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John Bittenbinder Obituary

John Joseph "JJ" Bittenbinder. Born in Buffalo, New York on September 1, 1942 and died peacefully with family present on May 26, 2023. Served 4 years in the United States Marine Corps; served 22 years in the Chicago Police Department, 18 years as Homicide Detective; and 10 years with the Cook County Sheriff's Department. He had a lifelong commitment to safety having written a book Tough Target: A Street Smart Guide to Staying Safe, multiple television presentations and community outreach programs. He participated in many cattle drives as a spirited cowboy in Cody, Wyoming. Memorial Visitation will be held on Tuesday, June 6, from 2 p.m. until time of Memorial Service, 7:30 p.m. at the Ryan-Parke Funeral Home, 120 S. Northwest Highway, Park Ridge, IL 60068. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the JJ Bittenbinder Award in Criminal Justice via the University of Illinois Foundation. Funeral Info., www.ryan-parke.com.

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Jun. 4, 2023.

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~ ~ Fr. Dan Brandt, CPD Chaplain

January 24, 2024

Heartfelt and prayerful condolences from the Chicago Police Chaplains. At the request of Mike and Marcia Schumacher, JJ will be remembered at the next Police Mass.

In the meantime, may family and friends know the healing touch of our all-loving, all-merciful God! [Police Chaplains Ministry: www.ChicagoPCM.org or 312/738-7588]

Wm. Halliday

June 12, 2023

God speed JJ

Kathy Dvorak

June 10, 2023

I pray for healing of your. R.I.P John. K. Dvorak

Loni

June 10, 2023

My Sincere Condolences to the family.
I `am So Sorry for the loss of your love
One. May you find Comfort in your
Beautiful heart and treasured every
memory that holds a special place in
Your love ones heart, may God give
You the strength to endure this difficult
Time, and continue to bless your love ones.

Genesis 2:7; 3:19).

Susan Zamora

June 7, 2023

Sending condolences to Mr. Bittenbinder´s family. I knew him a long time ago, when I babysat his kids on Montana St. He was a nice man, that loved his kids. Also followed him as he taught people to be "Street Smart". Again sending condolences. Susan Zamora

jody brachman

June 6, 2023

Hi how are you I am good u I was writing to you to give my condolences to you and your family etc. Rip. I loved his job things. He seemed like a nice guy. I will miss him so. No rush take care bye

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Karen Deitesfeld

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Karen (Ziaja) Deitesfeld

June 6, 2023

Long are the days gone by where we talk across the fence or shared a drink or two, solving the worlds problems...Those are Good Memories etched on our hearts. Thank you.
Sent with love and sincere sympathies,
Rex & Karen Deitesfeld, Longmont, Colorado
Got along little dogies until we meet again, happy trails.

Sgt. Jim Yester McHenry County College Police. (Ret. BGPD)

June 6, 2023

Sgt. Jim Yester McHenry County College Police. (Ret. BGPD)

June 6, 2023

Sgt. Jim Yester McHenry County College Police. (Ret. BGPD)

June 6, 2023

JJ was a great person and public servant. I had the pleasure of meeting him in the 1990's when he graciously agreed to speak at a Junior High class when I was a juvenile detective in Buffalo Grove. Thanks JJ for all the people you helped.

Michael Ohlinger

June 6, 2023

John would stop often at the Amoco gas station I worked at on Narragansett and Grand. Always a pleasure to see him. Thank you for your Service Sir. Rest In Peace

Tina Kukla

June 5, 2023

To this day I still vividly remember the safety talk JJ gave to our high school. His words stayed with me far more than any other assembly we had in those four years. So many Chicago and suburban school kids benefitted from his expertise. My condolences to his family and friends.

Tom Davy

June 5, 2023

Had the pleasure of dealing with Det. Bittenbinder during my time in Felony Review in the State's Attorneys Office. Just a decent, professional and honorable man and a great copper. My sympathy to his
family.

Debbie and Rick Cantore

June 5, 2023

John was the best! He was our neighbor when we lived in Galewood in the early 1980s. Our deepest condolences to the family.

Brian ONeill

June 5, 2023

His advice saved many innocents from going to the "secondary crime scene". RIP, JJ!

Joseph J Ziaja (Jay Zay)

June 5, 2023

I'm back.
As I take this all in. I've been very blessed to have JJ in my life.

Art Misiewicz, CRL, CIL, IAIL, Past President of the GCLA

June 5, 2023

It was an honor and a pleasure to meet and work with J.J. His knowledge, experience and logic gave me guidance and a plan of action in dealing with personal security and threatening circumstances. He was our guest speaker at our holiday banquet for the Greater Chicago Locksmith's Association years ago and his cowboy endeavors explain his beautiful mustache! I miss him.

Joe Ziaja (Jay Zay)

June 5, 2023

I've known JJ for many years as I was growing up in Harwood heights he was my neighbor. A wonderful person. So many fond memories I can't just pick one. Stand up man always willing to help out.
My condolences go's out to the family. R.I.P. My friend!

Corey

June 5, 2023

Learned of J.J. Bittenbinder from Red Letter Media.

Really appreciate his work in helping keep kids safe! He will be missed.

Jon Teich

June 5, 2023

One memory of Mr. Bittenbinder that I quote to people unfamiliar with his work: "In my career, I put many a perp against a wall. Not once did a Mensa card ever fall out." This has always elicited a response of both laughter and agreement.

William Neal

June 5, 2023

William Neal

June 5, 2023

William Neal

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William Neal

June 5, 2023

JJ was truly one-of-a-kind. My partner at J Marc Group, Rick Paskin, and I worked closely with him for several years developing two national "Street Smarts" PBS specials, as well as a syndicated TV series called "Tough Target." And I co-wrote a book with JJ by the same name.

His very real impact on the personal safety of his audiences was perhaps best captured in a letter from a "Tough Target" viewer. Her letter began, "Dear Detective Bittenbinder, I want to thank you for saving my life."

The bad guys who passed on before JJ ("goofs" as he called them) are now, no doubt, on high alert.

Rest in peace, my friend.

Chris P

June 5, 2023

Thank you to Red Letter Media for introducing me and many of their fans to Mr Bittenbinder, a man who selflessly dedicated his life to keeping others safe from harm. Thank you for your service John and condolences to your family.

Lawrence K. Magnuson

June 4, 2023

My deepest sympathies to the Bittenbinder family. I recall watching your loved one on WTTW a few times as he gave tips on how to avoid being a crime victim. I have shared many of the tips I learned with my family and others and I will continue to do so in the future in his name.

Larry Thezan

June 4, 2023

I met J.J. in the 020 th District in 1973 ..I worked with him in the 020th and Area 6 (Area 3 now).

He was a Great Man, Loyal, and a Police Officer and Detective He new human nature even the bad guys liked him. There are a lot of great stores and memories. 2028 him Bobby and Ronnies(Rangers).

I am sorry that he has passed. I thought he would have lived a long time..

John Minas, Chicago Fire Department, Engine Co. 123

June 4, 2023

Rest in Peace! My dad was at 014. Met John many times when we lived Foster and Winchester by the "old 20"

Lewis Raye

June 4, 2023

John and I worked together on Beat 2028 for a couple of years in the early 70's. When I married in 1975, John drove out with me to Pennsylvania where he was an usher at the wedding. Always had fun working with him in the old Foster District. Unfortunately fell out of touch with him in the early 80's. Fond memories of him always.
Lewie Raye CPD 1972-2005

Frank Bielfeldt

June 4, 2023

John sat next to me throughout our training at the Police Academy on O'Brien St. Our paths crossed many times in our careers on the CPD.
A finer man you couldn't meet and want to know.

R.I.P. "JJ"

Denise Wynbrandt

June 4, 2023

This deeply saddens my heart. Thank you JJ Bittenbinder for your service and devotion to safety.
I was his makeup artist and hairstylist on Tough Target and he was a joy to work for as he was always in great spirits and everyone felt his great love for people.
You will be missed

Lauri A Neal

June 4, 2023

So very sorry for your loss. I had the privilege of working with JJ on the PBS series & TOUGH TARGET. Truly one of a kind

Eternal Affection Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

Love, Michael and Katie

Sent Flowers

Lisa Marie Brodsky

June 4, 2023

John was my stepfather and in my life from 1981- approximately 2010. I have so many memories yet have no words. My condolences go out to his loving family who are feeling the larger than life absence of this larger than life man.

Margie wickman

June 4, 2023

So sorry! I've known him my whole life! Our dad's were best friends.
Sincerely
Margie (Koch) Wickman

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Dave Sandlund

June 4, 2023

I had the distinct pleasure of knowing John from 020 and then Area 3 as detective´s. RIP J J and condolences to the family.

Bob Schwind

June 4, 2023

R.I.P. Brother.
Worked with John ("Crash") during the 70's in 020 and later as he was a Detective in Area 6 he was assigned to some of my felony arrest. He was a good man and always had your back no matter how far away he was. Will pray for you and your loved ones in these moments of grief. EOW

Brian Daley

June 4, 2023

I had the pleasure of meeting John in the 1990s when I invited him to bring his program to the Union League Club of Chicago.

His personae grabbed attention that he used to educate others about taking responsibility for their own safety. "No one is coming to rescue you so you have to be your own First Responder. That starts by making yourself a Tough Target."

He educated legions and, in doing so, saved countless lives.

Peace to all who knew and loved him.

~ ~ Fr. Dan Brandt, CPD Chaplain

June 4, 2023

Heartfelt and prayerful condolences from the Chicago Police Chaplains. JJ will be remembered at the next Police Mass.

In the meantime, may family and friends know the healing touch of our all-loving, all-merciful God! [Police Chaplains Ministry: www.ChicagoPCM.org or 312/738-7588]

The Staff of Ryan-Parke Funeral Home

June 3, 2023

Offering our deepest sympathies during this time.

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