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Dennis Thaxton Obituary

Dennis Edgar Thaxton CHARLOTTE - Dennis Edgar Thaxton, 68, passed away January 15, 2015, at The Pavilion Healthcare Center at Brightmore in Charlotte. He was born at Presbyterian Hospital in Charlotte on November 10, 1946, the second son of Ed and Mickey Thaxton, and was a life-long Charlottean. Dennis was a graduate of South Mecklenburg High School and East Carolina University, and began his professional career in 1972 at MidSouth Consulting Engineers in Charlotte until he retired in 2008 as a vice president. Dennis will be lovingly missed by his wife of 40 years, Mary Jo Thaxton; his three amazing daughters, Lisa Thaxton Lanier (Shawn), of Charlotte, Shell Thaxton (husband Alex Everett), of Durham, Kerry Thaxton Kifer (Mark), of Charlotte; and his two precious grandchildren, Wyatt Lanier and Isabelle Kifer. He is also survived by his brothers, Robert Thaxton and Gary Thaxton, and four beautiful nieces: Happy Little (James), Tuesday Mize (Josh), Amy Josey (Curtis) and Emily Bowers (Andy), and their children. The Thaxton family would especially like to thank the staff of Blessed Assurance Adult Day and Health Care Center and The Pavilion Health Care Center at Brightmore for the loving care they shared with Dennis. The family would like to receive friends and celebrate Dennis's life at 1:00 on Saturday, January 24, 2015, at The Pavilion Health Care Center, 10011 Providence Road West, Charlotte, NC. In lieu of flowers, memorials can be made to Liberty Hospice Services, 2334 South 41st Street, Wilmington, NC 28403, or to Blessed Assurance Adult Day Care, 13001 Idlewild Road, Matthews, NC 28105 or to the charity of your choice.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Jan. 18, 2015.

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April 15, 2015

Just learned that Dennis has died. I have fond memories of him and our years together at South. My thoughts are with his family.
Beth Brown McSwain

David and Julie Blanton

January 23, 2015

Dear Thaxton Family,
You have been in our prayers all week; please accept our condolences. Our thoughts are with you in friendship and sympathy. Hugs to you all.

Marnie Poirier

January 23, 2015

Mary Jo, I was sorry to hear that Dennis crossed over. I have some fond memories of working with him at Mid-South. I wish I could attend tomorrow but am thinking of you and 'the girls.' Be Well, dear.

Melissa and Tommy Miller

January 23, 2015

Mary Jo, Lisa, Shell and Kerry,
Sending our heartfelt love and prayers to you in your great loss. We pray for God's comfort and peace to carry you in the coming days. Den loved his family very, very much - his girls were the light of his life!
We have so many great memories of working at Mid-South together over the years. Our friendship with Den was very precious and special to us!
Den's father, Mr. "T" was like a father to us and Mid-South was our big family. We always remember how caring and helpful Den was. One instance that stands out: He worked so hard in making sure their new Beach Villa was ready and perfect for us for our honeymoon. This was a special blessing!
We will miss Den immensely!
We Love you...

Dennis & Vicki Spivey

January 21, 2015

We are very saddened to hear of Dennis' passing! He will always be remembered as a special neighbor. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers Mary Jo and if there is anything we can do, please let us know.

Ellen Dillard

January 20, 2015

Mary Jo, Shell and Kerry,
I was so sorry to hear about Dennis' passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

William Parker

January 19, 2015

Was just a blink ago we were kids playing on Mockingbird, will always keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.

Ray Littlefield

January 19, 2015

A very fine guy; well liked by all Sabres who knew him.

Bob Stultz

January 19, 2015

Gary, I am so sorry to hear about Dennis. Please pass on my condolences to his family. I will be in Florida on Saturday so will not be able to join you but you will be in my thoughts. Bob

Gloria McCoy

January 19, 2015

So sorry to hear of Dennis passing. I worked with Dennis at Mid South Eng. many years ago. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Donna McGarity

January 19, 2015

So sorry to hear about Dennis! He was a real nice guy! He will be missed!

Cat Francis

January 18, 2015

I'll never forget your dad making us breakfast in bed when we were skipping school :-). He was the best! He will be missed! Xoxo

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