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Robert Paul Abate

1929 - 2018

Robert Paul Abate obituary, 1929-2018, Elgin, IL

Robert Abate Obituary

Robert Paul Abate passed away on December 5th, 2018 after a long illness. He was surrounded by family members and loving caregivers. Robert was born in Oak Park, Illinois on January 16, 1929. The only child of Paul and Rose Freundt Abate, he was raised in Melrose Park, IL. He was a graduate from DePaul University and received his MBA from the University of Chicago. After college he embarked on his lifelong career in banking. He worked at the American National Bank as a Group Vice President. While there he served at the Office of Education at the requests of Presidents Johnson and Nixon, helping to organize the Student Loan Program. He acquired control of the Elgin National Bank in 1973. He was also at the same time, the Chairman of the Elgin State Bank, The Plum Grove Bank of Rolling Meadows, IL and the First National Bank of Marengo, Il. Until his retirement in 2011, he divided his time between homes in Lake Bluff, IL and La Quinta, CA. The last year and a half of his life was spent at his home in Spokane, WA. For many years an avid golfer, he was a member of Bob O' Link Golf Club in Highland Park, IL, La Quinta County Club and The Quarry in La Quinta, CA. He was a voracious reader, reading up to three to four books a week. He loved crossword puzzles and movie trivia. He was known to write handwritten notes to friends and family sharing articles in the news he thought they would appreciate. He was a man's man and was a mentor to many. Robert is survived by his wife, Sonja, son Mark Abate (Gloria) of Greer, SC, stepchildren; Robin Black of Palm Desert, CA, Ray Black of Indio, CA, Rhonda Black of Spokane, WA, and granddaughter Lauren Albright (John) of Palatine, IL. The family would like to acknowledge his caregivers and doctors who were so attentive and kind, giving him wonderful care during his last years. Services were private at his request. Remembrances in his honor may be made to Catholic Charities and the Salvation Army.

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Jan. 13, 2019.

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Aleaner Thurman

January 13, 2019

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

V R

January 13, 2019

My deepest sympathy for your loss. May you find comfort in the knowing that God cares for you and will comfort and sustain your family in the days ahead. (1 Cor 1:3-4)

M B

January 13, 2019

Please accept my deepest condolences for the loss of your dear Robert. May you find comfort in the promises of Almighty God as found at John 6:40.

Rev. Monsignor Michael M. Boland

January 7, 2019

On behalf of Catholic Charities, I would like to express my sincere condolences on your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May you find comfort in knowing that Robert is now at peace.

January 7, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss. Remember that the God of Comfort cares for you. 1 Peter 5:6,7

January 6, 2019

Please accept my sincerest condolences for your loss. I hope that words such those found at John 6:40 bring you comfort at this difficult time. CR

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