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Dawn Shrum
December 21, 2013
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Putman & Terry, Please take comfort in knowing Tim is celebrating his second Christmas in Heaven, healthy & whole again. All of you remain in my heart & prayers now as always.
Saran Bellman
November 22, 2013
You will always be in our hearts.
Ruth England
December 2, 2012
Dear Red, Shirley and Terry.
I was so sorry to hear of Tim's death. Seems such a short time ago we were neighbors on Unaka and our kids were playting together. I can hardly imagine the pain of loosing a child.
Take care
Julie Waddell/Mynatt
December 2, 2012
Know our prayers are with you. God Bless
Captain Rickey Padgett
November 29, 2012
Sorry for the loss of Timothy. As a law enforcement officer he was and always will remain one of us who were born to protect and serve. My prayers are with the family and my good friend and fellow law enforcement officer Terry. A donation will be made in Timothy's honor to a charity who is well deserving in Timothy's memory. RIP in Gods Great Hands.
Allison Hoffman
November 29, 2012
You have my deepest sympathy. I have fond memories of Tim from the old neighborhood.
Dawn Shrum
November 29, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you now as always. Tim loved each of you dearly. I'm so sorry I could not attend the services and give you my condolences personally.
Susan Caldwell
November 28, 2012
I am so sorry to hear of Tim's passing. He was a good friend all through school. We were always laughing about something. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
November 28, 2012
Tim was a dear friend not only to me but others and he surely will be missed by all. I know he is at peace now . Prayers to the Family. Love you man and will miss you. Norman Freeman
Sue & John Sellers
November 27, 2012
Red, Shirley & Terry: We wish we could take away the pain! Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sue and John Sellers
Stuart Reed
November 27, 2012
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family are in my prayers
Betty Miller
November 27, 2012
Dear Red and Shirley,
I'm so sorry to hear about Tim. Cathey, Rick and I have so many memories of our families getting together when the kids were growing up. Our beach trips and cookouts were great. I know this is a trying time for the two of you but just remember the good times and all the joy Tim brought into your life. He's with the Lord now, rejoicing. I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers now and always. Love, Betty
November 27, 2012
So sorry for your loss. All of you fought a hard battle, but what a beautiful Family standing by him daily. Tim was my favorite neighborhood young man during the 50' and 60. He kept that beautiful smile when he would see me thru all these years. Tim, rest in peace and enjoy Big Jim.
With Love, Shirley Owens , Lake Wylie, SC
Stan Gordon
November 27, 2012
Tim was a buddy who often shared the same frustrations of the job but was somebody you knew you could count on . These past years have been difficult to understand but I pray your parents have peace in knowing they were there for you my brother . I love you and Ill see ya on the other side .
November 27, 2012
Dear Putman Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know your beloved Timothy but I understand the pain of losing a loved one. I hope you find a measure of peace in your fond memories (
Retired State Trooper Mark Helms
November 27, 2012
I met Tim when I was assigned to the Charlotte Highway Patrol Office. I am honored to have known such a fine person. The Putman family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Phyllis Moody
November 27, 2012
I worked with Tim in the early 80's at the MCSO. He always had a smile and a joke and was serious about his job all at the same time. You are a good man Tim and I'll always remember you. Praying for the family.
Dan Jakeman
November 27, 2012
Tim and I were in "Sheriff's Minimun Standards" together in 1979. He was a good Deputy and fought a long battle. Thoughts and prayers are with you. Sincerely, Dan Jakeman (159)
November 27, 2012
Jim and Shirley, even though I am miles away, my heart goes out to both of you. I know that God gave Tim the best seat in His house with the angels. I can never think about Liberty without thinking about Tim. I feel very fortunate to have known such a wonderful, inspiring person as Tim. May God bless you both, dear friends, Mary Parker, Brunswick, GA
November 27, 2012
Jim & Shirley,
We will remember you in our prayers.
Bill & Gwen Austin
Saran Bellman
November 27, 2012
So sorry about Tim. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Rest in peace Tim. Your friends Trell Saran Alisa and Jada.
November 27, 2012
I worked with Tim in the Sheriffs Dept. in the 80s. He was a friend both on and off duty. Tim was a good man. Rest in peace my friend. K. LaFoy
November 27, 2012
Red and Shirley, I'm so sorry to read about Tim. He really fought a long and tough fight. But now we know he's at peace. He was fortunate to have the two of you as his parents and caregivers. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Don McDaniel
Red's high school friend
Barbara Deaton Beamer
November 27, 2012
To Tim's Family,
So very sorry for your loss. I enjoyed working with Tim at the Mecklenburg County Sheriff's Office. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers at during this time.
Fred Handsel
November 26, 2012
You are in our thoughts and prayers. Tim fought a tough battle.
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