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Melissa ‘Missy’ Vaughn
November 1, 2021
Tonya, I am just now learning of your passing, and am heart broken. You were, hands-down, my favorite sprinter on our UK track team. We skinny white distance runners loved hanging with you beautiful sprinters especially you hurdlers You and Judy Thomas, RIP. We would all laugh and have so much fun on those track trips! I remember when I asked why all the black girls’ names ended in ‘a’ —Tonya, Shamika, Latisha—-you just guffawed and fired back, ‘Why do you all you white girls’ names end in ‘e’—-Missy, Holly, Mary!! Oh how we laughed! I remember how much I adored you, and how I love your fears competitiveness. You were beautiful to watch as you raced! You found my journal that I left in the van late night when we got home from a track meet—-it was filled with deeply personal and painful things I was going through at the time And you never gossiped about it to anyone else. Such integrity. Such kindness. What a beautiful life you made for yourself My dad, Buck, and stepmom, Linda, also adored you, and would’ve been so very very proud of you and your family for making this world a better place. I’m so sorry and so sad we did not stay in touch with each other. Rest in sweet peace, Tonya. The world is a better place because you were in it. ❤
Melissa ‘Missy’ Vaughn, UK Track, class of ‘84.
Sonja
June 23, 2021
I truly miss you such a sweet and beautiful woman
Gwendolyn Rhynes
July 6, 2020
My deepest condolences to the Carroll Family. I am a year behind in knowing of Tonyas passing. But my heart ache just as much today. Tonya was a vibrant, sweet, caring person. I will always remember her beautiful smile and caring ways.
Kamilah (Gabriel) North
July 5, 2020
Just found out about Tonyas passing and I am so saddened. I looked up to Tonya and had a great deal of respect for her not only as woman but as a mother, wife, coach, and professional. My thoughts and prayers are with Kurt, Brittany and Brent. Rest peacefully Tonya, much love.
Valia Lindsay (Blakeney)
July 8, 2019
I am saddened to find about the passing of Tonya Carroll. As parents of children running track for the Charlotte Flight, she would often come down to the railing to watch Jarrett run, as I would Brittany (sp). She was a gentle soul and my heart and prayers go out to her family.
Lindrell Blackwell
July 7, 2019
I am saddened to hear about Tonyas passing. We were in the Track Team in the 80s. Not only was she a great athlete; she was a great person. I remember us being at UT and she was going to race against the Tennessee Tiger Bells. I told one of Tonya couldnt wait to race them. Then told Tonya and she laughed and said, see you causing trouble. I remember that was the type of fun we had.
My sincere condolences to the family.
Beverly Mitchell
July 5, 2019
I had an opportunity to meet this sweet soul and I instantly loved her. Despite her medical challenges she came to Chicago and we had a ball. Although are meeting was short, I felt that I knew her for a very long time. That's her loving and accepting spirit!!! You will be missed
My beloved and Flintstone. Thank God for allowing me the sheer pleasure of meeting you!!!! Rest my friend!!!!
LT Colonel Toya
July 4, 2019
Rest in Peace my Northern Viking Sister.
Fahnie Shaw
July 3, 2019
Praying for the entire Carroll family during this time. I pray for Gods peace and his strength for you all.
Glynis Rice
July 3, 2019
RIP Northern Viking
Karena Coleman
July 3, 2019
Thinking of the Carroll Family & praying for God's peace & comfort. It was an honor to have known such a loving wife, caring mother, and special friend as Tonya. With heartfelt sympathy.
Frances Azie
July 3, 2019
Rest in peace in the bosom of the Lord. Tonya was a beautiful woman with a gentle and sweet personality. It was such a pleasure knowing her and working with her too.
Accept my deepest condolences.
Erica Jones
July 3, 2019
My deepest condolences to the Carroll family. I am gonna really miss you Mrs. Tonya! I will never forget you, our talks, laughs and how you always stayed so positive! Even writing this feels so surreal but I will continue to keep you and your family in my prayers
R.I.H
The Jones Family
July 3, 2019
The Jones Family fondly remembers Mrs. Tonya Carroll. As part of the Great Harding University High School Family we were able to witness close up her genuine kindness. We were blessed by "just being in her presence"! As simply said in a familiar song...."May the work I have done speak for me". Tonya, your work is done and it does speak for you!
Dr.Carroll, Brittany and Brent, we extend our love and prayers to you!
Dale, Wanda and Chelsea Jones
Part of the Great HUHS Class of 2009
KIM CARPENTER
July 3, 2019
Curtis, so sorry to hear of Tonya's passing. I'll keep you, your son, daughter & familys in my prayers
Robyn Cobbin-Hall
July 3, 2019
To the Lowe/ Curtis family, even though Tonya is no longer here in her earthly vessel, she will forever be in our hearts and minds. My sincere condolences to the family
Janice Cheatom Berry
July 3, 2019
May the love and mercy of our Lord be bestowed upon you and your family during this time. My sincere condolences.
Erin Nicole Barksdale
July 3, 2019
Sending you so much love and many prayers. My condolences to the family. Rest in power and peace, Mrs Carroll.
LeDuan Pratt
July 3, 2019
Curtis, my condolences to you, your children, and family. I know how much Tonya meant to you. I pray that you and your family will find peace in this time of grief. May GOD bless you all.
Gail Drake-Bermudez
July 3, 2019
Please accept my deepest sincere condolences..
Sonya Gregory
July 3, 2019
May God grant you peace, understanding and strength. Sending our deepest condolences, Sonya Gregory and Family
Angela Lenear
July 3, 2019
To the Carroll and Lowe family,
So many hearts are saddened by the loss of y(our) loved one. Tonya initials (TLC) spoke her life. From the time I met her in 3rd grade and we finding out our fathers were friends, she's been the same tender, loving and caring Tonya, I met at Garfield. I last saw her some years back and what was she doing, "praying". She was having lunch with Trish at LaAzteca and I didn't realize who they were, as there backs were opposite of me. I only heard the prayer. Upon noticing my buddies from way back, I simply joined hands with them and it was like we never lost contact. Tonya, you have been a gem from day 1. Rest well, rest peaceful and rest easy!
LaSonja Collins
July 3, 2019
"Her Reflection By LaSonja Collins: Dedicated to Brent Carroll and Family and friends, the legacy of Mrs. Tonya Lowe Carroll
Have you ever encountered a spirit so clear,With the sound of their voice, you knew God was near .
See from what I hear, Mrs. Tonya Lowe Carroll knew that his grace was real,
She lived by his word until the day she took his hand, A living angel we saw, let us all say Amen
So proud of his child, to see her lead the way, as a woman of God, she walked by faith.
See the mother you have is a gift that God gave, and the friend you called on was an angel put in place.
For Mrs. Tonya Lowe Carroll knew exactly when to pray.
See from what I hear, her praise was so strong, enough to give courage to a person that didn't know who to call on.
My God can you see her, can you hear her.
For the love, that she gave can now guide you every step of the way.
Because In your heart her spirit will always stay.
See her God makes no mistakes,
To the children she raised and the friends that she made,Her reflections will forever live within you each and everyday.
Oh! What a child, what a sister, what a mother she was for her assignments in life was sent from above.
She knew what to say to strengthen your day, she knew how to smile in the mist of your pain.
Mrs. Tonya Carroll displayed his word every day.Her life was a model of the Godly way.
Have you ever encountered a spirit so clear, with the sound of their voice you knew God was near.
See the lessons she taught you are intangible gifts, so powerful that your spirits should lift.
They can't be touched or taken away,But the power in these gifts is that they can be shared on any given day.
See from what I hear Mrs. Tonya Lowe Carroll left no questions as to who's she belonged.
My God what a creation with a spirit so strong.
My God can you see her, can you hear her it is so clear.
That when you say to God is the Glory, her reflection should appear.
For her life was his Glory and by his words she would say,Joy comes in the morning and God is your strength each and everyday .
Well Done Mrs. Tonya Lowe Carroll, well done ,I know God will say.
July 3, 2019
My condolences are with you and the family. Much love to each of you during your time of grieving. Love you, Ms. Gwendolyn Devins
Vanessa Ashford
July 3, 2019
To the Carroll family, I am so sorry for your loss. Blessings to you all.
Valerie Mccray
July 3, 2019
We/Our Family will always Love and miss Mrs.C.... OUR DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO MR.CARROLL, BRITTANY, and BRENT WE LOVE YOU ALL FROM THE BOTTOM OF OUR HEARTS.
Venetia (Necie) Petteway
July 3, 2019
Curtis and family. I am deeply saddened to hear about the passing of your sweet Tonya, loving wife and mother. She was an awesome athlete and a sweetheart of a person. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers. Tonia is in the hands of our creator, so trust in the Lord Jesus and you will see her again. May the peace of God that surpasses all understanding be upon you. Love you much! ❤
sonja young
July 3, 2019
I am truly sorry for your loss, Tonya was a sweet lady heart was pure gold she will be missed by all.. I love you so much still have the earrings you gave me
Tina Willians
July 2, 2019
Tonya was a true blessing and one of the kindest, sweetest people I have ever known. I am heart broken. My condolences to her family.
Tina Williams
Amanda Cole
July 2, 2019
Im not able to attend the funeral, but wanted to send my condolences to the family. I loved working with Tonya (we didnt work together often, but she was the most positive and uplifting person I have ever met). This earthly world has lost a truly bright soul, who would light up the room. Praying for peace and comfort for her family and friends at this time
Traci Oliver
July 2, 2019
To the Lowe and Carrol family,
My deepest condolences to the entire family on the death of your love one. Tonya was a superhero to her Michigan family. She was a Beautiful an godly woman inside and out. She leaves a legacy that we all can be proud of.
May God comfort and strengthen you all during this time and the days after, hold tight to God's unchanging hands for it is through Him our Lord and Savior in which we can find Peace and Comfort. Take your Rest Tonya, for you are now with your Heaven Father, no more pain or suffering just pure Peace and Happiness!!
Ruth Bridges
July 2, 2019
May the peace of God which passes all understanding be with you and family, Dr. Carroll.
Your earthly angel has gone home.
Now she will continually be with you in your heart as she watches over you from heaven.
Carol Alexander
July 2, 2019
Mrs. Carroll was a beautiful person inside and out. She was an encourager, and always found the best in others. My heartfelt condolences go out to you - the Lowe-Carroll families. She was an angel on earth, and I am sure she is your special angel in heaven now. God Bless all of you.
Deborah Milling
July 2, 2019
R.I.P. Tonya. You were truly an Angel that dwelt among all of us, your classmates of Flint Northern High School Class of 1980. We love you, we will miss you & we will cherish all the wonderful memories we have of you. Our prayers go out to the Lowe & Carroll families. Deborah Milling!
Holly Steed
July 2, 2019
Tonya was such a truly nice and caring person. Always positive and provided kind words. She will be truly missed. Prayers for peace and comfort for your family.
Ricky Nelson
July 2, 2019
My Deepest Sympathy to The Entire Carroll/Lowe Families on the passing of Tonya. I've known Tonya since she was in 10th Grade and I'd like to think I played a part in Tonya and Curtis getting together (Pancake House Trips-Remember Curtis). I've Never Met two people who were so made for one another like Tonya and Curtis. I Truly Love them Both and I will Truly miss Tonya. Curtis, You Will Always have a Friend in Rick Nelson. Love U Brother.
July 2, 2019
Tonya was beautiful loving person always had kind words and aways stayed positive. I will truly miss her
Cecia Sheffield
July 2, 2019
Ms. Tonya, in the league of the sweetest strongest women I've ever met. Always, without fail, showed care and concern for everyone she encountered. She encouraged me, checked on me, and inspired me in my education and in life overall. I will always love and remember Ms. Tonya. When I think of her, I hear her joyful laugh and see her beautiful smile in my mind's eye. I still remember and appreciate every hug and every encouraging word. Beyond grateful to have met such a beautiful soul. Rest peacefully, Ms. Tonya.
Judy Sloan
July 2, 2019
My condolences to the family, Tonya was a very sweet and beautiful person. I enjoyed working with her at Walmart.
Angelia Craig
July 2, 2019
Sending condolences and prayers to the family. Always remember the good times you have shared together. Such a beautiful person inside and out. Will be missed. God has called another angel home.
Cynthia Hampton
July 2, 2019
To the Carroll Family...Praying that God will give you comfort, peace, strength and a mended heart during your time of bereavement. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal...Hold to those memories of your beloved Tonya.
With our sincere sympathy
Cynthia Hampton & Sheila Ijames
Lydia Lowe
July 2, 2019
Our heart and prayers are with you all always. We will continue to keep you in pray as the days and nights come and goes to deal with the loss of a special God sent angel. Tonya may you rest in peace no more pain. We love you and will see you again.
Casey,Lydia,Cayla and CJ Lowe
Patricia Johnson
July 2, 2019
Thank you Curtis for connecting me to my forever friend! It is the greatest gift: to love and truly be loved. Love lives! Praying for you, Brittany and Brent!
Dave & Fran Cook
July 2, 2019
Wow is all we can say but God knows best. We opened our business the same time with Tonya and Curtis in the Shopping Center on West Boulevard. We all formed a special bond as entrepreneurs. She was such a beautiful and amazing person. As a Pharmacist her patient attention was unbelievable. Heaven just received a new Angel.
Pauline Amos
July 2, 2019
My prayers are with the family during this difficult time. Tonya was a beautiful person inside and out. She was a reflection of God's love. Rest in peace.
Jones Family
July 2, 2019
Our sincere condolences for your loss. May your many fond memories of Mrs. Carroll bring you comfort and peace during this difficult time. Psalm 9:9
Walter Young
July 2, 2019
Walter Young and family would like to send our condolences to the Carroll family. We are praying that God gives you'll strength.
Love The Young Family
Lisa Cooley Banks
July 2, 2019
Sending prayers for peace and comfort for the Carroll and Lowe family in the home going of such a beautiful young lady.
Lelia Hudson-Lewis
July 1, 2019
What a sweetheart. Tonya was an outstanding friend and athlete. It is so shocking to hear of her passing. May God bless the Lowe & Carroll families.
Lequita Grier
July 1, 2019
Praying for the family. You had a beautiful spirit and I will always remember how you kept me encouraged when I was going through with my dad. Now you can rejoice in Heaven together and no longer be in pain.
Randy Sims
July 1, 2019
Tonya was one of the most GOD like persons I have ever had the pleasure to know and work with.a true Christian
Julia McCollie
July 1, 2019
May God comfort the Carroll family as you go through the loss of your loved one God is a healer and he will mend
Your broken hearts.
With deepest sympathy
The McCollie Family
Dr. Keith C. Dill
July 1, 2019
My condolences to The Carroll / Lowe Family, so many memories. My Prayers extend to Dr. Curtis Carroll, Mrs. Bernice Lowe and the entire family. "Earth hath no sorrow, that heaven cannot heal." We must all remember that nothing is lost to us, when we know where it truly is. You all are so dear to me.
Fredricka Cross
July 1, 2019
Condolences to family..She was a all around Beautiful person..
Henrietta McClain
July 1, 2019
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Caroline Taylor
July 1, 2019
Tonya was "my" sister at heart! We worked together for many, many years at CMC and she was always a constant in my life! May God's peace and mercy cover you all at this time. Hold her warm caring smile deep in your hearts!
Sonya Porch
July 1, 2019
Family,
Praying for peace to bring you comfort, courage to face the days ahead, and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. Our deepest sympathy
Clarence, Sonya , Leah and Job Porch
LaShawn Richardson
June 30, 2019
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Lamantha Richardson
June 30, 2019
I remember Tonya she had a heart of gold
Curtis n Stephanie (Kay) Freeman
June 30, 2019
Praying for the family
Ashley (Bethune) Cain
June 30, 2019
She was an amazing woman inside and out. She taught us so much on and off the track on how to be a lady . She will be deeply missed. Prayers to the family . We love you guys
Judy Calhoun
June 30, 2019
This Divine Daughter, Special Sister, Wonderful Wife, Magnificent Mother, and Fabulous Friend is So Loved. She's A Track Girl Magic athlete from Flint Northern HS to the UK Wildcats her indisputable talent was something to witness 1st hand! Her strong work ethic was ever present and carried through to her academic, professional, and Personal Life. We Love You forever. Our Sis Iss has earned her wings and is still the beautiful Angel that has been among us Always. Love, Judy Richardson Calhoun UK Track '79'-82'
Bob Carta
June 30, 2019
Tonya was such a kind and caring person; always had a beautiful smile and always was more concerned about others than herself. I will greatly miss her. May she rest in eternal peace.
Kathy Carter
June 29, 2019
Tonya was a very kind and loving coworker. She will be greatly missed
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