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Elizabeth Cittadine Obituary

In 1978, Betty Cittadine, then a teacher at Lincoln Park High School in Chicago, received a letter from one of her students. "I hated your class" he wrote. "The books we read were difficult, and you made us rewrite our essays until they were correct". He went on say that hers was the only class he'd really learned from, and that she was the reason he was going on to college.

After a brief bout with pancreatic cancer, Ms. Cittadine died on Friday December 30, at Baker Hospital in Naples Florida. After enjoying both Thanksgiving and Christmas, she passed away surrounded by love and family.

Born in Elkhart, Indiana Ms. Cittadine graduated from Elkhart High School in 1962, and received her undergraduate degree from the Medill School of Journalism at Northwestern University in Evanston. She went on to earn a Masters in Social Science from Roosevelt University in Chicago. For the entirety of her 30 year career with the Chicago Public Schools, she focused on motivating students to exceed expectations. She began as a Special Education teacher, become Assistant Principal at Lane Tech High school, then worked as an administrator at the CPS central offices.

She was most proud of her work as director of the CPS College Bridge program. In partnership with ten Chicago area universities, the program allowed qualifying Chicago high school students to earn dual credit: a high school elective and a college liberal arts course. College Bridge gave students the encouragement and confidence to pursue a four-year college degree.

While working with the Chicago Public Schools, Ms. Cittadine also published a book in 1989 titled "I Wish I Had a Wife: Sanity Saving Tips for Working Moms". Having juggled the responsibilities of home, demanding full-time work, and childcare herself, she wished to share what'd she'd learned with other hard working (and often frazzled) parents.

After retiring in 2007, she remained connected to education as an administrative consultant, served on the board of the Chicago History Museum, and was actively involved with the Northwestern Alumni Association and the International Association of Women.

Ms. Cittadine chose to keep her cancer diagnosis to herself and close family. In her final months, she delighted in the company of friends and family, and with the support of her dear friend and partner, David Lahti of Western Springs, was able to travel to Florida for the holidays.

She was preceded in death by Sven Elfving, her loving husband of 40 years, and is survived by her son, David Elfving of San Francisco, her brother, Jack Cittadine of Elkhart, Indiana and her nephews Andrew Cittadine and Tedd Cittadine. A celebration of her life will take place on May 6th, at the Church of the Holy Comforter in Kenilworth, Il. Those wishing to honor her memory are encouraged to visit and donate to their local public libraries in her name.

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Jan. 9, 2023.

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Barbara Mathew Wien

January 18, 2024

I just noticed Betty had @gone West" as pilots say. She was a delight to know in our younger years. I had not kept up with her life. She was a real class act. Condolences to Jack and family. Barbara Mathew Wien

Carmen N. Dutack

April 6, 2023

I have just found out about Betty's passing. She was such an amazing woman. I worked as a counselor at Foreman High School with the College Bridge Program. That was one of the highlights of my career. Betty was so supportive of me and my students. It was a real pleasure and honor to work with such a dedicated professional who was a great asset to me in my work with my students. Given how difficult it was at times to find resources for my students. Betty was truly a beacon in the sometimes wilderness. I ran into her at a Whole Foods on Greenbay Road and we immediately struck up a conversation. I was delighted to see and converse with her. What a contribution she made. I am long retired and wish my former students could realize what an impact she indirectly made on their lives. Most of these kids went on to college. Much peace and love to your family, Betty!!!

Terry Savage

April 5, 2023

I am belatedly learning of Betty´s passing. The world has lost a special spirit. We were young singles in Chicago together - so long ago and yet it seems like yesterday. Betty was always so much fun, so optimistic, and always ready with that beautiful smile. My condolences to her son and family.

Lewis Matuszewich

February 17, 2023

Jack, I did not know your sister although all three of my daughters attended LP HS. My sympathy to you and thew family.

David Lahti

February 11, 2023

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David Lahti

February 11, 2023

Missing you. Remembering you. Always and Forever.

Rebecca Rose

January 19, 2023

Betty was a dynamo! She was intelligent, beautiful and took an authentic interest in others. She was always up for an evening of dancing (she was excellent at it) or a long chat over a cup of coffee. I am so saddened by this loss, but know she will be remembered as the epitome of class and elegance!

Dean Lindsay

January 19, 2023

I will always remember Betty´s energy and sparkling smile, especially when we danced parking-lot summertime swing at Wilmette´s Plaza del Lago.

Gary Goldman

January 18, 2023

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Gary Goldman

January 18, 2023

My angel friend, Betty, had a heart of gold. Always bring of service to others. She was a great dance partner and together we lit of many places and brought great joy to others. May your journey home to God be filled with His grace. I will miss you.

Lawrence Baker

January 9, 2023

It was an honor and privilege to work with Betty at Lane Tech HS. May she RIP! Larry Baker

Gail D. Ward

January 9, 2023

Betty worked with us in the Principal Preparation Program in CPS and was highly regarded and respected and very positive. She made a difference and will be missed.

Carole Perlman

January 9, 2023

I´m a former CPS colleague of Betty´s and I can truly say she was a pleasure to work with and to be around. My condolences to her loved ones.

Kevin McCann

January 9, 2023

Dear Family, I was saddened today to read of Betty's passing. She was a wonderful woman who truly made a difference in the lives she touched. My prayers are with you at this difficult time. Kevin M. McCann- Retired Principal of Jamieson School

Lora

January 9, 2023

May God´s loving kindness and comfort help you and your family through this very difficult time. Matthew 5:4

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