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Edward Dement Obituary
He was born on November 11, 1944 in Durham, NC to the late Edward Franklin and Maude Harris Dement.
Ed was a graduate of Durham High School, a 1966 graduate of NC State University, and an original member of The O'Kaysions -- the popular North Carolina beach band that wrote and recorded the mega-hit "Girl Watcher" in 1968. In November of 2003, all six original members were inducted into the Carolinas Beach Music Hall of Fame.
He had two successful careers, Manpower Development Corporation in Chapel Hill, NC and The Equitable Life Assurance Society in Raleigh, NC. Following his retirement as a financial advisor in 2005, Ed performed "live" with many of the finest beach bands in the Carolinas, and dedicated his time to singing and performing regularly for area churches, charities, musical fan clubs, Veterans' and civic organizations, and senior social events. He is a proud member of the Charlotte-South Rotary Club, and an actively-engaged member of the Matthews Veterans Advisory Council. Ed and his wife Barbara are residents of Matthews, NC where they have served as co-directors for the Town's Sister City partnership with Sainte-Maxime, France. He was also on the planning board for the Camp Green Centennial Celebration that is scheduled to take place this coming Friday and Saturday.
Ed is survived by his wife, Barbara Dement; children, Cynthia Grantham (David), Shannon Dement Parham (John ), Thomas McLaren Dement (Melissa) and Jennifer Cristin Mize; grandchildren, Joseph Cook Grantham (Ashton), Jordan Caroline Parham, John (Rhett) Eldridge Parham, III, Amelia Grace Dement and Henry Thomas Dement.
In addition to his parents, he is preceded in death by his son-in-law, Kenneth B. Cook.
A visitation will be held from 10:30am until 12:00pm on Friday, July 14, 2017 in the Crouch Fellowship Hall at Providence Baptist Church, 4921 Randolph Road, Charlotte, NC 28211. A funeral service officiated by Dr. Al Cadenhead and Rev. Dr. Larry W. Whitley will immediately follow in the sanctuary at 12:00pm.
A Committal Service will be held in Sharon Memorial Park.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial contributions be made in Ed's name, and sent to Charlotte-South Rotary Charitable Foundation, 7804-C Fairview Road, PMB #188, Charlotte, NC 28226.
Condolences may be offered at www.mcewenminthillchapel.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Edward Dement
Don Carrigan
February 7, 2018
So sorry to learn of Ed's passing. Just read it in the N C State alumni magazine. Really enjoyed seeing the Kays at the small clubs around Raleigh in the mid 60s. Remember them backing up Gary (US) Bonds at the state fair in 1965. Even got the chance to ride in his prized GTO.
Dianne Welch
July 18, 2017
Barbara & family So sorry to learn of your loss. Ed was a wonderful gentleman and such a great entertainer. He entertained our Hampton B. Allen Library's 50+ Club several times and we appreciated that so much. Everyone loved Ed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Dianne Welch
Frank Timberlake
July 18, 2017
I only knew of Ed Dement. But I know his son, Thomas, well enough to know that Ed had to be a fine man. I am sorry for the pain of his passing for your entire family. May God comfort you all and turn hurt into warm memories.
Jack Stone
July 18, 2017
I am saddened by the news of Ed's death. My work with state government and the City of Durham gave me the privilege to work with MDC staff in the 1970s. Ed was always professional, very astute, and gentlemanly in manner. His warm and winsome personality made him successful in his work.
May God's peace be with his family.
July 17, 2017
Barbara,
You are such a sweet woman, and I'm so sorry for your loss. Ed was a wonderful entertainer, and he selflessly donated his time and talent to my Rotary club's oyster roast in recent years. Ed introduced me to you in March, and it was clear he adored you. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mindy Leonard
Charlotte Providence Rotary Club
Julie Kaloz
July 15, 2017
Barbara,
We're so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you.
Kaloz family
Jeanne Morel
July 14, 2017
Barbara,
Jerome, I and your friends at "Bienvenue Charlotte" are very sorry for your loss of Ed. We have decided to honor him by dedicating the very first Charlotte French Culture Festival to Ed Memory, as he was very involve to make our countries connect, and to build bridges between French-American cultures.
July 14, 2017
Barbara and family: We were saddened to learn of Ed's passing. If he was anything like you, Barbara, he was the best one could be. You have been such a wonderful part of our move to Plantation Estates and we will be praying for you during this difficult time. Love Keith and Pat Weber
July 14, 2017
Barbara, I know how hard it is when you loose a spouse. Take time to heal. Do not rush any decisions, and know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mary Donahey
Michael & Linda Lott
July 14, 2017
May your beautiful memories sustain you during this time. He was a wonderful, helpful neighbor.
July 14, 2017
Barbara, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the whole family at this time.
Carol and Gary Aljets
Mike Brooks
July 14, 2017
so very sorry for the loss of Ed.
Tom Cannon
July 14, 2017
Barbara,
Very sorry for your loss of Ed. We was very dedicated to veterans in our area, and he led an important part in the Matthews Veterans Advisory Committee. We will miss him.
shirley mcghie
July 14, 2017
Barbara and Family, Hold tight onto the hands of God for strength especially during this time. I had the pleasure of meeting Ed and hearing him sing so many times at the 'Rock and Roll Oldies of the Carolinas.. A beautiful voice that now sing in person to the Master and His Angels.
Brant Hart
July 13, 2017
Barbara, So sorry to hear about Ed. We were friends on Facebook at one time, but I hadn't heard from him for awhile. I had hoped to attend one of his concerts. Others have told me how much they enjoyed them. I know I would have, too. May God be with you in your time of sorrow.
Pearlie and K'Shun Gilliam
July 13, 2017
So sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you.
S.Neal Broome
July 13, 2017
The Camp Greene Neighborhood Association and I are very blessed to have had a brief experience of working, planning, knowing , and loving Ed. His talents and enthusiasm with volunteering services were major contributions to the Historical Centennial Camp Greene Festival and Gala. I will be glad to provide any assistance personally which may help to ease the pain of his promotion to GLORY - as they say in the Salvation Army. God Bless Your Wonderful Family, Neal Broome
Robin Burris
July 13, 2017
Barbara, keeping you and your family in my prayers
Ann Mudge
July 13, 2017
Barbara, I am so sorry to learn of Ed's death. What a wonderful, accomplished man he was. My Prayers and thoughts will most certainly be for you and your family. May God's presence be felt by you all. Ann Mudge
Tabitha Henderson
July 13, 2017
Barbara I am so sorry to hear about Ed. My prayers are with you.
Julie Richardt
July 13, 2017
Barbara, I am so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you. Remember the wonderful love and time the two of you shared. I know the two of you loved each other so much.
Terrie & Ed Cohn
July 13, 2017
Our most sincere condolences, Barbara to you and to all your family. we wish you comfort and healing at this most difficult time. Terrie & Eddie Cohn
Marion Ratliff
July 13, 2017
Barbara - I am so sorry to hear
about Ed's passing. You and
your family have my sincere
sympathy. (I am sure he is now a
member of Heaven's Beach Band!!)
Marion Ratliff Plantation Estates
Matthews, NC
Cynthia Harrison
July 13, 2017
Ed was a beautiful person. I am so glad to have known him for a short period of time. He brought a lot of passion to the group. He will be missed.
Cynthia Harrison
100th Centennial Celebration
Karen McCall Dale
July 12, 2017
Barbara, I am so sorry to read this. I was just talking with Jennifer a few days ago. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tanya Leary
July 12, 2017
So very sorry Shannon...Your dad sounds like he was an amazing man, which is no surprise since you are an amazing daughter. Praying for you and your sweet family.
Karen Arnold Broadway
July 12, 2017
I am so sorry for your loss
July 12, 2017
My deepest heart felt condolences to Barbara and the family..May God comfort you in your time of sorrow.
John Bean
Leisa and Tommy Blackwell
July 12, 2017
Barbara, we are so saddened to hear this news. Ed was a dynamic person who left a positive mark on the communities in which he lived. Our prayers and love are with you, Jennifer and the remainder of the family.
Tracey & Tom Gillespie
July 12, 2017
Dearest Barbara,
It is with a sad heart that we read your note. Ed was such a vibrant, joyful and giving man. Our heart aches for you as we recall our Sister Cities dinners with you and Ed hosting and entertaining us all. We pray for you, your family and all who were touched by Ed's spirit.
Tim Wright
July 12, 2017
So sorry to hear of Ed's passing ! Ed sang and played with us in Matthews back in 2012 for a Beach Blast and performed a Fourth of July Celebration with us that year also. Great guy and a great musician !! He will be missed !! Tim Wright and the Ocean Blvd Band
Buck Baskervill
July 12, 2017
Shannon, We are very sorry to hear the news about your Dad. Please know we are thinking about you, John and your kids.
Buck And Libby Baskervill
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