Timothy “Digger” Hillenbrand, 41, passed away Wednesday, April 25, 2007, in Gilbert, AZ. He was a longtime Lincoln-Way area resident, recently relocated to Arizona. He is survived by his loving wife, Abby; his two adored children, Sawyer and Rory; and his father, William. He was preceded in death by his mother Lois, and sister Joan. Digger had a passion for many things, among them Bruce Springsteen, Notre Dame, and the Chicago Marathon, of which he was a three-time finisher. He was a unique person who touched the lives of all with whom he had contact. A memorial service is to be held Thursday, May 3, 2007, at Immanuel Ev. Lutheran Church, 10731 W. La Porte Road, Mokena, IL. 60448. In lieu of flowers, the family would request donations in his name to Autism Speaks: 2 Park Avenue, 11th Floor, New York, NY 10016; www.autismspeaks.org.
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Darryl Johnson
April 23, 2021
Tim was such a great guy to be around. We worked together, laughed, drank and cheered on ND! He'll forever leave a stamp on my heart and it was my privilege to have crossed paths with such a decent man.
Joyce & Ken Raiser
July 2, 2007
Our hearts are sadden by this news.
We totally remember the tennis behind our house---hours and hours.
Our deepest sympathy to all.
Peggy Prosser-Brown
May 25, 2007
Tim was my first "guy friend" when we were freshmen, he at ND and me at St. Mary's College. We remained close friends throughout college and beyond. I am extremely saddened to hear of this news. My heart goes out to Abby, their children, and his father, whom I met once on a visit to Chicago. I found out about this when I was googling him to contact him about our upcoming 20th reunion. He will be truly missed. He was an awesome man.
Bonnie & Jack Marino
May 18, 2007
Our Sincerest & Heartfelt Sympathy goes out to Abby, Sawyer, Rory, Tim’s Dad & the rest of Tim’s Family and Friends…
After reading all of the entries in this guestbook, the shock, sadness, and realization of Tim’s passing is finally starting to sink in. I worked with Tim during his years at Applied Systems and he not only had an impact on those of us who worked with him, but on our families & friends as well. My husband, Jack, met Tim at the first White Sox outing that he organized and they instantly bonded…we rarely missed an outing after that and still kept in touch after he left Applied.
Jack & I were on our way to N’awlins when we heard the news, so unfortunately we missed the service held in his memory and honor. We thought of him often and remembered how he used to love to talk with us about N’awlins’ craziness, the Sox, Da Bears, The Boss, and family.
I “drafted” several “books” to enter on this site within the last week, but realized that it would be impossible to “summarize the experience” we had knowing Tim without crashing the system. Jack & I could fill volumes of books with stories that would give everyone laughter & memories of good times. Tim was truly one of the “good guys” that rarely come along in our lives and will always be loved & remembered as such.
He always displayed his positive attitude (and many times his smart aleck attitude, which we got used to very quickly) in everything he said & did. He could always take as much “garbage” as he could give (and he could give a lot!). He brought out the best of everyone he came into contact with…while giving our “Cub fan friends” garbage about losing the homebound bus in the ONLY bus parking lot after games, while being daring enough to try “homebrew beer” on the first Sox road trip, while calling into the sports talk radio station “The Score” as “Digger from Mokena” on a regular basis to give his buddy, Dan McNeil, some type of razzing about whatever sport was being discussed at the time, or while picking up on daily things in all of our lives that he could not pass up cracking a joke about to get everyone to loosen up a bit about life.
There is a special place for guys like Tim and we’re hoping our loved ones are joining his as they all welcome him to “that place”.
You’re in our hearts, thoughts & prayers! Bonnie & Jack Marino & Family
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Scott Jakubowski
May 16, 2007
Dear Hillenbrand family,
I am extremely saddened to hear of your loss. I know there are no words that can ease the pain of a loved one passing. My deepest sympathies and prayers go out to you and your children. In the time that I worked with Tim at Applied Systems, All I can say is that he loved his job and willing to help anyone and everyone. He was always looking out for the employees while still keeping Applied's interest at hand. In the testing department I always heard Tim and Darryl razzing each other in a very good nature.
Thank you for everything Tim, Everyone will miss you!
Marcie Maro
May 11, 2007
To Abby and family: Although I haven't seen Tim since working with him in HR at Applied years ago, when I was told of his passing I was shocked and truely saddened. He was a great guy that has obviously touched many and will be missed greatly. May Tim's great spirit and sense of humor live on in your children and may you and your family somehow find peace.
Jennifer Bielik
May 7, 2007
Dear Abby & Family,
My sympathy and prayers are with you. I've worked with Tim as his ins. broker and he never ceased to amaze me with his wild imaginative stories! I will not forget his spirit.
Karen Seitz
May 7, 2007
Abby, Sawyer, Rory...My heartfelt sympathies to you and your family. Tim was a great individual with a wonderful sense of humor. He was always ready to help his Applied Systems family. Tim will be missed by all of us.
Kathryn Forster
May 7, 2007
Abby, Sawyer, and Rory,
The loss of Tim is overwhelming, he was such a wonderful person with an awesome spirit and always could just tell if you needed to talk or laugh. It takes a special person to be able to see the needs of others like that, Tim had it all. I pray for your family to have strengh to get through this difficult time. Tim will be greatly missed by all.
Brent Priday
May 6, 2007
To Abby, Sawyer, Rory and extended family and friends:
My heart goes out to each of you as you continue to mourn Tim's loss. I had the privilege of attending the touching memorial services from Arizona. I was amazed at how many people he impacted in many ways, from family, neighbors, co-workers and other friends. What a tremendous talent who touched us all in many ways. Of all of those in attendance, I was probably the one who had the least encounters with Tim (as I only first met him about 6 months ago) and, outside of his family, one of the last to have talked to him (on 4/18). I first meet Tim in a job interview last Fall with Banner Health. This key position had been vacant for many months as we were waiting for someone who possessed the important and varied qualities we needed. Once we met Tim, we all knew he was the one, perfect fit for the job. Tim's confidence, experience and communication skills were immediately clear and a great match for our needs. From day 1 on the job, Tim only confirmed our decision--he immediately garnered the confidence of his staff and took on all requested jobs with a "can do" attitude. Early on, one of our hospitals encountered a very sad and sudden death of one of our employees and Tim immediately took over, bringing in the necessary behavioral health experts to meet with the staff and confidently but sympathetically worked with the affected staff through this difficult experience. We never had a doubt that Tim was the right man for the job and up to all challenges. My last encounter with Tim was in a work meeting just the week before his passing. Tim again was his usual self, confident, engaged, yet light-hearted. Hearing the story at the service of Tim's enjoyment of mixing strong drinks reminded me of my last encounter with him that morning. Some of the staff had asked for some coffee, so Tim immediately jumped up to share some from his personal concoction and poured some for all interested co-workers, with a little silly grin. After the first sip, each of the staff sat up and took note of Tim's STRONG mixture, as it immediately woke up the most tired staff! The substance looked more like a mix between motor oil and quick-drying cement. We all got a good laugh out of that.
At a break, I asked Tim about how things were going on the home front and he told me how excited he was in having the Chicago home sell, the new home close and finalizing plans on the pool for the new home. He expressed how excited the family was for these plans and his love for his family was evident.
To Abby, Sawyer and Rory, and your other family members, my heart goes out to you at this very difficult time. Hopefully time can begin to heal these difficult, deep wounds. May you go forward in faith, taking all of the many great qualities Tim possessed and recognize that so many lives have been forever touched by his wit, optimism, and drive. Though we are left with many unanswered questions, I know that we must go forward with hope and love, reflecting the positive traits that we all experienced Tim in many ways. I know one day we will meet again and pray that your lives will be blessed with His redeeming love. As I am in your "backyard", please contact me if I or my family can help you out in any way. Love, Brent Priday
Don Carstens
May 5, 2007
Bill (Pop), Abbey, Sawyer, and Rory. I have attached the eulogy I wrote for Tim's memorial service on Thursday. I love you all and love you Tim, my brother.
I spoke to Abbey this past Saturday and she asked me to say a few words at this service. I must say I initially told her no, because I did not have the strength to do it. I did not have the strength until I went to church on Sunday. I just don’t know how to summarize my friend’s life with a few words. He certainly would not have discussed himself with a few words. Having known Dig for the past 25 years I can assure you he would certainly speak highly of himself. Our friends in this congregation would also admit that Dig was not shy about sharing his opinions. A large majority of the time he would give you his opinion whether you wanted it or not. Most of the time we didn’t want it but he gave it anyway. That was Digger. I used to have dreams of Digger giving my eulogy some day. I never imagined I would be standing up here at 41 giving his. How can I possibly put the words together to memorialize him. To talk about my friend, my brother who was gifted in so many ways. He was a natural writer and poet and had a gift with words. Whether at a funeral or a wedding, he always seemed to put the words together in just the perfect way to get the message across. I was at church on Sunday and listened to a sermon. After listening to the sermon, I knew exactly what I was going to say today. God gave me the strength. The power and wisdom of God is awesome. The sermon was about heaven and what heaven will be like. A heaven without material possessions, without hate, without violence, without guns, and without sickness. A place of pure peace. Can you imagine? I want to read you a passage from 2nd Corinthinan’s (Chapter 5, verses 1-10).
Now we know that if the earthly tent we live in is destroyed, we have a building from God, an eternal house in heaven, not built by human hands. Meanwhile we groan, longing to be clothed with our heavenly dwelling, because when we are clothed, we will not be found naked. For while we are in this tent, we groan and are burdened, because we do not wish to be unclothed but to be clothed with our heavenly dwelling, so that what is mortal may be swallowed up by life. Now it is God who has made us for this very purpose and has given us the Spirit as a deposit, guaranteeing what is to come. Therefore we are always confident and know that as long as we are at home in the body we are away from the Lord. We live by faith, not by sight. We are confident, I say, and would prefer to be away from the body and at home with the Lord. So we make it our goal to please him, whether we are at home in the body or away from it. For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, that each one may receive what is due him for the things done while in the body, whether good or bad.
As part of the sermon the pastor brought a table and chairs onto the stage. He called it Heaven’s table or the table of life. He had most of the chairs full, one for King David, one for his Grandfather, one for his family, and one for Jesus. The last chair he told us was for me and you. But he told us that there are no open invitations to sit at the table unless you allow God into your life. It has taken this past week to really show myself, my family and our friends what is really important in life. We have all been so blessed with our circle of friends that Digger and Abbey and the kids were a part of. We certainly have a tremendous group. A big part of that group was ripped out of our hands last Wednesday. He was such a special human being. We will all move on from this day at some point in the future. Until I get to see my friend Tim again, I can only remember the times we shared together. From that goofy grin and giggle that will stay with me for the rest of my life. I remember our trip to Jamaica where we happened to misplace 2 days attempting to break the world record for Red Stripe consumption (amongst other things). Michael told me a few days ago that Digger was the tallest kid he knew in 6th grade. He also told me that Dig never grew taller but only wider after 6th grade. I remember being a team member of his on the LW basketball team where I witnessed history. Yes history. Tim Hillenbrand, the only 5’8” pure post player and big man in the history of Lincolnway basketball. I remember the goggles he used to wear at our J.V. games. I remember the game against Shepherd where the Shepherd players called him Klondike because those goggles reminded them of someone leading an Antarctic expedition. I remember looking at the rest of our team rolling around on the ground in laughter practically messing their shorts. I remember our trip together with Bob and Michael to see our friend Mark. We remember Digger in 95 degree heat spreading #35 sun block all over himself (That was a lot of sunblock in those days). We remember him forgetting to do his underarms and proceed to pass out on the beach with his arm over his head. We will miss that red stripe that ran from his fingers to his waist. I remember the days when we used to play tennis for 6 hours a day just because we enjoyed each others company. I remember traveling to see him when he lived in Orlando several years ago. He asked me if I wanted to go to his health club and work out. I said sure what are we going to work on Dig? Bi’s, Tri’s, chest. Nope today we are going to work on calves! I remember waking up the next day having to crawl to the bathroom because I could not walk. I remember calling him and tossing a few choice superlatives in his direction. His response was something like “If you are in as good as shape as me that stuff wouldn’t happen!!! GIGGLE… I recall the time after basketball practice when the 6’11” center on the team beat up on him pretty bad. I remember him yelling at his mother because he wanted to be a good basketball player and couldn’t because he was too short and it was all her fault. I also remember her telling him “I may be short but I can still kick your butt!” Lois is one person that could do it too! I remember watching my friend in amazement make a hundred free throws in a row. We all remember the time we played golf at Woodruff when we were in our early 20’s. Digger gets up to the tee and proceeds to hit his ball in the middle of about 50 trees on the right side of the fairway. Mark and I told Digger “Just punch it out”. Digger thinking he was Greg Norman at the time says “Nope, I am going through with my 3 iron. Mark and I looked at each other and said this is not going to be good. Dig wound up and hit the ball on the screws (as golfers say). The problem occurred when the ball struck the tree 20 yards in front of him and came screaming back at him. It came back so fast Dig had to dive out of the way or it would have knocked his teeth out. I must say it was probably the funniest thing we have ever seen. Dig’s response Giggle….. We remember the day that he told us that he was going to play hockey. All of us looked at each other and said “he doesn’t know how to skate!” He then goes on to join a hockey league in Orland Park. The coach running the team asks him what position he played. He told him “goalie” because he knew he did not know how to skate. 3 years later he was one of the best goalies in the league. That was Digger. Anything he put his mind to he excelled. We remember going to a party at Digger and Abbey’s condo several years ago for a party. After several hours of celebrating we decided to have the first and last annual “Fat Man Race”! Yes there was Bob, Michael, and Digger lined up on the street at Midnight waiting to watch the greatest race ever run. Along with the laughter, we will never forget the earth quaking beneath our feet. I remember going to a Black Hawk game one evening in Digger’s Monte Carlo. I had to roll down the window because the car smelled so bad. I finally asked Dig what in the heck smelled so bad. He said it was his goalie equipment. I go, “Where is it?” He told me it was in his trunk. I then asked, “Have you ever thought about washing it?” He said, “I haven’t gotten around to it yet”. I go “Dig, how long has it been?” He said, “2 years”. Giggle…. And finally there was the Superbowl party that Digger and Abbey invited us to several years ago at their townhouse. We always cherished the time we spent together watching sporting events. We all sat down with our favorite soda pop and turn on the T.V.. We all looked at each other as we heard the announcer say “Buenos Noches . Bievenido de championship deportes futbol Americano!!!!” Yes the T.V. was in SAP mode! We asked Dig where the remote was so we could change the audio back to English. Dig said “We lost the darn thing when Abbey and I moved ”. We will never forget the 2 second delay between the radio and the T.V. that night. We also elected to bring an extra T.V. if Digger was ever to host a Superbowl again. These are the memories I want to remember of my dear friend Tim. One of the last things I wanted to say today is that I love all of you. My dear friend Mike (Bull) told me a few weeks ago that we all have our own stuff that we have to deal with in this life. Whether it be problems at work, the loss of a child, a sister, a mother, a father, a child that recovers from sickness, we all have our own stuff. But faith in God and faith in each other will help us get through it. So moving forward I hope you will let Bill (Pop), Abbey and the kids stuff be your stuff and your stuff can be my stuff. We are in this life together and we need to help each other. I want to read one more passage titled “Stand Firm” from 2nd Thessalonians (Chapter 3 verses 13-17).
But we ought always to thank God for you, brothers loved by the Lord, because from the beginning God chose you to be saved through the sanctifying work of the Spirit and through belief in the truth. He called you to this through our gospel, that you might share in the glory of our Lord Jesus Christ. So then, brothers stand firm and hold to the teachings we passed on to you whether by word of mouth or by the letter. May our Lord Jesus Christ himself and God our Father, who loved us and by his grace give us eternal encouragement and good hope, encourage your hearts and strengthen you in every good deed and word.
So I want all of us to be able to depend on each other moving forward. You can always depend on me. Whether it be a phone call, a full tank trip in the car, a plane ticket, just reach out. I will be there. I stand here today sad and heartbroken, but optimistic and at peace. I also know that with the grace of God shining down upon him, Digger will be sitting at his own table of life with his sister Joanie, his mother Lois, and I am sure many more in the future. What a great reunion that would be! I hope I have a chair at your table Digger, I want you to know that you will always have one at mine. So rest well my friend, it will be a great day in heaven when I can hug you again, see your smile and share a good laugh. I love you my friend.
David & Tina Noke
May 4, 2007
Abby, Sawyer, and Rory: As you know by now Tim was loved by a number of people. Each of us remembering him in our way (ours was debating University of Iowa over Norte Dame or was it the other way around). We hope you find peace and comfort when you read all of the entries in this guest book and remember too the days when Tim was full of life and laughter. God bless you as you learn to live your lives without Tim.
Tami Mongaraz
May 4, 2007
I am still in shock over the loss of my great friend, Digger. He was more like a brother to me. We have been friends for 20+ years and Joan was my friend in highschool so we always felt a strong connection. We worked together at Panduit and Applied, but we were friends beyond that. There are absolutely no words to express my sorrow. Tim, you are truly a hero and inspiration. We all loved and admired you. I only hope that I can be as good of a person that you were. Your humor, wit, and kindness stretched to everyone you met. You treated everyone with the utmost respect! I thank-you from the bottom of my heart for all the support you provided me during my bleakest moments. I love you like a brother! Thank-you my friend for the greatest memories! You will be happy to know our buddy Brady Quinn got drafted to Cleveland, but I was disappointed in how long he dropped in the drafts! Thanks for helping me grow in appreciation with Notre Dame. Thanks for everything. You will be loved and missed more than you know.
Abby, Sawyer and Rory - my prayers and thoughts are with you always! Please know that! Please keep in touch!
Kong
May 4, 2007
The news of your passing has been devastating to all who had the great fortune of knowing you. The testimony of others has truly captured the essence of you. I hope you have found peace and serenity in the embrace of your mother and sister. God bless all those who are mourning the loss of this wonderful spirit.
Tommie Stuteville
May 4, 2007
Abby, Sawyer & Rory I am so sorry for your loss. Words cannot express his loss. My heart goes out to you and your loved ones. We only had the pleasure of having Tim in our lives for a short period of time and in that short period of time he made a huge impact on our lives. He was a very special person. My God keep him and may Tim find the peace he so was looking for. As for you Abby may God give you strength to get through this.
Pat Dziekan
May 3, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I will cherish the time I spent with Tim the day we met for lunch while I was vacationing in Arizona a few short weeks ago. He will be greatly missed.
Deb Plasters
May 3, 2007
Dear Abby, Rory and Sawyer,
Tim was a special man. I never met him personally but every time we spoke on the phone or email, he made me laugh. I have said many prayers for you and I know that God will give you the strength to get through this somehow. I just want you to know that he touched many lives. And one of them was mine. He will be missed.
Sharon Staid
May 3, 2007
May you find your Beautiful Reward, Tim.
My condolences to the family,
Becky Hoey
May 3, 2007
Dear Abby, Sawyer, and Rory,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Tim touched my life just a few short months ago when he came to work in Phoenix. He was a very special person. I feel as though I have lost a most wonderful friend. He hooked me as soon as I found out he was such a ND fan. Not many in this area share the same Irish love. I truely miss his warm smile and his laughter. God be with you and comfort you in this great time of need.
Ronald Novota
May 2, 2007
Dear Abby
As someone who lost their spouse, I can only imagine the pain you and your family are experiencing. As a employee of Applied Systems I was fortunate to know your husband. What a wondeful person. My prayers are with you and your family.
Megan Wagner
May 2, 2007
My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family. Tim was such a great guy and was always willing to help anyone. He will be greatly missed!
Your family is in our hearts and prayers.
Paul and Amy Lynn Meacham
May 2, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Hillenbrand family. Not a day went by at ASI that he didn't make someone's day better with his quick, sharp and intelligent sense of humor. It was obvious to all who knew him how much he cared about his family, friends and his passions - his first words to me were "Oh man, are we going to be good friends" - after he saw the Indiana Univ. basketball calendar I had hung on my cubicle wall. We wish him peace, and we wish his family all the support, comfort and hope they will need to get through this trying time. With our deepest sympathies -
Sue Klaus
May 2, 2007
Some are lucky enough
To see a brilliant light.
That light can steer your way
and make your life easier.
The same light can warm the heart
and bring joy where there is none.
Sometimes it's canned lightning,
sometimes a single beam.
And even when the light is gone,
remember that light.
The memory is no less brilliant.
Sam Fata
May 2, 2007
Words can't express our saddness for your loss. I will always remember my lunch with him here in AZ.6 weeks ago. He will always be in my prayers. God bless you and your family.
Sam /Jeanne Fata
Gayle Gutkowski
May 2, 2007
Dear Abby and Family,
May you find the strength to get through this sensitive and heartbreaking time. We all loved Tim. His personality was vibrant; he had a level of energy and humor that was envied. He is looking down on you now, smiling and saying to be strong. My deepest sympathy.
Michael, Kelly, and Brooklyn Woodruff
May 2, 2007
Uncle Bill, Abby, Sawyer, and Rory
We are constantly thinking of you during this trying time. We will keep you in our prayers and the memories close to our hearts.
Russell Weber
May 2, 2007
Even though I didn't work with Tim very long, I feel that I was lucky to have known him. He was a bright, interesting, funny, person. His sarcasm was humorous and always good-spirited. And, I always enjoyed talking about music and hockey with him. His entire family has my sympathy
Kevin Combites
May 2, 2007
You were one of a kind, my friend, and a joy to always be around. My sincere thoughts and prayers go out to the Hillenbrand family, along with those who were blessed to have their lives touched by our dearest friend.
Debbie Kramer
May 2, 2007
The Hillenbrand Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you now and always. Tim was an exceptional person, one-of-a-kind, and will always be remembered by so many who knew him. May you find comfort in knowing he's in a better place and may your memories of him forever make your hearts smile and give you peace.
Kristie Klein
May 2, 2007
Abby and family,
Our deepest sympathies are with you. Tim was a great guy that always lended a hand during my time at Applied. He will be greatly missed. You all are in our prayers. May he rest in peace.
Lynda Earley
May 2, 2007
Tim was truely one of the best guys.My heart and prayers go out to all of his family. He will be missed by many.
Cynthia Cirksena
May 2, 2007
I worked in the IA office at Applied Systems for 5 years so I had the opportunity to get to know Tim. I am very sorry to hear about the passing of Tim. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. I pray that God will place people in your life to get you and your children through this difficult time.
Mary Sassano
May 2, 2007
I am hurting for all those who cared for Tim and knew of his extremely giving nature. It is a sad day for the friends of Tim. He was a wonderful person.
Steve Farmer
May 1, 2007
Abby, Sawyer, and Rory,
Words cannot describe how sorry I am for your loss. Tomorrow I will get on a plane to say goodbye to a friend. A friend who challenged me to run my first marathon. A friend who I had many memorable conversations with about sports, music, and family. A friend who had a passion for life. I truly believe I am a better person for having known him. I will run the Chicago Marathon this year, my third, in Tim's memory. I'll be the one in the Notre Dame hat, listening to Springsteen on my I-pod, picturing Digger after the race firing up that cigar. My prayers are with you.
Beth Huntley
May 1, 2007
Abby and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Tim was a great person that took care of all of the employees at Applied. I always had fun razzing him about cigar smoking and his coke-bottle bottom glasses. It was a sad day when he left the company, but it's an even sadder day now. Please know that you are in my prayers and I hope you find strength in this time of need.
Pauline Jefson
May 1, 2007
Abby,
I am in shock and sad to hear of Tim's passing. He was a great person and helped me countless times with benefit issues. He was always there for the employees at ASI. It was an extremely sad day when he left ASI but today is even sadder knowing he is no longer with us.
I hope you find comfort in reading this guest book and knowing how much Tim was love and respected. He touched so many lives in a positive way.
I will keep you and your children in my prayers and pray that God gives you the strength to get through this difficult time.
God bless the Hillenbrand family.
Robin DeLude
May 1, 2007
To the Hillenbrand family (and all who loved Tim):
There are no words that I can use to tell you how deeply sorry I am for your loss. To say that Tim was a special person is an understatement. A smile always lit up his face; it seemed that there was nothing he wouldn't do to help a friend - and everyone was Tim's friend. You couldn't know Tim and not love Tim. He was so special that I, a die-hard Cub fan, couldn't help but be happy for him when his beloved White Sox won the World Series in '05. This world that we live in would be a much better place if there were more people like Tim. I'm blessed for having known him.
Love and God's peace to you all.
Michele Krenzelak (Whitmon)
May 1, 2007
Abby, Sawyer and Rory,
I am so sorry for your loss. Tim is an extraordinary man whose enthusiastic personality touched so many lives.
God be with you and your family.
Madelaine Johnson
May 1, 2007
I was truly grieved to hear about Tim's passing. He and I had many conversations together and some pretty good laughs too! I enjoyed each and every one of them. He was always so very helpful when I would call him with a problem. I am so sorry for your loss. Tim is really a wonderful person. May God ease your pain, and bring you great comfort durring this time of sadness.
Dean Huelhorst
May 1, 2007
To the entire Hillenbrand Family, We were shocked and sad to hear of Tim's passing. Tim was a great person. He had great patience as he answered our many questions about our benefits. He always had a positive attitude and never failed to put a smile on one's face. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers.
Dean and Erin Huelhorst and Family
Dominick Guire
May 1, 2007
Abbey & family,
My prayers and thoughts are with you and the kids during this time. I am deeply saddened and shocked to hear of Tim's passing. He was a great friend of mine and will truly be missed.
Liam Connolly
May 1, 2007
Abby, Sawyer & Rory,
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Tim was a GREAT man and helped me in so many ways at ASI. One of the things i missed upon leaving Applied was Tim and his sense of humor, his love of Notre Dame, his love of professional wrestling, "The Boss", and seeing him wearing his famous blackhawks jersey on Fridays. What a remarkable spirit he had and our world will never be the same without "Digger"! He is in a far greater place now and will always be there to look over you and his 2 beautiful children.
I will keep you all in my prayers.
God bless.
Tracy Gissler
May 1, 2007
I am very sorry for your loss. I enjoyed working with Tim at Applied Systems. He had a vibrant personality and was always upbeat and helpful. It is hard to believe he is gone. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Roxanne Santori
May 1, 2007
Dear Abby and Children,
My deepest smypathy to you and your family and my prayers that you can move forward remembering the good times you all shared. I myself have good memories of Tim and all the support he showed me during our years of working together. He always seemed to have time to stop and say hi when I would see him. I will miss him. May God watch over all of you and help you find peace.
Jeff Lebioda
May 1, 2007
Dear Abby and family,
I am extremely saddened to hear of your loss, and my deepest sympathies and prayers go out to you and your children. In the short time that I worked with Tim at Applied Systems, I had nothing but praise and good things to say about him. He was always very cordial, willing to deal with any issue or answer any question, and was a professional in the truest sense. He was always looking out for the employees, while looking out for Applied's interests as well, and I considered him an irreplaceable employee in the Human Resources department at Applied Systems. The same could be said for Tim as a human being, as all of those that knew Tim would attest. He will be missed dearly.
Godspeed to you and your children as you cope during this very difficult time.
Thank you for the memories Tim, I will miss you!
Drew Morton
May 1, 2007
My wife and I were very sad to hear about Tim's passing. He was always a great guy to talk to, and to help someone out with HR issues at Applied. Our thoughts are with his family.
Greg Purdy
May 1, 2007
Tim, will be missed by more than will know, his life made a difference for many.
Mike Hernandez
May 1, 2007
Abby and Family:
As you can see by the outpouring of responses from the people that knew Tim either professionally or on a personal level, he was one of those people that touched so many of us in different ways. As with most, during our days together at Applied, we’d talk about his beloved ND (I actually thought he went there), to his passion for running marathons (I couldn’t believe he actually did it), to his graduate studies (helping him build a marketing plan for his internet radio idea), I’ll never forget our interactions. I hope that Tim arrived at a better place, Abby, and that you and your family can find peace amid this storm.
Maxine DeSanto
May 1, 2007
Tim was an honest and good friend. He will be missed by many. Never too busy and always there for someone else. This was one of his many good qualities.
I only hope that the many good memories that he created make it easier for all of us to live with this sad loss.
My deepest condolences reach out to your family and know that your grief is shared by many.
Daryl Van Johnson
May 1, 2007
I was very saddened to hear about Tim. He was like a part of my family. He amazed my wife in the fact that whenever she called him, he actually remembered her by name and was very concerned. He will be missed greatly.
Bridgette Gatch
May 1, 2007
Dear Abby, Sawyey, and Rory,
I worked with Tim for several years at Applied Systems and was shocked and saddened to hear of his passing. He was funny, kind, and very patient. I plopped down in the chair across from him more times than I can count to ask him questions about my benefits, and I always left smiling.
I cannot imagine what you must be going through right now. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Brian Schoppe
May 1, 2007
I am truely saddened about the news of Tim's passing. Tim was truely a genuine and fun person to be around. I enjoyed the time I got to know him during my time at Applied. My heart goes out to Abbey and family.
Tammy DeSanto
May 1, 2007
Dear Abby,
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss! I worked with Tim in HR for a long time at Applied. He was a wonderful man! He aways new how to make us laugh. My thoughts and prayers are with you!
Jenny Weaver
April 30, 2007
Abby, Sawyer & Rory,
I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Tim was a great guy. When I was getting ready to go on maternity leave, Tim shared some of his funny fatherhood moments with me. I can still see his smiling face and hear his laugh.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time. God bless.
Scott and Dawn Kilbourn
April 30, 2007
Abby and Family, we are so sorry for your loss. We worked with Tim at Applied Systems and found him to be one of the nicest, most thoughtful people we’ve ever met. We will always cherish the memories of him from the Hawks outings we attended. We’ll never forget the running advice he gave us and the hockey knowledge he taught us. We still laugh at some of the funny things he said. We are so glad that he was a part of our lives, and we will always remember him.

Friends
April 30, 2007
Roy Koelling
April 30, 2007
Abby, I am so sorry to hear about Tim. We worked pretty much right next to each other for ten years and went through personal and professional struggles and successes together. You know, I still have a special cigar in my humidor that he gave me that I have been saving. I am sure to remember him when I smoke it. He was in many ways like a brother to me. This whole thing didn't really hit me until today. I can't imagine what it is like for you. So, if there is anything that you need, please feel free to contact me. June and I are praying for you guys. Take care.
Jerry, Amanda, Kaitlyn, Brett, & Trent Bennett
April 30, 2007
Uncle Bill, Abby, Sawyer, & Rory,
Tim's loss is a devistation to our family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all through these trying times. Tim had a great smile and some "deep pockets" as we all know. He will be greatly missed. My heart goes out to all of you. We love you all.
Melissa Lewis
April 30, 2007
Dear Abby, Sawyer, and Rory,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family during this difficult time. I had the pleasure of working with Tim. He was a great person to have as a co-worker, even just to say "hi" to in passing through the hallways. He guided me through many things (even guided me to get rid of my bottle-thick glasses). He will most certainly be missed.
You are in my prayers.
Lou Hoffman
April 30, 2007
Dear Abby and Family,
I could not believe my email today about Tim. I was an ASI employee when Tim came to work there. As a retired ASI employee I can only say God has gained a wonderful man to help out with whatever HE needs from him. May Gods protective hands be felt around you during this very trying time. All of you will be in my prayers.
Tracy L. Hamilton
April 30, 2007
My prayers go out to the Hillenbrand family. Tim and I became work buddies in the short time he was at Corn Products. We shared the love of NFL football!! Every, every Monday morning we had a Sunday's games recap. If I missed a game, he filled me in completely. Tim was a comical guy and we shared many stories. When I found out that he was relocating, I hoped for the best for him and his family. He was high-spirited when he told me of the new job. I hope his friends and family continues to hold on to the good memories.
Tonda Johnson
April 30, 2007
Abby - Tim was a really nice guy that always seemed to be smiling or laughing every time I saw him. That's the way I will always remember him. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. God Bless
Becky West
April 30, 2007
Abby – My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. I am so sorry for your loss. I still cannot believe that Tim is gone. Tim was a wonderful person; always happy, smiling, and joking. He was also compassionate and caring. I hope you can find comfort in your memories of Tim. He will be truly missed.
Donna Potter-Bradley
April 30, 2007
Abby, Sawyer, and Rory, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Tim was a wonderful person that I am proud to have called a friend. He brightened every situation. May your memories help ease the pain. You are in my prayers. With Love,
Martin Ouellet
April 30, 2007
I knew Tim from his days at Applied. Even though we lived more than 800 miles apart, I always felt I had a good ear when calling. Of course, business was not our only topic. Discussing hockey and more precisely goaltending were frequent discussions. I was discussing Tim's joyfull personality only a week ago so this is a shock. Rest in peace.
Judy Benton
April 30, 2007
Abby, Sawyer, and Rory,
I am shocked and deeply saddened to hear of Tim's passing. He was always positive, happy and supportive. He was so very proud of his family and as many wrote, he spoke of you all often. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you try and get through this difficult time.
Erica Pickens
April 30, 2007
Abby and family, my heart goes out to you during this very difficult time. I hope that memories and special moments shared bring comfort to you all.
Donna Saraz
April 30, 2007
My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. Tim is one of those rare people who makes a friend of everyone he meets. The world is definitely a sadder place because he is no longer in it.
Marsha Beard
April 30, 2007
Abby, Sawyer and Rory,
There are people that come in and out of your life, that enrich you by their mere friendship. Tim was that kind of person to me. He helped me through a very difficult time in my life, and I will always have a special place for him in my heart. He truly was a very special person, who will be missed greatly by so many of us. My sincere sympathy to all of his family and all who was graced by his presence. I have been truly blessed to have him as my friend. God bless all of you.
jan williams
April 30, 2007
Abby, Sawyer & Rory: I am so deeply saddened to hear of Tim's passing. What a "Genuine" person Tim was...Never an unkind word to anyone, and so always willing to help, listen and offer the best advice. He was a true joy to be around. If anyone ever had the "pleasure" of joing him on an outing to Black Hawk and White Sox games, it certainly was a treat as Tim was absolutley the "Marquee Event" himself. Rest assured, Abby...the good Lord now has a great goalie on his side. I'm sure Tim will back stop Heaven's team to a Stanley Cup.
Kate Buckner
April 30, 2007
Abby & Family, I am shocked and saddened by the news of Tim's passing. When we worked together, chatting with him was always one of the bright spots in my day. He spoke of you and the children often. May you find Assurance in God's word, strength in His presence and Peace in His love.
Jan Williams
April 30, 2007
Abby, Sawyer and Rory: What a special fellow all of us had the pleasure of knowing for so many years. Tim was one of the few people I would call "genuine," as he was always willing to help, listen and advise anyone in anyway he could. I will always treasure the Blackhawk and White Sox games when we did the bus trips with Applied...he was such an interesting (and FUNNY) guy to be around. The very deepest of sympathy to you, Abby, and the children. Rest assured the good Lord has a great goalie on His team now. Tim will back stop Heaven's team to a Stanley Cup.
Rachel Bohl
April 30, 2007
Abby, Sawyer, and Rory,
Words cannot express my feelings in hearing of Tim’s passing. Tim was a wonderful man – always there with a joke and a smile. He was so proud of his family and spoke of you often! He is loved by many and will be remembered always.
James, Stephanie, Lacey, and Laura Oviyach
April 30, 2007
We are very sorry for your loss. No one really knows what to say at times like this, but I can say that Tim was truly a great person. He always took the extra time to help me out, and explain things to me (sometimes many, many times). You could always tell that he really loved his job, and he truly loved his family, as he was always talking about you guys! We're all going to miss him.
Amanda Huber
April 30, 2007
Dear Hillenbrand Family:
I was so shocked to hear of Tim's passing and I am so sorry for your loss. I knew Tim through Applied and he spoke of you all often. He was such a postive and uplifting person - he truly touched everyone that he came in contact with. I can't imagine your pain right now and I will remember you in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Sue Smith
April 30, 2007
Tim, you are a truly wonderful and caring person who showed through your life that every new day was an exciting experience waiting to be lived. I know you are here, continuing to be a comfort to every life and spirit you touch. Your spirit is strong and comforting as it was while you stood next to those of us on earth. May God bless you and your family.
Leta Carruth
April 30, 2007
Tim was everything everyone has said and more. He was honest, fair, understanding, compassionate, generous and genuine. He loved life but not more than he loved his family. He was steadfast to his committments. He was a rare individual. The news of this great loss is overwhelming. May his family know how many lives he touched and how many are mourning with them. His memory will live forever.
Kee Kee Burton
April 30, 2007
Tim was a great co-worker and guy. I am pleased to have met him and worked with him. I know that he mentioned his family often. My thoughts are with you. Stay encouraged.
Lee Ann Higdon
April 30, 2007
Abby and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I have such great memories of Tim and what fun he was to joke around with - and always so helpful to me and everyone he came in contact with. I am sure you have wonderful memories that will help you through this time. He will be missed..........
Laurie VanLuyk
April 30, 2007
Abby, Rory and Sawyer, you are in our thougths and prayers. Tim was a wonderful man who touched many lives. His sense of humor, and genuine kindness and caring will be something all of us will forever remember.
Nancy Ryan
April 30, 2007
My sincere condolences to the Hillenbrand family. Tim was a wonderful man, so very helpful to anyone that asked. You family is in my thoughts and prayers through these tough days ahead.
Bob Gallagher
April 30, 2007
Abby, Sawyer & Rory, I am so sorry for your loss. Though I have never met you in person, Tim talked about you all the time. He was one of the nicest human beings I have ever met who would bend over backwards for anybody no matter what. He always had a positive outlook on life and he will be sorely missed by alot of people he had come in contact with. I wish to express my deepest condolences to you and the rest of your family during this tough time.
Sara Powell
April 30, 2007
I am shocked and saddened by the news of Tim's passing. My prayers go out to Tim's family. He will be deeply missed by so many.
Dick Morter
April 30, 2007
Tim was truly a "Special Person". Although we knew each other for less than 2 years after I came to work at Applied Systems, his professionalism, fun loving personality, strength of character and caring nature became obvious to me early on in our working relationship. I can only imagine the loss your family is feeling right now.
Please know that my prayers and condolences are with you and yours.
Joe Fendley
April 30, 2007
Abby
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. I never had the opportunity to meet you but I know you were married to an awesome guy. I worked with him for many years and we had a great friendship. We had many discussions around the topic football and Alabama/Notre Dame.
Dana Froumis
April 30, 2007
Abby, I worked with your husband for many years at Applied Systems. I still remember the phone conversation we had the day I heard he was leaving, I told him he could not leave. I enjoyed so many conversations with Tim over the years especially our sparring over the Red Wings and Blackhawks and Notre Dame football. Tim was a great man. I pray God will give you the strength during this tough time. All my sympathies to you and your family and we will continue to pray for you.
Dawn Coen
April 30, 2007
Tim was one of the most optimistic and positive people I have ever known or worked with. His wonderful sense of humor and the way he could easily make anyone smile is a lasting impression to anyone who had the privilege of knowing him. My heart goes out to his family and my prayers are with them.
Brenda May
April 30, 2007
Tim, I will forever look back and remember how you were always able to brighten my day. I am without words and will pray for Abby, Sawyer and Rory.
Carol and Bill Casey
April 30, 2007
Abby, Sawyer and Rory,
It had to have been a dull day in heaven when God decided they needed Tim to cheer things up! Digger was truly a bright light and we sincerely mourn your loss.
Melissa Bartolini
April 30, 2007
My thoghts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. Tim was a wonderful person and will be missed by all of the lives that he touched.
Janet Rucker
April 30, 2007
Tim, I will always remember the "redneck" jokes you so loved to raz Jackie and I with....you brightened my day with your jokes and wonderful personality. You are loved by so many and will be missed by all. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family... rest in peace Tim.
Jackie Lastowski
April 30, 2007
Tim, Although it has been a long time since I have seen you, I'll always cherish the times I would go to the home office and stop by to see you. You always made me laugh and I enjoyed the hockey talks we had. Heaven must have a great team with a goalie like you now. May peace be with you and your family.
Dolores & Kevin Wilson
April 30, 2007
Uncle Bill, Abby, Sawyer & Rory,
Word can not express how sorry we are for your loss. We loved Tim very much and will miss him so much. He brought a lot of laughter to our family. We were proud to have a cousin like him. His wit, his jokes, and sense of humor will always be remembered. I was honored to be a part of your wedding as well as being Rory’s godmother. May you find comfort in all the fond memories that you have, as we will. You’re in our thoughts and prayers. We love you. Your cousin’s Kevin and Dolores
Demetrius Karos
April 30, 2007
Abby, sorry to hear about your loss. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Roma Lane
April 30, 2007
Abby, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family... So many wonderful memories of Tim and his joyful spirit.
Paul & Susan Boudreau
April 30, 2007
The Hillenbrand Family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you always. Tim was a wonderful friend – we will miss him dearly.
Denise Marcukaitis
April 30, 2007
Tim was one of a kind, one of GOD's best examples of "one in a million". A smile and a Snappy comeback was his daily wardrobe,he was a friend to everyone he met. I know he will be sorely missed by everyone who knew him. Look to the LORD for help through this truly difficult and confusing time in your lives, he will carry you thru the sorrow. Grace and peace to you from GOD our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. Ephesians 1:2
Sue Klaus
April 30, 2007
Dear Abby, Sawyer & Rory, I am so sorry. Words cannot express how missed Tim will be. He was always so helpful to me, and his humor was well enjoyed by many, including me. He was a great human resource - literally. "Born in the USA". You and the rest of your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Bobby and Joanne Alford
April 30, 2007
Abby and family, our hearts go out to you during this very difficult time. We pray that memories of Tim and special times shared bring comfort to you all.
Chris Campbell
April 30, 2007
Tim,
I can not express my sorrow at hearing of your passing. My family sends thier prayers to you and your family. This world is a much grayer place without you in it.
Chris & Alicia Campbell
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