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Diane Naegel Obituary

Cincinnati native Diane Lynne Naegel was a contemporary woman with an eclectic love of people, the Jazz Age and burlesque.

A fashion designer in New York City, she was an entrepreneur, magazine publisher and started a popular monthly social club called the Wits End Jazz Age with her fiancé Don Spiro, a professional photographer in New York.

Ms. Naegel died Sept. 25 from complications from breast cancer. She was 31.

"She could do everything, and do it well," said Spiro, who shared Ms. Naegel's interest in fashion and burlesque.

"She loved the vintage scene. She loved the style, the clothing and music," said Spiro. "What a lot of people don't know was that she was also very contemporary. She loved the punk scene too. But everybody was doing it. She got into the Jazz Age when nobody else was doing it regularly."

New York events producer Shien Lee, who met Ms. Naegel shortly after she moved to New York about a decade ago, said, "She loved the romance, elegance and music of the era. We used to watch old movies a lot."

"Diane was strikingly beautiful, stylish and smart," said Kate Manning, a New York Jazz Age singer who performed at frequent events put on by Wits End, which met monthly at the Flute Bar, a former speakeasy in Midtown Manhattan.

The daughter of attorney Mark R. Naegel and Sarita Naegel, a fashion instructor at the University of Cincinnati, Ms. Naegel graduated from St. Ursula Academy with honors in 1998 and the University of Cincinnati College of Design, Architecture, Art and Planning with a bachelor's degree in fashion design in 2003.

Margaret Voelker-Ferrier, coordinator of fashion design at DAAP, said Ms. Naegel bore a strong resemblance to 1920s flapper Louise Brooks with her short hair, big eyes and high cheek bones. "She looked beautiful and fit the era," she said.

"I knew Diane was destined to be an accessory designer when, in her sophomore year, she made tiaras from old computer keyboards and showed them with her children's wear project. I told her then that accessories were her thing," recalled Ann Firestone, UC fashion instructor.

Even before graduation from DAAP, Ms. Naegel, who took up knitting, started an online custom knit scarf business called Lulette.com.

After moving to New York, she spent a year with the Gap's international division designing children's accessories and then worked for OshKosh B'gosh as a children's designer.

Ms. Naegel's interest in burlesque grew out of her love of old fashion said Jen Zakrzewski, her former roommate in New York and a burlesque performer herself.

"She was very social and could talk to anybody about anything," said Zakrzewski. "She enjoyed getting to know different types of people. She was especially interested in people who were involved in something she didn't know a lot about."

In 2009 she started and edited Zelda: Magazine of the Vintage Nouveau.

Named after author F. Scott Fitzgerald's wife, Zelda, the bi-annual publication featured interviews with the last surviving Ziegfeld girl, articles about personalities such as Clara Bow, the "It" girl, and lifestyle features such as shaving with a straight razor and how to wear and care for vintage clothing.

Manning said the magazine and its vintage nouveau theme really captured the essence of the growing Jazz Age scene in New York.

"Diane really gave it a name," she said.

The Wit's End Club also began in 2009 and paired with the Art Deco Society and the Museum of the City of New York for several major events such as a vintage Fourth of July event at New York's Empire Hotel.

"She lived more life in her short time than most people do in 80 or 90 years," said Voelker-Ferrier.

Besides her parents, and finance, Ms. Naegel is survived by a brother, Mark R. Naegel Jr. of Westwood.

Memorials may be made to the Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center, Evelyn Lauder Breast Center, 1275 York Ave., N.Y., N.Y. 10065; and Trinity Lutheran Church, 31-18 37th Ct., Long Island City, New York, NY 11103.

A celebration of Ms. Naegel's life will be 6-9 p.m. Thursday at the DePaul-Crisco Rey High School gymnasium, 1133 Clifton Hills Ave.

Written by Mike Boyer | [email protected]
Published by The Cincinnati Enquirer from Oct. 12 to Oct. 13, 2011.

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Steve Nicholls

August 3, 2024

I´m really sorry, but I´m looking for a Diane Naegel, we used to chat on AOL back in 1996, I´m from the UK, and I found this result after googling her.

Could anyone confirm for me if this is the same Diane Naegel in the attached photo?

Chris Macke

June 7, 2022

I'm so sad to just now learn about this. I attended elementary school with Dianne. Sending healing thoughts to all of her friends and family.

Brian Kloss

April 25, 2017

My relationship with Diane was special. Most of all, it was important to me. She found me in a very strange time in my life. She became central. She was great at that. She was important. She was a shining star. And, the world is so much less without her. The moments we shared persist in the past. Forever and eternal, that year in Cincinnati with her continues to inform and instruct. I am a flawed man. Diane saw past that to what I might be capable of. It took me many years to understand what she meant. And, many years after her passing, I am still informed by her grace and beauty. There are many days when I see her in the mirror... I hope that is true for those who knew her, as well. I can't see a flower and not think of her. What she had to say was profound, she loved people. She loved life. She showed me how to live it.

October 22, 2011

Diane- Images of you fill my wall at work. Looking at them makes me always think how beautiful life was with you in it and reminds me to enjoy one another and make the most of every day. You embodied pure beauty. Now that fall has arrived I will take your suggestion to heart- hug and cozy up with the ones I love and never ever forget you. Your beautiful child-like owl is on my nightstand-I miss you so.
Sandra Finkelstein

Renae Eidem

October 20, 2011

Dear Diane:

I continue my prayers for you and your family. I often think of how this past June during fellowship at Trinity we together with your family shared those things that were causing us the deepest heartache. I have admired your beauty and strength and the love that exuded from your Christian faith while we all sought solice in fellowship with the pastor and members of Trinity. Pastor Paul expressed that your spirit remains among all of us. Much Love in Christ.

Debi and Danny Trauth

October 16, 2011

A beautiful star shines in the sky tonight and every night now and forever. Diane, I will miss our Chats on Facebook, our love of Kate Spade, and watching you grow from a HS student into a stunning woman, admired my so many.

Bev Lunsford

October 15, 2011

Dear Diane, we shall always remember you as a quiet little girl at Concordia who blossomed and grew into a stunning beauty and a very talented designer and business woman. You packed more into your 31 years on this earth than most of us do in 70 years. It is amazing to see all of the articles and posts on the internet and FB about you. You definitely have a strong following of people that admire and love you. We were "sisters" in the fight against breast cancer and I shall always remember you whenever I see your favorite little owl creatures. You will be dearly missed. May you now rest in peace in the loving arms of your Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ after your long and valiant fight against breast cancer.

Mark Naegel

October 14, 2011

Our little dark-eyed girl grew up and established a life for herself in the City that never sleeps. As her father, I comfort myself not in saying that I had a part in making her what she was, but that as a successful young woman she still held her mother and me special in her eyes. Diane's love of us, Don Spiro, her fiance', her brother, Mark, Jr. and his wife Brittany, and all her friends, brought happiness and joy to all who knew her.

Peggy Heis

October 14, 2011

I only met Diane one time, at a Christmas dinner at Mark and Sarita's home. I thought she looked like a little china doll with her delicate features, light skin, dark bob and huge expressive eyes. she had already made a name for herself in New York, but you would not have known that. she was so easy to talk to and had a way of making you feel like you were friends from the get-go. I guess that was her claim to fame....making people feel important. She will be missed by so many,but most of all by those who have known her for a lifetime. She was able to give her mother the biggest gift of all before her death and I know Sarita will be forever changed by the last few months she had with her endearing daughter. Love and prayers to all of you that were touched by this bright and shining angel.

Diane Nagel

October 14, 2011

God bless your family at this time. I've enjoyed following Diane's life through others memories. I remember seeing her in church and thinking then, this young girl has great style and I was not suprised at her eventual endevors. Condolences to all.....Carla Horne

Karen Marsh

October 13, 2011

Our deepest sympathy and prayers to your family.
Our son Keith attended Concordia with Diane for many years.They kept in touch by Face Book.She was such a beautiful person....

Karen Couch

October 13, 2011

I rememeber Diane as she grew up with my daughter, Stephanie. They were in pre-school together (best friends), youth group, and were confirmed together at Concordia Lutheran Church. She was a very beautiful woman, and you can just see how successful and talented she became. My prayers are with her family and friends in this time of sorrow.

Claire Schmithorst

October 13, 2011

I remember Diane as being older than my children and always soft spoken and kind with a smile that came from the heart. In Girl Scouts, she was always willing to help the younger scouts and leaders. I've followed her life progress through her mother, Sarita, and FB. What a treasure we have lost here on this earth, but our Lord has gained a lovely angel. Peace comes from knowing she's in His loving arms now. God bless Sarita, Mark, Mark, Brittany and Melva. Prayers for comfort.

Marilyn Kuntz

October 12, 2011

I remember a little girl with dark hair and eyes to match. She always sat at the end of the church pew nearest the aisle.Probably had to fight her brother for such a prime spot ;) Quiet but stunning. She will be dearly missed by all who knew her.

Dorothy Booher

October 11, 2011

We remember Diane as the 9 year old little, dark haired girl who was a schoolmate to my son. Her family and ours were members of the old Concordia Lutheran Church-LCMS. There were the usual school activities, Sunday School, church dinners and church Christmas get togethers at her parents home. Children grow-up. Their lives move on, contacts are lost. I didn't get to know the young adult Diane with her growing fame, fortune and accolades in other places. I remember her as the shy but sweet child she was. My heart breaks for her parents and brother. I don't know why you weren't given more time with her. I only have my Christain Faith to lean on.
Dorothy Booher & family

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