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Mary Welch Obituary
Mrs. Welch, 46, of Matthews, NC, died Tuesday, May 20, 2008 at Carolinas Medical Center-Pineville.
She was born in Damascus, MD on July 29, 1961. Mary was the daughter of Maurice E. Purdum and the late Virginia Waters Serkiz. She was a graduate of Damascus High School, Class of 1979 and Winthrop University. Mary was a member of Christ Covenant Church in Matthews and was involved with the cancer support division of the Mercy Ministry.
Visitation will be held at Christ Covenant Church on Saturday, May 24, 2008 at 1:00 p.m. A memorial service will be held following the visitation at 2:30 p.m. at the same location.
She is survived by her husband of 21 years, Tom Welch, and their three sons, Thomas, Wade, and Chris; two sisters, Beth Love of Charlotte and Kathy Shirley of Berryville, VA; and one brother, Jack Purdum of Boyds, MD.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Mercy Ministry of Christ Covenant Church, 800 Fullwood Lane, Matthews, NC 28105 or to the Educational Account Fund for the Welch boys, c/o Merrill Lynch, 4500 Cameron Valley Parkway, Suite 400, Charlotte, NC 28211.
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J.B. Tallent Funeral Service is serving her family.
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Leigh Mullmann-Belin
May 19, 2009
Tom and boys,
Just wanted you to know that your wife and mother has not been forgotten. Thoughts of her pop into my head occasionally. Just the other day I saw a stranger that reminded me of her. She was a beautiful person (as I'm sure you know) and will always be remembered by many!
Hope you are all doing well. Wade, you must be getting ready for your Senior year as Mason is. Matt is graduating this year from Butler and going to Cape Fear to play basketball.
Take care.
Leigh
Robin and Rene' Toadvine
July 15, 2008
Dear Tom, Thomas, Wade and Chris,
We, too, just learned of Mary's passing when we returned from vacation. We are so sorry for your loss. And though we know your heart aches terribly, Mary was such a wonderful person, we know her memories will comfort you. She was clearly a woman who walked with Jesus every day. She was an example to all of us with her faith, kindess and determination. Our prayers continue to be with you.
By His Grace Alone,
The Toadvines
Lori Fultz
June 19, 2008
Tom, Thomas, Wade, and Chris:
We wanted to let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. We learned of Mary's homecoming today and were devastated that we missed her service. Mary was a dear friend and I will miss her. We will be in touch soon.
Lori, Sarah, Jacob, and
Rebekah Fultz
Sheree and Frank Newell
May 24, 2008
Tom, Thomas, Wade, and Chris,
Our family was so sadden to hear about Mary's death. You all are in our prayers and thoughts. We have many special memories of your wonderful wife and mom. She was a blessing to all.
JoAn & DeForest Kenemer
May 24, 2008
Tom & Boys,
you are in our hearts & prayers today.
The Kenemers
Bonnie Buckingham
May 24, 2008
I always prayed for the Lord to be the lifter of her head. I'll never forget her smile. May the Lord fill each of you with His comfort and love in amazing ways.
Bonnie and Ken Buckingham
Leigh Mullmann Belin
May 24, 2008
Tom, Thomas, Wade & Chris,
I met your wife & mother in the pediatrician's office at Wades's pre-kindergarten visit. We talked and discovered that we had boys the same age. After our conversation that day, we exchanged numbers and continued to talk over the phone. We both ended up putting our sons in transitional kindergarten. I don't know if you remember, but my son Matt, and Wade spent a few years playing basketball together at Christ Covenant. Mary even helped me out by keeping Matt & Mason after school while I finished nursing school. What a special and lovely person! She left a lasting impression on me. I will always remember her with a smile! I am sorry she was taken from you so soon, but we know that she is in Heaven and she has her wings! I pray for you now, that you will received God's Grace to see you through!
Cindy Whisonant
May 23, 2008
Tom, Thomas, Wade and Chris:
I met Mary when I had Chris in the two-year-old Sunday School. Mary was such a sweet and humble lady, and I was privileged to know her just a little bit over the last 13 years. I am sorry for your loss, as I know how much she was cherished and loved. You are all in my prayers - my deepest sympathies.
Jimmy, Brenda, & Kelly Grubb
May 23, 2008
Tommy & Boys,
I was surprised to hear about Mary today. Last time we spoke she assured us things were great. That, I'm sure, was just Mary. She seemed to always be positive about things and have a huge smile on her face. She will be truly missed. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family as you go through this difficult time. God Bless.
Kay Mitchell
May 23, 2008
Tom, Thomas, Wade and Chris,
It is devastating that your wife, Tom, and your mother, boys, has been taken away at such a young age and with much yet to experience in this world. I am so very saddened by your loss. Our walk with Christ tells us that Mary has been called home by God to reap her rewards in His Kingdom, that her health has been restored, and that she is happier than you can imagine. May you find much comfort in all of God's promises.
With love,
Harmony Huntley
May 23, 2008
Tom and boys,
I am so sorry to hear about Mary. She was a friend to me that I will never forget. We had alot of fun times together at Winthrop that can never be forgotten. She was a wonderful friend, as I'm sure she was a wife and mother. She was a true fighter and fought this horrible disease with true dignity and grace. Even way back then she never complained or asked why me? I will always cherish my memories with Mary and I am truly lucky to have known her. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
with love, Harmony
Aurelia May
May 23, 2008
I work with Mary's husband, Tom, and have had the pleasure of her company at social functions of our office. She was always warm and engaging and I had hoped to know her better. I am so happy that her life was filled with a great husband, three handsome sons, and many, many others who loved her. I'm sure Mary will be missed more than she ever realized.
Margie Sigal
May 23, 2008
Tom, Thomas, Wade and Chris ..... my thoughts and prayers go you to you in this time of sadness. I will always remember and cherish the few years that we all played together on Kelford. Mary (your Mom) was very special and I still think of our many shared conversations and play together. Warm regards, Margie Sigal
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