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Parker Whedon
Mr. Whedon, 86, of Charlotte, passed away March 16, due to complications from Parkinson's disease.
Parker was born June 3, 1925 in Buffalo, NY to the late Colonel Spencer Whedon and Helen Parker Whedon of Charlotte. Parker's family moved to Charlotte in 1929 where he resided at his family home, the historical Charles Parker House on Central Avenue. Parker attended Central High School in Charlotte, and later graduated from Darlington School, Rome, GA. in 1942. Parker entered UNC Chapel Hill in January, 1943, but was called to duty his sophomore year in 1944, where he served his country as naval gunner aboard the USS Wisconsin. After two years of service, Parker was honorably discharged in 1946, receiving commendation and award for sighting the first enemy plane to attack the Pacific fleet. Parker immediately returned to UNC, where he majored in philosophy.
Skipping his senior year altogether, Parker entered UNC's School of Law in 1948 with the second highest mark on the entrance examination and later making Law Review. Upon graduation, Parker was admitted to the bar in Aug 13, 1951, where he began his law practice in Charlotte. Like most young lawyers, Parker leased an office in the original Law Building adjacent to the old court house which he maintained for over 30 years until it was demolished. His practice initially was general in nature, but over time was narrowed to focus upon real estate and family estate law. Parker practiced law for over 50 years, retiring Oct 13, 2004.
Parker was passionately engaged in turkey hunting since 1950, hunting in over 10 different states. He was considered the best turkey hunter in the Southeast. In 1984, Parker founded 'Old Masters Publishers' for the purpose of republishing three of the old master turkey hunting books that greatly propagated his hunting practice on a national level. Parker was also a great turkey call maker, founding 'Old Master Custom Call Makers' in 1990. Parker was rated by an eminent authority as the 'best of the best' wingbone call maker, his specialty being vintage callers which he perfected over the years.
Parker also had a passion and lifelong love of rivers and the great outdoors, which lead to many valued friendships across the United States. Parker was a longtime environmentalist, river advocate and activist for the Catawba River Basin. He instigated a movement for a wild turkey restoration program in North Carolina in 1959 and was featured and pictured in many newspaper articles, books and magazines over his lifetime. In addition to turkey hunting & call making, Parker enjoyed fishing, canoeing, excavating Indian artifacts, listening to classical music, playing bridge and just being in the woods. Parker was also a church lay-reader and devoted father, attending all sporting events of his children and ensuring all were exposed to the outdoors by owning their own hunting & fishing gear, boats and even kayaks to explore the whitewater rivers.
In addition to being a member of all Bar Associations, Parker was a member of the NC Trial Lawyers Association, Charlotte Civitan Club, American Wild Turkey Hunting Dog Association, and served on the Board of the Catawba-Wateree Relicensing Commission for many years. Parker was also President of several organizations including the Mecklenburg County Young Democrats, North Carolina Symphony Society, the Real Running River Protection Society and North Carolina Turkey Hunters Association.
Parker is survived by his wife, Virginia Simpson Whedon; and five children, Dorothy Stapleton of Moorseville, IN, Parker Whedon of Georgetown, SC, Arthur Whedon and wife, Laura of Charlotte, NC, Missy Hall and husband, Neal of Charlotte, NC and Bill Whedon and wife, Betsy of Corning, NY. He is also survived by eight grandchildren.
A memorial service will be held at Elmwood Cemetery on Thursday, March 22, at 11:00, where Parker is to be buried alongside his family. A visitation will also be held at 5:30pm, Wednesday, March 21, at the home of Arthur and Laura Whedon. TH Robertson Funeral Service Lic. is serving the family. Memorials may be made to Hospice of Charlotte and The Catawba River Conservancy.

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Published by Charlotte Observer from Mar. 20 to Mar. 21, 2012.

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andrew millett

September 18, 2012

I wish i would have met Parker 10 years earlier.7 years was to short for a man like parker.But i do have alot of good memories

Hoyet & Jolene Morris

April 16, 2012

So sorry to hear of ur loss. My husband was just talking about Parker last week,, and today Hoyet got a turkey, and was talking about Arlis and Parker's hunts. Will have all of you in our prayers. God bless,,,

Tom Austin

March 31, 2012

Bill and Betsy,

Lori and I are sorry to find out about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Doris and Fred Meekins at Lake Tahoma

March 29, 2012

Virginia and Family: I just learned today that Parker had passed away. Doris and I moved to Belmont a little over 4 years ago and no longer take the Charlotte Observer, and I just learned of this from my younger son, Ralph, a very active attorney in Shelby. Parker and I shared many great hunts and fishing trips and he was probably the best in every thing he did. I will always cherish his friendship, and also yours. Our sincere regards and condolences to you and all of the family . Fred C. Meekins

Meg Campbell

March 23, 2012

Dear Whedon family--Our deepest sympathy to you in your loss. What an interesting and varied life and what an immensely gifted man. We did not know he had served on the USS Wisconsin, which is here in Norfolk and a trove of history itself. The Campbells

Jim Larsen

March 22, 2012

At times like this words can seem a little empty...please know our hearts are full of caring thoughts for the Whedon Family.

March 21, 2012

Virginia,

I am so sorry to hear about your husband. We love and miss you at CMC-Randolph.

Elaine Matthews

stewart mann

March 20, 2012

I'm so sorry about your fathers passing. He had a great adventure. Stewart Mann

Karen Whedon

March 20, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I wish I could have known Parker.

Hilary H. Nickerson

March 20, 2012

The turkey-hunting fraternity has lost a legend. Tom and I learned much about turkeys and turkey hunting from Parker. We will miss his counsel, his humor and his stories. We will think of him every time we use our Spirit Yelpers, and we hope he is matching wits with a big old Spirit Gobbler right now, with Luke at his side. Our heartfelt condolences to Virginia, the children and grand children and Gene.

Dean Mundhenke

March 20, 2012

He was one of the most gracious and complimentary men I have ever met and I consider it an honor to have met the man. My condolences to his family. May he run the rivers and woods in heaven.

Juddie Penegar Finison

March 20, 2012

I am so sorry to hear of Parker's passing away. He will be missed by so many but I know he, Oscar & Chunk are on a trip either hunting, fishing or looking of arrowheads or some other great adventure (or mis-adventure!). Parker was very special to me and my family. Love to you all. Juddie

Beverly Lee

March 20, 2012

I'm am so sorry to hear about the passing of such an extraordinary man. I worked for Mr. Whedon briefly and was lucky enough to have him handle many real estate closings for me - I am grateful. I respect and admire him for his character and values and joy of life. He will truly be missed. All of you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Beverly Lee

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