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1932
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2019
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Phyllis Schaffer Obituary
Chillicothe - Phyllis R. Schaffer, 87, of Chillicothe, went to be with her Lord and Savior, at 11:57 p.m. Tuesday, October 8, 2019 in the Adena Regional Medical Center following an extended illness.
She was born June 14, 1932, in Ross County, to the late Luther and Elta Mason Sommers. On September 28, 1951, she married Elmer R. Schaffer who survives.
Also surviving are daughters, Sharon (Jeff) Hartmus, of Chillicothe and Debbie (Kenny) Vaughn, of Kingston; a son, Roy (Donna) Schaffer, of South Bloomfield; grandchildren, Shannon Williams, Joel (Cheryl) Vaughn, Trenton (Courtney) Schaffer and Dannielle Schaffer; 7 great grandchildren; special family friends, George Lavender, Shirley Dailey and Don and Cathy Houser; several nieces, nephews, cousins and other extended family members. Predeceased by a son, Henry R. Schaffer; a sister, Naomi Grabill; and brothers, Junior, Harry and Bennie Sommers.
Phyllis was a devoted long time member of High Street CCCU where she was a member and Past President of the E.C.L. Group, annually decorated the church for different seasons, and was a member of the Church Choir. She was also formerly involved with the church's E.C.Y. and V.B.S. Groups and the Cub Scout Troop. Phyllis was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother. She will be dearly missed by all who knew and loved her.
Funeral services will be held 1 p.m. Monday, October 14, 2019 in the High Street CCCU with Pastors Bruce Viar and Don Houser officiating. Burial will follow in Floral Hills Memory Gardens. Friends may call at the Church from 11 a.m. until the time of the service on Monday. Arrangements are under the direction of the WARE FUNERAL HOME.
You may sign her online register at www.warefh.com
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Alana Neff
October 14, 2019
I'm the granddaughter of George and Helen Lavender, Phyllis's longtime friends. I wasn't able to make the calling hours or the funeral today, but wanted to let you know I am thinking of all Phyllis's family and friends.
My prayer for each of you:
For those who suffer, and those who cry this night, give them repose, Lord; and pause in their burdens. Let there be minutes where they experience peace, not of man but of angels. Love them Lord, when others cannot. Hold them, Lord, when we fail with human arms. Hear their prayers.
May God comfort you.
Vickie Burnett Hummel
October 10, 2019
Phyllis and her family were dear friends when we all attended High St Church back in the day. Praying that God will grant you His peace that passes all understanding and comfort during this most difficult time
Rev Bob and Sara Jones
October 10, 2019
We know Phyllis is no longer suffering but we are so sad that in this life we will not get to hug her again. BUT, we will spend eternity with her where she will be free from all pain!!!!! What a precious gem she was!! So very sad for the precious family that will always mourn her loss. God bless all of you.
October 9, 2019
I grew up at High Street with Debbie, Sharon and Henry. There was NEVER a dull moment when this lady was around especially if the Watson's were mixed in. What a joy and a strong role model she was for all of us! I'm so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. To Phyllis, we'll see you soon. In Christ, Pam (Wilkey) Adams.
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