have had Bunny to lean on!
God gave us an Earth Angel and now he needs her to add a little sparkle to Heaven!So she now wears the title of "Heavenly Angel"
J.D., VIKI & Wendy as you all know I too have lost my best friend,
but I have the most wonderful 47 years of memories to hold dear in my heart for the remainder of my time here on earth!
I love you all dearly and will always be here for you!
Love,
Auntie Linda & Uncle Jerry
Crystal Bower
May 10, 2007
We were the 6pack (well, that's what Mama called us)Gail,Larry,Bunny,Janet,Roy,and me,Crystal.Slowly the 6pack got split up,first it was Gail,she got married before I was born,then Bunny married when I was 8 months old.When I was 3yrs old mom moved the other 4 from the 6pack to Il.But,Mama made sure we got back to visit Tn. every year and I got to see "My Bunny"I wasn't able to get to know my sisters as well as I would have liked ,they were still my sisters and I loved them so very dearly!This is so hard.........I am so sorry I didn't try to get to know Bunny Better as I got older But,I guess that is what happens when you're so far away and always have been..I WILL always remember her smile,her laugh and her love because it is all that "I" have ever had *cry*..Please before we leave this world,Make sure you're saved..Just pray this little prayer.Dear God,I know I am a sinner and I pray that you would forgive me.I am trusting your Son Jesus To take me to Heaven when I die.In your precious name I pray,Amen..pray it and mean it and God promises you eternal life with Him in Heaven.To my family,I love you all and I pray that each day your heart mends a little more..God Bless you and keep you..With Love Always,Crystal
Chris,Vanessa,Ariel and Todd Bowers
May 10, 2007
Dear JD, Viki, Wendy and Family,We are very sadden to hear of Bunny's passing. She always had a smile and a kind word for anyone that passed her way. We will always remember her like that. She was always happy ever time we saw her.May god bless each of you. You are in our prayers.
Gretchen Theresa Anne Brinker
May 10, 2007
My family, friends, & I are sorry to hear of the passing of Bunny; we extend our condolences to you all, your family, & dear friends. All of you are in our thoughts & prayers. Take care, and God bless.
Trish Murphy
May 9, 2007
Heartfelt sympathy for your loss.
I know that she was adored by you all, and the real blessing is she knows it too ! God Blessings to you all.
Ms.MIG
Amber Little
May 9, 2007
Mee-Maw
I Love You
A Bushel and a Peck
A Hug Around the neck
A Barrel and a Heap
And I'm Talk' in my Sleep
About You!
I will never forget the songs we sang while I would cuddle in your lap and play with your necklace. I will remember your soft skin and your fingers when we would hold eachothers hands and fidget together.
PS I will make sure to check-up on Pee-Paw, especially when he needs his nails clipped!
Gary & Kathy Dyas
May 9, 2007
JD, Wendy and Chris
I know that Bunny will be deeply missed. From the first time we met your family they've treated Gary & I as though we are part of your family. I'm sure their are many that feel the same way.
We will cherish the memories that Bunny has left us with and we look forward to the memories that are still to come with your family.
We must remember that your father has lost the love of his life and it is up to both family and friends to help feel this void.
God Bless your family.
With Love,
Gretchen McLean-Bridges
May 9, 2007
Viki and Family,
We are all so deeply saddened by your loss. Thankfully we know that she is in a wonderful place, pain free, and enjoying the fruits of her toil on this earth. Please know that my entire family is keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Betty Alberty
May 8, 2007
We are saddened by the loss of Ms. Bunny. I haven't spent time with her the last year but the memories I have will last a life time. Bunny was a beautiful person with a heart as big as a parking lot. Nothing stood in her way of doing for someone else especially bringing me greenbeans, cornbread and tomatoes. She so much enjoyed doing for her family and friends and what some would consider a burden was a joy for her. She loved JD her girls and was so proud of her grandchildren.
Losing someone is one of life's most difficult trials. Please know that our thoughts are with the family and Nathan and I feel it was an honor to know and love Bunny
Carlos, Wilhelmenia Childress
May 8, 2007
As Wilhelmenia came into the living room this morning to tell me that Bunny's obituary was in todays paper I noticed a GoldFinch perched on a shepards hook for hanging plants in our front yard, This was a great reminder of a free spirited Angle whom I loved as far back as my mind will go. I miss the Lake Myers party gang and Ruby and Vern's New years sleepover. I will always remember Bunny's Humor and wit that could make A lemon laugh, she could lighten anyones cloudy day. I pray God will ease all of the sorrows felt in such a Great lady's passing. IN Bunny's Heavenly passage God has placed her in an area that needs very little light because her soul can brighten night into day as she did with all of our days. God bless and keep you J.D., Wendy, Viki and family as we all wait for our time to greet those we love who have gone before us. Love always Carlos and Wilhelmenia
Becky Hollingsworth
May 8, 2007
Dear JD, Viki, Wendy and Family,
What a joy it was for us to have had Bunny in our lives. She was a beautiful, humorous, generous and caring person. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. I know Bunny's in heaven right now wondering what the dessert table at our next gathering will be without her contributions, it'll never be the same. We love you!!
Joe, Becky, Marshall(Vince)and Anna
James Hildebrand
May 8, 2007
Meemaw had her special ways about her and she could always brighten up a room by a much needed joke, infectious laughter, or simply by walking in. Those of us who knew her and had the blessing of spending time with her have lost so much for now with her passing. I remember so many great times I had the opportunity to share with Meemaw from croquet to watching jeopardy or wheel of fortune to just hanging out. We look forward to the joys ahead with encouragement, albeit hard right now, that we will share with her when we join her up yonder. Only thing I know for sure is I don’t really miss her because to me she isn’t gone. She resides in my memory and heart as a great wonderful Meemaw. Love you always!!
Cheryl Jones
May 7, 2007
I only met Bunny a few times, but the sparkle I always saw in Wendy, I know alot came from her. She made an impression on me as a bright, fun lady who was truly the matriarch of a family of strong young women. I'm sure she will be missed beyond belief, I hope you all can take comfort in the spirit of her memory and love. My prayers are with you-With Love...
Jackie Lubatty
May 7, 2007
There's nothing like a family
A good, old family tree...
Parents-children-grandparents
Sharing-caring-praying-
Uncles-aunts and cousins-
Though some are far apart,
The Love of all the family
Stays in every heart.
Teresa Thornton
May 7, 2007
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
And still is...
May 7, 2007
The most beautiful "Bunny" ever...
May 7, 2007
Viki Hollingsworth
May 7, 2007
Mama,
You were like a rock wall, never allowing me to run over you. Sometimes hard to the feel, but many more times you were soft like the sand between the stones, fine and smooth and always there for us to touch and be reassured. For all those times I felt you were too rough on me I've come to see that you always kept a few rocks on the surface so I could get my toe hold and climb up and find my own way. For this I am a stronger person and I thank you, and I love you and I will miss you everyday of my life.
I am so glad we were all there as you left this dimension and the pain and suffering it held for you. You fought the good fight with strength, dignity, and more courage than I thought humanly possible.
I hope joy and laughter have become abundant in your new life, cause that's the way you wanted it, and you deserve it. Kick up your heels and give Heaven something to talk about!
faye davis
May 7, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Jerry C
May 7, 2007
To Wendy; I never knew your "Mama", but from what you have said, it is my loss for not knowing her. I am truly sorry for your loss and I am here for you whenever you need a friend. My deepest heartfelt love and caring go out to you and your family at this time. Remember "Mama" in all her glory and in her life for what she was. Her illness was only a blip in her time here, she is and always will be what you remember of her. She truly is in a better place.
Melanie
May 6, 2007
My deepest condolences go out to
Chris, Wendy, and all who knew
"Bunny". May God always watch
over her, and bless her
family and comfort them during
these hard times.
Tammy Rainwater
May 6, 2007
I never got the chance to meet Bunny in person but feel I got to know her through her daughter, Wendy through the years
May her strength and happiness live on through you, JD, Wendy & Chris, Viki, Amber, Brittany, Brystol, the rest of the family... and every life she touched forever.....
Bunny,
I only wish I had gotten to know you personally, You were truly an amazing woman, and will never be forgotten.
Martha Ballard
May 6, 2007
MY HEART IS WITH YOU JD, WENDY, VICKIE AND THE REST OF THE FAMILY.
I first meet Bunny 27 yrs. ago and we remained friends through all these years. Bunny was like the sister I never had.
Bunny had a personality along with a smile and laugh that drew people. She was the most kind hearted, loving and caring person that I was fortunate enough to know.
When Bunny left this earth for a better place she took a piece of so many peoples heart with her.
Bunny and I always said when we got old, we would set on a bench with our knee highs on, old floppy hats and a shawl around our necks and talk about our kids and family.
MISS BUNNY...I will see you on that Bench.
Love you with all my heart.
Your Sis forever,
Deneen
May 6, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family at this sad time.
Robby,Brandi,Christian and Josh Pope
May 6, 2007
May her spirit be with you always!
Robby,Brandi,Christian and Josh Ppope
May 6, 2007
May your spirit always be with the ones you love!
Stacey Hilton
May 6, 2007
My heart goes out to this family~
Christopher Youngblood
May 6, 2007
With our deepest love always, we will miss you Mama!!! Rest In Peace
Wendy Youngblood
May 6, 2007
I will love and miss my mother every day of my life. She was an amazing, beautiful & strong woman. She left so many wonderful memories in so many hearts and lives. I am so sad and my heart breaks that she had to leave us so soon. But, with the love and strength of God, family and friends, we will go on and live each day to the fullest, and remember her with love and laughter. I love you Mama! Thank you for being such a wonderful mother, grandmother & friend to so many. Love forever... Wendy
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