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Millicent Lavon Blair Arnett CHARLOTTE - Millicent Lavon Blair Arnett 40, of Durham, North Carolina passed on May 22, 2013. Millicent was born to Herbert L. Blair and Barbara W. Blair on October 12, 1972 in Charlotte, North Carolina. The younger of two daughters, she and her sister, Lynette Blair Mitchell, spent their childhood in Charlotte, North Carolina. Millicent was baptized at an early age at Gethsemane A. M. E. Zion Church. As a child and teen, she served faithfully with the usher board, Buds of Promise, children's choir, youth choir, and Girl Scouts. As an adult, she became a member of Watts Chapel Missionary Baptist Church in Raleigh, North Carolina where she was a faithful member serving on the praise team, Sunday School teacher, Advisor to F.B. Weaver Choir, Rosettes Choir, Boy Scout helper, VBS, Sun Beam Choir helper, Young Bell Ensemble. Millicent graduated from West Charlotte Senior High School in 1990. A warm and caring person who always had a love of children, she dedicated her life to serving them. She earned a Bachelor's of Science degree in Elementary Education in 1994 and a Master's of Science Degree in Speech and Hearing Sciences in 2002. A Tar Heel through and through, she earned both degrees from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill and settled in the Triangle. During her undergraduate tenure, Millicent was initiated into the Kappa Omicron Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. following in the proud footsteps of her sister, Lynette Millicent is survived by two sons, whom she adored; her loving parents; grandmother, Mrs. Louise Williams; supportive big sister, Lynette Mitchell (Donnell); three nephews Joshua Mitchell, Coleman Mitchell, Blair Mitchell; an aunt Mrs. Doris McAdoo; God Brother Dion Norman; Special friend Ms. Karen Thompson; and an abundance of other family members and friends. A Celebration of Life will be Saturday, June 1, 2013 at 12:00 Noon. Visitation 11:00 AM to 12:00 PM, at Greater Gethsemane A.M.E. Zion Church. Interment Gethsemane Memorial Gardens. Long & Son Mortuary Service is serving the Family.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on May 31, 2013.

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Tammy Kimball

January 22, 2014

I graduated with Millicent from UNC Chapel Hill's speech path program. I and am just learning of her passing. My heart is aching for her children and her parents. Millicent was such a bright spot in grad school and had a passion for children. She was a special light in this world who was extinguished way too early. Much love to you all and I am so sorry.

Marie Patterson Collins

September 15, 2013

Tonight I learned of Millicent's passing. We were roommates Summer 1989 at Carolina's Project Uplift weekend. From there blossomed a special friendship. After many years we reconnected Oct 2012 and spoke regularly about our boys and issues in our lives that were so remarkedly parallel. Thank you God for giving me the opportunity to reconnect with my dear friend and pick up the same closeness right where we left after 20 years apart. That, I will cherish as the silver lining of losing my sweet bubbly encouraging friend Millicent. We had the chance to say hello and I love you...again. Until we meet again. Blessings to her two beautiful boys, sister, and parents.

Charlotte Bowie

August 3, 2013

I know that God places people in our path for a reason. Milicent was not only my neighbor upstairs, she was a friend and a sister. Although I am truly heartbroken, I know that her worries about the cares on this earth is no more, and She is with our Father Who Art In Heaven. I will continue to keep Matthew and David, and The Blair Family lifted before God.
May the Strength, Peace, and Comfort of The Lord Continue to be upon you.
I will keep on touch.
With Love In My Heart,
God Bless..................

Sharen R. Carter

July 8, 2013

"And I-in righteousnes, I will see your face;when I awake, I will be satisfied with seeing your likeness." -Psalms 17:15
My prayers to Millicent's family...I pray that God continues to give you comfort for the difficult road ahead. Please allow her time spent with you and all of her works for God give you comfort as well. Although I am unknown to Millicent and her family I am no stranger to your tragedy. The death of my youngest sister Lauren E. Robinsn resulted in DV 2007. God puts us in positions that we sometime don't understand, he put me in position this evening to lend words of condolences and faithfulness.

Dorothy Simpson

June 20, 2013

I remember from a child standing at the bus stop with her sister. It didn't matter how bad I was feeling, because when those girls would say Hi Ms. Simpson when I would stop at the stop sign where they were waiting for the school bus, they were like a ray of sunshine that lifted my spirits to make it through one more day. I knew they loved me because of their smile and happiness in waiting to say hello to me to help make my day a GREAT DAY! Who would have thought, me a 63 year old woman would see this wonderful, loving child of this community would leave before me. I am devastated - but I know this - she was placed in my path to encourage and love me from a distance - such an angel... Rest my child, for you have completed your journey in the eyes of the Lord. We may not understand why such a tragic, terrible end had to happen, but we must remember, God has the last word - even in our demise. You blessed me every morning you stood on that corner - you did not know that I was very very ill, but your light and the love in your heart that I felt kept me going. Rest peacefully in the arms of your Father God! Thank you for being a special force in my life. I will cherish your memory forever.

Love you my dear child!

Renee

June 11, 2013

I worked with Millicent at West Lake Elementary in Wake County Schools. I found her warm, intelligent, and very caring. She was a positive force and I wish her boys the very best...

June 6, 2013

Wow! It has been a long time since I have seen you. I remember your sweet voice and always your kind words. Heaven has received you and the Lord promise to take care of you. My prayers are with your children and your family. God bless, Mary jenkins class of 1990! WC

Robyn McCauley

June 4, 2013

You will be missed greatly Millicent.

Betty Jean

June 4, 2013

It is amazing but true how someone
can come in and out of your life so
quickly and yet leave beautiful
memories in your heart forever. May
the wonderful memories and smiles
you shared with Millicent help to
cushion your grief. With deepest
sympathy. (Act 24:15)

David Singletery

June 3, 2013

Millicent you will be missed dearly. You were one of the sweetest people I ever met.

EK Sadler

June 3, 2013

I just found out about this tragic event last night. I knew Millicent from Jr High. Although it was just puppy love back then, she was actually my first kiss. She always had a very bright spirit about her. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your children and family! God Bless you all!!

June 3, 2013

My husband Maurice Blaylock was Millicent hairstylist for about 8 years , we considered Lynette & Millicent family . Millicent would bring the boys ( matthew & David ) to the salon with her on occasions , she loved them very much . Our thoughts and prayers goes out to the boys & family . We love y'all . Maurice & and Angela Blaylock .

JAMES MANICK

June 3, 2013

I am sorry for your lost of your love one. Peace be with you.

Victoria Guthrie

June 2, 2013

Mr and Mrs Blair, Lynette; I briefly worked with Millicent in Durham Public Schools years ago. After a long stretch of time, Millicent saw me, with a smile remembered my name, and had nothing but positive, wonderful things to say. She always spoke about her babies with the glow of love in her eyes. I too am a therapist and Soror. I look forward to hopefully meeting her again with that beautiful smile." Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you". May God give you Peace, Guidance,and Strength. He will raise the children with the love she planted in them.

De'Wana Smith

June 2, 2013

Mr.and Mrs. Blair,
Over the past 8 years I've gotten to know your family so closely that your loss has touched me deeply as well. Take rest in knowing that you raised 2 outstanding daughters and that always showed the God that you instilled in them. My heart, and prayers are with you.

De'Wana & Richard Smith

June 2, 2013

Millicent,I will miss your cakes and your passion for your children. You always had such a great energy that you passed along to others. Your family will miss you greatly.

Tina Gabriel-Tonsul

June 1, 2013

Mr. and Mrs. Blair, Lynette, Mrs. McAdoo and all of Millicent's extended family; my prayers and thoughts are with you all.

Michael & Bernice Kendall

June 1, 2013

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

Frances Brooks

June 1, 2013

Herbert and Barbara, I can't really express how I am feeling at this lost for you, but she is not lost She is where she belongs until we see her again My prayers are with you. Only God can carry you through this time

Tonya Timmons-Agurs

June 1, 2013

My PRAYERS goes out to such humbled loving family during this time of sorrow. For Millicent is missed here on earth you will see again.

Rosa Burwell

June 1, 2013

Millicent was a very loving and friendly person and she will be missed greatly. My prayers are with her children and her family. May God comfort you all during this difficult moment.

Jerome Cherry

June 1, 2013

My prayers are with you through this difficult time. May God comfort and bless you.

Brandi Hall

June 1, 2013

I graduated from the Masters program with Millicent. I fondly remember her smile and positive attitude. A loss to our world but a beautiful addition to heaven. My prayers to her family and children during this difficult time.

Katrina Avery

June 1, 2013

Praying for the Blair and Mitchell families during this difficult time. Embrace God for your strength.

Corinthians Horton-Watt and Family

June 1, 2013

Mr. Blair and Family: May God continue to bless your entire family during this difficult time. Always remember that all our help comes from the Lord. Continue to trust and believe in him. He will never leave you nor forsake you.

Linda Watson

May 31, 2013

I am on the faculty in Speech and Hearing Sciences at UNC-CH and met Millicent when she was in the Master's program there. She was smart, vibrant, and caring, and we were proud to say she was one of our graduates. My prayers are with all her friends and family as you celebrate her wonderful life and grieve this tragic loss.

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Stacey Hinton

May 31, 2013

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always. I am so sorry for your lost, and will be praying for your strength. May God continue to watch over you and guide during the days ahead.

John McCarroll

May 31, 2013

My thoughts, prayers are extended to the Blair family during this difficult time. Millicent will be missed, and I trust and believe the Lord will see you through this.

Ms.Billie Hardin

May 31, 2013

Millicent you will be missed.You and the boys will
remain in my heart,mind
,thoughts forever.The boys willl be in great hands and loved forever.So keep that beautiful smile shinning on them. I will miss you.

Ms.Billie(sunbeam director)

Sonya McAuley-Allen

May 31, 2013

Words can't express how truly sorry I am for this family. Praying that God will continue to see you through...

Megan Johnson

May 31, 2013

My prayers are with you all during this difficult time. May God comfort and bless you.

Ella Scarborough & Family

May 31, 2013

May the God of peace and the blessings of the Holy Spirit comfort you always as you celebrate the wonderful life of Millicent!

May 31, 2013

Herbert and Barbara: Indeed we are saddened in the loss of your daughter, Our prayers are that God will sustain you and give you consolation and strength to endure during this difficult time.
Brenda Wright Byrd, Class of '67 BSC

Katherine Davis

May 31, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with Millicent's family. I am very saddened by this tragedy.

Melchee Johnson

May 31, 2013

My thoughts, prayers and love are extended to the Blair family during this most sad time. I can't imagine the pain you must be enduring. Millicent will be missed, and I trust and believe the Lord will see you through. Love and peace...

Jason Williams

May 31, 2013

Millicent was a great person and will be missed! I pray that God will be provide strength and peace to the family and give all that is needed for healing.

God Bless,
Jason

May 31, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. I know losing a loved one is hard to go through. May you draw close to God at this time.

May 31, 2013

To the Blair family...
Millicent and I attended WCHS and UNC Chapel Hill together and during that time she was a good friend to me. Both she and Lynnette were well respected for their tremendous talents and their incredible intellligence, but as I got to know her, I also began to appreciate Millicent's kindness, insight and wisdom as well.

I am so very deeply and truly saddened to hear of her passing but I am certain that the faithful God that we serve will carry each of you through this most difficult time.

I am praying for you all....

Jaronica Ellis Howard
West Charlotte High School c/o 1989
UNC Chapel Hill c/o 1994

Laurie Willis

May 31, 2013

Lynette, my heart aches for you and your family, and I will continue praying for all of you. I know Millicent will be missed dearly. I love you.

Erica Faison

May 31, 2013

I am deeply saddened by a life cut drastically short. I met Millicent years ago at Watts Chapel. We both served as advisors for the FB Weaver Choir while I was there, and I saw her again 2 years ago at a reunion concert. She was a very sweet and outgoing person and she will be missed by many. May you find comfort in your Heavenly Father during this time, but be assured she is at peace. Blessings and strength to you and your family.

Carolyn Traylor

May 31, 2013

Millicent was a wonderful lady. I pray that God
will give you the love , peace, and strength
that only He can give.

Candice Watts-Greene

May 31, 2013

Wow! I never imagined having to write on my best friend Guest Book. To the Blair Family, Thank you so much for sharing the years I had with Millicent. I will forever hold the fond memories of sitting on the rock in front of your house and talking to Millicent and the games we all played at the dead end of Plumstead Rd. I will continue pray with and for you. I love you all forever.

The Y.E.S. Family

May 31, 2013

Although Millicent worked at our school for only a little while, she had made a huge impact with staff and students alike. She was caring, friendly, knowledgeable, and easy to talk to. She will be missed greatly.

Doris Wood Wilkins

May 31, 2013

Barbara, Herbret and family. I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter. May God's grace and mercy help you through this difficult time.

Charlene Harris

May 31, 2013

I was truly heartbroken to hear of the passing of Millicent. We went to high school together, and reconnected in Durham through work. My sincere condolences to your family, during this difficult time.

arthur and jessie osborne

May 31, 2013

we love you and our family will truly miss you

LaVerne Gist Fenwick

May 31, 2013

Barbara and family, may God surround you with His peace and love and comfort you and your family during this sad time; and may you also find comfort and peace in memories of happier times.

Robin B

May 31, 2013

Please know that during this time of sorrow God has heard your cries and has seen your tears and he will comfort you.(Ps 30:2) I send my deepest sympathy.

May 31, 2013

May God's grace and mercy shed comfort on your family during the time. May peace and blessings be with you.

Regina Howey - Charlotte, NC

Anthony J Brown

May 31, 2013

Mr & Mrs Blair and Family..."on wings of His angels, He gives us strength." Our hearts grieve with your hearts during this time of sadness. May God give you the needed strength. Anthony Brown, Maggie Morrison, Pricilla Forney (Allstate Insurance agency family).

Joyce Ballard

May 31, 2013

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

April Campbell

May 31, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss..I graduated with Millicent, she was a wonderful friend!! she will be missed

Ebony Moore

May 31, 2013

Milicient was such a sweet person! She will surely be missed. Your family is in my prayers, may God be with each of you!

lawanda horsley

May 31, 2013

Please keep the Blair, Horsley, Godwin and extended families in your prayers.

Inger Anderson

May 31, 2013

Mr. & Mrs. Blair, Lynette and children, I am so sorry to hear about Millicent's passing. I have so many fond memories of our childhood days and how vibrant Millicent was. Though her passing was untimely, Millicent now rests in the arms of the Creator. God will sustain you in your grief. I love you all and you are in my prayers.

May 31, 2013

I met Millicent thru the durham hawks she was truly a wonderful person I enjoyed talking laughing and scream at the games such a caring person will be missed

May 31, 2013

We will truly miss you! Love, Ken & S. Lynnette Sanders

Tina Rogers

May 31, 2013

As a child my sister's and myself grew up with Millicent and served in all the ministries with her. We always knew she was going to be someone great. Although after moving overseas we lost contact with a lot of our childhood friends, we never forgot them. We all have lost someone very dear and special. Our prayers are forever with you...The Brooks/Rogers family, (France, Nikki, Tina/Glenn & Hieya)

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