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Cary Alstadt Obituary
Asheville - Cary David Alstadt, 62, of Asheville, died Friday, April 26, 2019, in his residence.
Born in Beaver, PA, he was the husband of Karen (Portman) Alstadt of Asheville, and the son of the late Joseph Alstadt and Margaret (Blackwell) Alstadt Fleischman.
Cary was a 1979 graduate of the University of Pittsburgh, receiving a BS Degree in Industrial Engineering. He retired after 30 years of employment from Westinghouse Electric Corporation.
In addition to his wife of 38 years, he is survived by two brothers, Jay Alstadt and Christopher Fleischman, a sister, Leigh Blinn, and several nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews.
Memorial services will be held at a later date in Pennsylvania.
Memorial contributions in Cary's memory may be made online to American Cancer Society at www.cancer.org/involved/donate.html or to Brother Wolf Animal Rescue, 31 Glendale Ave, Asheville, NC 28803.
To sign the online guest register, please visit www.grocefuneralhome.com.
Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian is assisting the family.
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Memories and Condolences
for Cary Alstadt
Sponsored by Groce Funeral Home & Cremation Services- Lake Julian.
John Solury
April 22, 2021
Rest in peace
Abigail Ayala-Casamassa
November 6, 2019
So very sorry to learn of Cary's passing. My deepest condolences to the family. Our family met Cary while he was a student at Pitt. We liked him very much.
John Solury
May 4, 2019
Very sorry. He was a good friend. Really enjoyed working with him. Those were the good days
JEFFERY NORRELL
May 3, 2019
Cary was a great leader, a good man, and one of my best friends.
Hit them straight, Cary.
- Jeff Norrell
Rod Stoker
April 30, 2019
Cary was the role model of leadership with a sharp wit and an awesome sense of humor. He will be missed.
Alfrica Sharber
April 30, 2019
You will be missed. Great Plant manager.
RAGHU AVALI
April 29, 2019
Carey was a great person and a truly great plant manager. He will be missed.
Raghu Avali
Walter Jones & Family
April 29, 2019
God is in control
SA
April 29, 2019
May the God of tender mercy bring you comfort during this difficult time of your life.
Dave and Kathy Odom
April 28, 2019
My husband and I thought very highly of Cary. He was a super Plant Manager and VP. Our condolences and prayers for you and your family.
SA
April 28, 2019
May the God of tender mercy bring you comfort during this difficult time of your life.
Brenda Greene-Field
April 28, 2019
I never met anyone that didn't like Gary. He was smart, fair, honest, and possessed something very rare , common sense. He left a big footprint in many lives and will be missed. May Gary be rewarded greatly in his new life.
April 28, 2019
Dear family, I am sorry for your loss, May you draw strength in knowing that God is the creator of life. He is capable of restoring life to someone who has died. Acts 17:24,25
Michael Jett
April 27, 2019
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