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ANDREW PAUL SELFRIDGE

1949 - 2019

ANDREW PAUL SELFRIDGE obituary, 1949-2019, Cleveland, OH

BORN

1949

DIED

2019

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ANDREW SELFRIDGE Obituary

Andrew Paul Selfridge, "Andy" to everyone he met, died peacefully at age 70 on June 28, 2019. Andy was a devoted alumnus of St. Ann Elementary School, Gilmour Academy and the University of Virginia, a former football player for UVA and in the National Football League, and a longtime director of development for the University he loved. He lived his life to the fullest until its very end and passed surrounded by his dearest friends and family, including his brother, Tom. Andy was born in Cleveland, Ohio to John and Jane on January 12, 1949. He attended the University of Virginia on a football scholarship and received his bachelor's degree from the College of Arts & Sciences in 1971 and his master's degree from the Curry School of Education in 1972. At UVA, he was a four-year starter, playing under coaches George Blackburn and Don Lawrence, co-captain, and made 1stTeam All-ACC in 1971. His NFL career began in 1972 when he was drafted in the 13thround by the San Diego Chargers. He was honored to be selected to live on UVA's historic Lawn at 30 East Lawn, and he was a member of Delta Kappa Epsilon fraternity. Andy's career in the National Football League began in 1972, when he was drafted in the 13thround by the San Diego Chargers. He went on to play five seasons at linebacker and on special teams for the Buffalo Bills, New York Giants, and Miami Dolphins. In April 2019, Andy was awarded the "Crossed Sabres" award from the Football Alumni Club in recognition of the extraordinary impact he has had on the UVA football program. Andy spent the last 26 years of his life serving the University of Virginia and its alumni, parents, and friends as a director of development. In many ways, UVA was home for Andy. He cared deeply about the University, its past and current students, and his fellow football and DKE alumni. Andy treasured the relationships and trust he built with many donors and volunteer leaders by working with them on their UVA philanthropy and service. Andy was a valued partner and mentor to numerous colleagues over the years, and his dedication to, and impact on, UVA reached well beyond his professional role. A man of diverse interests and impeccable manners and style, Andy was active in his community and volunteered with the March of Dimes and other charities. He leaves behind a legacy of laughter, integrity, loyalty, and friendship, along with precious memories for his family and friends, who will miss him always. Andy will lovingly be remembered by his brother G. Thomas Selfridge, his many nieces and nephews and his numerous colleagues and friends. Andy was predeceased by his father John, his mother Jane (Denzel) and his brother Chief Master Sergeant John D. Selfridge USAF. A celebration of life-a "Big Sel Party" will be held this fall at the University of Virginia, with further details to be announced in the future. A celebration of life will also be planned for Saratoga Springs, N.Y. Further details will also be announced in the future.

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Published by Cleveland.com from Jul. 26 to Jul. 31, 2019.

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Mike Rinella

July 21, 2021

I think of Andy nearly every day and it always brings a smile to my face...and Saratoga is not the same without him. RIP, my friend.

Andrea Spano-dockrell

August 27, 2019

Just looked u up on FB aftr many many years to say hi I was very saddened to hear of your passing! my condolences to ur family & friends!

Nancy Parsons

August 8, 2019

My dearest friend for over 25 years, my brother I never had, my confidant, my pal. You could make me laugh like no one else and you could see right through me. I adored you and everything about you. I miss you more than I can express in mere words, but I know we will be together again. Thank you for being my best friend.

Joe Rozs

August 4, 2019

Tom, just heard of Andy's passing. I'm very sorry for your loss. Andy had some positive influences on me (as did you). God bless him and may he rest in peace.

Billy Bathgate--awaiting his big scene.

Earl Ruth

August 4, 2019

May God bless you and your family. I will always smile at the memories of times we were together, especially the trip to Dewey beach and our bit parts in the movie Billy Bathgate.
You had a life well lived although cut way to short.
You will be greatly missed here in Boca Raton.

Mike McNulty

July 31, 2019

Tom and Family: I am very sorry for your loss.

Louise Goldstein

July 31, 2019

To Tom, Andy and I were great buddies at the Victoria Pool in Saratoga every summer for decades. He would stride in in his Orange bathing suit. Andy was very supportive of our efforts to rehabilitate the pool which he loved dearly because the architecture is so similar to UVA. I already miss our long lazy afternoons poolside.
Louise

Joe Erdman

July 30, 2019

I just learned about Andy's passing. hH was a great guy and a friend here at UVA. I remember the times going to basketball games in Miami when UVA played the Hurricanes. Andy was a pleasure to be with and his devotion to UVA was second to none. Will miss him...

Mike Rinella

July 29, 2019

Hey, 'ole bud, we've logged a lot of miles, shared many smiles, spun a few yarns, and a few of them were even true, resulting in a treasure of fond memories. Your wit, wisdom and concern enriched my life, and our travels to Cooperstown, Aspen, South Bend, Charlottesville, Dewey Beach, LA Coliseum, the crazy trip to Montreal, Yankee Stadium, NYC, Killington, Saratoga, Albany, Newport and the Great Gatsby Ball, Lake George, Philly at the Army-Navy game where we froze our butts off, golfing, et al. were characterized by many, many heartfelt conversations about substantive issues and as Seinfeld lamented, many, well, were just about noth'n, but collectively, very dear to my heart and therefore cementing. Methinks of Grantland Rice who mused:
For when the One Great Scorer comes
To mark against your name,
He writes - not that you won or lost -
But HOW you played the Game.

You played it well, my friend, rest in peace!
Mike

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