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James Kelly Obituary

James Aloysius Kelly CHARLOTTE - James Aloysius Kelly, 87, of Charlotte, passed away at his home on November 20, 2015. Son of the late James and Katherine Kelly, Jim was born and raised in Mount Kisco, NY, and spent most of his adult life in Yorktown Heights, NY. He relocated to Charlotte in 2012. He worked for the New York Railroad for 45 years, retiring from Conrail in 1990. Jim graduated from St. Mary's High School, in Katonah NY, where he met Marjorie "Marge" Patterson, his wife of 66 years, who survives him. Other survivors include his children James Kelly (Ann), Patti Kelly, and Chris Kelly (Becky); grandchildren and great-grandchildren Richard Kelly, Jeff Forte, Daniel Kelly, Thomas Kelly, Matthew Kelly, Carolyn Kelly, Ava Kelly, Jordyn Kelly, Jack Dawson, and Benjamin Dawson; siblings Katherine Collins, Helen Beuka, William Kelly, and Frances Kelly. Brothers Robert Kelly and John (Jackie) Kelly predeceased him. He was also the very loving foster parent to Theresa Rose Murphy and Dougie Gailhardt. Family was the thing he valued most in this world, and he stressed that repeatedly in his final days. Likewise, his family adored him. His siblings and their families called him "Buddy", and his children and grandchildren came to call him "Pop". He loved to fish, play cards, and do any kind of puzzle. He excelled at color slide photography, and was an award-winning member of the Westchester Colored Slide Club. Very active in the Catholic Church, he especially loved his work over the years with the teenagers. To say he was a positive and optimistic person is an understatement. Jim never complained, regardless of the situation. He even fought five different types of cancer with a smile on his face. He had a terrific sense of humor, which got him through a lot of hard times. He retained that and his quick wit to the very end. The family would like to express their sincere gratitude to Hospice and the staff at The Laurels for the tender loving care they provided Jim throughout his decline. A Memorial Service will be held on Saturday, November 28, 2015, at 2:00 PM at South Mecklenburg Presbyterian Church. The family will receive friends following the service. Those wishing to make donations in his memory are asked to do so to Hospice & Palliative Care of the Charlotte Region at 1420 East 7th Street, Charlotte, NC 28204, or the American Cancer Society - Relay for Life (Kelly's Angels) at 1901 Brunswick Ave., Suite 100, Charlotte, NC 28207. Robertson Funeral & Cremation Service is serving the family, www.throbertson.com.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Nov. 24, 2015.

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Tracy Paschal

November 28, 2015

Pop's i already miss you...but you will always be in my heart and in my head i loved you the frist time I meet you and i know you are my angel i love you....this is not goodbye this is hello

Roxanne McDonald

November 28, 2015

My heart aches with you and your family at this difficult time. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Nancy Swonger

November 28, 2015

Pattti,
Your father has now exchanged time for eternity. May God grant you and your family peace.

Mike Collins

November 26, 2015

Uncle Buddy - you were such a central part of the extended Kelly and Collins families in New York. You were and are an inspiration to all of us. Rest in peace and say hello to the rest of the gang in Heaven.

Joan Chamblin

November 25, 2015

Though I only knew Mr. Kelly as Patti's dad, I appreciated the fact that he always had a smile and seemed to enjoy our company.
We will sure miss him and I know this is a great loss Patti, in particular. Much love to all.

Marcus Mobley

November 24, 2015

RIP Mr. Kelly and may God hold your family near.

Pat Sullivan

November 24, 2015

Jim was a first-class lad. Always upbeat, friendly, and encouraging. I will be sure to have a Mass said for the happy repose of his noble soul. RIP.

ken haley

November 24, 2015

Jimmy;
You were an amazing bright person and a the best brother in law. You also were a terrific fishing partner with Dad
Ken

Sherrie Kelly

November 24, 2015

Sorry to hear of your passing. May God guide your children: Jim, Rich, Patti, Chris through this difficult time. You were a wonderful man and God Bless You. Rest In Peace. Love, Sherrie

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