465 S. Main Street
Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania
Ruth Mappes Helgemo, 84, of Edwardsville, passed away on Thursday, Nov. 21, 2023, at Allied Hospice Center after a lengthy battle with cancer.
Born in Wilkes-Barre, May 11, 1939, she was the daughter of the late Otto and Margaret Kern Mappes.
She was a graduate of Meyers High School, Class of 1957. Throughout her childhood, she helped her father in his bakery business, Margie's Bake Goods, up until her graduation. She worked as a teller at the Wyoming National Bank before joining the Wilkes-Barre Publishing Company as a secretary for the national advertising department.
Not long after starting this new position, her future husband saw her through the window while heading down the alley to the mail room. Their courtship blossomed into a beautiful relationship anchored in their shared faith in Jesus Christ that spanned 61½ years of wedded bliss.
Ruth was baptized into her faith at St. Peter's Lutheran Church and remained a member of the church throughout her life. She was an active member of the Walther League, the church choir and was a Sunday School and VBS teacher. She loved to teach the children to sing as well as learn about the truths and teachings of the Bible.
Ruth was also an active community volunteer for over 25 years working with NAMI Wilkes-Barre as well as founding the OCD Support Group in the Wyoming Valley. She founded the NAMI Walk that continues to this day to help bring awareness, compassion, support and understanding for people struggling with mental health issues.
In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her stepmother, Irene Glatz Mappes; and sisters, Margaret Higgins and Doris Toennes.
Surviving are her husband, William R. Helgemo Sr.; son, William and Ruth Goldman Helgemo Jr., Chicago, Ill.; daughters, Kathryn Helgemo and partner, Kathie Null, Lawrenceville; Grace Helgemo, Kingston; Amy Janosky and her husband, Bill, Hunlock Creek; grandchildren, Ryan Helgemo; Eric Helgemo; Sara Helgemo; William Janosky III; and Jacob Janosky; special friend, Chyanne Jones-Null; and 24 nieces and nephews.
The Helgemo family would like to express their sincere gratitude to Dr. Bruce Saidman, oncologist, and to Allied Hospice Center for their compassionate care they provided to Ruth.
A memorial service will be held at 11 a.m. Monday in St. Peter's Evangelical Lutheran Church, 1000 S. Main St., Wilkes-Barre. Calling hours will be held from 10 a.m. to service time.
Arrangements are entrusted to Kniffen O'Malley Leffler Funeral and Cremation Services, Inc of Wilkes-Barre.
Memorial contributions in Ruth's name may be made to Medical Oncology Associates Cancer Treatment Center, 382 Pierce St., Kingston, PA 18704; or St. Peter's Evangelical Lutheran Church, 1000 S. Main St., Wilkes-Barre, PA 18706.
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Jim Pisarcik
November 16, 2025
Ruth was a great friend and classmate. She was a compassionate and caring person who helped others. RIP, Ruth...Jim
Jim Pisarcik
May 5, 2025
Rest In Peace, Ruth....Jim
Jim Pisarcik
December 18, 2024
RIP, Ruth, You are missed by everyone.
Jim Pisarcik
December 18, 2024
RIP Ruth...
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Julie Persing
December 5, 2023
To the Helgemo family,
So sorry to hear of your loss, she was a great woman and wonderful mother and wife, she will be missed. I will not be able to attend the services but know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Julie Persing
Anne Seitz
November 26, 2023
Dear Bill, I am so sorry to hear of your wife´s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and you family. Sincerely, Anne Seitz
Terry and Ron Sutton
November 25, 2023
Bill and family, so very sorry to hear of Ruth´s passing. She was a beautiful kind human.
Peggy Weigel Poynton
November 25, 2023
Condolences to the family. I knew Ruth many years ago. I remember playing croquette in her backyard. My Dad, Bill Weigel was friends of her parents.
Corny Romanowski
November 25, 2023
Ruth was a wonderful, caring person who always made time to listen to other people´s concerns and problems. We should follow her lead... thank you Ruth!
Christine Tucker
November 24, 2023
Dear Bill,
Ruth was an incredible woman with compassion for people like no other. She comforted people with mental illness with unconditional love. I am blessed to have known her.
Nancy Williams
November 24, 2023
Dear Amy. My most sincere condolences to you and your entire family with the passing of your Mom. I didn't know her but she raised a great daughter and that certainly shows what a great person she was. Loving thoughts and prayers are with you all. Nancy

Nancy Kemmerer
November 24, 2023
Ruth was a very special person. She had a beautiful smile, laughed often, and was devoted to her husband, Bill, and her family. Ruth was always more concerned about you and your trials than she was for herself. A long time high school friend.
Joanne (Ayers) Beidleman
November 24, 2023
Ruth was a very special person and I have many wonderful memories of our time together at Meyers High School. She will certainly be missed by family and friends.
Gail Jones Eidam
November 23, 2023
Ruth was the most beautiful per I ever knew and I told her that in August at our class luncheon.
Ruth will be missed by many.
Gail Jones Eidam
Jim Pisarcik
November 23, 2023
Ruth was a compassionate and wonderful person. I always remember Ruth as a very caring and kind person. May god bless her and family.
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