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Timothy Putman Obituary

Timothy Jerome Putman CHARLOTTE - Mr. Putman, 55, of Charlotte, NC, passed away peacefully Sunday, November 25, 2012 at Liberty Nursing and Rehab which had been his home for 15 and½years. Tim was born May 28, 1957 in Charlotte, North Carolina, one of two sons to James J. Putman and Shirley Jackson Putman. He was a retired Mecklenburg County Sheriff's Deputy and a member of the Fraternal Order of Police and North Carolina Sheriff's Association. Tim was a life-long member of Amity Presbyterian Church where he had served as a Boy Scout with Amity Boy Scout Troop # 124. The family will gather to greet friends from 11:00 AM until 12 Noon, Wednesday, November 28, 2012 in the Parlor of Amity Presbyterian Church 2831 N. Sharon Amity Road, Charlotte, NC 28205. A service to celebrate his life will follow in the sanctuary at 12 Noon with The Reverend Betsy Williamson officiating. Burial will follow in the church cemetery in the family plot. There will be a reception and greeting of friends in Johnston Hall, at the church, following the committal service. Tim is survived by his father and mother, Jim and Shirley Putman of Charlotte, NC; his brother, Terry L. Putman, Sr. of Raleigh, NC; a nephew, Lindsay Putman, II and his wife, Allison of Raleigh, NC and niece, Margaret Ann Putman of Myrtle Beach, SC; two great nephews: James Wray Putman and Henry Tyree Putman. The family wishes to thank Liberty's staff, nurses and CNA's for their loving care and kindness shown to Tim. Notes of encouragement and condolences may be sent to the family by visiting www.mcewenfs.com. McEwen Funeral Service at Sharon Memorial Park, 5716 Monroe Road, Charlotte, NC 28212.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Nov. 27, 2012.

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Dawn Shrum

December 21, 2013

Dear Mr. & Mrs. Putman & Terry, Please take comfort in knowing Tim is celebrating his second Christmas in Heaven, healthy & whole again. All of you remain in my heart & prayers now as always.

Saran Bellman

November 22, 2013

You will always be in our hearts.

Ruth England

December 2, 2012

Dear Red, Shirley and Terry.
I was so sorry to hear of Tim's death. Seems such a short time ago we were neighbors on Unaka and our kids were playting together. I can hardly imagine the pain of loosing a child.
Take care

Julie Waddell/Mynatt

December 2, 2012

Know our prayers are with you. God Bless

Captain Rickey Padgett

November 29, 2012

Sorry for the loss of Timothy. As a law enforcement officer he was and always will remain one of us who were born to protect and serve. My prayers are with the family and my good friend and fellow law enforcement officer Terry. A donation will be made in Timothy's honor to a charity who is well deserving in Timothy's memory. RIP in Gods Great Hands.

Allison Hoffman

November 29, 2012

You have my deepest sympathy. I have fond memories of Tim from the old neighborhood.

Dawn Shrum

November 29, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you now as always. Tim loved each of you dearly. I'm so sorry I could not attend the services and give you my condolences personally.

Susan Caldwell

November 28, 2012

I am so sorry to hear of Tim's passing. He was a good friend all through school. We were always laughing about something. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

November 28, 2012

Tim was a dear friend not only to me but others and he surely will be missed by all. I know he is at peace now . Prayers to the Family. Love you man and will miss you. Norman Freeman

Sue & John Sellers

November 27, 2012

Red, Shirley & Terry: We wish we could take away the pain! Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sue and John Sellers

Stuart Reed

November 27, 2012

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family are in my prayers

Betty Miller

November 27, 2012

Dear Red and Shirley,
I'm so sorry to hear about Tim. Cathey, Rick and I have so many memories of our families getting together when the kids were growing up. Our beach trips and cookouts were great. I know this is a trying time for the two of you but just remember the good times and all the joy Tim brought into your life. He's with the Lord now, rejoicing. I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers now and always. Love, Betty

November 27, 2012

So sorry for your loss. All of you fought a hard battle, but what a beautiful Family standing by him daily. Tim was my favorite neighborhood young man during the 50' and 60. He kept that beautiful smile when he would see me thru all these years. Tim, rest in peace and enjoy Big Jim.
With Love, Shirley Owens , Lake Wylie, SC

Stan Gordon

November 27, 2012

Tim was a buddy who often shared the same frustrations of the job but was somebody you knew you could count on . These past years have been difficult to understand but I pray your parents have peace in knowing they were there for you my brother . I love you and Ill see ya on the other side .

November 27, 2012

Dear Putman Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know your beloved Timothy but I understand the pain of losing a loved one. I hope you find a measure of peace in your fond memories (

Retired State Trooper Mark Helms

November 27, 2012

I met Tim when I was assigned to the Charlotte Highway Patrol Office. I am honored to have known such a fine person. The Putman family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Phyllis Moody

November 27, 2012

I worked with Tim in the early 80's at the MCSO. He always had a smile and a joke and was serious about his job all at the same time. You are a good man Tim and I'll always remember you. Praying for the family.

Dan Jakeman

November 27, 2012

Tim and I were in "Sheriff's Minimun Standards" together in 1979. He was a good Deputy and fought a long battle. Thoughts and prayers are with you. Sincerely, Dan Jakeman (159)

November 27, 2012

Jim and Shirley, even though I am miles away, my heart goes out to both of you. I know that God gave Tim the best seat in His house with the angels. I can never think about Liberty without thinking about Tim. I feel very fortunate to have known such a wonderful, inspiring person as Tim. May God bless you both, dear friends, Mary Parker, Brunswick, GA

November 27, 2012

Jim & Shirley,

We will remember you in our prayers.

Bill & Gwen Austin

Saran Bellman

November 27, 2012

So sorry about Tim. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Rest in peace Tim. Your friends Trell Saran Alisa and Jada.

November 27, 2012

I worked with Tim in the Sheriffs Dept. in the 80s. He was a friend both on and off duty. Tim was a good man. Rest in peace my friend. K. LaFoy

November 27, 2012

Red and Shirley, I'm so sorry to read about Tim. He really fought a long and tough fight. But now we know he's at peace. He was fortunate to have the two of you as his parents and caregivers. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Don McDaniel
Red's high school friend

Barbara Deaton Beamer

November 27, 2012

To Tim's Family,

So very sorry for your loss. I enjoyed working with Tim at the Mecklenburg County Sheriff's Office. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers at during this time.

Fred Handsel

November 26, 2012

You are in our thoughts and prayers. Tim fought a tough battle.

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