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Ethel McMillan Obituary

Ethel Henderson McMillan CHARLOTTE - Ethel Henderson McMillan, age 74, died March 21, 2013. She was born in Charleston, SC, October 20, 1938, the daughter of Nathaniel Dow and Virginia Mayo Henderson. Early in her life, she moved to Charlotte, and considered herself a native. She graduated from Myers Park High School, and attended the University of North Carolina at Greensboro. When her duties as a full-time mother were coming to a close, she renewed her studies at Queens College, and graduated summa cum laude with a degree in Music. She loved children, and taught piano lessons in her home for a number of years. She was a member of the Charlotte Piano Teachers Forum, and was state and nationally published in her writings on teaching piano. She taught several classes in the Continuing Education Department at Queens College. She was an avid seamstress and craftsperson, well-known for her abilities and creativity. She was known for her beautiful gardens, her love of all things "kitty", and her famous "Herman" coffee cakes. Mrs. McMillan was a member of the Costume Committee of the Mint Museum Auxiliary, past president of the Charlotte Architect's Auxiliary, and for many years, active in her church and the schools her children attended. She was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother and friend, and derived much joy from helping others. Mrs. McMillan was predeceased by her husband, Randolph Kay McMillan, in December 2012. Survivors include her daughters, Margery M. Lindh, Judith M. Robertson (Todd) and Lynda M. Folz (Don), as well as her special caregiver and adopted daughter, Tammy Ridenhour. Grandchildren include Brian Lindh, Kathryn L. Garcia (Gio), Andrew Lindh, and Christopher Robertson. Also surviving is her sister, Ann H. Barry of Brunswick, Maine; nieces; a nephew; and several cousins. Funeral services will be held 10:30 a.m. on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 in the Morrison Chapel at Covenant Presbyterian Church, with interment to follow in Evergreen Cemetery. The family will receive friends from 6:00-8:00 p.m. Monday, March 25th at Harry & Bryant, 500 Providence Rd., Charlotte; and also on Tuesday, following the graveside service, at the home of Linda and Don Folz. In lieu of flowers, the family respectfully requests donations to Hospice & Palliative Care Charlotte Region - South Charlotte, 7845 Little Ave., Charlotte, NC 28226. Condolences may be offered at www.HarryandBryantFuneralHome.com.

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Published by Charlotte Observer from Mar. 23 to Mar. 24, 2013.

Memories and Condolences
for Ethel McMillan

19 Entries

March 26, 2013

Ann, I am so sorry about your loss of your sister, Ethel. I will always have special memories of our car pooling those years of going to Myers Park together. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Frances Evans

Cynthia Stone

March 26, 2013

Margie, Judy and Lynda,
May you feel God's abundant grace and mercy as you mourn the loss of both parents so quickly. Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. A quick memory-some time in elementary school (Selwyn), my cat, Dynamite was missing. Your Mom brought me a bowl of gold fish to help console me. It was out of the blue and un-expected. Dynamite returned several months later and I still had my goldfish.
Blessings,
Cindy Snoddy Stone

March 26, 2013

Margery so sorry to hear of your mother's death. Kathryn Karasiewicz

Marion Rogers

March 26, 2013

I am so sorry I was unable to attend your Mom's funeral, previous commitments made it impossible. I worked with your Dad for several years, 1st with MWM and then MM Architects. My experiences with your Dad were so warm and fun, just like him and your Mom was no different. As I read about her I realized how close in age we were and when I would call her Mrs. McMillan she would hate it. What a wonderful and kind lady she was. Your Dad loved her so much, nothing was too good for Ethel. I had such a good time with them both, so sorry we drifted apart after I left the firm to have our second child. I have wonderful memories of your parents. You girls were so loved and so blessed. My prayers are with you all, Marion Rogers

March 26, 2013

I'm so sorry to hear of Mrs. McMillan's passing. May God guide you through these difficult times. You're all in my prayers.

Linda Gayer
Schertz, TX

March 26, 2013

In remembrance of dear Ethel from our Piano Teacher Forum days.

My deepest sympathy to the family in your loss.
God's love,
Kay Farmer

Denise Veillette

March 25, 2013

Dear Judy, Margie and Linda, My heart goes out to you all. I know what a wonderful mother she was and how much you all loved her. It seems by the other entries here that she was held dear by many. She was always kind and witty and made feel welcome whenever I visited her. I will keep you all in my heart and prayers. Love Denise

March 24, 2013

So sad to hear of Ethel's death - One of my dearest friends in junior high school and have kept up with her over the years until very recently, even though we had moved away - so many memories of her and her lovely family - My greatest sympathy to all of you - She was a very special lady -
Louise (Lulu) McQuilkin Ashby

March 24, 2013

Even though we didn't see each other very often living so far apart, I remember my cousin fondly. I knew of her talents and her love of family. She will be sorely missed by all whose lives were enriched by her presence.

Penelope Currie

March 24, 2013

My sympathy to Ethel's family.
A bright, talented woman.
She is missed, Peace and
God's grace and speed.
penelope currie

March 23, 2013

I will miss you dearest friend. Rest in the comfort of God's arms. Frannie Helms Abernethy

Sheri Sisson

March 23, 2013

Lynda - my heart goes out to you and your family. Even though I never had the chance to meet your mom, I have no doubt what a beautiful, intelligent, amazing woman she must have been. In you she leaves a lasting legacy that won't ever be forgotten.

Tal and Sara Henry

March 23, 2013

Loss of father and mother in such a short time is great sorrow for the family and neighbors who knew them so well. Love, kindness and faith, we send to the family of two talented friends.

March 23, 2013

Ethel was one of my best friends in high school. She was so smart nice and fun. I will miss her presence. Karen Campbell Adderton, St. Louis, MO

Kevin & Clarissa Vaughan

March 23, 2013

May your memories bring much comfort~peace and light Lynda and family. With love and sympathies~?

Pat Willingham Zarantonello

March 23, 2013

As I read Ethel's obituary, I remembered that she was one of our smartest classmates in high school. I was so glad to see that she had such a full and happy life. My condolences to her family.

Brandi Lee

March 23, 2013

Linda,

I am so very sorry for your loss. If I can do anything at all for you, please don't hesitate to ask. Love you to pieces.

Brandi Lee

March 23, 2013

My deepest sympathy to
Ethel;s daughters....She was good friend
in high school...Ann Lowe Nuckolls

Joan Barber Davis

March 23, 2013

I'm so sorry about Ethel. I grew up in Charlotte with your mother and always loved her. She was so smart, funny and just a great friend. I know she will be missed by many. My condolences to the family.

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