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Barbara Perry Obituary

NORMAN, OK- Barbara Perry passed away on February 26, 2008 at Arbor House Reminisce Center in Norman, OK. Barbara Ann McCormick was born on June 14, 1922 to Edith and Donald McCormick in Topeka, KS where the family owned a rug and contracting company. She graduated from Colorado University, Boulder in 1943. She married Harry A. Perry II, when he returned from WWII in 1947. In Topeka Barbara and Harry grew up together, were leaders in the community and church and had 3 children; James, Lynn and Chesley. The family made two moves, first to Barrington, IL in 1963 and Oklahoma City in 1970. The family enjoyed summers in Bernardston, MA at the Perry Farm. Barbara was an avid golfer, mah-jongg and card player. She was active in Kappa Alpha Theta Sorority, Urban Renewal and The Junior League in Topeka, The Oklahoma City Museum of Art and The Junior League of Oklahoma City. She was married to Harry for 59 years until his death in March 2006. Barbara Perry is survived by her son James L. Perry II of Fort Worth, TX; her daughter Lynn VanOrnum of Bloomington, MN and her daughter Chesley Potts of Norman, OK; 6 grandchildren and 2 great grandchildren. A memorial service will be held in Topeka, KS at Mt. Hope Cemetery. Memorials to Heartland Hospice in Norman, OK or the charity of your choice are welcome. Arrangements by Havenbrook Funeral Home in Norman. Send condolences online at http://www.havenbrookfuneralhome.com/Obituaries.htm. Barbara Perry

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Published by Topeka Capital-Journal on Feb. 29, 2008.

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Don Chubb

March 4, 2008

Lynn, Jim and Chesley,
I'm so sorry about the loss of your mother. She must have been a very active and vibrant person, and everyone in Topeka remembers her families rug company. I had no idea you would be back in Topeka so soon. Please accept our sympathy from all of us at Grace Cathedral.

kay grant

March 1, 2008

Harry and Bobbie were always an evening highlight of my visits back to OKC. Along with Daddy, they were always so "up" and jovial. (we left Mother at home w/ the babies!) I will always think of them with delight.

JOAN CULVER ALBERG

February 29, 2008

I WAS SO VERY SADDENED TO READ ABOUT BOBBIE. HER PARENTS, EDIE AND DON, WERE VERY GOOD FRIEND'S OF MY PARENTS, JOHN AND VIVIAN CULVER IN TOPEKA. I HAVE SUCH FOND MEMORIES OF THEM ALL. OUR SYMPATHY TO EACH OF YOU.

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