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Robert James Pasquesi

Robert Pasquesi Obituary

On July 3, 2020 Bob "Mr. P" hung up his car keys for the final time after 96 years. He peacefully passed in his home of 70 years surrounded by his family. Bob was a proud WWII veteran. Bob's larger than life personality is what drew people to the Left Bank - a first time customer became a forever friend. Bob thrived on providing the local youth with a space to learn responsibility and gain work ethic. Our family is forever grateful to the community of Lake Forest and close friends that have loved him as much as we have.Bob is proceeded in death by his loving wife Gert, his son's Theodore and James. He is survived by Robert Jr.(Lisa) of New Orleans, Louisiana, Peggy(loving wife of Theodore) of Lake Forest, Illinois. His grandchildren Lane(Betsy),Tony,Paige(Nick),Carmen(Todd),Whitney(Mike), Marea(Kenton) and Alex. Bob's adoring great grandchildren: Jackson, Teddy, Miles, Olive, August, Keays, Emma and Decker.

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Published by PL-Lake on Jul. 23, 2020.

Memories and Condolences
for Robert Pasquesi

35 Entries

Sheila Bergmann

July 17, 2024

Still think of you and miss you. My mom joined you in Nov 2023. She was just about 95.
So now you folks are together in Paradise and I pray for you everyday. The world was a better place with you in it, for sure!!!! RIP Bob!

Marina Carney

July 17, 2023

You are still missed Mr. P, but I know you are better up there in heaven. You would not be pleased at what is going on in the world now.Continue to have fun with Peter and so many of your pals.

Sheila Renee Bergmann

July 17, 2023

God bless and keep you! Went passed the Mikitary Museum and Mars Cheese Castle last week. I always remember you and what a blessing it was to get ti know you.

Marina Carney

July 18, 2021

The best of the best!!!!!!! Mr. P will always be in our hearts and prayers.
We were so lucky to have known him.
Peter's birthday was the 5 of July

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Sheila Bergmann

December 8, 2020

I was on the Honor Flight to Washington DC to honor the World War II Vets. I was there as a volunteer and also accompanying my father who was World War II Vet. I wound up with the pleasure of being an Aide or companion to him during the whole trip I pushed him around in a wheel chair since there was so much walking involved, many of the vets needed to get around by wheelchair. He was such a gentleman and so kind! We bonded and it was a true honor to meet him. My family and I met him a few times at Mars Cheese castle to reminisce over the past 11 years since we went to DC.
I was supposed to meet him last Spring but canceled because of this darn Covid! Rest in Peace young man and say Hello to my father who passed in 2012.

Susann Chung

November 20, 2020

Forever in my heart.
Bob has known me all my life. His absence is sorely missed.

Bob Ewens

November 18, 2020

Your a great man, I've learned a lot from you over the 35+ years, R.I.P. my friend

Bob Ewens

Ross Mathee

July 28, 2020

I was “first” a customer, then I got the dream job offer of a lifetime. Bob (Mr. P) saw me unloading bags of charcoal at Dons Finest Foods. He said, Ross, come in tomorrow for lunch, I’ll buy.

He offered me the job, but wanted me to take COOP (Cooperative Occupational Edu education) and worked with my HS Counselor to get me to the store by noon. It was 12-4 M-S.

Upon graduation, Mr. P encouraged me to “get a real job”! “I’ll give you a good reference. Tell them you are the Manager, do all the hiring and firing and the daily bank deposits.

I applied for a teller job, and 35 years later I thank him every day for being a father figure mentor to me.

A few years back I tracked him down at his bar stool at Toad Stool. I had a chance to tell him exactly how he helped me in my life. His reply “I didn’t do anything, you did it”!

My sincerest condolences to his family. Bob was one special person in so many peoples lives. Cheers, my old friend!

Cyndie Platt

July 28, 2020

We lived between Bob & Gert and Peggy & T when Sarah & Stephani were growing up...I was a we bit envious of Lane, Tony, Paige & Carmen being able to run across my yard to see their grandparents. What a beautiful relationship they had! And how lucky we were to have all of them for neighbors. Love You Guys!

Bill Waltman

July 26, 2020

Bob will go down in the history books of Lake Forest. I was of the same generation as his kids. Bob Jr and I attended Gorton School about the same time. I remember him venturing into the hot dog business with a food van at the LF beach. That later became the Left Bank. You couldn’t get a better dog, Polish or (not so) sloppy joe anywhere. Somehow, it was never the same after Bob retired. In the end, as the sign in the VIP (back) room says, You can’t fool a flight of stairs.

Marina Carney Senior

July 26, 2020

What a super star! Peter and I loved him and the back room! Peter will be glad to see him in Heaven. Fortunately we had a picture with him outside one day after he sold it !

Susan Niles

July 24, 2020

My condolences to the Pasquesi Family. To me he was Tony's grandpa, and was always so kind to me. I'm sorry for your loss.

Elaine Crowe

July 24, 2020

Mr. P was such an awesome person, a blessing to all who came in contact with him. The world is a sadder place for his passing but a richer place for him having been in our lives.

Frankie Dunn

July 23, 2020

I just inquired about him the other day to my friend Louie, not knowing of his passing and am so sad to hear it. He was a great man and knew everyone in town , we were all so lucky to have spent time with him in the back room, he had a lot of stuff hanging around back there .
He will be missed by all, my sympathy to all you family members.

Lewe koravos

July 23, 2020

IN 1971 I moved to lake Forest from Boston. Bob was the first person I met here. We became instant friends forever. Sadly missed

Jo Ann MacMillan

July 23, 2020

Bobby was surely the life of the party along
With Gert. I am so sorry for your loss! Bob and Peggy ! With feeling
Jo Ann MacMillan
Barrington

Arthur Miller

July 23, 2020

ob Pasquesi was a gentle, kind, generous neighbor; a valued local entrepreneur and friend of young people; and an engaged citizen who took his civic duties seriously. He survived losses with dignity and fortitude. His larger than life presence in town and in his neighborhood will be missed, though they leave a lasting legacy.

Susie maxfield siebert

July 22, 2020

you were a big part of my childhood and I thank you and your family for all the great memories. I will miss you and Lake Forest will miss you! Rest In Peace Mr P

Shepard Swift

July 22, 2020

So sad to hear that Mr. P has passed away but he will always cherished for his warm personality. The amazing thing about him was he could remember all the Swift children by name, not an easy feat! Mr. P hired my late brother Stephen to man the soda machine and was constantly reminding him not to take sips off the top of the drinks when he overfilled them. It was always a pleasure to visit him and catch upon the latest gossip. He was a Lake Forest treasure, RIP.

Luca Pasquesi

July 22, 2020

Uncle Bobby was the type of guy that made everyone feel comfortable just being themself. He always had advice, he always had a joke, and most importantly, he was always happy to see you. I'll always remember listening to his stories with my brother and trying to be more like him.

We will miss you!

Stephanie (Nelson) Connolly

July 21, 2020

I have such fond memories of Mr Pasquesi and the Left Bank (aka The Purple Door). I would go with my dad, another Bob, and we would sit in the back room. Mr P would always come and sit down with us. We would chat and share stories. My dad and I always left with a smile on our faces. Condolences to his family and always continue to celebrate his life by telling stories. He was known and loved by many.

John Smyth

July 21, 2020

”Mr. P” gave me my first job when I was nine years old (mopping them floor, washing trays and serving sodas). I was paid about $3 or $4 and ALL I COULD EAT! What a great start for a kid. Once I moved out of town, The Left Bank (“Pasquesi’s”) would be my first stop when I came home to Lake Forest (sometimes before going to see my parents). Hanging out in the back room with Bob and Gert and Jimmy and Lane was THE “power lunch” for those in the know. Great memories of a great family.

Linette Pasquesi Sarda

July 21, 2020

He was the best Uncle ever. I loved visiting him. He always was ful of wisdom humor and love. We were far away but he was always close in my heart!

EJ Flynn

July 21, 2020

I donated to Camp Hope in Mr. Pasquesi's memory. He was always as kind and thoughtful as anyone I ever met, and our family was devoted to his amazing cheesedogs! RIP Bob and thanks for being such a memorable and valued part of our community.

Thomas Paletti

July 21, 2020

My favorite uncle. Spent a many Summers with Aunt Gert and Uncle Bob.Jimmy T an Bobby.Great times in the late 60,s early 70,s.In the chuck wagon at the beach PLAYING for hours at the watch of any girty.so many great memory,s
Fun with my cousin,s .God bless you Uncle Bob.Jimmy aunt Girt an T.Bless all Tommy Paletti

Stacy Kimbell

July 21, 2020

He was always welcoming and friendly. You felt safe and at home going to Pasquesi's it is a childhood memory that I will always cherish.

Catherine Ganshirt-Morlock

July 21, 2020

Mr. Pasquesis kindness and love made the world a better place.

Sue & Michael Grousd

July 20, 2020

Such a sad loss for his family and the community. He was the unofficial ambassador of Lake Forest. No one was a stranger to him and he made everyone who came through the door feel like the most important person he would see all day. May he Rest In Peace.

Joyce Sonday

July 20, 2020

Bob was a wonderful human. We loved when he came to see us. He will be missed by the Sonday family

Terri (Cankar) Kreutzer

July 20, 2020

Such a dear man!

Cathy Hudson

July 20, 2020

My deepest sympathy to his family!! Bob was a true gentleman! I got to hear many stories at the Toadstool Pub when I came in from Toronto. His first question was always hows Canada ? I will miss him so much my trips were never complete unless I saw him! May he Rest In Peace !! Love Bob!!!

Alexander Stimpson

July 20, 2020

The world is a diminished place without Mr. P. He was full of warmth and personality. As a customer of The Left Bank since 1969, I was lucky to have known such an extraordinary man.

Jennifer Romans

July 20, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person who will be missed by everyone who knew him. Lake Forest was lucky to have him as a neighbor, friend and longtime business owner.

andrew dolan

July 20, 2020

I remember him telling me one time, if you ever need anything come see me. And he meant it. Loved him.

Wendi Amundson Unrein

July 20, 2020

Its more what wouldnt you say about Mr Pasquesi! A Lake Forest institution!! Always an sincere encouraging greeting! So grateful for the love he freely gave out and I hope I can follow by an example! He will be missed always!!!

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