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Mary Stenger Obituary

Mary Kay Stenger, PhD Mary Kay Stenger, 70, Topeka, died Friday, September 25, 2015 at her home. She was born January 5, 1945 the daughter of Paul and Margie (Wolf) Stenger. She was a school psychologist. Prior, she worked in the juvenile justice field and was a pioneer in the studies of linking delinquency and learning disabilities. Mary Kay retired from Seaman USD 345. She loved her family, her faith, and her friends. She is survived by her brothers and sisters, Paul Stenger and wife Anne of Arlington, VA, Vicki Willenborg and spouse Karen Hyland of Kansas City, MO, Mike Stenger and Pat Stenger of Topeka, Steve Stenger of Holton, Kansas, David Stenger of Topeka, and Suellyn Stenger of Hays, many nieces, nephews, great nieces and nephews, and many friends. She was preceded in death by her parents, and a brother, Donnie Stenger. Her body was donated to The University of Kansas Medical Center. Mary Kay s life will be celebrated with Mass of Resurrection at 11:00 am on Saturday, October 10, 2015 at Mater Dei (Holy Name) Church, 1114 SW 10th, Topeka. Interment will be at a later date in St. Joseph Cemetery, Hays, Kansas. Memorials are suggested to the Mater Dei parish or to family wishes. Condolences may be left for the family at www.haysmemorial.com Mary Kay Stenger

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Published by Topeka Capital-Journal on Oct. 4, 2015.

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diane behrends

September 29, 2020

I have never met anyone that I grew attached to immediately as I did Mary Kay. We had many good times at the casino, shared meals, and wonderful visits catching up on our families. She was a very giving, sharing person and loved her family immensely. On several occasions I have gone to Sac & Fox, and seen a pretty gray haired lady from the back, and always think "maybe she is back to make one more wager on her favorite machine". Wonderful gal and wonderful memories.

Diane Behrends

October 2, 2019

I miss seeing her so much. She was a true friend and when I go to the casino and see someone from the back with short gray hair, I think of her. Wish she was here to talk to!

Kim Crooks

October 15, 2015

I loved working with Mary Kay in the Seaman Schools. She was always focused on the students, wanting each and everyone to succeed. I know she loved the Casino!! I will miss her wonderful stories. Rest in Peace, Mary Kay.

Twila Oestmann

October 6, 2015

I loved each time I was able to see and visit with Mary. I just loved her. She will be greatly missed. My heart and prayers go out to her family.

Diane Behrends

October 5, 2015

I shall miss this lovely friend whom I met at Sac & fox. We had many good times there, eating lunch, chatting and talking about all of the relatives. She loved each and every one of you so much, and was a very proud lady. Always smiling, no matter how bad she felt. Wish I could have had more time with her. Going to the Casino will never be the same without her there. I could loan her a $20.00 and in two days, she would mail it back, with a nice note. I feel truly blessed to have known her. Love you Mary Kay, until we meet again! My deepest sympathy to all family and friends. Diane Behrends

Patty Barth

October 4, 2015

Mary Kay was such a sweet lady. Always enjoyed her coming into the Seaman Schools where I was a secretary. We will miss her pleasant personality. Her family has my sympathy.

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