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Jacob H. "Jerry" Best Jr.

1937 - 2018

Jacob H. "Jerry" Best Jr. obituary, 1937-2018, Pacific Palisades, CA

BORN

1937

DIED

2018

Jacob Best Obituary

Jerry "Pops" Best passed away peacefully in Rancho Santa Fe on August 30, 2018 surrounded by his family at the age of 81. He was born on July 21, 1937 to Jacob Hilmer Best and Clara Cornell Best in Chicago, Illinois. Jerry graduated from Niles High School in Skokie, Illinois in June 1955 where he excelled in football, equine sports and taught horseback riding to students in summer camp. He went on to college on full football scholarship to Michigan State University and graduated with a B.A. in Hotel Management. This is where he also met the love of his life, his wife of 59 years, Janet Donnelly. They married in 1959 and had 3 beautiful children (Jay, Peter & Julie) a.k.a "Best 5". Jerry began his hotel career with Marriott Corporation in its humble beginnings when the total hotel count consisted of 4 properties. Through the span of 20 years with Marriott, he created exciting memories throughout the US moving his family to dozens of cities launching the flagship hotels from Boston to Hawaii. He started a career on a hotel sales team at The Blackstone in Chicago and worked his way to CEO for several major international hotel companies. His career never held him back from flying home to be at each of his kid's sporting events and coaching for their teams. He was known by all throughout the many ice hockey rinks, football & baseball fields for his famous "whistle" followed by his never ending encouragement. He was the ultimate family man and a man of great Catholic Faith. His career & accomplishments included being the recipient of the Michigan State School of Hospitality Business Leadership Hall of Fame. He had incredible charisma and a zest for life that created many unique life experiences, including being invited to carry the torch on horseback for the opening ceremonies of the 2002 Salt Lake City Olympic Games. He was passionate about his career and even more so about the people around him. He successfully retired several times, but continued to be pursued to lead, grow companies and develop people in the hotel industry. Over a span of 50+ years as a leader in his field, he was revered as a mentor to hundreds of industry professionals. He and Janet enjoyed retirement by traveling the world, golfing, dancing, hosting social gatherings, actively participated with the Church of the Nativity & various children's charities throughout the San Diego area. His family knows he is in a better place and now able to dance "The Jig" as he always did so well! He is survived by his wife Janet, brother Scott Best, sister-in-law Barbara, children Jay Best, daughter-in-law Kate, Peter Best, daughter-in-law Patty & Julie Best, son-in-law Jeff and grandchildren Brandt (wife Lauren), Courtney, Austin, Austin H, Tucker, Sara, Brandon, Karen, Trevor, Carly, Brandon, Blake, and his great grandson Bodhi. Services will be held on Saturday, September 15th @ 11:00 am at The Church of the Nativity 6309 El Apajo Road Rancho Santa Fe, CA 92067 In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in his name to Casa de Emparo c/o Ms Kathy Karpe' 325 Buena Creek Road, San Marcos, CA 92069 and/or Just in Time for Foster Youth c/o Mr. Don Wells P.O. Box 81292, San Diego, CA 92138 . You will always be missed and never forgotten. God Bless you Pops! "Shake 'em up!"

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Published by Chicago Tribune from Sep. 11 to Sep. 13, 2018.

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A. Davis

September 20, 2018

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you find comfort in God's word the Bible recorded at Acts chapter 24 verse 15.

Sue August

September 14, 2018

I just read Jerry's obituary in today's Tribune. What a tribute to Jerry and to the Best family. I am so sorry to hear of his passing and send my sympathy to Janet, Jay, Peter and Julie and to their families.

Sue August

September 14, 2018

I just read Jerry's obituary in today's Tribune. What a tribute to him and to the Best family. I am so sorry to hear of his passing and extend my sympathy to Janet, Jay, Peter and Julie and their families.

Jim Schultenover

September 14, 2018

Jerry was a mentor and friend who never forgot a person or a moment. He gave me the opportunity of a lifetime and I hope he knows the difference he made in my life. This a time of sadness but a life filled with so many great memories for everyone that knew him.

September 13, 2018

My condolences to the Best family and friends for your loss

September 12, 2018

I met Mr. Best through his son Peter while attending college and could tell what a special person he was from our first encounter. He was always a favorite over parent's weekend. A terrific person and a great dad! My condolences to the entire Best family.

Paul Best, Lake Forest IL

Joe Anlauf

September 12, 2018

Condolences from the Anlauf / Longley Family. Great memories for me of the wonderful times at the Best house centered around the PV High football games; as well as many shared fun times amongst Jerry, Janet, Bill Martin Sr & Jr. - and the Anlauf men. Again, sincere condolences.
'Little' Joe Anlauf

Z L

September 12, 2018

My sincere condolences to your family for the loss of your love one. May the God of comfort be with you during this sad occasion and may his loving words at John 6:40 console your heart.

Doyleen Pace

September 11, 2018

Jerry we are glad you are no longer suffering. We imagine you are riding horses and playing golf. God bless you Janet as we realize how much you will miss your dear friend. Love and hugs. Bob and Doyleen

September 11, 2018

Jerry so glad you are no longer in pain and playing golf in heaven. Janet we love you and know your dear friend by you and your family. God bless hugs and love. Bob and Doyleen

Annie V

September 11, 2018

Our condolences to the family. May you be comforted in knowing that those who passed in death, God keeps in his memory because they are precious in his eyes. Psalm 116:15

September 11, 2018

May the God of all comfort strengthen the family during this time of deep sorrow. Those who pass on, God keeps in his memory because they are precious in his eyes. My sincerest condolences. (Psalms 116:15)

Ruth Ann Poppa

September 6, 2018

God bless you, Jerry - the last of the birthday club husbands.

Janet, may the love of those around you provide you comfort .
You know you have mine.

Rob Islava

September 6, 2018

Class act! Always loved how Mr B treated his kids and their friends! He was one of us! He will be missed!
The Islava family

September 3, 2018

In loving memory to a wonderful friend and so many thanks for the good times at your home. And love to dear Janet, how you will miss this Good Man. Always Remember The Butterflies are here for YOU. Deepest sympathy to this wonderful family. Libby Frank

Gene & Nina Smoley

September 2, 2018

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Gene & I will be away & sad to miss this service.

Paul Beumer

September 2, 2018

The Best G.M. ,people person,mentor I find myself rating other managers to his standards.My thoughts and prayers to your family.

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