Mary van der Voort Wilmer

Mary van der Voort Wilmer, of Charlotte, NC, born September 13, 1923, died suddenly on April 3, 2002 of an apparent heart attack after her daily workout.
Mary, affectionately known as "Goggie" by her grandchildren, was loved by many. Previously employed at the Chemical Dependency Center, she was well-known and respected throughout alcohol treatment and recovery circles. Mary was also a wonderful writer who touched people with her beautiful words. She was very active at St. Peter's Catholic Church, volunteering countless hours helping those in need and supporting the church.
But more than anything, Mary will be remembered for her authentic desire to positively influence all those with whom she came into contact. She was a passionate woman and strong athlete. Mary was an inspirational woman that lived a spiritual and simple life.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 3:00 PM Saturday, April 6, 2002 at St. Peter's Catholic Church by The Reverend Mickey Martinez, S.J., Celebrant.
She is survived by her son, Henry Bond Wilmer, Jr. of Andover, MA; three daughters, Emily Wilmer of St. Paul, MN, Helen Wilmer Nance of Albemarle, NC and Molly Wilmer Barker, of Charlotte; and brothers Thom van der Voort and A. B. van der Voort, both of Alexandria, VA. She is also survived by her 10 grandchildren.
In lieu of flowers, please send your contributions to The Oratory, PO Box 11586, Rock Hill, SC 29731; Blessed Trinity Shrine Retreat, 107 Holy Trinity Road, Holy Trinity, AL 36859; Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Charlotte, 1123 South Church Street, Charlotte, NC 28203; Alcoholics Anonymous, 1427 South Boulevard, Charlotte, NC 28203; or Girls on the Run International, 1816 Lyndhurst Avenue, Charlotte, NC 28203.
Harry and Bryant Company is serving the family of Mrs. Wilmer.