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JOHN McNICHOLAS Obituary

John P. McNicholas, age 15, left his earthly home in peace on Jan. 7, 2011, after a courageous nine month battle with an inoperable brain tumor. John was born Aug. 6, 1995, in Chicago, was a 2009 graduate of Christ the King Grammar School and currently a Sophomore at St. Rita of Cascia High School. John is survived by his loving parents; Amy and Ed; and his brother, Bradley; he was the dear grandson of Bonnie and Wayne Bradley and the late Mary Ann and John McNicholas; he was the fond nephew of Beth Bradley and Matt (Kathy) Bradley and Mary Ann (Chuck) Koester and Tom (Samantha) McCormick; and cousin of Timur; Zachary and Sam; Michael, Megan and Mary Melissa. John lived his life with humor, kindness, charm and enthusiasm for the things he loved sports, music, his friends and family. He was brave and strong, shedding only a tear in the end. John is now at peace and will be forever and deeply missed by his family and friends. Visitation Monday, 3 to 9 p.m. at Christ the King Church, 9235 S. Hamilton Ave., Chicago, IL 60643. Mass of Christian Burial on Tuesday, at 10 a.m. Interment St. Mary Cemetery. In lieu of flowers or gifts, Amy and Ed request memorial donations to The John McNicholas Pediatric Brain Tumor Foundation (the JMPBT Foundation) c/o Beverly Bank, 10258 S. Western Ave. Chicago, IL 60643 attention, Gloria Crespo. Information: Heeney-Laughlin Funeral Directors, 708-636-5500.

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Published by Chicago Tribune from Jan. 9 to Jan. 10, 2011.

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Lori BECHINA

January 3, 2020

Wow! Wish you were here!
You will always be remembered and your mom dad and brad love you along with all of us! Keep your presence with us. Love you and miss you
Lori B

Jerry Martinez

January 4, 2012

You are not forgotten. Pray for us.

January 4, 2012

EDDIE,AMY & BRAD,
I HAVE BEEN THINKING OF YOU OVER THE HOLIDAYS, I KNOW IT MUST BE A VERY HARD TIME OF YEAR. JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND HOPE THE HURT YOU ARE FEELING WILL GO AWAY WITH TIME.

LOVE,
SHARON TENCZA

Anonymous

May 14, 2011

Live like John.

Tyler Barros

January 21, 2011

Dear Eddie & Amy,
I am so sorry for your loss of your beloved son John. I would like to offer my deepest sympathy & heartfelt condolences to you and your family

Roland & Karen Swintek

January 15, 2011

Dear Eddie & Amy,
We are sending the biggest (((HUGS))). Words cannot describe how we feel about your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We heard recently that John had an inoperable tumor but had no idea that his life would end so quickly. It is times like these that we wish we could be closer to our friends. Please know that we love you and we are here for you today and always!
God bless,
Karen and Roland Swintek

Michael McNicholas

January 13, 2011

Ed, Amy and Brad:

So sorry for your loss. We heard John was sick when my Dad died in April. From all that has been written here, clearly John was an exceptional young man. Our thoughts are with you. Your cousin, St. Rita '71.

Trish and David Bromann

January 12, 2011

There are no words to describe how sorry we are for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers, and we are praying that God gives you the strength to get through this. Know that we love you very much and are here for you if you need anything. With Deepest Sympathy,

kathy (ryan) Wyman

January 12, 2011

Amy and ED,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this very difficult time. May support be abundant in your time of need.

SHARON & JIM TENCZA

January 12, 2011

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Helen Flanagan

January 11, 2011

Dear Ed and Amy,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May the love and support all around you help to ease your pain....
My deepest sympathies on the loss of your beloved John.

January 11, 2011

Our condolences to the family of John. Matt, Lisa Valkenburg and family

Lynn Milazzo

January 11, 2011

May you find comfort in the memories you cherish and may angels wings hold you during this difficut time. We are so sorry for the pain your hearts are feeling. We keep you in our prayers and our children's school has prayed for comfort and peace for all of you. With Sincere Sympathy.

Lynn(Eischen)& Mark Milazzo

Martin Farrell

January 11, 2011

Ed and Family, I just heard about your son, John. Life can be terribly cruel. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless you and be with you at this most difficult time. Your cousin, Marty Farrell

Nadia Henrichs

January 10, 2011

Ed, Amy and Bradley we are so sorry for your loss. We extend our deepest sympathy and prayers. Our son Nick was a classmate to John at St. Rita. He will always remember him.

Nadia, Rod, Nick, Charles & Lorenzo Henrichs

Patti Paloumpis

January 10, 2011

I am so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Shari Rodriguez

January 10, 2011

Eddie, Amy and Bradley,
We are so sorry for the loss of your son/brother JP. Faith consists in believing when it is beyond the power of reason to believe. We hope you are comforted knowing that JP is pain free in the loving arms of God. He will live in the hearts and memories of all who loved him.
Michael, Shari, JP and Madeline Rodriguez

Pauline Swenson

January 10, 2011

Ed, Amy, Bradley and Bonnie and Wayne Bradley, I am very sorry for your loss. My sympathy and prayers go out to all of you. My former teachers from Healy School also send their prayers.

Susan & Steve Stanczak

January 10, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I"m so sorry to hear of your loss.

January 10, 2011

Ed, Amy and Bradley,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Tonya (Garcia) Fatima

Diane Bradel

January 10, 2011

Ed and Amy
Our thoughts any prayers are with you at this most difficult of times.

Ken & Diane Bradel & Family

Debbie Hozian Bingham

January 10, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Having three children, I can't imagine the pain you are going through. Bless your family.

January 10, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. Deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Harry, Bridget, Michelle & Bernie

Brigid Hixson (Gallery)

January 10, 2011

Amy, Eddie and Bradley,
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Bernadette Barrett-Kaden

January 10, 2011

Amy, Ed & Bradley,

Our thoughts have been with you all, and we will continue to pray for your strength.

Peter Mixan

January 10, 2011

Dear Ed and Amy
I am very sorry about the passing of John. He is a great young man and a favorite of My Mothers at C.K. He will be in our prayers.
Peter T Mixan and Family

Annette Scott

January 10, 2011

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Sandi Wanat

January 10, 2011

Dear McNicholas Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you through this very difficult time. John sounds like he was an amazing young man and will be missed. The Wanat Family. Anthony '12 - Chris '14 - St. Rita High School

MAROZAS FAMILY

January 10, 2011

ED, AMY and BRADLEY,
You all are in our thoughts and prayers. We will continue to pray for your strength to live your lives with John in SPIRIT until the day will come to meet with him again.

January 10, 2011

I wish you only strength and fortitude to carry on after your tragic loss. My deepest symapthies at this time.
Larry Arnowitz

beth toomey

January 10, 2011

Amy, Ed and Bradley,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you through this extremely difficult time.

Beth Toomey and family

January 10, 2011

The McNicholas Family,
Please accept our heartfelt sympathy during this most difficult time. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Loren Lorenz(11) and Family

Victor Luna

January 10, 2011

Dear McNicholas Family,
We are sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Victor Luna and Family

Megan Doheny

January 10, 2011

To the McNicholas Family
~Words cannot express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. John was the most amazing kid ever and he put up a courageous fight. He is an inspiration to all and he has touched so many lives. I pray that you can find comfort in the memories you have of John. My thoughts and prayers are with you now and always.

Jim & Mary Phistry

January 10, 2011

Amy,Eddie and Bradley,

We are so sorry for your loss. We are praying for your family through this difficult time.

Patrick & Linda (Calderon) Breier & Family

January 10, 2011

Amy, Eddie and Bradley, We are so sorry for your loss, please know our prayers are with you at this most difficult time.

Celeste Jones

January 10, 2011

Dear Amy, Ed, and Brad,
I have ached for you and your family over the last nine months. My thoughts and prayers have been with you all and are with you now. God Bless. My hearfelt condolences to you all.

Celeste Jones
CK 2002-2009

Lori Bechina

January 10, 2011

"Amy, Ed, and Bradley...I can't imagine what you are going through...We will always be here for you" Lori, Steve, Marty, and Luke Bechina.

Jerry Martinez

January 10, 2011

I met John on the St. Rita Golf Team and we found that we had many things in common besides the fact that our initials are both JM. We both were unable to play many other sports due to something on our brain. John had a tumor and I have a cyst. We shared instant comraderie over this. He was a great person and a great golfer. My family and I have been praying daily for your entire family. I am so saddened by his passing but I am comforted in knowing that I have someone up in heaven whom I can call on for help. It is not how long we last on this earth, but what we do with our time here. John has impacted my life and been a true example of courage. I know that one day we will meet again and maybe play a great round of golf. May God comfort you during this time of great sorrow. Jerry Martinez, St. Rita Brother and the Martinez Family

Michelle Villa

January 10, 2011

Amy, Eddie, and Bradley,

Our hearts go out to you during this difficult time, words seem inadequate to express the sadness we feel. We're thinking of you and keeping you close in prayer during this difficult time.

With Heartfelt Condolences,
Michelle Villa & Autumn

January 10, 2011

Dear McNicholas Family,

My heart goes out to you guy’s at this most trying time. John has been in our thoughts and prayers and we are deeply saddened by his untimely passing. I will always remember him coming in to pitch at a game that was close and you said he is pretty unflappable, well this strong characteristic was defining. May God Bless your Family and John’s courageous soul. Lisa Jones (McAllister)

January 10, 2011

Ed, Amy and Family
Our hearts are hurting for you and your family. We are so sadden to hear about the loss of your precious son. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers always.
Bob and Maureen Dietrick and family

amy bracewell

January 10, 2011

Amy, Ed, and Bradley,

Our deepest sympathy to all of you. You will be in our thoughts and prayers in the days to come.

The Bracewell Family

Deborah McCaskill-Walton

January 10, 2011

My heart goes out to your entire family. John is in my thoughts and prayers this day.

Ray Adams

January 10, 2011

Dear Ed,Amy and Family,
we are all saddened to hear of the loss of your son.The Lord will Guide you throught this time of need.Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Ray Adams and Family

Dawn Jurinek Gerloski

January 10, 2011

Words cannot express how deeply sorry I am for your loss....I cannot imagine what you are going through. Please believe that the comfort of family and friends together with all of our prayers will help you along the way. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Scott Conrad

January 10, 2011

Please accept my deepest sympathies during this difficult time.

John Koester

January 10, 2011

I only met John a few times, but I could tell he was a great kid. My best thoughts to all of you.
John Koester

Tim Baffoe

January 9, 2011

I will never forget John's work ethic even after his diagnosis, never asking for special treatment or to get cut some slack. That his classmates can follow his example is my greatest hope of a legacy he will leave in their lives. I wish I had one-hundred Johns in my classroom. He will be greatly missed by this teacher.

Erin & Jay Muldoon Stetson

January 9, 2011

Our hearts and thoughts are with you.

Lots of Love,
Erin & Jay

Vince Napolitano

January 9, 2011

Mr. and Mrs. McNicholas and Brad,

John will be sorely missed, he was a great teammate and an even better friend. Terribly sorry for your loss. He will never be forgotten.

Denise Simon-Carmody

January 9, 2011

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Frank & Jan Igleski

January 9, 2011

Dear Ed, Amy, and Bradley,

Wishing you Peace beyond understanding.

Our Deepest Sympathy,

January 9, 2011

My deepest sympathies ,,You are in my thoughts and prayers..Diane Sifuentes

Brad Leshinske

January 9, 2011

Dear McNicholas family
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. I had the pleasure of training John and getting to know him very well. His smile and the way he lit up the room will never be forgotten. I will miss him during the great amount of speed sessions and fun we had talking about baseball and training. Again my thoughts and prayers during this time. God Bless and Rest in Peace Johnny. You will be missed but not forgotten

January 9, 2011

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our deepest sympathies during this time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jerry & Heidi (Knapczyk) Walsh

Dawn & Dave Wilson

January 9, 2011

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead. You're in our constant thoughts and prayers. Love you.

M K

January 9, 2011

Your family is in my thoughts and prayers,he put up a good battle and hes out of his suffering. i'm sure you know he is watching over you.

Kathy & Enrico Azzato

January 9, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Peggy Murphy

January 9, 2011

Eddie,

Deepest sympathy to you and your family. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

Peggy Murphy

Kelly Sullivan Family

January 9, 2011

McNicholas family,
John will live forever in the hearts of many. We all feel so lucky to have known him and be a part of his life. We will cherish those baseball road trip memories forever! I hope the love and support of your family and friends will carry you through your grief.

Patty Alm Cochonour

January 9, 2011

To the McNicholas Family:

I am so very sorry for your Loss. Words cannot express my sympathy for your family. I will pray for peace and blessings. Godspeed John Home.

Nancy Bayers -Hoerdemann

January 9, 2011

Dear Amy, Ed & Bradley,
May God & the love of family and friends help you at this difficult time. I cannot fully express in words the sorrow I feel for you. From the stories I've heard I know JP was a wonderful & strong kid, he will continue to be that way as an angel in heaven. As you have been for the past several months you will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you.
Love,
Nancy Bayers & Family

January 9, 2011

Amy,Ed and Bradley,

It's so hard to find the right words to express my sympathy. Please, know that I love you and will pray for him forever. Rest in peace J.P.

Love,

Stever

Don & Marianne Szybeko

January 9, 2011

Our deepest sympathy in the loss of John, You now have an angel watching over you and your family. Words cannot express how we feel, you will be in our prayers.
Marianne & Don Szybeko

January 9, 2011

Amy, Ed and Brad,

May the love of all your family and friends help you through this. Our prayers and our hearts are with you always.

The Budz Family

January 9, 2011

Dear McNicholas Family-

May God bless you and your family at this time of sorrow. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Rest in Peace John.

Anne & Tom Noonan and family

John & Betty Heneghan

January 9, 2011

Lord God, source and destiny of our lives, in Your loving providence You gave us John NcNicholas to grow in wisdom, age, and grace. Now You have called him to Yourself. We grieve over the loss of one so young and struggle to understand Your purpose. Draw him to Yourself and give him full stature in Christ. May he stand with all the angels and saints, who know Your love and praise Your saving will. Amen.
Sending Lots of Hugs your way
John and Betty Heneghan

January 9, 2011

Lord God, source and destiny of our lives, in Your loving providence You gave us John to grow in wisdom, age, and grace. Now You have called him to Yourself. We grieve over the loss of one so young and struggle to understand Your purpose. Draw him to Yourself and give him full stature in Christ. May he stand with all the angels and saints, who know Your love and praise Your saving will. Amen.
Hugs to you from John and Betty Heneghan

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