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Dixie Toelkes Obituary

Dixie E. Toelkes Dixie E. Toelkes, 79, of Topeka, died June 30, 2015 at Aldersgate. She was born on August 4, 1935 in Topeka, Kansas the daughter of Amon M. and Rachel (Williams) Hummer. She received two master s degrees from Kansas State University. Dixie was a Special Education Teacher for the Seaman School District form 1980 to 1990. She served in the Legislature from 1992 to 1998 where she was instrumental in passing a bill that required background checks for employees working in health care facilities. Dixie enjoyed reading, painting and researching family history. She was a member of Mater Dei Assumption Catholic Parish. She married Roger E. Toelkes in Topeka, Kansas on November 27, 1954. He survives of the home. She is also survived by her son, Jay R. (Sharon) Toelkes of Salem, Oregon and daughter, Jill A. (Gary) Beam of Topeka, a sister, Dolores Porter of Topeka, eight grandchildren and five great grandchildren. Dixie was preceded in death by a daughter Julie A. Toelkes, a brother, Randall M. Hummer, her father Amon Hummer, her mother, Rachel Hummer Wilson and a granddaughter Aubrey Toelkes. A Memorial Visitation will be held on Sunday at the Brennan-Mathena Funeral Home where the family will receive friends from 5:00 until 7:00 p.m. A Memorial Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday at 10:00 a.m. at Mater Dei Assumption Catholic Church. Inurnment will be private in Mt. Calvary Cemetery. Memorial contributions may be made in her memory to the NE Kansas Alzheimer s Association, and sent in care of Brennan-Mathena Funeral Home, 800 SW 6th Ave., Topeka, Kansas 66603. Online condolences and fond memories may be left at www.brennanmathenafh.com. Dixie E. Toelkes
Published by Topeka Capital-Journal on Jul. 1, 2015.

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Ethel Peterson

June 24, 2019

Dixie was my seat mate for a while in the Kansas House of Representatives. So, I learned to know her there, and in our party's caucus. She was a dear friend, always helpful and with such a wonderful sense of humor. She and Roger will always hold a special place in all our hearts . May she rest in peace as she so deserves.

Nancy Redd

June 24, 2019

Dixie's family. I am so sorry you lost her. I knew Dixie all my life. She was related to my relation. What a nice person.

July 7, 2015

Roger and Family:
We are sorry to learn of your loss. We pray for God's blessings to provide comfort for each of you.
Richard and Mary Allen

Zoe Seymour

July 7, 2015

I'm so sorry to hear the news of Dixie's passing. I had the privilege of working with Dixie at Logan Jr. High. She was so very warm and welcoming to me there. 'Wishing you peace at this difficult time.

Mitzi Cafer Rogers

July 6, 2015

Roger and Family,
You were so supportive of Dixie and all that she was going through and for such a long time. I am in admiration, we should all have loved ones as loyal as you. I know there will be many feelings involved due to her passing, and I wish you healing and prayers. You are a blessing to many, including me and my family. Sending Love.

July 5, 2015

Roger and family, Dodie and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Dixie--always a very nice lady. Our kindest personal regards. Larry and Nancy Redd

Bob and Donna Deever

July 5, 2015

Roger, Jay, and Jill, my thoughts and prayers are with you in the days ahead. Dixie always had a smile for me and I loved our chats when we would see each other. I know she has had a long struggle, but she is now looking down on you with her special. smile. I am sure she is with Julie and surrounded by the Shawnne Heights family which preceded her. My Mom and Dad are right with her, I am sure.

Jim & Suzanne Griffith

July 5, 2015

Roger, Jill & Jay - We are so sorry to hear of Dixie's passing. Our thoughts are with you all. We have such fond memories of the many fun times our families had together while our kids were small. We will never forget those good times.

Floyd and Janice Morgison

July 5, 2015

Roger and Family: We were saddened to hear of Dixie's passing. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories as you celebrate a life well lived.

July 4, 2015

Dear Roger & family - We are so sorry to hear about Dixie's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this trying time. May she R.I.P.
Sincerely, Bill and Mary Harris, Tulsa, OK

Larry Rhodes

July 4, 2015

It is sad that Kansas has lost another good Democrat. My prayers are with Dixie's family.

July 3, 2015

Roger and Family,
My heart is heavy since I read the news of Dixie's passing. The time we spent as seat-mates in the Kansas House, created memories I will never forget. Dixie was so much fun, and yet so caring. She took her duties seriously and was truly a faithful public servant. I will treasure the memories. I send my most heartfelt sympathy.
Ethel Peterson, Dodge City, Ks.

Marvin Neukirch

July 3, 2015

Roger and family thinking of you and your loss of a very special lady

July 3, 2015

Roger, Bless you for all your love and care. Jill, Jay, Doty, and all grandchildren, sorry for your loss! I always think of Dixie on our birthday we shared. Love to all!!!!
Cheryl Hummer Holt

Maxine Byler

July 3, 2015

so sorry for your lost she was a very nice lady and a good teacher.

July 3, 2015

Roger and family-our thought's and prayers go out to you at this time.May the good memories help you through this time. Peace be with you.Gerald,Steve,Tonya,and Scott Humble

Steve and Tonya Humble

July 3, 2015

Jill and family,
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. Thoughts and prayers are with your family in this difficult time. Steve and Tonya

Wilma Mulford

July 2, 2015

Dolores,So sorry to hear about your sister Dixie.Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

Linda and Jim Mcneece

July 2, 2015

Roger and family, we were so sorry to hear of Dixie passing. She will be looked after now by all of her over ones. She will once again have that wonderful smile shining upon her face. Our deepest sympathy and love during this time of sorrow.

July 2, 2015

Dolores,And Family so sorry to hear about Dixie.Thoughts and prayers to you all.

Nelda Reynolds

July 2, 2015

I am so sorry for the loss of Dixie. I remember her from the days when she was secretary at Crane Jr. High. She was an energetic and creative person. I was honored to support her in her election campaigns in my district. She brought so much to her friends and community; she will be missed.

July 2, 2015

Jill and family- I am sorry to hear of your mom passing away. When I saw you last week, you told me of the hard struggles for her and the eventful week for all of you. Please know that I am thinking of you and saying a prayer for your family. My deepest sympathies- Maureen Hillis

Lyle Stroud

July 2, 2015

Jay and family, sorry to hear of your loss

Warren "Cricket" Hummer

July 2, 2015

Roger and family: My sympathies to you all on cousin Dixie's passing. We had some interesting times/discussions in our younger days. Echoing previous comments, she really did care about other people and made a difference in others' lives.

Ron Redmond

July 2, 2015

Roger and Jill, my prayers to you in this time of sorrow.

Greta Anderson

July 1, 2015

So sorry for your loss and it is a loss for everyone. She was fun to be around. Dixie and I worked together at East Topeka Jr. High and I always enjoyed our time together. Seemed she was always happy, lively and enjoyed life. She will be missed by many.

Bill Worthington

July 1, 2015

Jay- Sorry to see the loss of your mom. My thoughts go out to the family.

Pam Handley

July 1, 2015

Jay and family - my thoughts and prayers go out to you at this time. May the good memories stay close to your heart and help you through this time. Peace be with you. Pam (Webb) and Wade Handley

Jeri Hansen

July 1, 2015

Roger, Jay and Jill - You are in my thoughts and prayers today. Please know there are many friends who you can reach out to for comfort and support, we are only a phone call away.

July 1, 2015

Roger and family, please accept our sympathy on your loss. We enjoyed knowing Dixie through the years and admired her service in the Kansas House of Representatives. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Senator Anthony and Deborah Hensley

Pete Jr & Elena Tavares

July 1, 2015

Mr. Toelkes, please accept Elena's and my deepest heartfelt condolences on the loss of your beloved wife. Take comfort in knowing she is free of pain in the company of our Lord and Julie today. You and all your family are in my daily prayers.

Brent Anderson

July 1, 2015

Coach Toelkes, Jill and Jay, thinking of you today. I never remember seeing Dixie without a smile; a very gracious and classy lady.

Betty & Bill Reser

July 1, 2015

Roger, Jill, Jay and family, Dixie was a special friend. Enjoyed all our visits when our girls were playing softball. Praying for Gods comfort for each of you. Betty & Bill Reser

Kelli Cross (Myers)

July 1, 2015

Jill and family,
I'm sorry for your loss. It's great to know that this wonderful woman is free and herself again. God bless you all.

Debbie Walburn

July 1, 2015

Toelkes family - I am very sorry for your loss. Though it doesn't list it in her obituary, Dixie was the secretary at East Topeka Junior High when I was there. I always remember her fondly and enjoyed working with her in the office as an aide. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jeni Galloway

July 1, 2015

We are so sorry for your loss, Jill, Roger and family. You will be in our prayers.
Jeni and Lance Galloway
And family

Jadonna Trout

July 1, 2015

Mr. Toelkes and Family,
You are in my thoughts and prayers in this time of grief and transition. Our hearts grieve with you. We will remember Mrs. Toelkes and each of you with fondness, and thankful for all the good years and memories!

Richard McGhee

July 1, 2015

Roger and Family. We are so sorry for your loss but we know you have an abundance of beautiful memories you can draw upon for your strength in this sorrowful time. Richard and Chris McGhee

Naomi Clifton

July 1, 2015

Roger and family, we are sorry for your loss. God Bless you.
Virgil and Naomi Clifton

Liz Syverson-Osborne

July 1, 2015

Dear Roger, I am so sorry about Dixie's passing. She has had a long and difficult struggle. She is whole now. God bless you for the care you provide for her.

Pamala Bonjour-Glotzbach

July 1, 2015

Roger, Jill and Jay So sorry for your loss. Dixie was always such an wonderful person, she had a smile that was light up your day.Dixie would always have something nice to say! Our thoughts and Prayers are with you during this time!

Harold Lane

July 1, 2015

Roger and Jill, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We enjoyed our times visiting with Roger and Dixie.
Harold and Jane Lane

Tom Dinkel

July 1, 2015

Coach Toelkes, very sorry to hear about Mrs. Toelkes. She was always a very nice person with a beautiful smile. Jay and Jill, my prayers are with your entire family.

Annie Kuether

July 1, 2015

Roger, I am so sorry to hear this news. Dixie was very special...and she will be missed. I have wonderful memories of her. I won't be able to be at the service as I will be meeting my two, new grand-babies. You are in my heart. Annie

Melissa Elliott

July 1, 2015

Roger and family, I am so sorry to hear about Dixie's passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jane Marie (Scully) Schmidtberger

July 1, 2015

Mr. Toelkes
I'm so sorry for your loss. Peace be with you during this sorrowful time.

Jenny Tavares

July 1, 2015

Mr. Toelkes and family, I am so sorry to read about Mrs. Toelkes' death. You and your entire family have my sincerest sympathy.

dan lykins

July 1, 2015

Dixie cared about people...She was a true fighter for victims...Dixie improved our state by her dedicated work in the Kansas legislature. Thank you Dixie for all of your good work to help the people of Kansas........God Bless Dixie and her good family......dan & judy lykins (Topeka, ks)

July 1, 2015

Jill,
We are so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Jerry and Karen Brock

Judy Drake

July 1, 2015

Jill and Gary, So sorry to hear about Dixie. My thoughts and prayers are coming your way for the entire family.

July 1, 2015

Roger, Jill, Jay and Family,
Blessings come in mysterious ways. In awhile you will be able to remember Dixie as she is now, i.e., walking tall, laughing, living forever in your hearts. May God Bless you all.
Sis Long

Brenda Oliva

July 1, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. She is at peace now and visiting Julie and all her loved ones. Love you all Brenda (Floro)

Jeri Brooks

July 1, 2015

Jill - so sorry to hear about your mom. She left such a legacy and accomplished so much in her lifetime. Praying for you and your family.

Hope Krug

July 1, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss. I know that she is in a much better place. May your happy memories sustain you during this difficult time.

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