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Shirley Gooden Obituary

Shirley Kay Gooden, 70, of Topeka, passed away Saturday, January 19, 2013. She was born March 23, 1942 in Topeka, KS, the daughter of Virgil F. and Darlene L. (Highfill) DeHart. She was a graduate of Seaman High School. She attended Washburn University. Mrs. Gooden was employed by Elkins Drug Store in North Topeka, Topeka Police Department, and retired from Sunflower Dental Studio in 2000. She also volunteered for Logan Junior High School, West Indianola School and Every Woman s Resource. She was a member of Mother Teresa of Calcutta Catholic Church. Shirley married Richard G. Gooden on September 23, 1961 in Topeka. He survives of the home. Other survivors include two sons, Eric (Cameron) Gooden, Lawrence, KS and Troy (Jill) Gooden, Topeka; a daughter, Denise (Steve) Koch, Centralia, KS; 11 grandchildren, J.T., Beau and Cole Gooden, Jayci and Tyler Gooden, Lukas, Malori, Levi, Maegan, Sarah and Derek Koch; her mother, Darlene DeHart, Topeka; a brother, Arthur F. DeHart, Greenleaf, KS; two sisters, Dee Thompson and Ann (Rich) Schiefelbein, both of Topeka; and a very close friend, Brenda Gonzalez. She was preceded in death by her father. A Mass of Christian Burial will be 10 a.m., Wednesday, January 23, 2013 at the Mother Teresa of Calcutta Catholic Church, 2014 NW 46th St., Topeka. Interment will follow at the Maple Hill Cemetery, Maple Hill, KS. Shirley will lie in state after 3 p.m., Tuesday at the Penwell-Gabel Parker-Price Chapel, 245 NW Independence Ave., Topeka, where a Rosary will be recited at 6 p.m. The family will receive friends following the rosary until 8 p.m. Memorial contributions may be made to Midland Hospice Care of Kansas, 200 SW Frazier Circle, Topeka, KS 66606. To leave a special message for the family online, please visit www.PenwellGabelTopeka.com. Shirley K. Gooden

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Published by Topeka Capital-Journal on Jan. 21, 2013.

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January 28, 2013

Richard, Eric, Troy, Denise, I'm so sorry for your loss of a great lady. Many good memories. My prayers are with your family.

Angie Feyh

January 23, 2013

Troy, I am thinking of you and your family. It is so hard to lose your Mom. She is a special lady.

Mary Lou (Hermann) Branch

January 23, 2013

My sympathy goes out to all of Shirleys'family,sorry for your loss.

Paul valdivia

January 23, 2013

Richard, so sorry to hear about your loss. You are in our prayers..Paul and Isabel Valdivia

January 23, 2013

Richard, sorry to hear about your loss. You are in our prayers. Paul and Isabel Valdivia

Julie Mullin

January 23, 2013

Denise and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I have such fond memories of Shirley growing up. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

January 22, 2013

The Seaman High School Class of 1960 is saddened by the death of our classmate, Shirley DeHart Gooden.

January 22, 2013

Richard, Eric, Troy, Denise and families, I am so sorry for your loss. Shirley was a very giving person and will be greatly missed. You are all in my prayers to help you through this most difficult time. Lana Meier

colby & tad peet

January 22, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you! So sorry for you loss.

Karen Cope

January 21, 2013

Richard and family. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family.

January 21, 2013

Richard, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Love Jr and Joanie Tilton

Laura Sullivan

January 21, 2013

What a classy Lady! My thoughts and prayers are with the Gooden Family. She will be missed.

Kathie Arbogast

January 21, 2013

Richard and family, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers will be with you all at this difficult time.

Our painting by Shirley

Hank & Deanna Lovato

January 21, 2013

Richard and family,

Shirley has left behind a treasure of many happy memories for all to share.
You are in our thoughts and prayers. We will miss her. God Bless
Hank & Deanna

January 21, 2013

Troy and Eric so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Doug and Linda Davis

Eugenia Akers

January 21, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss, she was a great lady.

Jerry and Beulah Grant

January 21, 2013

Richard and family, so sorry to hear Shirley had passed away Saturday. It was good seeing you Wednesday evening before we left. We have you all in our thoughts and prayers. Shirley was a very unique person and will be greatly missed. Love to all of you.

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