Ethel Grace Dahm, 88, passed away Saturday, March 14, 2009. She was the loving wife of the late Erwin; beloved mother of Tony (Connie), Jim (Leslie) and Helen (Bob) Skutley; beloved daughter of Helen and
Tony Stavros; sister of the late Vicky,
Sophie, Ernie, Gus, Ted and Jim and sister in law of Grace O'Benauf, Billy Stavros,
Dorothy Stavros and Shirley Wiest; she was the grandmohter of Lisa, Shelly, Eric, Tony, David, Ryan, Lauren, Matt, Kate, Keith, Steve and Sarah; great grandmother of seventeen and aunt to many nieces and nephews. Ethel was the proud owner of Ethel's Fruit and Vegetable Stand in Palatine for 55 years. Vistation will be from 2 to 9 p.m. Tuesday, at Ahlgrim Family Funeral Home, 415 S. Buesching Rd, Lake Zurich. The funeral mass will held at 10 a.m., Wednesday, at St. Francis de Sales Church, 11 S. Buesching Rd, Lake Zurich, where she will lie in state from 9 a.m. until time of Mass. Interment will be in St. Mary Cemetery, Buffalo Grove. Memorials to the Hospice of Northeastern Illinois, 410 S. Hager Ave., Barrington, IL 60010 or charity of donor's choice appreciated. For information call 847-540-8871 or ahlgrimffs.com

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Becky
March 23, 2009
Dear Helen and family,
I was very sad to hear of Thea Ethel passing away. I always think of the fun when we were so young at your home and the farm! We had fun the night we all went to Bingo & dinner! Times I treasure. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all our Thea's & YiaYia's that have gone to heaven! I can hear them talking Greek a mile a minute!!!
Love,
Becky Kesaris Poziwilko Sarasota Florida
Charles & Sue Swinford
March 19, 2009
We were so sorry to hear of your mother's death. Charles worked for her for several years. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
March 18, 2009
3/17/09
Dear Tony(Connie)and to your brother Jim and sister Helen, we extend our sincere condolences. Ethel was unparalleled as the matriarch of the farm stand which encompassed her name. We purchased our fruits and vegetables from the stand not only for the quality of the products but also for the flair which was exuberant. Ethel was a unique, rare and exceptional individual who shall be missed.
God bless!
Bob & Marilyn Ostovits
Patricia Less-Bauer
March 17, 2009
Helen, Tony and Jimmy, I am so sorry for the loss of your Mother. Aunt Ethel was a woman ahead of her time. Strong, Independent, and successful, when it was unheard of. All three of the Stavros sister's shared these traits, along with their loving hearts and generousity to all they came in touch with. Many memories have come across me in the past couple of days, at the loss of a generation in our family. The yearly vacations that the Dahm's and the Less' took together, some I was to young to remember. I would like to think that the best parts of me came from the influence of my mother and her sisters, Ethel and Sophie. God bless you Aunt Ethel for all the things you did for me, that others did not know. Your on your way to heaven now. I know my Mom and Aunt Sophie and Uncle Erv have been waiting for you. There is going to be one big poker game up there this weekend!
Joanna Picard
March 17, 2009
We in Athens, Greece have you all in our prayers, and thoughts this St. Patrick's Day, and miss yia yia, Ethel. She is now at home in heaven safely with your dad. God bless.
March 17, 2009
Deepest Sympathy to Ethel's Family. I remember my grandparents going to Ethel's for many, many years. May the memories bring comfort to all of you.
The Sperry Family
Sue McArthur
March 16, 2009
Dear Jim, Tony and Helen,
My first job was at the veggie stand with my late twin, Joyce. Such wonderful memories of the entire Dahm and Stavros family. Your Mom was such a gentle monarch. I remember being at several bingo games with her and Sophie in years past and enjoying Greek Easter roasts with our families. Our deepest, heartfelt sympathies to your family at this difficult time. She will always be loved and remembered. God Bless.
Sue (Guilfoil) McArthur
Dan & DJ Stavros
March 16, 2009
Dear Tony, Jim and Helen,
We were so very sorry to hear the news about your Mom - she was one of a kind! I am sure we will all have some good stories to tell over the next few days. Looking forward to seeing you all again at the funeral. (Its sad that we only see each other at weddings and funerals).
Robert & June Kastning
March 16, 2009
Dear Dahm Family:
Living next to the farm for many years and June having worked at the stand for years, we all are very sad to hear that Ethel had passed away. Our sympathies are with all your family during this time.
Robert, June, John, Jan, Justin Kastning and Keith & Judy Hoeck Family
Greg Koeppen
March 16, 2009
Tony & Family,
How could I ever forget your mom. She was a wonderful lady (I was always afraid of her scooter), but she always made me laugh and had a voice I would never forget. A true farming pioneer in Lake County! May she rest in peace and enjoy farming and BINGO up in heaven!
Jerry Pegelow
March 16, 2009
Tony Jim
You have our deepest condolences
Jerry Vicki
Elaine King
March 16, 2009
Dear Dahm Family:
I am sorry to hear of Ethel's passing. My mother walked to school with Ethel although Ethel was a few years older. They shared many stories together. It was a sad day for us when the vegetable stand was closed. My condolences to the family.
Elaine King
McHenry, IL 60050
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