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Thomas Scott Hayden Jr.

1956 - 2016

Thomas Scott Hayden Jr. obituary, 1956-2016, Evergreen, CO

BORN

1956

DIED

2016

Thomas Hayden Obituary

Thomas Scott Hayden Jr. left this world unexpectedly on Leap Day, Feb. 29, 2016. He was born in January 1956 to parents Thomas Scott and Margaret Davis Hayden. A fifth-generation Coloradan, he attended Central Lakewood Elementary, the Graland School, and Denver Country Day School. He honored his deep family roots in Clear Creek County and lived on the family land in the Upper Bear Creek Valley for 42 years. One of Tom's greatest loves was his home land, as is evident in his devotion to the people and natural lands of the Colorado mountains, past, present and future.
Tom was an accomplished jack-of-all-trades, master of many, who gained most of his vast knowledge through his own experience and from the old-timers in the county. As a boy, he spent every summer on the family ranch, exploring the Bear Creek Basin on foot and horseback. Tom looked to his grandmother, Margaret E. Davis, as a teacher of family traditions and gained his appreciation of the written word and music as Gran took him under her wings. By 6 years old, whenever possible, he could be found riding with Buster Anderson on his legendary road grader. Tom never lost his love of large machinery.
Throughout his life, Tom was endlessly curious about everything. If he was intrigued by something, he made it his task to find out everything he could about it, from history to politics to how to repair an antique tractor. He carried on his mother's legacy of interest in local history, and gathered stories of the people and the natural history of the Front Range.
As a budding entrepreneur during his teenage years, Tom owned a snowplowing and fence-building business, and even ventured into a rabbit-raising endeavor for a short time. By the time Tom turned 18 years old, he had moved to the family land on Upper Bear Creek and was apprenticing to the old-timers, learning everything from how to harvest hay from Jack Brasel, to the vagaries of caring for old plumbing from Brian Schwartz, to how to choose the best burning wood and stacking method from Clarence Whitbeck. There was a mutual respect that grew between Tom and the generation of these wise men. The unique stories of the homesteaders and early residents of the county intrigued Tom endlessly, and he honed his lifelong interest in history and his skill of telling a good story from the best.
Animals and music were important early influences on Tom that followed him all his days. As a young stockman, Tom enjoyed the 4-H organization while raising small livestock to show and sell at the National Western Stock Show. Tom learned to ride and care for horses from his grandmother, and helped care for family animals, especially the goats and numerous dogs. In the summers on the ranch, when other forms of entertainment were scarce, Tom relished the spontaneous performances that included readings, recitations and music with other family members. Tom taught himself to play the guitar, and in his late teens he was president of the Denver Friends of Folk Music. Harry Tuft of Denver was Tom's early musical mentor, and a lifelong friendship and mutual admiration grew between these men.
Tom became caretaker for the family land in his early 20s, carrying on Whitbeck's and Schwartz's legacies. He cultivated and harvested hay on the family meadows, and soon began haying for neighboring ranches as well. Caring for the meadows and the equipment taught him the value of hard work, and his mechanical skills blossomed. Tom intuitively knew the process of how things worked, and could fix or repair anything that had wheels and mechanics.
His love of the forests, building, and large machinery came together naturally in his nascent sawmill operation, where he was mentored by Bob Hammond and Hank Alderfer. This enterprise grew into a 27-year business known first as Bear Creek Milling and followed by Hayden Forest Products. Tom logged beetle-kill pine in the valley and milled some of the most beautiful specialty lumber that graces numerous houses and outbuildings in the county and beyond. A placard posted at the sawmill office emphatically instructed, "Do not paint our wood!" A robust firewood business emerged from the lumber production. During this time, Tom continued his lifelong public service by serving as president of the Colorado Timber Industries Association.
He loved the county and served in many capacities throughout his life. He served on the Clear Creek County Planning Commission for 10 years, and from 2012 to the present he was elected as county commissioner from the 2nd District. He also served the Clear Creek Schools by being an active member of three Building Accountability Committees and the District Accountability Committee.
He was an active volunteer firefighter with Evergreen Fire/Rescue and was elected president of the fire district board for three years until he became the district manager of the Evergreen Fire Protection District. He was the arson investigator with Clear Creek County, Evergreen Fire/Rescue and the Combined Arson Response Team. Tom fulfilled his passion for wildland firefighting by serving with the Clear Creek Marmots Wildland Team. Tom held several positions on the Clear Creek Sheriff's Department, including animal control officer and special deputy for the east end of Clear Creek County.
Tom loved making music with friends, and performed as Sawyer Tom at many music festivals and other venues in the area. He accompanied Ramblin' Jack Elliot on a concert tour throughout the West and performed in his inimitable style with many folk musicians in numerous venues, including the Vancouver Folk Music Festival. Tom's distinctive style of music and storytelling drew him to the Cowboy Poetry Festival in Elko, Nev., where he served as the musical director.
Though his many accomplishments and ways of serving his community could fill a book, his greatest love was his family. He met Elaine in Evergreen, and in several years they married spontaneously on their way to the Cowboy Poetry Festival in 1989. Her sons, Christian and Angelo, joined the family, and daughter Laurel was born in 1991. Tom's love of children inspired him to tease, guide and encourage them to follow their passions as he did. He made time in his busy life to play dollies with Laurel and search for the best secret raspberry patches. Tom encouraged her love of horses by helping haul beloved horse Bob to area horse shows and the National Western Stock Show.
Gregarious and friendly, humorous and deeply serious about life, tough-skinned and sensitive at once, Tom made friends wherever he went, and each of them held a special place in his heart. He carried on the legacy of mentoring others, simply by his manner, in the same spirit as the old-timers guided him.
Tom's hobbies were many. The arrival of a few cows eventually grew into a large herd of cattle that he and his daughter cared for. He loved all outdoor pursuits and was an avid hunter and accomplished fly-fisherman. He camped, hiked and climbed mountains and marveled at nature with his family. Later in his life, he developed a keen interest in photography and captured as many sunrises and sunsets as he could.
In 2012, he was elected Clear Creek County commissioner, running as a Republican. During his tenure, he became an independent, which better reflected his independent spirit, which was hard to put in a box. He was honored by both Democrats and Republicans, and on his death, a proclamation was issued to fly flags at half-staff throughout the county. His co-workers respected him deeply, and he worked tirelessly to make decisions that were a win-win for everyone. As chairman of the county commission, he recommended that people step into the shoes of those with opposing views.
He leaves behind his beloved wife, Elaine Hayden; his daughter, Laurel Rosalie Hayden; stepsons Christian and Angelo Rolla; granddaughter Chloe Mae Rolla; sisters Anne Hayden (Sheila) and Margaret Hayden (Andy); supportive nephew Evan Jeffries (Monica); and numerous other nieces and nephews. He also leaves behind innumerable friends and colleagues. We will miss his presence deeply, and know that his legacy will live on for generations.
A celebration of Tom Hayden's life will be held oat 1 p.m. Saturday, March 12, on Upper Bear Creek, at the site of the old Hayden Forest Products mill. For directions and a map, visit the website: http://www.tomhaydenfamily.com.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggests that donations be made to one of the following organizations: Charlie's Place, the Clear Creek-Gilpin Animal Shelter; the Mountain Area Land Trust; or to the Remember Sand Creek Memorial Fund-raiser, www.remembersandcreek.org.

To plant trees in memory, please visit theĀ Sympathy Store.

Published by Clear Creek Courant from Mar. 7 to Apr. 1, 2016.

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Jerry Grannell

March 1, 2024

still miss Tom, he was a good friend!

Steve Dymond

May 18, 2023

Tom and I were friends at DCD, and played music together, me being his `sideman“ on mandolin and banjo. We shared a love for the same music at a time when guys our age were mostly into hendrix. Frummox, hoyt, ramblin jack, fraser and debolt, john hartford were our heros. I can remember playing with Tom, many nights and weekends, visiting the ranch, playing a debutante after party at the Navarre, and many times at the old International club and TheOxford, way before its reno. Tom had a great sense of humor , love of whiskey sours at a tender age, and was a gentle and sensitive person. He left an enduring impact on me. I was saddened when he departed DCD. While i had not seen him in many years i have fond memories of him. The obituary is exactly the friend i remember. My condolences on your loss.

Randi Levin

March 1, 2021

Tommy was my friend and One of a Kind Soul. It was an honor to know him and to call him my friend. I miss him still and always will!

Randi Levin

April 2, 2016

Tommy was One of Kind, filled with love for nature love for the wildlife and Love for all he met! He was a friend and a buddy who was always there in times of need! I have many memories of him, yet a favorite one was a day many years ago when I was first introduced to the boys of the Neighborhood.
I was riding my horse and many local dogs joined in the ride. Yet I didn't know that I was being set up that day by the local gentlemen. As we turned the corner at the bottom of my road and rode about 100 yards into the other a group of men alongside their trucks stopped me. I was told that it was "Illegal to have all those dogs off of a leash and that I would have to pay $200 per dog fine. I had 12 dogs riding alongside of me and my horse. And then one of the gentlemen informed me that I would also be fined $500 for riding without a saddle! In my head I began to total up the fines and Of course vocally questioned these alleged fines. Sitting upon my horse I couldn't believe what I was being told and looked into each of their eyes for an answer. It was Tommy who broke the first smile and shortly after we all began laughing in new friendships as each one of these gentlemen extended their hands offering their names and a Welcome to the Neighborhood!
I thank Tommy for that introduction for his smiles for his sneers and for who he was to each of us, A Friend!

Tom and I at Oro City

Jerry Grannell

March 13, 2016

My good friend Tom will always be with me! My home has his wood both on the outside and inside, Susi and I are surrounded by Tom always. We had many good times together playing music, and talking about the world. One of my best memories is us at his Grandma's house up the hill, with the two of us playing "Imagine" together on the piano, him playing the left hand and me playing the right hand with Elaine and Susi(and Ruby)listening by the fireplace. So many memories forever! Be with the wind, Tom!

nancy maule

March 12, 2016

Tom helped to get Eric and I together! He knew that I was interested in Eric while I was on EVFD and Eric was our architect. Tom called me to let me know when he and Eric were meeting station 1. Eric and I will be celebrating 9 years of marriage :) We love and miss you Tom!
Eric and Nancy Maule

John Stephenson / Rolley

March 12, 2016

Sorry for your loss , a loss felt throughout our community

March 12, 2016

Oh My We have lost a Great Person, A Dad Husband and the best Neighbor one could ask For! A true friend indeed. My heart goes out to his family and friends! Yet one thing is for sure, Tommy will always be with Us in Our Hearts and Memories! Thank goodness our memories are long!!!!!!!!

Dan McCrimmon

March 11, 2016

I'll meert you on the ridge. The elk are bugling.

Patricia Mulvihill

March 10, 2016

He was always so kind and welcoming to our family and relatives (Even though we were Texans:)). We will miss him! He will rest in peace with our maker.

Carol O'Brien

March 7, 2016

Tom Hayden was the best of men. He spent his life helping others and was dearly loved by me and my family. I was privileged to work with Tom on the planning commission and with the Clear Creek Education Foundation, where his clear judgment and quest for understanding
were always appreciated. His humor and creative problem solving skills could be found in everything he did...from teaching my 11 year old daughter to drive the old pickup when we were haying to suggestions for fundraising...he always had good and novel ideas.
He was kind, generous,thoughtful, and
He will be sorely missed!

March 7, 2016

One of the best ever. Funny, kind, passionate and compassion all rolled into one great person. We will miss you.
Love, Larry and Charlotte

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